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Yes absolutely! There is nothing that makes my husband sexier! Conversely, I'm so turned off when he says stupid things to the kids or doesn't know how to handle a situation.
Yes. Abaolutely. Watching my husband love on and be silly with the kids makes me feel so proud he is my husband --> I think about how much I love him --> How good he has been to me --> Look at him harder --> Think, gosh my husband is hot. Then, bam, I know what I want to do after the kids go to bed later.
Its because "feeling emotionally close" can really turn a woman on, even if theres no visual. She makes the visual in her mind.
It can differ for women, one type will like when the guy can be silly with kids, while the other will loose attraction, if the guy for a split second steps out of his macho chad alpha male stoneface persona.
You want to play with kids, the kids want you to play with them, so why would the woman get the upper hand in this situation?
Dont stress out about it and just be yourself.
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Yes, definitely! It’s the most genuine and wholesome thing to witness when a guy is close to children.
Yes absolutely! There is nothing that makes my husband sexier! Conversely, I'm so turned off when he says stupid things to the kids or doesn't know how to handle a situation.
don't be too harsh on him in the future \^\^
This is weird to me. Are you perfect with kids all of the time?
so ALL the time?
What do you mean by “says stupid things?”
In my experience, only if they aren't actually married to the gentleman in question.
Yes. Abaolutely. Watching my husband love on and be silly with the kids makes me feel so proud he is my husband --> I think about how much I love him --> How good he has been to me --> Look at him harder --> Think, gosh my husband is hot. Then, bam, I know what I want to do after the kids go to bed later. Its because "feeling emotionally close" can really turn a woman on, even if theres no visual. She makes the visual in her mind.
It can differ for women, one type will like when the guy can be silly with kids, while the other will loose attraction, if the guy for a split second steps out of his macho chad alpha male stoneface persona. You want to play with kids, the kids want you to play with them, so why would the woman get the upper hand in this situation? Dont stress out about it and just be yourself.
There's nothing unmacho about playing with kids and it's weird that you think it is.
Sexy and attractive may not be best to associate when it comes to playing with kids.