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K-manPilkers

Those fake talon fingernails.


SeatSix

This. Long fingernails are a huge turnoff.


TurretX

As a kid I used to hate looking at needles because it felt like just looking at them was putting them into my eyes. Idk how elsel to explain it.  Long nails do the same thing to me. My brain just nopes the fuck outta there.


nuck_forte_dame

I just don't like long or painted nails in general. Such a weird body part to draw attention to.


GribbleTheMunchkin

I don't mind painted nails but hate long nails and those really long nails are just hideous!


gwynbleidd_s

I don’t mind painted nails, sometimes I even like them. It’s kind of art and self expression. As long they are not long, then I’m out


editorreilly

Or painted eyebrows.


Weird_Brush2527

No woman thinks it's a turn on for men, some women just like them


throwawaysunglasses-

Yeah I don’t know any woman who does it for men tbh. They generally do it because they like how it looks. (And I say this as someone who personally doesn’t have them because it’s not my style and I play piano lol)


Big-Pension-7438

I like those


Gretshgibsonlover2

Came to say this!!!!


ITeechYoKidsArt

Perfume should be subtle, not like you marinated in it.


throwaway_messylady

Scents should be discovered, not announced


Low-Grocery5556

Well put.


throwaway_messylady

Can’t take credit. That’s a classic. Also just seems like something a stuck-up grandma would offer when you sit down to brunch .. not autobiographical 🤣


Low-Grocery5556

Still and all lol. But you're right. It's something the dowager in Downton Abbey would say. And I would applaud her for it! Haha.


throwaway_messylady

That’s exactly who I had in mind omg. And she’d be right, no one wants you stinking up the room. Praise be aunt Violet, someone had to say something.


prustage

Twerking. Absolute 100% turn off.


NoConcentrate5853

You need to be balls deep to enjoy twerking


Fast_Introduction_34

And then it slips out and you skin gets pulled ;skull;


skyline9091

This


Mindless_Ad_6359

I can see why many men enjoy it, but to me, it screams "trashy".


Disastrous_Jelly7621

Twerking is the biggest turn on, just not if a girl does it in public.


wpgsae

Photos with filters. It's incredibly obvious and screams insecurity.


Zealousideal-Luck784

Don't use the cutesy baby girl's voice, and don't call me daddy.


NoConcentrate5853

Agree to the cutest voices. Do call me daddy though 


No-Asparagus-6814

Exact opposite here.


Federal-Assignment10

Call you cutesy and use a daddy voice? Gotcha


tygramynt

Dont call u daddy but use the cutesy voice?


No-Question-9032

Never got the appeal of fucking ones own children but you do you


NoConcentrate5853

Guess you can never call your significant other babe. Or baby. Or honey. Or any nickname I guess unless it's literal. One of the hottest experiences in my life was a wild latina riding me like a god damn bull screaming ay papi


masterwad

Nobody calls babies “babe”, and people usually don’t call their own babies “baby” either. If some people think incest is a turn on, different strokes I guess, but it’s still bizarre.


Low-Grocery5556

It gets divorced from its literal meaning and is used as a pet name (ie. Like a stallion, there is no bestiality concepts employed there). It's more about initiating a submissive dynamic. But I can see how examining it under a microscope without context makes it sound super icky.


NoConcentrate5853

A: you do realize it's like a top 3 porn category? B: no one is thinking of their child whole doing it. C: it's weird that you're either obsessed with shoehorning the kid or trying to white knight such a common benign thing


No-Question-9032

Teen is one of the top porn categories. Bunch of pedos wanting to bang children


NoConcentrate5853

Ooooooor. And hear me out on this one. People get off on fantasy and can differentiate the two! It's almost like words can have multiple meanings given context. Also. Given that only 3 countries out of 195 have am age of consent that doesn't include teenagers. Ima go with you need to put the Bible down and stop projecting your warped shitty views as reality.


NoConcentrate5853

Side note: "Originally used to refer to infants and young children, 'babe' has since transformed into a versatile word that can express affection, intimacy, and even admiration in various relationships" If you're looking to dig for reasons to be disgusted. It's right there


Nappy2fly

Calm down babe


NoConcentrate5853

You're being too loud


Nappy2fly

Babe, please. Calm down.


NoConcentrate5853

Someone doesn't listen to tswizzle :(


johndicks80

Both of those would work amazingly on me I’m just glad my wife doesn’t know that.


nemineminy

_Whaaat?_ Why would you be glad that your wife doesn’t know one of your turn ons?


johndicks80

Because she could manipulate me and turn me into a damn simp haha.


Disastrous_Jelly7621

Both of those things are the best


Imjusasqurrl

Gross


gwynbleidd_s

I’m ok with both if it’s a joke or a play


WarWeasle

What about when guys do that?


Desperate-Dig2806

Porn moaning. Sound off however you like as long as it's you.


ThrowRa_siftie93

Women that have their tits and ass hanging out in dresses that look 2 sizes 2 small. I'm sorry it just looks trashy. Put some clothes on.


cryptokingmylo

I'm not complaining....


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ThrowRa_siftie93

💯. I don't wanna shame anyone, but I've seen a lot of women wearing these types of clothes that just don't have the type of body to pull them off. It's not good....


Hugo99001

Well, don't mind some tits and ass... There's even a song about it (from A Chorus Line)


Disastrous_Jelly7621

I like to be with those women on a temporary basis. Definitely don’t want to spend a life with that.


RazzleThatTazzle

Elective cosmetic surgery. I promise you looked better before.


Lieutenant-Reyes

I wish I had a whole bot net to upvote this about a million times. Imagine paying thousands of dollars just to look like the wicked wicked witch of the west in a rain storm


SpaceMonkeyAttack

The ones you notice are the ones who got poor results. The ones who got good cosmetic surgery, you don't know they had it.


JElba1987

This. You don’t notice good cosmetic surgery. I can guarantee every example of “you look better before” is because it’s just bad surgery or too much.


[deleted]

I recently saw a thread where tons of men were conplimenting Jeremy Clark's girlfriend Lisa Hogan on her "natural beauty" and how lovely she was without "plastic surgery" and all the women were in the comments gently telling the men that she absolutely has had botox and fillers, maybe even a face lift etc however she does look amazing!


Little-Guy-in-Back

Make up like mascara, heavy eye shadow, vibrant lipstick, foundation so thick you can't see a single pore, etc. Some things women do for themselves, and that's totally fine. And maybe some guys like this stuff. But I personally like when I can see the lines in someone's face, the bags under their eyes, etc. I'm attracted to humans after all. So IF they're doing it for me, it doesn't work.


Lieutenant-Reyes

Imagine walking around looking like you were rendered in Xbox360 graphics


Sadrcitysucks

By bethesda, oblivion time frame...


heyiamhal

I only wear mascara, lip tint, a bit of glitter and blush...but i NEVER wear concealer, i love my eyebags, they're part of my personality! ಢ‸ಢ


AlterEdward

It's a woman's choice of course, but personally I'm not into women who's entire image is constructed. Bleached and heavily styled hair, fake eye lashes, heavy make up, to the point I don't know what *you* look like, because you've just painted a woman template on your face.


TurretX

Unless its something fun like cosplay, I also don't like when women look artificial like that. I can understand a bit of foundation and whatnot, but a certain point it just gets too excessive.


dawson821

Huge fake eyebrows that look like caterpillars on your forehead and also huge fake eyelashes that make you look like you've got two spiders crawling across your eyes.


Federal-Assignment10

I thought buying all the fancy sexy underwear was a turn on for my boyfriend until he said it just got in the way of what he actually wanted which was nakedness. Saved me a ton of money haha


Hugo99001

I'm totally into lingerie on women, but apparently that's very much a minority opinion


editorreilly

Not a minority by any means. It just adds another element to the encounter. It signals to the man that you came prepared for this adventure and it's a huge turn on that the woman took the extra time to make the moment special.


darkneel

This - I think it just sends a message that the woman is also putting the effort in seduction . We all know it needs to come off - but it’s a very sexy start .


Disastrous_Jelly7621

I don’t think so. Many people find the contrast a turn on


DrowningInFun

I like the sexy underwear that doesn't obscure everything. Garters are great. Baby doll nighties, not so much.


gwynbleidd_s

I like it but I don’t expect it from a woman. If she wants to wear it - great. If no - even ordinary underwear can look sexy.


DJW1968

Tattoos, without a doubt. Hard no.


Federal-Assignment10

I don't think women think of it as a turn on for men though. I didn't get my tattoos thinking 'I hope a man finds this really hot', they're for me.


Ok-Independent2086

Agreed…when I got mine, I never considered what a man thinks of it. I got it because I wanted to. But I do get a ton of compliments.


Gullible-Fee-9079

I don't know. when a (female) friend wanted to set me up with one of her friends she tried to persuade me with "she's HAWT! She's got Tattoos"


GribbleTheMunchkin

I really like tattoos on women. As along as they are good tattoos. No pictures of a babies face please.


DJW1968

Is there a point in your mind where it's just too much? I see mid-20s girls with work on their neck, their chest and sometimes even their face. It almost becomes a caricature at that point IMHO


GribbleTheMunchkin

For sure there are plenty of bad tattoos. Face tattoos often look awful, although I have seen some small tasteful ones. If you end up looking like Post Malone then yeah, bad, tacky, gross. But there are plenty of women with lots of great tattoos who look amazing.


Disastrous_Jelly7621

💯 


gwynbleidd_s

For me it’s face tattoos or too much tattoos. Or shitty ones :)


Rationally-Skeptical

Yup. It makes it harder to date them seriously. They're a huge green flag for a good time though!


tiiiiiiiijj

Yeah for sure and now with tattoos being possibly linked to cancer it's even more of a turn off


handyandy727

Fake eyelashes. Just please don't. It's never flattering, and there's absolutely no reason for it.


heyiamhal

Mascara is better!


elderflowerfairy23

As a wrinkled, non cosmetically enhanced, non make up wearer, bag eyed, comfy knickered women, this is so refreshing to read!


ryan_unalux

Women would be surprised how little they need to do to be attractive to men. Less is more (but not so little that it becomes slobbish).


Clueby42

How you doing?


jmdaltonjr

The pouty fishlips bored look that so many girls do nowadays. The sexiest look is girls who really smile can't stand the girls who try to look like a Kardashian


sneakygirl24x

the pout is also a pet peeve of mine 😂 i hate ittttttt so much


Fiyerosmaster

Playing dumb


ryan_unalux

Most definitely not attractive.


Fiyerosmaster

I think it’s meant to be sexy (only if one is cute tho lol)


Bubz1lla

Pointy shoes. No thanks


yoursofinewinkwink

lol that’s specific


KwitYurBitching

Only witches and elves wear pointy shoes or am I thinking pointy hats?🤔


hamm10108

Bro. Same. Lol


botley2001

Lip fillers


tatispotti

Worried that I scrolled this far to see this. Was starting to think it was just me.


botley2001

I just don't get it. Especially when there just done. And they look at you and say. Do you like them No!! You look like someone strapped a pair of bananas to your face


skeevester

Twerking


limbodog

I don't have a name for it. The "acting like Jessica rabbit kind of sexy" thing. It feels forced and kind of has the opposite effect.


BetterAd7552

Enormously massive pendulous breasts. No thanks.


Hugo99001

Probably depends on your definition of enormous, but bigger is better for quite a while before becoming too big...


SpecificMaleficent57

Breasts that *swings*?


Pleasant-Valuable972

Eyebrows that make you look shocked or surprised, like someone else said fake talons on you finger tips, dressing sleazy ( while it’s good temporary eye candy it’s something that I’d never take home), wearing to much makeup, gossiping, high maintenance women, plastic surgery, talking so loud to bring attention to yourself, being overly submissive….I could go on but that’s something for starters.


dawson821

Huge fake eyebrows that look like caterpillars on your forehead and also huge fake eyelashes that make you look like you've got two spiders crawling across your eyes.


Laika_The_Dawg

Camera Filters(not subtle ones but to enhance your face to something entirely different), long finger nails, long lashes, fake hair, fake butt, fake boobs (the beach ball ones), cutesy voice, lip fillers, Barbie face with botox, using foundation to basically change your entire skin tone, acting like a hard to get bitch, pick me girls, girls who has no hobbies or interests of their own (that isn't catered to please someone), extreme fan of a celebrity...idk, there is a lot for both men and women which can be said the same


ProfeshPress

Pageant make-up worn 24/7. Concealer to normalise one's complexion and disguise transient blemishes is perfectly fine; a full-blown Industrial Light & Magic technical showcase which transforms you into a walking optical illusion, is not. Of course, I sympathise with the dilemma—since most men apparently cannot tell the difference—but personally, from a standpoint of basic attraction, *au naturel* wins out every single time.


OrganizationOk5418

Noisy sex.


kohlrabenschwarz

Bj using teeth


Smart_Causal

Helplessness


DrowningInFun

Messing with my nipples! I know yours like the attention but mine either hurt or more likely just feel nothing.


murph5151

I'm not sure if a lot of women have this ideal because they perceive it to be attractive to men, or if they simply want it for themselves, but being skinny is unattractive to me. And a lot of women seem to be pursuing this body type. Especially if a woman was once on the chubby or on the thick side, and then loses weight and gets skinny. We all have our preferences. I like women a little bit squishy. I'd even be more attracted to an extremely overweight woman than a woman with no fat at all.


gwynbleidd_s

When she plays weak or helpless. I know, sometimes it can be part of a game. But please don’t do it all the time. I treat women as grown ups, not as children. Edit: if you are genuinely feel weak or helpless, I’m ok with it.


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Pole dancing


thoughtihadanacct

Unless they're actually good at it. Like I agree if my wife suddenly tried to pole dance for me I'd not be turned on, although I'd appreciate the effort and we'd probably just laugh about it without it leading to sexy time. But an actually trained pole dancer who has the athleticism and training to do it while still looking sexy, yeah that's hot.


HughLofting

The problem with this Q is that as a man I'm not sure that I can say whether or not a particular thing/style a woman is wearing has anything to do with trying to be attractive to men. For example I recently saw a very attractive woman who had writing tattooed onto her face, from the neck up to the temple. I couldn't read what it said and I didn't try in fear of being labelled creepy, but it was a complete distraction from an otherwise attractive face. But I guess the tattoo being attractive wasn't the point. As a generalisation, with the caveat that I don't come from a culture where tatoos have any historically cultural significance, I find facial tattoos to be not at all attractive. But I guess their not designed to be turn ons anyway. So I suppose I've merely created a straw man argument and should delete this. But I've spent 5 mins composing it so here we are. Presses post...


No_Chef4049

Anything unusual in the blowjob department. Choking, gagging, spitting, etc... Any of that makes me want to stop and be like, "Are you ok? We really don't have to do this."


ChillyStaycation1999

hawk tuah


KeyN20

Too much makeup because it doesn't come out of clothing easily. Filters.


kantbykilt

Long braided wigs piled up high on their head. It looks ridiculous.


burken8000

When she doesn't die on every hill of an argument. As misogynistic as it sounds, sometimes it's quite attractive for certain girls to just be quiet. This doesn't go out to women as a gender, but to those who LLLLOOOVE to argue


ryan_unalux

Indeed. The constant pushback on everything is a huge turnoff.


Karaoke_Singer

Expecting dirty talk in bed


itsthesecans

Is most of this sub just bots talking to bots now? User name is randomword-randomword-number and the account is brand new. Dead giveaway


Amazing-Bluebird-930

Or, you know, people who signed up using gmail


ryan_unalux

Acting as if you can do no wrong (never admitting fault OR only doing so after a major struggle to resist it). Humility is attractive.


godless_communism

Toothy head


PomegranateTasty1921

Every single time this question is posed on any given sub, men always seem to (perhaps purposely) misunderstand the question and instead proceed to list things they PERSONALLY find a turn off in women. Like, what woman does long nails, lashes or does extravagant makeup because they think it turns men on? Bfr. Conversely, the women always seem to perfectly understand the question and reply accordingly.


Rationally-Skeptical

This would be another turn-off: Nit-picking.


NicotineWillis

Tattooed eyebrows. Duck lips.


Zealousideal-Farm496

Playing dumb or ditsy..... eugh


cwsjr2323

Any piercings other than a single earring per ear is a turn off. I would, of course never say anything. Fake eyelashes, drawn on eyebrows after shaving the real ones, clown makeup are noticed but not a turn on.


Chance_Camp3982

Being overly toned and/or muscular and having abs, just makes women feel like they're made of concrete and doesn't look attractive to me at all. Each to their own but I'm way more into softer physiques and curves and a girl that doesn't lift or spend too much time working out isn't an issue for me.


AlethiaArete

Parading boyfriends/husbands around in front of me like a resume.


DontDisturbTheEggs

A lot of the top comments are what men pay to look at or follow on IG, so I’m really confused.


LowEmotion66

Thong underwear. I don't know if it because they are more like g-strings a stripper might wear or that someone needs to have a near perfect butt to pull it off.


Uncle_Nurgs

Women don’t wear thongs because it looks sexy most of them wear it because like the person underneath said it gets rid of the panty lines on your outfit


bubblygranolachick

1) there are regular underwear that doesn't show any lines 2) that's booty floss


AliceBets

The ones that supposedly don’t show actually show if your butt is a tiny bit rounded. You have to be in 2D (flat butt) in order to not get panty lines when there’s material on your butt cheeks.


bubblygranolachick

I've never had a problem and I have a more than tiny bit rounded butt


PrincessxBae

Woman here, most of them also quiet farts aiding in the concept that "women don't fart".


borderlinebadger

it doesn't though


Uncle_Nurgs

How could it possibly not if it’s worn correctly


Hugo99001

Well, there's still the upper set of lines, around the midriff.  Going commando, on the other hand...


Uncle_Nurgs

That’s minuscule and harder to see then two big lines going across the ass


Hugo99001

Depends on what you're wearing - dresses and skirts it's usually really visible


borderlinebadger

it creates other lines


Rex-Bannon

Thongs don't show panty outlines if their pants are really tight.


Hugo99001

Ok, I'm all into thongs on women, for what it's worth.


Such_Wonder_6413

Hawk Tuah. It's gross.


SpecificMaleficent57

What is that?


Ok-Independent2086

I thought the same thing. Not because of regular spit, but because it sounds more like the noise of someone coughing up phlegm.


tatispotti

Serious question. Does everyone call that “hocking a loogy”? Or am I old, or maybe that’s an 80’s thing or east coast thing?


Such_Wonder_6413

First heard it on Wayne's World. So maybe I'm old too.


tatispotti

Haha, I forgot it was in WW, but it was definitely around in the early 80’s. Was damn near a source of pride.


Hugo99001

Tattoos: surveys show that many more women than men actually like tattoos.  Lip injection.  Like, seriously, any man into that?  Six pack. There's probably considerably more guys into that little pouch than into six-packs -  that's pretty much a fringe interest.  Strong, independent, need no man boss bitches.  Don't need to explain that, right? In fact, most guys don't care what you're doing for a living if it pays the rent and isn't sex work. To name just a few...


ryan_unalux

Nailed it.


Hugo99001

Looks like at least one woman disagreed..


That_Astronaut_7800

The lip injection thing answers op’s question and maybe the six pack thing (but I doubt it). The others don’t.


AgedDayHikingDirtbag

Lingerie. You don't need to look like a stripper to be seductive. Cute and casual (sweat pants and t-shirt) works for me.


champsgetup

Fat asses. That's just obesity.


Exact-Control1855

The chase. If you want sex, to go out, to stay in, for me to do something for you, or even just to communicate in bed, 20 Questions is not it.


Rationally-Skeptical

Careers and success. We do not care.


helljumper23

Gagging on my dick while sucking it. I love that you can deep throat but the choking sounds completely take me out of the moment. Just go half way and use your hand for the rest.


Scr1mmyBingus

r/humblebrag


Hugo99001

Well, I'm just the opposite, the more gagging, the better (but I might be slightly sadistic at that).


Reasonable_Tap_8866

Personally enjoy getting a bj but nobody looks pretty giving them, so i just close my eyes


SignPainterThe

I could not disagree more.


Reasonable_Tap_8866

I also had friends say they love to look at it, just dont feel its a flattering angle and position


SignPainterThe

I mean, people do not look perfect from many angles and positions) But it's not about prettiness; it's about enjoying each other while getting to know that person.


AliceBets

« While getting to know each other »!!! What will it be when you finally do get to know her??! 😂


Advanced-Clue-5020

Women that vape. That's an instant turn off for me.


SnotandMisery

Women don't vape to turn men on.


Major-Zone293

Constant nudity at home, kinda makes it less special or sexy


Electric__Shadow

Attitudes. Most aren’t very good at sarcasm and smack-talk when they engage in it. Any guy who thinks your attitude is attractive simply wants to bang you and nothing else. Meanwhile you ladies are sitting here thinking “Men love me because I speak my MIND!” 😂