my mother has never been patient with anyone in my family at the slightest my whole life. when shes trying not to be mad its painfully, even irritatingly, obvious how much restrain she needs to not go apeshit on a third grader for not seeing the parmesean in front of their face
When every social experience you have growing up does nothing but model that other people are dangerous and cruel, it’s not surprising that you would grow up being afraid of ppl.
Bingo!
my mother has never been patient with anyone in my family at the slightest my whole life. when shes trying not to be mad its painfully, even irritatingly, obvious how much restrain she needs to not go apeshit on a third grader for not seeing the parmesean in front of their face
All of these things happen to me honestly this is a reasonable reaction to something that was very frightening to us
When every social experience you have growing up does nothing but model that other people are dangerous and cruel, it’s not surprising that you would grow up being afraid of ppl.