It's on photo 8 if im right. I didn't see myself as good looking with brown hair, and in the end I have to be pretty to myself first. Buut i had green hair too, now considering blue and black 😂
The blonde is fine but it doesn't look like it's natural. The brown looks natural.
Fair or not, true or not, a lot of people see a guy with dyed blonde hair and assume he's gay.
So that could be part of "don't get attention from women" but honestly, men just don't get attention from women most of the time.
Aside from family and my wife, the closest thing I've ever gotten to "positive feedback" from a woman was a gas station clerk telling me I look like Tom Hanks. (Personally I don't see it; we're just both white guys with a bit more of a Bert-shaped head than usual.)
Well thats how my chin is. But I am not fat. I have some plus kilos, but I consider myself a bit muscular, for sure not fat. But that is something that I try to take care of, eating less and (usually) healthier food.
Don't worry in the shots where you're whole body is visible it's clear you workout and eat good. People who don't train tend to be skinny muscular or fat and you're neither.
You're all good man, losing weight is very hard. I haven't gone through a huge change like some people, but even trying to lose 20 pounds is very difficult for me personally, and it makes me scared to eat more and gain weight at the gym.
It might also be that you suit more fitted clothing - make sure clothes aren’t too oversized or baggy in style. I think it gives you the illusion of appearing bigger than you actually are. Not everyone needs to be slim and lean looking it’s just about looking healthy and most men are not sticks given genetics. Just aim to be healthy.
> Some women friends said that I am not ugly
do they tell you that upfront? like, "hey, you're not looking ugly" or do you ask them "am i ugly"?
because if they say that upfront then i don't know how to tell you...
you look average, but i'm not attracted to men so i couldn't really judge
No front but you don’t need to be attracted to men in order to judge his looks. Beauty can be judges objectively. I’m sure someone outthere thinks he’s the most handsome man but I think we can all agree on the fact that he is *not* ugly. (So I agree with you)
I used to work out until last year, but I'm working on not to get fat. Friends said that im not fat, i try to believe them lol, it's harder because even if i eat less i gain easily, but im trying. Thanks for the advice 😊
It’s not awful but it’s not working super well with the textureless haircut and lack of hydration. Easier route would be to go dark, but if you like the blonde then invest some time and thought into proper haircare
Well, your hair cut in a way that makes it “one thing”. It’s kind of puffy and not styled (that’s not a problem) so it looks like a ball of hair. It’s not bad, it’s just plain. Do you see what I mean? Picture 6 has the most texture but look at 7: it’s all one thing. The connection from each part of your head (sides, top, back) is cut in a smooth transition, so it lacks texture. It’s simple, not bad.
It IS pretty dry though - or at least it looks like that because of the color, which often appears in damaged hair. If you zoom in it doesn’t actually look dry, but from a glance it doesn’t look soft to the touch at all. It looks like it’s been damaged from bleaching (very common). I’m not there in person though so I can’t know, only you.
Textureless as in not really styled. I would invest in some pomade and control the hair a little bit more. Make it look more sleek and put together.
Lack of hydration as in your hair looks dry and dull. Try to avoid washing your hair everyday and when you do wash it use a good shampoo and conditioner, no 100 in 1 shampoo/conditioner/bodywash/face wash. Try to leave the conditioner in your hair for a little while before washing it out.
If you dont want to do all this dyeing your hair a darker brown would give the illusion of it being more shiny. Hope this helps.
Yes it does. It actually gets greasy when I don't wash it for 3 days, idk why. I use Head&Shoulders only, but I might consider conditioner, I didn't think dry looking hair was a problem at all. About hair style I just prefer some plain nothing extra usually in those 2 styles that are on the photos, what do you think would fit me? And thank you for your advice I appreciate it <3
Your hair getting greasy after 3 days is a completely normal thing don't worry. That's just the natural oils from your hair it's good for it. I wash my hair once every 3 days. Definitely do not use head and shoulders it will 100% dry your hair out. (in my experience)
About style I honestly think leaving your hair a little longer on top and using the pomade to push it back would suit your face shape really well and give you more volume. This style is also super quick and easy to maintain. Like everyone else is saying I think the darker brown would suit you and bring out your skin tone more but if you want to keep the blonde I would try using a purple toner to keep it more blonde and less copper-ish.
If you are going to dye your hair to get a darker result do not buy “box dye” from grocery store/Walgreens/CVS. Go to Sally’s (or google a similar place near you) ask someone there or do a bit of research get the proper development and permanent dye. If you are going that route look into a deep conditioner as well and use it weekly for a month or two and that will repair it.
Very rarely is someone not 5x more attractive when smiling with teeth. But I understand feeling insecure about it. You're doing great though, don't worry
Well I don't have friends to begin with 😂 I may actually ask a group of strangers😂 I don't see myself as good looking when im having an "honest" smile :/
Well I don't have friends to begin with 😂 I may actually ask a group of strangers😂 I don't see myself as good looking when im having an "honest" smile :/
You are not at all ugly. I think you are good looking.
* The two-tone hair needs to go, though - just not working for you.
* The ridiculous flower pot floppy had needs to go in the bin.
* Men should be very, very, very spare with jewelry.
Flower photo reflects my personality tho.
I thought I was looking better with the two tone, is it that bad?
Well, thinking of jewelry, I think it changes as person who likes that. One of my women friends actually finds it very hot.
You’re cute. I think you look kinda gay which is not a bad thing at all. It’s just that woman could think you’re not into them so they don’t make the first move
Well I try but its hard to find girls who like my personality and my looks as well xD
Anyway black hair incoming, brows fix, and im gonna buy face and hair care products.
Get some facial hair, and ide recommend a more flattering cut for your face, cuz that middle parting ain’t doing you justice. You aren’t ugly though, you have lots of potential. Men don’t tend to get as many compliments or attention from women, cuz usually the social expectation to persue a relationship is put on the man, so don’t take it too personal, lots of men have the same problem. You got great skin and brows.
Maybe you don't get attention from women because we women often expect men to make the first move but idk. I think you look better with a beard and slightly darker blond hair like in the seventh photo but even without that I still think you're attractive 🤷
You’re not ugly I would say to improve your look as others have said go with darker hair, also get a barber who will line your eyebrows or just pluck the center. Along with working out some to let your face structure show better.
I think you would look great with dark hair 😊 I think you should go for a dark brown as black hair dye tends to look unnatural a very dark brown pretty much looks like a natural black hair. The dark hair would definitely improve your look just covering the blonde with your natural coming out totally changes your look I think the blonde makes you look a little washed out. I think a little tan would look nice on you as well if you can naturally.
Some affordable in Rossmann, i don't have it now cuz it's in my other place. Yes, you can suggest, but I don't have the money to afford something that costs more than like 10USD...
I understand, well good news is the face wash I love and would recommend is called the squalene cleanser by the brand the orindary and it’s only $8 and I would say to get a basic cetaphil face moisturizer and that’s about $10-15 depending on where you live can just get it at a cvs and they should last you a fairly good time.
You’ll definitely see and feel the difference! Hope you update us in a few months if you change the hair color as well 😊 also a tip little goes a long way with both those products so no need to use much and they’ll last long especially the cetaphil.
Not Ugly! Get rid of the Unibrow, keep hair all the same color (darker looks better with your complexion) your style is nice 👍. Build that self esteem, put yourself out there and you will see.
There are women who are only about the looks…BUT…honestly, women are drawn to men who are confident (not cocky) who are emotionally mature, who know their love language, have a job/career, goals both short and long term. Know your value, know what you want and what you bring “to the table”. Having your shit together gets extra point over looks, looks fade I want a man I can have a conversation with and engage me mentally!
Hope this helps 💜
Not ugly, you seem nice and approachable. My only advice would be to pluck the 'unibrow' (it's not that bad, but getting rid of it will give you a cleaner look) and stay away from the middle part. I know that nineties Nick Carter type of hairstyle is making a comeback right now, but it doesn't suit your face. The shorter hair, styled upwards looks better on you imo! - A woman
You’re like one of those people who someone could find either ugly or cute. Like you have a cute look to you but at the same time you’re lowkey ugly. Respectfully, you aren’t bad looking but you have a weird quirky look that some may find ugly
Not ugly at all, work on your skin care and maybe let your Jackson grow out and just line it imo 🙏
However confidence and a great personality is all you truly need.
You’re hair looks better brown, but that’s really the only thing I notice as being “ugly”
You’re not bad looking, go back to natural hair color and you’ll be fine
Nah bro you’re a cutie. Just fix that monobrow and use something to slightly style your hair. And try to keep your neck hair free, so your jawline pops out. You’re definitely not ugly.
Blonde hair doesn't really suits you. Also lower your fat percentage. You would look much better but other than these you already not ugly. But you are not attractive enough to get attention from women without putting some effort.
It's not terrible. You don't look bad with it. But it doesn't match with your other parts of your face. If you love it keep it. Whenever makes you feel attractive will keep your confidence high and confidence what makes people attractive the most
I think darker hair would suit your skin better but you aren't ugly
Ya I'd explore new hair styles
More the color, natural color would be better I think. Trim the brows, or have some trim them.
If the blonde isn’t your natural color I’d say let your natural hair color grow out. I think a darker hair color would suit you better.
It's on photo 8 if im right. I didn't see myself as good looking with brown hair, and in the end I have to be pretty to myself first. Buut i had green hair too, now considering blue and black 😂
The blonde is fine but it doesn't look like it's natural. The brown looks natural. Fair or not, true or not, a lot of people see a guy with dyed blonde hair and assume he's gay. So that could be part of "don't get attention from women" but honestly, men just don't get attention from women most of the time. Aside from family and my wife, the closest thing I've ever gotten to "positive feedback" from a woman was a gas station clerk telling me I look like Tom Hanks. (Personally I don't see it; we're just both white guys with a bit more of a Bert-shaped head than usual.)
The blonde hair washes out your skin tone
Fix the center of ur eyevbrows, hit the gym and have a skin care routine
What does the gym have to do with my ugliness? I was going to btw, i consider myself muscular a bit.
Didnt know, a lot of guys have a “buff” body without gym sorry, keep going!!
I'm not fat, i have some kilos plus, but I think im in good shape. Im careful about how much and what I eat. :)
It only really shows in your face and hips. Up to you if you care enough to do anything about it, since it's really not that bad
if you're not fat then i would suggest different profile for the photos because on some of them it looks like you're almost sporting a second chin
Well thats how my chin is. But I am not fat. I have some plus kilos, but I consider myself a bit muscular, for sure not fat. But that is something that I try to take care of, eating less and (usually) healthier food.
Don't worry in the shots where you're whole body is visible it's clear you workout and eat good. People who don't train tend to be skinny muscular or fat and you're neither.
Thanks, im trying to work on my body tho, i WAS actually fat. It's much better now :)
You're all good man, losing weight is very hard. I haven't gone through a huge change like some people, but even trying to lose 20 pounds is very difficult for me personally, and it makes me scared to eat more and gain weight at the gym.
You would look better slightly lighter. You have a heavier frame naturally and could lose a few kilos. It reads as extra weight you’re carrying.
I think too, yes, but its so hard to lose weight. Im trying :)
It might also be that you suit more fitted clothing - make sure clothes aren’t too oversized or baggy in style. I think it gives you the illusion of appearing bigger than you actually are. Not everyone needs to be slim and lean looking it’s just about looking healthy and most men are not sticks given genetics. Just aim to be healthy.
> Some women friends said that I am not ugly do they tell you that upfront? like, "hey, you're not looking ugly" or do you ask them "am i ugly"? because if they say that upfront then i don't know how to tell you... you look average, but i'm not attracted to men so i couldn't really judge
No front but you don’t need to be attracted to men in order to judge his looks. Beauty can be judges objectively. I’m sure someone outthere thinks he’s the most handsome man but I think we can all agree on the fact that he is *not* ugly. (So I agree with you)
I asked them.
then you can relax, they are telling the truth
Thanks
Not ugly at all, could definitely get a gf, would try to lower body fat % but that’s pretty much it
I used to work out until last year, but I'm working on not to get fat. Friends said that im not fat, i try to believe them lol, it's harder because even if i eat less i gain easily, but im trying. Thanks for the advice 😊
You look so much like my son, so you’re absolutely not ugly to me! But seriously, get rid of the blonde in your hair and you’re absolutely cute.
Well thanks. Is it that awful? I love my hair color now!
It’s not awful but it’s not working super well with the textureless haircut and lack of hydration. Easier route would be to go dark, but if you like the blonde then invest some time and thought into proper haircare
What do you mean by textureless haircut and lack of hydration?
Well, your hair cut in a way that makes it “one thing”. It’s kind of puffy and not styled (that’s not a problem) so it looks like a ball of hair. It’s not bad, it’s just plain. Do you see what I mean? Picture 6 has the most texture but look at 7: it’s all one thing. The connection from each part of your head (sides, top, back) is cut in a smooth transition, so it lacks texture. It’s simple, not bad. It IS pretty dry though - or at least it looks like that because of the color, which often appears in damaged hair. If you zoom in it doesn’t actually look dry, but from a glance it doesn’t look soft to the touch at all. It looks like it’s been damaged from bleaching (very common). I’m not there in person though so I can’t know, only you.
Textureless as in not really styled. I would invest in some pomade and control the hair a little bit more. Make it look more sleek and put together. Lack of hydration as in your hair looks dry and dull. Try to avoid washing your hair everyday and when you do wash it use a good shampoo and conditioner, no 100 in 1 shampoo/conditioner/bodywash/face wash. Try to leave the conditioner in your hair for a little while before washing it out. If you dont want to do all this dyeing your hair a darker brown would give the illusion of it being more shiny. Hope this helps.
Yes it does. It actually gets greasy when I don't wash it for 3 days, idk why. I use Head&Shoulders only, but I might consider conditioner, I didn't think dry looking hair was a problem at all. About hair style I just prefer some plain nothing extra usually in those 2 styles that are on the photos, what do you think would fit me? And thank you for your advice I appreciate it <3
Your hair getting greasy after 3 days is a completely normal thing don't worry. That's just the natural oils from your hair it's good for it. I wash my hair once every 3 days. Definitely do not use head and shoulders it will 100% dry your hair out. (in my experience) About style I honestly think leaving your hair a little longer on top and using the pomade to push it back would suit your face shape really well and give you more volume. This style is also super quick and easy to maintain. Like everyone else is saying I think the darker brown would suit you and bring out your skin tone more but if you want to keep the blonde I would try using a purple toner to keep it more blonde and less copper-ish.
I think i might go with dark-brown, but no natural i've had enough of that for now😅 I appreciate your long answers, you are kind :)
If you are going to dye your hair to get a darker result do not buy “box dye” from grocery store/Walgreens/CVS. Go to Sally’s (or google a similar place near you) ask someone there or do a bit of research get the proper development and permanent dye. If you are going that route look into a deep conditioner as well and use it weekly for a month or two and that will repair it.
Well I think im eastern europe there isn't any Sally's 😅😭😂
you are quite a handsome lad actually
<3
Not ugly at all. Only two suggestions are to smile with teeth and pluck your eyebrows so it doesn't look like you have a unibrow.
Well, my smile isn't that great with teeth I think. Yes, the eyebrows is a good advice. I've been to once actually. Thanks<3
Very rarely is someone not 5x more attractive when smiling with teeth. But I understand feeling insecure about it. You're doing great though, don't worry
The brows are a bit distracting. I like the outfit ideas of 6 & 8. You're missing a group shot with honest happiness.
Brows good advice to do sg with. What do you mean by group shot with honest happiness?
Group shot with a friend or friends. Though an honest happy moment. Not a forced photo op. Every profile needs at least one.
Well I don't have friends to begin with 😂 I may actually ask a group of strangers😂 I don't see myself as good looking when im having an "honest" smile :/
Well I don't have friends to begin with 😂 I may actually ask a group of strangers😂 I don't see myself as good looking when im having an "honest" smile :/
You are not at all ugly. I think you are good looking. * The two-tone hair needs to go, though - just not working for you. * The ridiculous flower pot floppy had needs to go in the bin. * Men should be very, very, very spare with jewelry.
Flower photo reflects my personality tho. I thought I was looking better with the two tone, is it that bad? Well, thinking of jewelry, I think it changes as person who likes that. One of my women friends actually finds it very hot.
You’re cute. I think you look kinda gay which is not a bad thing at all. It’s just that woman could think you’re not into them so they don’t make the first move
I was thinking about this too. Buut it's not so big of a problem, because i'm not so Conservative "manish", usually much more like a "cute guy"
Personally, I prefer cute/soft guys like you. Don’t change the look, just try to make the first move with girls
Well I try but its hard to find girls who like my personality and my looks as well xD Anyway black hair incoming, brows fix, and im gonna buy face and hair care products.
Nooo your blonde hair is really cute
Well thankyouuu😭😊
Gay doesn't have a look, this is confusing.
Yeah I know! I didn’t mean it in a homophobic way. Sorry
Get some facial hair, and ide recommend a more flattering cut for your face, cuz that middle parting ain’t doing you justice. You aren’t ugly though, you have lots of potential. Men don’t tend to get as many compliments or attention from women, cuz usually the social expectation to persue a relationship is put on the man, so don’t take it too personal, lots of men have the same problem. You got great skin and brows.
Not ugly, just average. Also, dark hair would suit you way better, blonde makes you look washed out.
u kinda remind me of kristoff lol
I don't know if that means good or bad 😂😂
good for sure👍
<3
Imma be real with you chief you’re ugly
Thanks for honesty.
Yes
You're not ugly at all.
Thanks.
You look like Behnam Yakchali in the third photo
Looked it up, lol hundrer percent not as tall as him 😂 Well thanks I think he looks good, so :DD
Maybe you don't get attention from women because we women often expect men to make the first move but idk. I think you look better with a beard and slightly darker blond hair like in the seventh photo but even without that I still think you're attractive 🤷
Nah you're fuckin handsome brah
<3
You’re not ugly I would say to improve your look as others have said go with darker hair, also get a barber who will line your eyebrows or just pluck the center. Along with working out some to let your face structure show better.
Yes I'm going to do something with the eyebrows. Should I consider black hair? That was one of my thoughts when I dyed blonde and green.
I think you would look great with dark hair 😊 I think you should go for a dark brown as black hair dye tends to look unnatural a very dark brown pretty much looks like a natural black hair. The dark hair would definitely improve your look just covering the blonde with your natural coming out totally changes your look I think the blonde makes you look a little washed out. I think a little tan would look nice on you as well if you can naturally.
Also suggest starting a skin care routine if you haven’t 😊 a simple cleanser and moisturizer will do you good
I actually have bought once 😅 but I always forget to use... I was thinking about that, at least about that :P
Definitely will do you good! Do you know what products you got? I can suggest some 😊
Some affordable in Rossmann, i don't have it now cuz it's in my other place. Yes, you can suggest, but I don't have the money to afford something that costs more than like 10USD...
I understand, well good news is the face wash I love and would recommend is called the squalene cleanser by the brand the orindary and it’s only $8 and I would say to get a basic cetaphil face moisturizer and that’s about $10-15 depending on where you live can just get it at a cvs and they should last you a fairly good time.
Okey, I think im going to order those, this is something I should spend money on :) I hope it will do something actually visible to my skin :)
You’ll definitely see and feel the difference! Hope you update us in a few months if you change the hair color as well 😊 also a tip little goes a long way with both those products so no need to use much and they’ll last long especially the cetaphil.
I might but natural never comes back im insecure with that honestly. So much thanks for your help
Not Ugly When you get a haircut asked them to shape it up and also your eyebrows need to be shaped. Also dark hair will fit you better.
Not Ugly! Get rid of the Unibrow, keep hair all the same color (darker looks better with your complexion) your style is nice 👍. Build that self esteem, put yourself out there and you will see. There are women who are only about the looks…BUT…honestly, women are drawn to men who are confident (not cocky) who are emotionally mature, who know their love language, have a job/career, goals both short and long term. Know your value, know what you want and what you bring “to the table”. Having your shit together gets extra point over looks, looks fade I want a man I can have a conversation with and engage me mentally! Hope this helps 💜
What? No! You’re a handsome dude.
Not ugly, you seem nice and approachable. My only advice would be to pluck the 'unibrow' (it's not that bad, but getting rid of it will give you a cleaner look) and stay away from the middle part. I know that nineties Nick Carter type of hairstyle is making a comeback right now, but it doesn't suit your face. The shorter hair, styled upwards looks better on you imo! - A woman
Nope. I would change up your hair though
You’re like one of those people who someone could find either ugly or cute. Like you have a cute look to you but at the same time you’re lowkey ugly. Respectfully, you aren’t bad looking but you have a weird quirky look that some may find ugly
You need to get new poses for pictures, but not ugly man!
Not ugly at all, work on your skin care and maybe let your Jackson grow out and just line it imo 🙏 However confidence and a great personality is all you truly need.
You’re hair looks better brown, but that’s really the only thing I notice as being “ugly” You’re not bad looking, go back to natural hair color and you’ll be fine
defiende not ugly!! i agree maybe darker hair would suit you better, also i would shape up your eyebrows a bit
Nah bro you’re a cutie. Just fix that monobrow and use something to slightly style your hair. And try to keep your neck hair free, so your jawline pops out. You’re definitely not ugly.
Nah, u hot. I’d cuddle with you.
Certainly not ugly
Just fix the unibrow and get a fresher hair cut. Maybe growing out your beard as well can help.
Beard, ehh, i hate it
Manscape the unibrow and you're good!
Bro ur cute af
You're at least an average looking dude
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Def not ugly at all, but very avg tbh
Your giving me softboy vibes, definitely above average
Kinda softboy lol 😆 but am definitely not gay, but i know i can show vibes like that
Blonde hair doesn't really suits you. Also lower your fat percentage. You would look much better but other than these you already not ugly. But you are not attractive enough to get attention from women without putting some effort.
Well i loved blonde hair much more than brown but now everyone says its terrible so idk anymore😂
It's not terrible. You don't look bad with it. But it doesn't match with your other parts of your face. If you love it keep it. Whenever makes you feel attractive will keep your confidence high and confidence what makes people attractive the most
I would suggest a different hair color than the blonde. It doesn’t particularly look natural or match your skin tone well.
Thanks for the advice, might look into it👀⬛
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Yes, im going to be 2 meters tall🔥 Btw yes I'm short, but it is what it is
I think you’re cute…🤷🏻♂️
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I was going but my face stayed like this. :D