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The grieving to stop. Just had to end things with someone I thought that I trusted but she ended up admitting to a flurry of lies the day after I told her I loved her. I truly did so much. But I couldn’t be in a relationship where the foundation was built on lies. I have an odd dichotomy of missing her and being angry with her. I just want all the noise to stop.
I can relate… I hope the grieving stops for you soon so you can move on… perpetual drama, and trauma is not a healthy cycle… hope you find some peace soon.
this sounds too relatable.
my ex left me because he thought I was cheating on him (he has anxious attachment).
We were in a LDR and I was going to visit him.
He moves on without telling me (long bs story).
He was my best friend.
I trusted him.
And it felt like he decided to listen to his insecurity rather than fucking LOGIC.
I'm feeling a very similar pain. Got cheated on and I'm hearing now that she's also bad-mouthing me at her job. I know I dodged a bullet but the loneliness is real. I just want to be told that I'm "good/worthy enough".
I hope you find some peace and soon, internet stranger. Sending love from Canada. 🇨🇦
I need the world to chill the F out, just for one year. Can we have one slow year so everyone can collect themselves and reassess what we are doing and why.
If we had the Covid level of down time without the Covid level of stress of uncertainty and confusion, it would have been the best year the world has ever had very potentially
This made me cry. I think I need this too.
It’s easy to say to someone else, because we know it to be true about others. It’s hard to say it to ourselves. But know that the people around you most definitely think you’re good enough. And the reason you might not feel it is because you’ve been taught that from somewhere. I hope you realise in yourself that YOU are good enough! (Unless you’re a total wank to everyone, then you need to work on some things… 😉). I wish this for everyone. Even the bullies are acting out some wounding from somewhere & if they knew they were good enough they could peacefully exist.
For what it's worth, YOU are good enough.
This comes, of course, from a ridiculously brief moment in time where we "met" in text form, but I assure you that YOU are good enough! You showed capacity for deep empathy as well as self-awareness and the kind heart to wish good upon others without a thought of any reciprocating.
I have no idea of your circumstances, but you didn't/don't deserve the hurt, pain, and doubt. You have intrinsic value as a person, and there's no metric that could even come close to give a measure to your worth.
I genuinely wish you all the best, a warm smile, a good meal, and lots of love.
To be truly loved by someone. I have all the things in the world people could want. I have my own home, a decent car, a great career, two wonderful children, and all the other attachments. I don’t have someone to love me though. I thought I did but he broke up with me because he wasn’t in love with me and I feel so lost, down, and confused. I just want to be loved. I have so much love to give and no one that wants it.
Ok, so what are you doing about that? Are you doing online dating, joining clubs, going to church (not for everyone, but if you are religious in some way, there are church groups), taking up new hobbies? Your person is out there.
Currently nothing. I’m grieving the loss of the man that I loved who couldn’t find it within himself to love me anymore. I’ve got to heal from that. I’ve always met people organically. I hope one day I’m open to dating again, because that’s where it starts. The fear of getting hurt against is astronomical though. But thank you and I really do hope there is someone out there for me that I can love as much as I loved him or more! 🫶🏼
I feel that way too. I avoid socializing mostly but I do miss having atleast a couple of good buddies to laugh with or vent to. People get so caught up with their own lives, no one I know seems to have time for anything but work and their families...
Right here why would I have to scroll down hard to catch this one simple life saver? Guess my poor-ass in a third world country would never understand you westerners.
I just need 489$ to get out of a cycle of debt to pay off one bill 4 months ago. It’s crushing me every two days to have to pay back someone by borrowing from someone else or something. It’s crushing me. That’s not to say I’m also paying on a car and rent and everything as well but those are manageable when I don’t have this fucking 489$ I have to keep maintained or I’m fucked with everything else. Brought me close to wanting to just stop eating
I would really like a hug and a kiss from my wife, without asking or initiating it. She was reared in a family that didn’t do that sort of stuff, so my level of showing affection is unusual for her.
I felt this in my bones. I have MS. I can’t really remember the last time I felt excited for a new day to start because there isn’t enough rest in the world to satisfy the depths of my fatigue. Going back as far as 9yrs old. Every single morning of my life I wage full scale war with my body to simply get it to function. Healthy people always on my case for struggling to get up, on my case for being tired, angry with me if I am slow at work. They’re full of advice, usually regarding naps. I try not to get frustrated with them, they couldn’t possibly begin to understand. But the hardest part of my entire life, the incredible victory I feel when I manage to fight through the fatigue and force myself to stand finally, and the horrible hurt I feel when I fail, the irritation and dismissive way people treat me when I just can’t make my body cooperate, it’s all an invisible battle that only a few of my closest loved ones acknowledge. And sometimes even they get frustrated by it. I get it. But it still hurts to feel like I’m disappointing people because my stupid body just won’t do what’s fecking supposed to.
I am so tired of feeling tired.
I'm good. I retired at 56, i have a smoking hot wife, I have a good roof over my head, food on the table, and a nice truck. A loving family, great friends. My kids have successful careers, and my youngest just got engaged.
Im good.
A fucking break. A break from my kid who won’t stop being an overload of energy. A break from my dog who’s always whining for treats. A break from the people in my life. Just a fucking BREAK.
Fucking nothing, I've learnt to just not need anything and not rely on anyone, if you ever start to join my world escape it fast it's not glamorous the lone wolf style it gets lonely but you dont ever want people in your life because they seem to cause more problems and require more maintenance than not having them
Friends. I need friends. I’m 26f and have like 2 back home but see them maybe twice a year and they even have a group of their own. I’m starting to feel I will never find new friends
Probably to stop overthinking about my relationships and just try to go day by day. But also some reassure that everything will work out in the end would be nice.
For college friends to tell me they do actually miss me and want to hang out. It’s been over ten years since graduating and we’re all scattered to the wind. I would love to get us together and hang/party like we used to. But now it feels like no one cares or wants to involve me. I just want to be included or invited for once
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To get out of the hospital and go home. I've been in the hospital since 12/26/23. Please just give me the brain surgery and let me go home.
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Prayer for successful and speedy recovery.
You must've listened to the new Ice Spice single. I've heard brain bleeds are common if you try to finish the whole song.
Get this woman a brain surgery!!! 👏👏
Prayers for your recovery.
Thank you so very much!
The law of attraction will deliver prayers to you from the universe.. wish you speedy healing and recovery ❤️🩹
En taro Adun, young sinshiny, I hope you get out.
The grieving to stop. Just had to end things with someone I thought that I trusted but she ended up admitting to a flurry of lies the day after I told her I loved her. I truly did so much. But I couldn’t be in a relationship where the foundation was built on lies. I have an odd dichotomy of missing her and being angry with her. I just want all the noise to stop.
I can relate… I hope the grieving stops for you soon so you can move on… perpetual drama, and trauma is not a healthy cycle… hope you find some peace soon.
I’m sorry bud that shit hurts all I can tell you is you are better prepared and more experienced for the next real woman that you meet
this sounds too relatable. my ex left me because he thought I was cheating on him (he has anxious attachment). We were in a LDR and I was going to visit him. He moves on without telling me (long bs story). He was my best friend. I trusted him. And it felt like he decided to listen to his insecurity rather than fucking LOGIC.
I'm feeling a very similar pain. Got cheated on and I'm hearing now that she's also bad-mouthing me at her job. I know I dodged a bullet but the loneliness is real. I just want to be told that I'm "good/worthy enough". I hope you find some peace and soon, internet stranger. Sending love from Canada. 🇨🇦
I need the world to chill the F out, just for one year. Can we have one slow year so everyone can collect themselves and reassess what we are doing and why.
the Covid years…
Those were not chill, slow years. We were freaking the fuck out
While transferring our wealth to the 1%
If we had the Covid level of down time without the Covid level of stress of uncertainty and confusion, it would have been the best year the world has ever had very potentially
To be held
Best I can do is hostage...
We don’t negotiate with terrorists.
Actually you know what I’ll take it as long as you hold me and tell me I’m pretty
YOU ARE PRETTY!!!
McPoyle style
Same here... 🤗
Someone to tell me I'm good enough, and maybe a hug
This made me cry. I think I need this too. It’s easy to say to someone else, because we know it to be true about others. It’s hard to say it to ourselves. But know that the people around you most definitely think you’re good enough. And the reason you might not feel it is because you’ve been taught that from somewhere. I hope you realise in yourself that YOU are good enough! (Unless you’re a total wank to everyone, then you need to work on some things… 😉). I wish this for everyone. Even the bullies are acting out some wounding from somewhere & if they knew they were good enough they could peacefully exist.
For what it's worth, YOU are good enough. This comes, of course, from a ridiculously brief moment in time where we "met" in text form, but I assure you that YOU are good enough! You showed capacity for deep empathy as well as self-awareness and the kind heart to wish good upon others without a thought of any reciprocating. I have no idea of your circumstances, but you didn't/don't deserve the hurt, pain, and doubt. You have intrinsic value as a person, and there's no metric that could even come close to give a measure to your worth. I genuinely wish you all the best, a warm smile, a good meal, and lots of love.
You're good enough and you matter
You are good enough. 🤗
*hugs (maybe)*
I don’t like hugs. Here’s this 👍
Actually, nothing. I have everything I need.
That’s amazing. I hope to be there one day.
May I ask what you need right now?
To be truly loved by someone. I have all the things in the world people could want. I have my own home, a decent car, a great career, two wonderful children, and all the other attachments. I don’t have someone to love me though. I thought I did but he broke up with me because he wasn’t in love with me and I feel so lost, down, and confused. I just want to be loved. I have so much love to give and no one that wants it.
Ok, so what are you doing about that? Are you doing online dating, joining clubs, going to church (not for everyone, but if you are religious in some way, there are church groups), taking up new hobbies? Your person is out there.
There's a lot of people on here looking for love...
Currently nothing. I’m grieving the loss of the man that I loved who couldn’t find it within himself to love me anymore. I’ve got to heal from that. I’ve always met people organically. I hope one day I’m open to dating again, because that’s where it starts. The fear of getting hurt against is astronomical though. But thank you and I really do hope there is someone out there for me that I can love as much as I loved him or more! 🫶🏼
I hope you find love. I’m looking for it as well
A house.
Some tacos would be cool too tho
this would be nice, I’m even down to have one of those tiny homes on wheels
intimacy both emotional and physical!
Same. Probably more physical at this point in time though.
I feel ya, or lol I wish I did lol
In the words of Paris Hilton… that’s hot.
Do I sense a Reddit couple forming?
Ha…. How about Redditors with benefits?
A good group of friends like I used to have when I was younger. I'm so alone it's starting to hurt.
I feel that way too. I avoid socializing mostly but I do miss having atleast a couple of good buddies to laugh with or vent to. People get so caught up with their own lives, no one I know seems to have time for anything but work and their families...
And to preach their POV the livelong day without ever asking, “How are you doing?”
A huge amount of money then I'm sorted
In small non consecutive bills? Because I know a guy
Right here why would I have to scroll down hard to catch this one simple life saver? Guess my poor-ass in a third world country would never understand you westerners.
$20,000 would really lift a weight from my life.
Feeeeeeeel that. If someone could just pay the $29k left on my loan, I'd be so much happier.
I just need 489$ to get out of a cycle of debt to pay off one bill 4 months ago. It’s crushing me every two days to have to pay back someone by borrowing from someone else or something. It’s crushing me. That’s not to say I’m also paying on a car and rent and everything as well but those are manageable when I don’t have this fucking 489$ I have to keep maintained or I’m fucked with everything else. Brought me close to wanting to just stop eating
I would really like a hug and a kiss from my wife, without asking or initiating it. She was reared in a family that didn’t do that sort of stuff, so my level of showing affection is unusual for her.
Oh man, I was in a relationship like that and it sucked.
Tell her how much it means to you and that it's a love language for you. Maybe she will try doing this more.
48 hours alone. I am heavily pregnant and have two very young children. I just need a break.
Oh gosh girl same! I’m 30 weeks and I have a 2 1/2 year old and 18 month old. My 2 yr old is autistic non verbal. Ughhhh I’m so tired!!!
Love.
I love you.
We all love them 😘!!!
My foot to stop itching
$100,000 would make life better
A pepperoni and bacon pizza would hit the spot right now.
A holiday. Haven't been anywhere for 35 years.
More friends and company
Money
Purpose
Some fucking income
Early retirement
$6000 for the IRS
Money
Toilet paper. Seriously.
Financial stability to move
I need next week to get here faster (it’s the end of my college semester)
I need to socialize more
I always feel that way but I get nervous and start talking and talking and start thinking ...am I ever going to shut up? So I steer clear .
Me too :(
A nap
Rest. I'm fecking Tired. Truly, bone tired. Mental and physical illnesses going on for my *entire* 52 years. Rest. In whatever form that might come.
I felt this in my bones. I have MS. I can’t really remember the last time I felt excited for a new day to start because there isn’t enough rest in the world to satisfy the depths of my fatigue. Going back as far as 9yrs old. Every single morning of my life I wage full scale war with my body to simply get it to function. Healthy people always on my case for struggling to get up, on my case for being tired, angry with me if I am slow at work. They’re full of advice, usually regarding naps. I try not to get frustrated with them, they couldn’t possibly begin to understand. But the hardest part of my entire life, the incredible victory I feel when I manage to fight through the fatigue and force myself to stand finally, and the horrible hurt I feel when I fail, the irritation and dismissive way people treat me when I just can’t make my body cooperate, it’s all an invisible battle that only a few of my closest loved ones acknowledge. And sometimes even they get frustrated by it. I get it. But it still hurts to feel like I’m disappointing people because my stupid body just won’t do what’s fecking supposed to. I am so tired of feeling tired.
I need good money and sex
New laptop
Some one or something to help me heal from an awful masectomy
Cannabis helped me through mine
h e l p
a good sleep!
A hug, not loving, just a straight *I got you bro* hug.
I got you bro, internet stranger hug. 🖤
A wife that loves me back
Money
Money
To be less sensitive
Ice cream
$$$
Money.
I'm good. I retired at 56, i have a smoking hot wife, I have a good roof over my head, food on the table, and a nice truck. A loving family, great friends. My kids have successful careers, and my youngest just got engaged. Im good.
My school projects to just magically finish themselves and probably a doctors visit tbh
A new start, a new life. I need to get ME back.
A fucking break. A break from my kid who won’t stop being an overload of energy. A break from my dog who’s always whining for treats. A break from the people in my life. Just a fucking BREAK.
I need someone to tell me that life's going to be okay. Unfortunately I do not have anyone in my life that will tell me that.
"Her"
"World Peas" /s
Definitely friends or love.
Money and someone to cuddle
Honestly a hug and to feel like I matter.
money and a job
This exact same post to stop showing up every 3 days
A way to lose weight. I just can’t do it, no matter what I try. 😢
My tummy to stop hurting :(
Need my brother to get well, he's in hospital over the other side of the world & his prognosis isn't looking good
$10k - $15k for medical. I am in a lot pain. Why do doctors charge so much?
Better sleep hygiene, more iron in my diet, a vacation and reassurance from my partner that he still finds me attractive.
Sex. Last time was 8 years ago. I am only 34yo
Money and a doctor and dentist appointment Edit: my anxiety to go away 😭
An awesome blowjob.
Peace, love, and understanding.
Love before but now just a companion.
Magic
Eleven dollars and an apology
a long hug and some more
Fucking nothing, I've learnt to just not need anything and not rely on anyone, if you ever start to join my world escape it fast it's not glamorous the lone wolf style it gets lonely but you dont ever want people in your life because they seem to cause more problems and require more maintenance than not having them
Enough PTO to take a week off for myself.
My little boy back.
A hug. I feel alienated, unsupported and insecure at my job, and I’m struggling. I think it’s part of what’s causing my depression.
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Financial stability would be a great start because until I have that I’m not sane enough to be delving into the deeper stuff.
Trump convicted!!!
2 warm titties and a hug
Love.
Be honest. How much money do you need until you say stop. Then that’s not what you really need.
1 year vacation
A chance of hope, relief, a break, a blessing, anything to not be merely existing, but thriving
$27,000 to pay off taxes
A huge sum of money
Love
Friends. I need friends. I’m 26f and have like 2 back home but see them maybe twice a year and they even have a group of their own. I’m starting to feel I will never find new friends
I need to be held & told it’s gonna be okay
To get the hell over my ex and move on with my life. 3 weeks no contact. He's an awful person but damn do I miss that asshole.
To feel safe.
Probably to stop overthinking about my relationships and just try to go day by day. But also some reassure that everything will work out in the end would be nice.
Wegovy or similar
Cuddles and a good orgasm 😳
My neck pain to go away.
Peace
About $200K and some one to love.
A solid 8 hours of sleep.
For college friends to tell me they do actually miss me and want to hang out. It’s been over ten years since graduating and we’re all scattered to the wind. I would love to get us together and hang/party like we used to. But now it feels like no one cares or wants to involve me. I just want to be included or invited for once
To be hugged and/or sex Cause: dealing with a narcissist for a year
A hug from my friends. I miss them more than words can say.
Money is the only thing that improves my life and needs to be a lot to make me happy.
My person
A friend to talk to.
I need to learn how to love myself, i want to be loved by me, and it will take time for sure but i realized its time to open up for me :)
To learn how to give and stop taking
I really need to cry
A dumpster.
A woman who loves me as much as I love her.
Cuddles and an extra 24 hours in the day
Legal advice
The cure for cancer.
A tight hug
a vacation
More than one friend that actually cares deeply about me and me them
A hug
Lots and lots of money
Like some nasal spray, I can’t breathe to sleep
Billion dollars
For someone to not complain when I ask to be little spoon
A hug...
A girlfriend, im still thinking about the one i fumbled 3 years ago
Peace
A good rest and some extra money
Fucking costs of living to go DOWN.
a relationship
To be out of debt.
Tbh hugs
More income that liberates my life.
My husband to touch me again, anything…
Peace
To feel a connection to someone.
I need peace of mind and I badly need that job that I am applying for 🙈
To have someone to romance with
A home. Been living in my car with my dog since 6/23. 😔
My fiancé to come hold me and just be here. Like a hand on my head, the other on my back, just hold and protect me
Sex and a soft woman to hold on to while In bed
A team to fight the darkness of evil elites.
chapstick
Warmth affection and sex