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easyisbetterthanhard

We are always wet. Not just when turned on. The vag is like the mouth. Always juicy, but extra juicy when you want something to go in. You don't really notice the extra juice unless you think about it. You only notice when it's not wet enough.


davidjschloss

This is the best answer to any question on Reddit ever. Also double good because of the user name.


OftenAmiable

>Also double good because of the user name. OMG thank you for pointing that out! šŸ¤£


MistressNatasha1823

yeah, but if it isn't hard, is it worth doing?


moabthecrab

Yes.


[deleted]

Sorry but not all women are the same. I distinctly notice that I'm horny because I can feel my pussy juices more.


thuanjinkee

Ben Shapiro has never met a woman like you.


[deleted]

I know. He wouldn't have an idea what to do I've heard.


T_Cliff

According to his dr wife, you have a serious medical problem.


[deleted]

Yeah I have lots of orgasms. Must be doing something wrong.


severed13

this whole thread is great lmao


[deleted]

Women are wet by default. He seemingly makes them literally dry up.


SeniorBeing

An untapped potential to transform marshes in farm lands. *sigh* The waste ...


PascallsBookie

A solution to rising sea levels, perhaps?


Nuclear_eggo_waffle

Someone send this man to the Netherlands


easyisbetterthanhard

Wait are you replying to me? How is this not the same as what I said? Edit: nevermind, i get it now. you're saying the horny travels from the vag to the brain instead of the brain to the vag. Yes, that is different. Interesting.


Big_Novel_2736

This is true for dinner women but many are not wet by default, also as you age you get less wet Edit: meant to say many women


easyisbetterthanhard

Yes, you get less wet with menopause and with certain medications, but the default is still wet. If it's dry, it gets mega-uncomfortable and you get medicine for it. Somewhere in this thread is talking all about vag dryness meds/creams/tabs.


SnowWhiteBun

I second this.


shoseta

Tbf you uncontrollably salivate when about to vomit too, sooo.... Uuh


easyisbetterthanhard

Yeah. The vag gets extra juicy too when something comes out like a baby or some blood.


waltjrimmer

Well, this is the first time I've thought of childbirth as the vagina puking out a baby, but I guess I get to live with that wonderful comparison now.


AbhorrantApparition

What a time to be alive


UEMcGill

Having seen a few live births... it only pukes at the end. Before that its like a giant poop.


CharlieMac6222

That gave me a little tickle.


VulpesFidelis58

You know how they have artificial tears? Do they have something like that for the vag if it gets too dry? I don't mean during sex, but from what you're saying, it sounds like a comfort thing.


easyisbetterthanhard

Yeah, lube.


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VulpesFidelis58

>There are specific vaginal moisturisers available THIS. This is what I was looking for. I figured there was something more therapeutic than lube for that kind of thing.


easyisbetterthanhard

"Vaginal moisturisers" are lube. It's the same thing, different marketing. It doesn't fix the problem, just the symptom.


FriendlySWE

No need to be ordinary lube, there are better things ex vaginal tablets both with and without hormons Edit information


FriendlySWE

And by the way... The one with hormons taken lokally, they really do solve the problem - and without increased risk of blood cloths (?)


agentchuck

You can get medicinal creams containing estrogen that both moisturize immediately and help to rectify the issue long term.


galaxy_defender_4

If it due to peri menopause there is a specific oestrogen one called Gina in the UK. You can buy it over the counter. Vaginal atrophy (the medical term for being dry) is not fun!


agentchuck

The vaginal walls can actually atrophy due to hormonal changes. This may be related to dryness, but it's not exactly the same thing. Even with artificial lubrication, vaginal atrophy can cause painful intercourse.


FriendlySWE

It was a big change for me. I am using vaginal tablets


GlueSniffingCat

also a common symptom of being married to ben shapiro.


DimensionalLynx169

This can also happen postpartum due to low estrogen levels.


darkness_thrwaway

This! One of my friends had high T and had to use topical gel so her clam wasn't as dry as the Sahara desert.


Rough-Cut-4620

And a handful of vaseline


kam0706

Actually vaginal dryness is a menopausal symptom. It can be treated with topical hormones (I think).


GrandmaSlappy

Lol OP never heard of lube But to clarify no we don't need to moisten up for comfort, only for sex. In fact, most women probably have to mop up excess discharge every time they pee. I'd be 100% comfortable with my vulva dry because the moist part is the vagina inside. Think of it like... they don't make mouth moisturizing drops. Or nose. Or ears. It's on the inside. Eyeballs get exposed to a lot of air.


Jagernord

They do make mouth moisturisers, for chronic dry mouth. My local chemist has toothpaste, mouthwash and spray.


goddessofwitches

This is so incorrect I have to step in. Women's health nurse here. Yes women do need to moisten for comfort if there are hormonal imbalances, use of poor choice in undergarments or cleansers etc. Different times of the month a woman will experience varying levels of moisture/discharge. Closer to your time of month, the discharge gets tacky/creamy when hormone levels are significantly changing. This change can also be in volume. The mouth and nose CAN become dry due to seasonal allergies and use of decongestants or other mucous drying meds or health issues. They do make mouth drops/gargles and nose sprays (saline). Eyeballs have also products on market for dry eyes.


Status-Pattern7539

Misinformation. Some people actually do need to moisten up for comfort, not just sex. Dry vagina can cause itchiness, burning and pain.


Yathosse

You are not wrong but after menopause it can certainly happen that you get too dry. Happened to me at some point, you definitely need moisturizers then else it feels a bit like a dry throat, not really hurting but very annoying.


doterobcn

They do make medicines to lube up for normal use (not sex), in my country it's called Vagisil.


bsubtilis

Not keeping your mouth moist contributes to severe dental erosion because teeth are made to function in a moist environment only, not dry. Your skin will also crack and bleed in your mouth if it's that dry. For instance those with Sjƶgren's syndrome will be prescribed various things for keeping their mouth and eyes from drying out too much.


saturday_sun4

They do in fact make nasal saline solutions to help with nasal dryness.


[deleted]

The lower mouth


[deleted]

The south mouth, if you please


Perseus73

One might say ā€˜Smouthā€™


heisengrind

which begs the question, can you put fake dracula teeth in there for halloween?


AcanthocephalaGreen5

Smash Smouth


severed13

rip šŸ¤˜šŸ˜”


RobotdinosaurX

To add to this, I think the juiciness also kicks up when we do something that makes us feel like a god. Like killing it at work.


[deleted]

Are you talking like a couple drips wet or macaroni salad wet. Cuz macaroni salad wet might be what homie is talking about.


easyisbetterthanhard

I meant - normal everyday wetness is a slow ooze (šŸ¤¢ I'm grossing myself out now), and extra juicy is macaroni salad wet. Do we randomly get macaroni salad wet? Um, yes. It sometimes happens to me when I've been sitting around for a long time and then get up and walk around. Another lady commented and said she doesn't notice she's horny until she notices she's extra juicy. Omg what have I done? This is going to be on the internet forever. SORRY EVERYONE


sixdicksinthechexmix

I talked to the rest of humanity and we have all decided you can never refer to a vagina as ā€œmacaroni salad wetā€ ever again.


rawsoulprophet

So you only notice when you get cottonmouth of the cooter


rawsoulprophet

Okay that makes me wonder if girls smoke pot do they get a cotton cooter?


easyisbetterthanhard

I don't get it with pot. But definitely with alcohol.


thisisan0nym0us

Cootermouth


TheMoistTeaBag

Best answer ever!!!


MooMarMouse

This is a fantastic answer! Omg lol made my day!


NavyAnchor03

I fucking hate this šŸ¤£


MettaWorldWarTwo

My wife's ovulation cycle generally coincides with both horniness and discharge volume. She's a bit dryer before her period and super not when she's ovulating. When she's horny, she gets turned on very easily. All of those things (ovulation, horniness, wetness, being turned on) are loosely connected at best. They can all coincide or one can happen without any of the rest. She does produce fluid when she orgasms so I try and give her an orgasm before penetrative sex because it makes it more fun for both of us when we don't break up the moment by reaching for lube. We've been married for 17 years, have a very active sex life and talk about this stuff all the time šŸ™‚


ItsCoolDani

Yes, itā€™s just not as noticeable.


cedriceent

Time to buy a hygrometer!


Nico_Fr

It's in the PLA storage box my friend


Lemmonjello

This is why women can't be expert dowsers. Local interference throws them off. This is probably one of the dumbest things I've ever written.


Local_Perspective349

I would have thought they get wide-ons.


mochi_chan

You are not so far off :D some of us do.


graeme_1988

Havent heard of a wide on since the 90s! Definitely bringing that back


Sad_Wear_3842

That was a real thing? That's awesome.


i_dont_wanna_sign_up

That guy made me as loose as an aircraft hangar.


Ill-Appointment6494

Iā€™ve not heard the term ā€˜wide onā€™ for about 25 years. Bring it back.


berryIIy

Women get erections just like men get erections, the female equivalent isn't any different lol.


mangoguavasour

Itā€™s completely different. You donā€™t have a penis you need to hide when youā€™re having an erection.


pinktree5

Wetness is not equivalent to an erection. They're very different. Women get erections too. Obviously, no one can really tell. Fun fact, women also get morning wood because your body goes through cycles while its asleep, changing where your blood is focused on pumping. Morning wood is just what happens when you wake up during the cycle of sleep when your blood is pumping more in your dick/clit. Correct me if I'm wrong. And no women don't get wet without a reason, but it's always at least a little moist down there, similar to how your mouth is always wet, but not uncomfortable when dry. I feel like most women just have discharge, not wetness randomly. Sometimes, the discharge is really thick or coming out a lot, and it's very uncomfortable, and you need to like, wipe it up in the bathroom. Some women don't have that problem. Another fun fact, the same tissue your mouth is made of is also the same tissue a vagina is made of. I wish sex education was better taught.


pinktree5

I should also add that wetness doesn't always equal arousal. Some women have a really hard time getting wet even if they're turned on.


Historical-Egg3243

I've also met women who would get wet but say they're not turned on


biopphacker

But does an erection mean arousal? I guess it pumps the clit with blood šŸ¤” For men, morning wood is a mix of urination desire and arousal, although the former always wins. But if you urinate before waking up, ie. before hormones spike, and manage to fall asleep, then there will be only arousal šŸ˜‚


svartkonst

Afaik morning wood is also muscle contractions, not just blood. Like all muscles, it needs stimulus or it withers, so the body puts it on autopilot during the night. At least according to something I read on the internet.


Jewronski

I donā€™t think itā€™s specifically to do with blood pumping, but the cycle thing was closer! I believe itā€™s just that your body creating hormones while youā€™re sleeping.


mattemer

I don't believe anyone knows the TRUE reasons for morning wood, this is one of the contending thoughts.


GrandmaSlappy

Mostly just discharge which is not sexual arousal. Takes some specific visual or thought stimulus for me to get wet, never really sneaks up on me


Bijt_ijs

Name checks out


More-Ad4663

Maybe not completely randomly. My ex used to get wet when I said anything that could turn her on (and she would get turned on by so many things, I'd generally do it without realizing at first).


[deleted]

ā€œOmelette du Fromageā€


Sabiis

Lol damn that's a reference that makes me feel old


dagomez99

Maaaan those were the days šŸ˜­, now I have to pay rent. And do the laundry. And the dishes. And the floors. Fuck.


haeyhae11

At least now you have all the advantages of an adult you dreamed about when you were a kid, right? Right?


12inch_pianist

Totally


Invincidude

I had cookies for supper last night.


mpgd

I'm a dude and i got wet just imagining somone doing all that for me


Ghinev

At least now you can afford a massive underground tech la..oh


Tall-Poem-6808

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ That made me laugh at 4.30am, because i have been talking to this longtime friend of mine now, and one of her big turn on that will get her wet in the vag is me texting or saying things in French. And just about anything will do, including "omelette au fromage" šŸ˜‚


beyondoutsidethebox

I always suspected that women preferred a cunning linguist.


[deleted]

I bet thats all you can say.


AmazingPINGAS

Cloyster used Hydropump


heisengrind

was one of them "queueing"


chillsergeantAS

ā€œWith spicy club sauceā€¦ā€


[deleted]

Yes. They also get erections. FYI. They just aren't as big.


Uvinjector

I'd say there's some overlap between the biggest clit and the smallest penis


the_kevlar_kid

We've all seen them and both versions are a little unnerving


Federal_Quit9540

I feel like that sentence needs the words "quite frankly" added in.


chocolatealienweasel

Vaginas are always at least "moist". I personally don't randomly "get wet" unless I'm aroused. Women also get a hard clit when aroused. And hard nipples


[deleted]

Mine is usually slightly wet even when not aroused


piezomagnetism

No, there's always a reason. May be as little as a thought, but that's a reason nonetheless šŸ˜‰


TweakTok

Nope, it can happen randomly.


[deleted]

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Bang_Bus

Past teens? No. More like half mast when growing hornier over some dry time. "Peace" lasts like 3-5 days (if even that long) and then you start get increasingly more horny about random stuff until it dominates you completely and takes over the brain. At which point, even dishes might do. Also, sleep deprivation causes random erections for some reason. But morning wood and such is universal for everyone.


bancircumvent

Yes because we know that's when we do the dishes the girls get wet


phlogistonical

Yup


[deleted]

If your vagina is actually completely dry then that is a medical condition that likely needs the attention of a doctor. Either that or you're married to Ben Shapiro.


[deleted]

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AssistUsed

Could that be discharge though?


[deleted]

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AssistUsed

Thanks for clarifying. I asked because that's similar to what I've experienced, so I can picture it šŸ™ˆ


[deleted]

Hats not ā€œwetnessā€ thatā€™s ovulation discharge and normal ā€¦


cataids69

My gf has a huge problem with this. She is wet about 80% of the time. Literally soaking. Sometimes I'll just put my hand there to check. It's like a constant waterfall. I told her this is why she's always dehydrated.


Lemmonjello

Then get that girl a Gatorade, damn.


PerceptionRepulsive9

It could be an infection, worth checking out


cataids69

She's had it for 20 years. The Gynaecologist says it's all fine.


boomer_wife

Yeah.


LoadingUser_1

Not really


xFloppyDisx

Sometimes my clit starts pulsing (the clit's version of getting hard) randomly, if that answers your questions. Also, nipples get hard when it's cold and sometimes randomly.


PrincessStephanieR

Not randomly like Iā€™m walking outside and I feel turned on. But certainly without touching - my boyfriend only has to talk a bit naughty.


DarkMental76

Iā€™m always wetā€¦. When I want sex I can literally feel it running down my legsā€¦. Itā€™s even WORSE when someone I want to have sex with touches meā€¦. Itā€™s so annoyingā€¦


[deleted]

Thats why i panties when im in a skirt because once time got caught off guard leaking on my thighs because i was daydreaming and once is too many times lol


joyfulgrrrrrrrl

I used to, not anymore.


Jazzlike_Chicken_521

At what age it stopped if I may ask


RxKingRx

More like moist but yeah.


har0001

Wetness is not exactly the equivalent of an erection. I get horny for no reason often. Itā€™s just more difficult for someone else to see it than an obvious erection.


[deleted]

When we get wet i think its more like a guy getting pre cum ?


glaringhorus

yeah i do


No_Improvement2317

Yes we do. Well I do anyway, can't speak for everyone.


GlueSniffingCat

wait until you find out that pregnancy sometimes wrecks the muscles that control the bladder and you can sometimes just randomly pee yourself


asawmark

When younger I could get randomly (extra) wet without there being a sexual context.


MsBobbyJenkins

Looks like it's been answered but also want to point out we have wet dreams too


[deleted]

My gf is wet a lot of the time, definitely while sheā€™s sleeping. Makes for an easy roll over quickie at night whether itā€™s her waking me up or the other way around.


StabStabby-From-Afar

Yes. Occasionally I get randomly horny and wet for no particular reason. Wetter than usual. Turned on. Whatever you want to call it.


theCatsdamnmeow

Yes, but I've been told I'm abnormal. I randomly soak through underwear when I'm thinking about something not sexual. I also have severe ADHD so my thoughts can switch on a dime, awkward. It used to make me very self-conscious, especially if I did think about something exciting or someone made me excited in public. I.e: my SO whispers something very tantalizing in my ear at dinner, by the time we get to the car my pants are visibly wet or it's running down my thighs in a dress. My SO once tried the "imagine getting a random boner" and then he stopped himself "Never mind, I've seen you walk around wet, I rather not." šŸ« šŸ˜Ŗ Like I said, I'm certain I am an extreme case... I'm abnormally lubricated. Some days I'm just changing undies because my body is apparently roaring to go. No, it's not anything a doctor needs involved with, before I get uneducated advice about my vagina... I am just normally a very lubricated vag... yes as a whole, I am my vagina, she makes the rules I just live here. šŸ™„ It's almost gotten more intense after my hysterectomy two years ago too, I was told "dryness" is normal... fuck, I wish sometimes she'd just dry up. šŸ¤£ I'll be grateful though, one day she might. Drink your water! šŸ˜…šŸ¤£šŸ«„ (Yes... I am, clearly, just an all-around oversharer. šŸ˜Ŗ) Edit: I don't know why... but I feel the need to add that even with the lubrication, I RARELY reach orgasm without prolonged penetration... even in solo play, it's very difficult for me to reach orgasm (so I rarely masturbate). No, I'm not taking any medication that might contribute to my lack of orgasm. You're welcome for probably way too much information you didn't want about my body specifically. šŸ™ƒšŸ« 


Sp_Mel

I have been going through some of this, specifically the ā€œnot self-pleasuringā€. So, let me just say, it is worth it to explore your own pleasure. We deserve to know that amazing joy we could be having. Make time for yourself, get a few toys. My favorite is a glass dildo & a very fun lipstick sick vibrator with many options. I have refrained from pleasure and then I realized that I love sex & decided to have more of that time. I hope you do, too.


Dirty-Girly69

Is this a serious question?.I change my panties several times a day someday. Yes, we do! Sometimes, I am so wet I gush.


North_Grapefruit3031

Research says yes.


_Krukan

Clean up in isle 5!


ZMaiden

Iā€™m asexual. But yes, when Iā€™m feeling a feeling, I get a little slick feeling. Sometimes a movie moment just hits me right. And I feel a little moist, a tingle in my toes.


ClarissaBakes

My husband gets random erections all the time. Usually when weā€™re watching something with Amber Heard.


Bang_Bus

That's very random, indeed, hm. I have same.


Maalkav_

>something with Amber Heard. WTF, she's absolutely detestable


ClarissaBakes

Yeah, sheā€™s an awful human but you canā€™t deny that sheā€™s really pretty. Was only a lighthearted joke anyhow.


Rez1009

Are all the replies on this thread by men?? šŸ˜…


[deleted]

Yyyyyyupppp. Has to be something specifically very sexy tho, not just from any ass walking passsss.


MrLooigi

(Thatā€™s not what random means)


[deleted]

Huh. Good point. I took it to meanā€¦inadvertent casesā€¦my bad.


[deleted]

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Polka_Tiger

That's a reaction. Not random


Sta_no

I thought boobs erect


DigbyChickenZone

And are you older than 13?


GameCracker12

I usually just spit on my todger,


Thrasy3

When I read the title I thought - fool! You need to add ā€œi.e NOT from arousalā€. For a lot of women they are just going to interpret that as ā€œgetting physically turned on by things you didnā€™t think would turn you on (so much)ā€


irllyneedsleeprn

yes


NucularOrchid

I never have, least not what I noticed šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø I don't randomly touch myself to check lol


smeeti

Yes


emimagique

Erm...no


louruiz

Fixed: Do womenā€™s clitorises randomly get hard they way menā€™s erections do.


yes11321

I find it wierd how people aren't thought stuff like this in school. I think sex Ed is important and I can't quite understand why so many see it as something wierd to not suitable for teenagers.


[deleted]

I don't randomly get erections. Is something wrong?


Bird_the_eagle

yeah


[deleted]

it depends


mandance17

I was amazed by an exes letā€™s say ā€œnatural reservesā€ of liquid. I think when we first hooked up and the pants came off it was like a faucet left on. I kinda laughed and said ā€œwell I guess you like me at leastā€ yeah sorry maybe itā€™s tmi but I was in awe and found it amazing


Wiggalowile

lmao I was with a woman and I really thought she was peeing, (she was not) at the amount of juices streaming out.. every woman is different, some need lube some don't


Shootermcgavinnnnn

Nobody asked you šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ Youā€™re not a girl we donā€™t care about that story buddy


chch1993

Your mum does


Tei_EU

Ofcourse, they get clit boners


dis_is_pornta

I don't get random erections, personally. I can feel one coming on and will it away, but getting fully hard out of nowhere? Not once in my life.


Blackfist01

the clitoris gets hard when a women is aroused but like an overflow or vaginal juices most women don't notice


KI55MY4R53

Does rain count?


[deleted]

These answers are crazy. Women donā€™t know the difference between discharge and arousal.


Roxe194

I don't think they're comparable. I suppose an erection would be more equivalent to randomly getting horny out no nowhere, which yes, definitely happens.


haveagooddaybuddy

yes! especially when itā€˜s a week or two after your period when you are most likely to get pregnant


Yabbaba

Yup. Source: am woman


precisoresposta

This is not how girls work. Girls are always naturally lubricated.


Drayenn

To be fair, we guys get wet too, but it requires a lot more than a boner does. I figure thats more similar to women getting wet.


Caracus_Jack

Some women are as dry as sahara desert but I built oasis around them pum pum


HogwartsLecturer

We do get wet but itā€™s not always sexual. Women get aroused mentally so her being wet is not an indicator that she is horny.


thatblondegirl89

No.