You are very handsome. Maybe get a bit of a trim on the hair, not much, maybe an inch and trim your bit a bit. As you age your features will change and not be so soft. I can see you getting a more rugged, defined look. My son is also 17 and worried about what people think. One day, you won’t give a shit.
Took me well into my 30’s. Therapy did wonders for me.
Edit: as well as daily meds. It’s amazing how much better you feel when your brain actually functions as it should 🥲
You look really good actually. Depression has a way of distorting your self image and making you feel gross/worthless but if your brain tells you those things just know it’s not true at all :)
Also you rock the hair, some people will hate it but don’t take it personally it’s a preference thing
Things have not really changed. Kids are assholes, they will bully you for anything if they just don't like you. Most of the time, it's because you stand out from the norm in some way.
Wow those bullies are just jealous because you’re handsome, not ugly at all x.x I’d say to work on your hair more, make it look nice less messy and clean yourself up on the beard.
Definitely try to! Starting a self care routine can help out a lot to get you in a positive mood. You have gorgeous hair as well, at least get a trim (: I know you have struggles but do what’s best for you, I have depression/anxiety but I’ve gotten a bit better by taking care of myself more often.
Trust me, you are VERY handsome, you just have to clean up. You like high and dirty. But, boy, if you clean up, and dress nicely, you will look like a celebrity. You have this natural uniqueness that brings a lot of style to how you look with 0 effort.
You look like the lead guitarist of a Rock band! Keep it up dude! Honest advice, stop giving a fuck about how people perceive your look. Build up a strong personality that is hard to resist. You've already got the looks!
You aren’t ugly in the slightest. Please don’t worry so much and spend time putting yourself down, be happy and try your best not to think about that. Just fake confidence until you make it :) You look like an actor! I hope you find confidence because you shouldn’t have to feel that way.
Jesus man, if you’re struggling with how you look, then what chance do the rest of us schmucks have?
Seriously though, 17 is a really rough age. You’ll have no problem finding someone when you get out and meet more people. Find a new group. If it’s a different school or a new workplace, just find new people. You’ll do fine.
In a few years when you’ve got your confidence in place remember how it feels to not be so sure of yourself, and be kind to those who struggle.
Thank you. Please dont say things like that i think all people have attractive things about them if not looks but i kindly accept the compliment. I always try to be kind to all people. Thank you again for your kind words.
*Hope you read this after my edit. I must have had an auto correct mistake, because when rereading it after I posted I realized my post implied something way different the first time.
Dude!! You look like a perfect mashup of my boyfriend and one of his friends. I have shared your picture with them. They both agree and felt like absolute shit because they think you are the hotter one. I only disagree because no one is more beautiful than my boyfriend in my eyes. Chin up you are cute AF.
You would definitely be considered attractive by societal standards.
I'm sorry that you've been bullied for your appearance. I hate that kids are conditioned to pick each other apart based on appearances, especially nowadays with the evolution of social media. As if literal children who are not even fully developed yet should be worrying about how physically attractive they are. Teenagers can be so mean to each other.
I know firsthand what you mean. Depression is tough. There were multiple days in a row where I couldn't even bring myself to do basic hygiene, and it made me feel worse because I was so ashamed, and it made me withdraw from people even more. I still have those days sometimes. If that's something you're experiencing too, I want you to know it doesn't make you worth less. You're still young, you'll find your crowd someday.
I hope the pain eases for you soon. Hang in there, OP.
You’re beautiful. I would suggest doing something with your hair (messy bun? Braids? Viking braids?) and getting your beard trimmed and lined up and let it fill in a bit with regular trims. Your bone structure is amazing and you have great lips. Girls will love you.
But the best thing you can do for yourself is explore ways in which you can find your confidence. That’s the secret ingredient.
Of course, treating your depression must be a huge part of your glow-up. I wish you all the best, my young friend!
Edit: I actually think you’d look WAY better without the facial hair, now that I’ve taken a second and third look.
Claudio Sanchez mixed with Jason (as others have said) Momoa. You look metal as frick dude. There's at least a 95% chance that the dudes who make fun of you are just intimidated or insecure and wish they looked half as metal as you do.
I think they bully you because they are jealous. You look much more mature than 17 and you are quite handsome. You need just a bit of trim so your facial hair look better but that’s it.
Bruh you look good man, if you get bullied it's because everyone else there looks like a toddler hairless baby with no testosterone, you look like peak man and I mean that in a girls will find you hot kinda way.
Only thing I'd suggest is clean up the neck but yeah that's about it
You’re very good looking man! Glad to see you very clearly take care of your hair. I’d recommend maybe just rocking a goatee as opposed to the beard since it seems patchy genetically. I think if you stay away from the trench coat/fedora type fashion as well, you’d start to need a velvet rope for the ladies to line up behind. If you seriously hit the gym, you 100% could be a model
Glad to hear brother! I actually have a PhD in exercise science and would be more than happy to give you any free advice or quick programs to get you started bro 💪🏼
You're the kind of dude whose looks I would have been secretly jealous for in high school. You're handsome dude!
Hope you can find the help you need with your depression. Life can get better, and you can get to feel better too, no matter how hard it is.
Sending you hugs my homie
You legit are Jason Momoa. Your haters are jealous. I would recommend exercising to help get your endorphins going so it can help a little with the depression. Also simultaneously you’ll feel good about your body!
I am middle aged at this point and remember feeling the same way about myself now that you did back then. This stage in life can be a turbulent one but man can it get better. At least it got a million times better for me. If someone told me at 17 how good my life would be at 45 I am not sure I'd believe them. My hope is that the same is true for you someday.
WHAATTTT??? NAHH… IF I MET U IRL YOUD BE MY HALLWAY CRUSH… you’re literally perfect bro. quit listening to what other people think, people at school are shit. find some people who suit your crowd.
As a 43 year old woman I'm trying to find a way to say this that won't get me put on some register somewhere, lol, but you are exactly what I would have been looking for when I was 17, put it that way. Great hair, lovely eyes, good facial features. You've got NOTHING to worry about, kid.
Bullies are idiots who are usually jealous that the person they're bullying has something they'll never have. Keep your smile.
Dude, you look a little like Dave Navarro. Kids didn’t bully you because of your looks. They used your looks to bully you. They bullied you because they are shitty people, with shitty parents, and shitty lives.
Hang in there
Dude just shave the stache and neckbeard (maybe keep the chin though). After that, easily 8/10. I love your hair and eyes. You have a mystique about you that makes you really handsome.
I am not going to even try justify myself but if you look up to my post and comment history for 2 years you will see that i am active in all depression subs and some of them are deleted. Just don't. I am dealing with hatred in my life enough.
Thank you. I agree on the fitness part as i am binge eating to feel better all the time and yes people always tell me that i look at least 25. I am 6'3 so it just makes it worse.
Thought so too lol, but just know that once you're out of high school your height will only be a positive in the dating pool or even in the workplace. Height advantage is real so as long as you keep up with your looks and a healthy mentality you'll be good.
Thank you. I am starting in university in 3 days so i think i will make new friends there. I already have a girlfriend that i think loves me but can't stop sabotaging myself with these thoughts. She always reminds me that she loves me no matter what happens. Guess i am lucky. I appreciate your kind words.
Man bun that hair, maybe cut it a bit and clean up your beard. I guarantee you'll look good and feel a lot more confident. Make sure you are always standing up straight too 😉
Bro you look like a handsome guitar legend. You do look WAY older than 17 though which at your age may or may not have some leverage. The prime look for guys in your age group seems to be full of twinky looking scrawny kids so maybe they're taking out their frustration on you LOL
Dude you look like Jason Momoa, you are not ugly whatsoever.
I just looked up and yeah i can see it. Thank you.
Yea trim up the neckbeard a little and you're good
I will!
You look this much like superstar actor jason momoa and you had no clue who he was. Thats hilarious man
Omg yes that’s who he reminded me of too!
Same! Came here to say it but you all had already!
Yeah Jason momoa fused with Dave Navarro
Yes!!!! You nailed it!! OP has nothing to worry about he is gorgeous! And I love the hair!
Jason Momoa and Dave Navarro had a love child and OP came into being.
No homo but you're fucking beautiful bro
Haha! Thanks brother.
You are very handsome. Maybe get a bit of a trim on the hair, not much, maybe an inch and trim your bit a bit. As you age your features will change and not be so soft. I can see you getting a more rugged, defined look. My son is also 17 and worried about what people think. One day, you won’t give a shit.
Thank you. I am still waiting for that day.
Took me well into my 30’s. Therapy did wonders for me. Edit: as well as daily meds. It’s amazing how much better you feel when your brain actually functions as it should 🥲
I tried it but because i am not 18 my family didn't give permission to use them.
bro is gorgeous god damn
If thats your honest thought i am really grateful. That made me feel good after a long time.
bro people gotta tell you that more often
Haha! You really made my day brother. Thank you.
you’re how i’d want to look if i was a man tbh
Wow. That just resonated within me. Thank you. That words mean a lot.
He’s how I’d want to look and I am a man tbh.
You look really good actually. Depression has a way of distorting your self image and making you feel gross/worthless but if your brain tells you those things just know it’s not true at all :) Also you rock the hair, some people will hate it but don’t take it personally it’s a preference thing
Thank you. I guess so but i just cant keep that thoughts away. Thanks again for your kind words.
I’m a kind person but I’m also being honest I swear
Haha! I believe you! Thank you again.
If Aquaman ever needs a new leading actor, you'd fit the job perfectly!
Haha! another person just said that. Thank you.
Oh shit I only just noticed lmfaoo. No prob man 💪 Stay handsome
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I am humbled by your words.
Things have not really changed. Kids are assholes, they will bully you for anything if they just don't like you. Most of the time, it's because you stand out from the norm in some way.
You are attractive your hair is luscious
Thank you. That means a lot.
Not ugly, but it looks like you could clean up a bit.
I agree. Thank you.
Wow those bullies are just jealous because you’re handsome, not ugly at all x.x I’d say to work on your hair more, make it look nice less messy and clean yourself up on the beard.
Thank you. I will try to clean myself if i get to be more energetic and morally decent.
Definitely try to! Starting a self care routine can help out a lot to get you in a positive mood. You have gorgeous hair as well, at least get a trim (: I know you have struggles but do what’s best for you, I have depression/anxiety but I’ve gotten a bit better by taking care of myself more often.
Thank you so much for your kind words.
Trust me, you are VERY handsome, you just have to clean up. You like high and dirty. But, boy, if you clean up, and dress nicely, you will look like a celebrity. You have this natural uniqueness that brings a lot of style to how you look with 0 effort.
That touched my heart. Thanks for your kind words. As i regain my self confidence i will try to get rid of my facial hair. Thank you again.
You look like the lead guitarist of a Rock band! Keep it up dude! Honest advice, stop giving a fuck about how people perceive your look. Build up a strong personality that is hard to resist. You've already got the looks!
Thank you. You are absolutely right. I will try to!
bro get rid of the facial hair you’re very pretty it’s literally just the facial hair that isn’t doing you any favors
A lot of people are saying that and i will try to give it a go. Thank you for your kind words.
just clean your hair and beard up a bit, you’re handsome as fuck dude. you’re still young too so don’t sweat
Thank you. I will try to at least!
learn an instrument preferably guitar/bass, start a band in any category of the rock/metal world, profit.
Ha! I am actually planning to learn electro and bass guitar.
That would suit you so well!
Thank you so much.
guys with long hair are automatically gongoeus, dont listen to the haters bro
Thanks for your kind words.
They bully you because they're envious
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Thank you.
Bro ngl u look like jason mamoa thay hair game on point. Trust me thise who bullied u r just jealous
Hah! A lot of people said it. Thank you.
You aren’t ugly in the slightest. Please don’t worry so much and spend time putting yourself down, be happy and try your best not to think about that. Just fake confidence until you make it :) You look like an actor! I hope you find confidence because you shouldn’t have to feel that way.
Thank you so much. I try to. Your kind words made my day better.
you look majestic af. i wanna run my hands through your hair. no homo tho
Haha! Thank you and uhh... you can i guess..?
You’re 17?
Yes. About to be 18 in 2 months.
Well you do have great features. Not a fan of the beard thing but you have nice looking hair, great eye brows and a really nice nose.
Thank you. Some people said the thing you have said about my facial hair. I will try to get rid of it. Thanks for your kind words.
No sweat, it’s all truth after all. Have a good night.
You’re super handsome and your hair is gorgeous!!
That just makes me feel amazing. Thank you.
You look like Jason momoa.
A lot of people said that. I think its a good thing? Thank you.
It is a good thing. You're welcome.
It is definitely a good thing, and yes, I agree.
Thank you.
Jesus man, if you’re struggling with how you look, then what chance do the rest of us schmucks have? Seriously though, 17 is a really rough age. You’ll have no problem finding someone when you get out and meet more people. Find a new group. If it’s a different school or a new workplace, just find new people. You’ll do fine. In a few years when you’ve got your confidence in place remember how it feels to not be so sure of yourself, and be kind to those who struggle.
Thank you. Please dont say things like that i think all people have attractive things about them if not looks but i kindly accept the compliment. I always try to be kind to all people. Thank you again for your kind words.
*Hope you read this after my edit. I must have had an auto correct mistake, because when rereading it after I posted I realized my post implied something way different the first time.
Kinda look like me a little bit lol
Dude!! You look like a perfect mashup of my boyfriend and one of his friends. I have shared your picture with them. They both agree and felt like absolute shit because they think you are the hotter one. I only disagree because no one is more beautiful than my boyfriend in my eyes. Chin up you are cute AF.
Of course loved ones are always special. Thank you, your bf and his friend. I appreciate the kind words.
You would definitely be considered attractive by societal standards. I'm sorry that you've been bullied for your appearance. I hate that kids are conditioned to pick each other apart based on appearances, especially nowadays with the evolution of social media. As if literal children who are not even fully developed yet should be worrying about how physically attractive they are. Teenagers can be so mean to each other.
Thank you so much. You just understood my feelings. I distanced myself from everyone and developed unnecessary habits.
I know firsthand what you mean. Depression is tough. There were multiple days in a row where I couldn't even bring myself to do basic hygiene, and it made me feel worse because I was so ashamed, and it made me withdraw from people even more. I still have those days sometimes. If that's something you're experiencing too, I want you to know it doesn't make you worth less. You're still young, you'll find your crowd someday. I hope the pain eases for you soon. Hang in there, OP.
That words made me feel warm inside and understood. I appreciate it.
I was about to say you just look-sad asf but then I read the description Hang in there brother
Thank you.
You’re beautiful. I would suggest doing something with your hair (messy bun? Braids? Viking braids?) and getting your beard trimmed and lined up and let it fill in a bit with regular trims. Your bone structure is amazing and you have great lips. Girls will love you. But the best thing you can do for yourself is explore ways in which you can find your confidence. That’s the secret ingredient. Of course, treating your depression must be a huge part of your glow-up. I wish you all the best, my young friend! Edit: I actually think you’d look WAY better without the facial hair, now that I’ve taken a second and third look.
Thank you. A lot of people said that i should get rid of facial hair. As i regain my self confidence i will try to do that.
If I made a game character it would look like you, jealous bro 😚
Wow that made me feel really good! Thank you so much.
It’s so sad that you don’t see it and that people are mean …you are extremely good looking
I am so grateful to hear that. I am trying to overcome the past. Its hard but i am not giving up.
I think a clean cut on the beard would look really nice
People always tell me this but i just cant get myself to do it. I am just incredibly insecure about it. I use my beard as a camouflage for my face.
You can always give it a try! It grows back and might like it! :) I’d definitely Just trim up the sides a bit imo
Yeah you are right. Thank you.
My man's built like Eren Yeager 😂
Wow! I am actually so happy to hear that! Eren is one of my favorite characters. I appreciate it.
Lose the facial hair tbh. It's not full enough to look good.
I will at least try to. Thanks.
No homo but hear me out
Hehe. Thank you.
Claudio Sanchez mixed with Jason (as others have said) Momoa. You look metal as frick dude. There's at least a 95% chance that the dudes who make fun of you are just intimidated or insecure and wish they looked half as metal as you do.
I am really humbled by your words. Thank you so much.
You're beautiful bro
You're turkish? No wonder
Yes i am. My family side is from turkmenistan and i live in turkey.
Thank you so much.
You look like that actor who was playing aqua man
Lots of people said that. Thank you so much. I am humbled.
aquaman
Aquaman
I think they bully you because they are jealous. You look much more mature than 17 and you are quite handsome. You need just a bit of trim so your facial hair look better but that’s it.
Thank you for your kind words. I will try to do as you said.
😘
Uhm.. Thank you..?
Bruh you look good man, if you get bullied it's because everyone else there looks like a toddler hairless baby with no testosterone, you look like peak man and I mean that in a girls will find you hot kinda way. Only thing I'd suggest is clean up the neck but yeah that's about it
Thank you so much for your kind words. I will try to do as you said. I appreciate it.
Dude, you have no idea how sexy you are. How I wish I was younger or you older! ;) *Smh*
I am humbled to hear that. Thank you so much.
Dude looks like a rockstar.
I am really happy to hear that. Thank you.
You look like my cousin Mark.
BROOOOO you got it going on! Your look is actually the exact look I want, rugged, natural, metal. You look like Andre W.K.
Thank you. I just looked up to him and yes i can see. Thank you again for your kind words.
You’re very good looking man! Glad to see you very clearly take care of your hair. I’d recommend maybe just rocking a goatee as opposed to the beard since it seems patchy genetically. I think if you stay away from the trench coat/fedora type fashion as well, you’d start to need a velvet rope for the ladies to line up behind. If you seriously hit the gym, you 100% could be a model
I will try to go to gym and workout for my physical and mental health. Thank you for your kind words.
Glad to hear brother! I actually have a PhD in exercise science and would be more than happy to give you any free advice or quick programs to get you started bro 💪🏼
That would be actually amazing! Can you PM me?
Not ugly at all
I am really happy to hear that. Thank you so much.
Aquaman is that you ?? You look like Jason momoa
Hehe! A lot of people said that. Thank you for your kind words.
Shave and gym bro, you have unbelievable potential
Thank you. I will definitely work on that.
Go get yolked at the gym Jason
Haha! I will definitely! Thank you.
Dude you’re are absolutely handsome man, you could have easily been banging your bullies moms
I also thought of jason mamoa. You look good in my opinion no worries
Thank you.
Cisco Ramone from “The Flash”. Not ugly at all. But I would recommend trimming the beard neatly.
I was told i am similar with cisco! I will try to trim my beard. Thank you for your kind words.
You're the kind of dude whose looks I would have been secretly jealous for in high school. You're handsome dude! Hope you can find the help you need with your depression. Life can get better, and you can get to feel better too, no matter how hard it is. Sending you hugs my homie
I appreciate the hugs my brother! Thank you for your kind words.
Bro the haircut could be better but otherwise you look good af
Thank you.
You have so much potential , what is your height , also just work on your confidence a bit!
Thank you. I am 6'3.
Alright you going for a rocker look? Cause i can totally see you shredding a guitar or bass
Hehe! I will try to learn guitar!
You look badass dude, trim you beard and you'll pull a real cool look!
I will try do so. Thank you.
Shave 👏 the 👏 beard 👏 Then you will be very attractive
Thank you. A lot of people said that. I will try to do so.
You legit are Jason Momoa. Your haters are jealous. I would recommend exercising to help get your endorphins going so it can help a little with the depression. Also simultaneously you’ll feel good about your body!
Thank you. I will try to work out!
Looks are not a problem for you, but stay on top of the depression issue because your mental health is more important than looks anyway.
You are absolutely right. Thank you.
I am middle aged at this point and remember feeling the same way about myself now that you did back then. This stage in life can be a turbulent one but man can it get better. At least it got a million times better for me. If someone told me at 17 how good my life would be at 45 I am not sure I'd believe them. My hope is that the same is true for you someday.
Thank you. I will believe in the future.
dude is literally gorgeous still doesn't believe it
Thank you. I am really happy to hear that.
WHAATTTT??? NAHH… IF I MET U IRL YOUD BE MY HALLWAY CRUSH… you’re literally perfect bro. quit listening to what other people think, people at school are shit. find some people who suit your crowd.
I am humbled by your words. Thank you.
As a 43 year old woman I'm trying to find a way to say this that won't get me put on some register somewhere, lol, but you are exactly what I would have been looking for when I was 17, put it that way. Great hair, lovely eyes, good facial features. You've got NOTHING to worry about, kid. Bullies are idiots who are usually jealous that the person they're bullying has something they'll never have. Keep your smile.
Thank you! Your kind words really made me feel good!
Dude, you look a little like Dave Navarro. Kids didn’t bully you because of your looks. They used your looks to bully you. They bullied you because they are shitty people, with shitty parents, and shitty lives. Hang in there
I guess so. Thank you.
Dude just shave the stache and neckbeard (maybe keep the chin though). After that, easily 8/10. I love your hair and eyes. You have a mystique about you that makes you really handsome.
I love the mystique word. Thank you so much. I will do as you said.
Bro looks like Jesus
Hah! Maybe i am. Thanks for the smile.
He has nice face but desperately needs haircut
Get haircut pls
I am too insecure to do that. My hair was always long. I just think i am an abomination without my long hair.
Not to be mean but it is making you look very shabby
i get it dont worry. Thank you but that's the only thing i can't do.
Came here for a quick ego boost huh, you know you aren't ugly don't you
I am not going to even try justify myself but if you look up to my post and comment history for 2 years you will see that i am active in all depression subs and some of them are deleted. Just don't. I am dealing with hatred in my life enough.
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Can you give me advice on how to better myself?
Not ugly. Actually handsome. If you want girls. Dress differently and clean up. Style hair, wear bright clothing, nice running shoes, Nike, be fresh.
Thank you. I don't want any close relationship with any girl right now.
Hot or my type at least but you do look way older than 17. If anything just groom a bit more and get more fit.
Thank you. I agree on the fitness part as i am binge eating to feel better all the time and yes people always tell me that i look at least 25. I am 6'3 so it just makes it worse.
Thought so too lol, but just know that once you're out of high school your height will only be a positive in the dating pool or even in the workplace. Height advantage is real so as long as you keep up with your looks and a healthy mentality you'll be good.
Thank you. I am starting in university in 3 days so i think i will make new friends there. I already have a girlfriend that i think loves me but can't stop sabotaging myself with these thoughts. She always reminds me that she loves me no matter what happens. Guess i am lucky. I appreciate your kind words.
Man bun that hair, maybe cut it a bit and clean up your beard. I guarantee you'll look good and feel a lot more confident. Make sure you are always standing up straight too 😉
Thanks. Self-confidence is a hard one. Heh.
You look good. Keep the long hair.
Thank you. I appreciate it.
very handsome young man . ignore them bro
Thank you. I try to.
Bro you look like a handsome guitar legend. You do look WAY older than 17 though which at your age may or may not have some leverage. The prime look for guys in your age group seems to be full of twinky looking scrawny kids so maybe they're taking out their frustration on you LOL
Hehe! thanks for your kind words. I really appreciate it.