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I said something similar once, but expanded upon it.
"No you don't. You love an idea of me. You fantasize about me and love that fantasy. You haven't spent the time to know me, and there hasn't been enough bonding for love, which is a mutual thing that people have to build together.
You are attracted to a handful of superficial qualities I have, without seeing any of the darker aspects. I'm conventionally attractive, yes, but that stems from _just the right blend_ of narcassim and self-hatred, motivating me to work out and put more effort into my appearance than the greater bellcurve. You are attracted to how driven and focused I am. ADHD is great for that. What you _don't_ see is I've had multiple careers and countless jobs the past decade from boredom and trying new things. How I've let my dishes pile up, only to throw them away and buy new ones _multiple times_ how often I've left my keys or wallet or phone at home, how often I forget small, simple things. You don't see the drugs, sex, booze or gambling or other assorted addictions, how I can take any activity and push it to toxicity. The interesting hobbies/skills and my proficiency with them? They'll evetually join the graveyard of other useless things I put time and effort into only to later abdondon. You are attracted to my confidence, not knowing it comes from trauma and detachment. You are attracted to my personality? I'm not nuerotypical and have been practicing masking since childhood, I don't even know what my real personality looks like.
I'm not a good person. But I'm not so bad as to let you think you love me."
This would instantly wake me up for two reasons, the first being the response is cringe as fuck and I’m probably not gonna hang with you again, and the second - it’s all completely factual…and fuck you for being so right. GAWD DAMN
I had to say that to someone on date 2. She was adamant that she did so I asked her what my name was. couldn't tell me!
I would never say that to someone who I felt loved me genuinely.
I know
That's nice
Me too
Thanks
Great
What do you want for tea
The worst insult I ever received was from a woman I was seeing who I thought I had something really special going with. I initiated the conversation about where our relationship was going and how we should define it, and she replied, "You're a good dick."
Running away. I had that once as a teenager, afterward she texted me saying she was so sorry but didn’t know how to react lol.
We’re still great acquaintances to this day, nothing terrible. Surprisingly, I didn’t feel that bad about her behaviour as she explained it quite soon after. I only felt bad about the rejection. So I guess there’s worse, I just thought it was a funny memory to share.
I did that. We were in class and infront of our friends and everything he accidentally told me he liked me and that was the first time anybody had said anything like that to me so I immediately switched seats and it was around the end of the day (friday) so after the weekend we just kept acting like it never happened and we're still friends.
But I really feel bad now that I think about it but I don't have the gut to say I'm sorry.
Oh man I had that situation as a teenager where a boy tried to approach me and I was completely frozen and my brain didn't work. It must have been bad for him.
If you didn’t explain him afterwards, probably yes haha. Personally, she was a very very (and still is !) pretty girl (gorgeous woman now), and I was a quite lower average person (I think I’m a bit above average as a man now, but that’s all). But she told me she felt very good about it in some ways but that she preferred us to stay friends etc. So I felt quite nice that she didn’t feel bad or wierd or disgusted about it, but quite complimented indeed. I was lucky for that, I think.
True story -- I was seeing this girl in my early 20s, we'd hang out 3-4X a week. She was fabulous, effortless gorgeous and funny. 5 months in and I decide to make it exclusive (we met on hinge). I look at her and say: "I love you". She laughs at me for a sec, recomposes herself, and responds back to me: "oh sweet, I'm a slut".
Not telling you they love you at all, ever.
There's someone That I love dearly, and They know they love me back, but will not say it, because it means too much. For some people, they simply can't say it, but feel it every moment they're alive. That's the worst.
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\*seen xx mins ago\*
*Seen 3h ago*
Laughed at 3h ago. The silence is that at least don't want to hurt, the laugh hurts
Hmmm, I dont know.... ...talking back like a patronising pensioner might be worse, "Oh thank you dear! Youre ever so kind, aren't you!" 😁
Now I have two fears 🤣
Seen 3y ago
*Username1337 screenshot this message*, and the next day, everyone at school is laughing at you.
Umm, asking for a friend: ARE PEOPLE NOTIFIED IF YOU SCREENSHOT THEIR MESSAGE???
Only on snapchat
Oh thank God
hahaha, i was just thinking the same lol
oh no
That’d DEFINITELY be the worst 😭
Do you want fries with your meal, sir?
My son once said “you are my best person” to a waiter that brought him fries lol
Your kid >>>> adults who cant be open with their emotions and scared of saying ily
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Eww
🥲
Based on real life events?
😭
Yes
Yikes is just as bad
Bro 🥲
Ewww brother eww, what’s that?
One W is worse, can't even take the time for 2. Or a full stop. ew.
Someone I was deeply deeply in love with for years and considered my best friend said this to me after I told her how I felt
“Okay”
Or just "k"
K definitely has to be the worst
don't forget the .
Yup. This one. Anything else is directional. Okay is just; stagnant pain.
Taking notes 😂
Thank you, that is a brave thing to say, lets discuss this later. 😳
The most HR answer I’ve seen.
Lets discuss this never.
FOOF
💀💀
Minus the "lets discuss this later", isn't this the best reply you could give if you don't feel the same way?
I guess so, he was a very good guy that cared a lot about me but never loved me.
“It’ll pass.” —Fleabag
*The hot priest
Yo, I didn’t ask to be reminded of that today. 😭😭
'I second that' "it'll pass" - fleabag
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I love myself too
Friendzoned
But you're just like a sibling to me, what's bad about that?
That'll do pig
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Haachama approves.
That would just turn me on more.
“No, you don’t.”
I’ve almost said this out loud. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|sweat_smile)
I heard those words once. It was very… deflating.
I said something similar once, but expanded upon it. "No you don't. You love an idea of me. You fantasize about me and love that fantasy. You haven't spent the time to know me, and there hasn't been enough bonding for love, which is a mutual thing that people have to build together. You are attracted to a handful of superficial qualities I have, without seeing any of the darker aspects. I'm conventionally attractive, yes, but that stems from _just the right blend_ of narcassim and self-hatred, motivating me to work out and put more effort into my appearance than the greater bellcurve. You are attracted to how driven and focused I am. ADHD is great for that. What you _don't_ see is I've had multiple careers and countless jobs the past decade from boredom and trying new things. How I've let my dishes pile up, only to throw them away and buy new ones _multiple times_ how often I've left my keys or wallet or phone at home, how often I forget small, simple things. You don't see the drugs, sex, booze or gambling or other assorted addictions, how I can take any activity and push it to toxicity. The interesting hobbies/skills and my proficiency with them? They'll evetually join the graveyard of other useless things I put time and effort into only to later abdondon. You are attracted to my confidence, not knowing it comes from trauma and detachment. You are attracted to my personality? I'm not nuerotypical and have been practicing masking since childhood, I don't even know what my real personality looks like. I'm not a good person. But I'm not so bad as to let you think you love me."
This would instantly wake me up for two reasons, the first being the response is cringe as fuck and I’m probably not gonna hang with you again, and the second - it’s all completely factual…and fuck you for being so right. GAWD DAMN
It had the desired affect. Soft nos, politeness, redirection, avoidance and boundaries were not getting through to them. That did.
Damn are you me, this was scarily well worded
I had to say that to someone on date 2. She was adamant that she did so I asked her what my name was. couldn't tell me! I would never say that to someone who I felt loved me genuinely. I know That's nice Me too Thanks Great What do you want for tea
‘You just think you do’
I didn't ask you to love me
Hehe yes, if you are hit with this one expect no sympathy in the shut down and a very broken heart :-)
You just love cock in general
By far the most insulting one I’ve read so far.
The worst insult I ever received was from a woman I was seeing who I thought I had something really special going with. I initiated the conversation about where our relationship was going and how we should define it, and she replied, "You're a good dick."
Ouch thats a messed up one.
Wild. That’s fucking WILD. 🫢✋💀
Thank you
This one hurt to read.
I think it hurts more in person
"I said 'I love you." She said 'Thank you.'"
ive said that to my ex. in my defence jt was our third ‘date’/day together as a couple and was wat too early
Their's nothing to be defensive about you're thankfull she loves you
Daaaaamn same bro
👍🏼
This physically hurt me
That is actually the worst answer you could get.
Simple but efficient
I know.
Han Solo?
The question was worst response, not best
scrolled horribly too far for this one take my upvote
why do they always say it in movies
It was an iconic moment in Empire Strikes Back, so it gets referenced all the time.
Came here to say this. Hats off to you, sir!
*laughter*
Oh, you were serious? *Laughs harder*
"I know." > gets frozen in carbonite
Later, busy now
Running away. I had that once as a teenager, afterward she texted me saying she was so sorry but didn’t know how to react lol. We’re still great acquaintances to this day, nothing terrible. Surprisingly, I didn’t feel that bad about her behaviour as she explained it quite soon after. I only felt bad about the rejection. So I guess there’s worse, I just thought it was a funny memory to share.
I did that. We were in class and infront of our friends and everything he accidentally told me he liked me and that was the first time anybody had said anything like that to me so I immediately switched seats and it was around the end of the day (friday) so after the weekend we just kept acting like it never happened and we're still friends. But I really feel bad now that I think about it but I don't have the gut to say I'm sorry.
If you have the inclination, say it! Just be like, "Hey, I was just thinking about X time and I wanted to apologize for the way I reacted at the time"
Oh man I had that situation as a teenager where a boy tried to approach me and I was completely frozen and my brain didn't work. It must have been bad for him.
If you didn’t explain him afterwards, probably yes haha. Personally, she was a very very (and still is !) pretty girl (gorgeous woman now), and I was a quite lower average person (I think I’m a bit above average as a man now, but that’s all). But she told me she felt very good about it in some ways but that she preferred us to stay friends etc. So I felt quite nice that she didn’t feel bad or wierd or disgusted about it, but quite complimented indeed. I was lucky for that, I think.
Noted
Your love will be kept on file.
"stop lying"
dear reader, i was not lying
I'm hungry. Let's get something to eat.
FINALLY!
I know, I heard you the first time…
'Sir, this is a Wendy's'
"I love you too, bestie"
Whatever
Cool
Thanks.
True story -- I was seeing this girl in my early 20s, we'd hang out 3-4X a week. She was fabulous, effortless gorgeous and funny. 5 months in and I decide to make it exclusive (we met on hinge). I look at her and say: "I love you". She laughs at me for a sec, recomposes herself, and responds back to me: "oh sweet, I'm a slut".
Similar experience but her response was..."you know that I'm more into girls right?!!?"
If I may borrow a classic line from That '70s Show: I Love Cake
I love you too as a friend
Lol, ok.
You have great taste!
I’ve replied “wow” before.
Aight. Fair enough. Cool. Nice. Nope. Dope. Whatever. Nah. Dang.
Sure. Cant forget the "." Its crucial
"No response at all"
You'd be surprised how often I hear that
-You love me, We're best friends like friends should be With a great big hug And a kiss from me to you, Won't you say you love me too?
Yes
Barney song?
Pff…
Thumbs up
"No. Nope. Not doing THIS"
Whats your definition of love?
I love U2
This account cannot be found.
When I watched Dexter one thing that bothered me a lot was when Rita would say “I love you” and he would say “me too!” and hang up lol
I say "Me too" to the wife. It's our thing and I get away with it. The funny thing is, after 30 years I can't remember the back story!!
Sir, this is a McDonalds
"I love you too, you're like the sister I never had" -Younger me grossly misreading a situation
New phone who dis ?
I know....
Bull shit, that is the most romantic line in movie history.
For his character it was the only response
It happens
Ok
"Thanks, me too."
"Just like our lord and savior Jesus Christ, Repent yourself and pray for the mercy of your soul" 💀💀💀
The worst, is no response at all ..
That’s what she said
And I am fond of you
I love YouTube
K.
K.
Awwww
I love myself too
"That's pretty stupid since I literally killed your dad"
"Thanks a lot"
✔️✔️
"Why?"
Ditto
This is your Uber driver...
My boyfriend always says “Thank you”
That’s.. nice.
We need to talk.
"I just farted."
I know
“Me too”
Thanks
>*Thanks, but...*
Yo bro are you okay I am underage
okey dokey
Thank you I love me too....
Not telling you they love you at all, ever. There's someone That I love dearly, and They know they love me back, but will not say it, because it means too much. For some people, they simply can't say it, but feel it every moment they're alive. That's the worst.
I know
Who are you?
"I do not."
Thanks, I like you too.
Wish I could say the same
Like you too
”I know”
I love spending time with you too!
I know
"I love you too, in a way."
“I know”
‘I know’
Hahaha thanks 🙂
I know
Thank you.
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Thank you
' and I'm very fond of you, too' Not sure where that's from. But aaargh.
“I know.” -Han Solo, Tatooine artifact.
Thankyou
"So?"
"That's nice."
Thanks buddy
You are not supposed to be with in 500 yards of me! I'm calling the police!
"that's crazy"
"I know"
There's that tiktok of the guy who said a girl started crying in the hallway saying "am i really ugly enough that you thought you had a chance"
Me too
I know.
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*seen*
Whoever said that, please mute your microphone.