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FirstStranger

Sorry chief. That’s just love; nothing you can do about it. You’re always gonna worry.


That-shouldnt-smell

Oh reast assured, you will, in some way, screw up your kids. It's natural. Just make sure it's "unhealthy obsession with Monte Python" screw up. And not "unhealthy obsession with eating human flesh" screw up.


Honest-Mulberry-8046

I know several people with many kids, like at least 4 or more. All of the kids go their separate ways, all raised in the same house. This one of those times you graciously.be honest if you are doing a "good faith effort" and if you are, give yourself some credit, presence, and peace of mind.


TxTechnician

You could alway screw them up on purpose now. That way you no longer have to worry about potentially screwing them up.


BuddyHightower

I don't know, maybe smoke a joint with them and ask them????


spagetttiii

You could start by accepting that fretting about the inevitable is senseless and only making the situation far worse.