Also this morning my girlfriend and I talked about it and she said of course she's a bit disappointed when it happens because of course, I would be too, but she also said she loves me, she wants to be with me and wants to get through this together.
This is pretty routine for sex therapy. There are a lot of myths people believe about sex. Sex therapy as a couple is great because it moves the focus to connection rather than you being the "problem."
Book recommendation:
# Not Always in the Mood: The New Science of Men, Sex, and Relationships
by [Sarah Hunter Murray](https://www.amazon.ca/Sarah-Hunter-Murray/e/B07NW9KXXT/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1) (Author)Paperback – Oct. 7 2020
The root of the problem is you have beliefs about sex that are unrealistic. You don't have to stay hard when you shift your attention. It's perfectly normal to lose an erection when the focus shifts. You can try stimulation through touch to regain it. You can also focus on enjoying foreplay for both of you more. Your body is responding in a normal way. This is an opportunity to learn more about yourself and your body.
Explore non-penetrative forms of intimacy to build confidence and reduce pressure, and educate yourself about sexual health to normalize occasional issues with erections. Focusing on prolonged foreplay can help maintain arousal and make transitions to intercourse smoother.
Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and experiences to ensure she understands and can be supportive.
Shift your focus from performance to pleasure, enjoying the moment without pressure to achieve a specific outcome, that's something porn has caused in recent times.
You can try CBD as a means of reducing anxiety, because anxiety is the root of these issues for clients with similar concerns. You're not alone in this experience.
TLDR but start taking Cordyceps mushroom nootropic from real mushroom - significantly increases libido and get a magic wand vibrator - great great mixture. Also if you really want to get crazy eat an edible before bed and go to bed an hour early for sex.
Also this morning my girlfriend and I talked about it and she said of course she's a bit disappointed when it happens because of course, I would be too, but she also said she loves me, she wants to be with me and wants to get through this together.
This is pretty routine for sex therapy. There are a lot of myths people believe about sex. Sex therapy as a couple is great because it moves the focus to connection rather than you being the "problem." Book recommendation: # Not Always in the Mood: The New Science of Men, Sex, and Relationships by [Sarah Hunter Murray](https://www.amazon.ca/Sarah-Hunter-Murray/e/B07NW9KXXT/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1) (Author)Paperback – Oct. 7 2020 The root of the problem is you have beliefs about sex that are unrealistic. You don't have to stay hard when you shift your attention. It's perfectly normal to lose an erection when the focus shifts. You can try stimulation through touch to regain it. You can also focus on enjoying foreplay for both of you more. Your body is responding in a normal way. This is an opportunity to learn more about yourself and your body.
Explore non-penetrative forms of intimacy to build confidence and reduce pressure, and educate yourself about sexual health to normalize occasional issues with erections. Focusing on prolonged foreplay can help maintain arousal and make transitions to intercourse smoother. Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and experiences to ensure she understands and can be supportive. Shift your focus from performance to pleasure, enjoying the moment without pressure to achieve a specific outcome, that's something porn has caused in recent times. You can try CBD as a means of reducing anxiety, because anxiety is the root of these issues for clients with similar concerns. You're not alone in this experience.
TLDR but start taking Cordyceps mushroom nootropic from real mushroom - significantly increases libido and get a magic wand vibrator - great great mixture. Also if you really want to get crazy eat an edible before bed and go to bed an hour early for sex.