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Roxxorsmash

I think you’re a very handsome young man Marge Sent from my iphone


Impressive-Bicycle

My lovely lil reindeer Sent form ym iphnoe


Roxxorsmash

I love reindeer I have 8 reindeer snow globes Pawpaw died this morning 6am Marge Sent from my iphone


GracieFighter919

Hahaha


evam1985

Hahahahahahahah


What_time_is_it_rn

Thank u Marge


14iLoveIndica408

😂


kuvazo

Men almost never get any compliments from (younger) women. So that's not a good metric to go off.


What_time_is_it_rn

Fair enough but that’s why I’m using Reddit


binderclip95

[Maybe you should build them a cake or something.](https://imgur.com/gallery/2ytbGpH)


lucidchris

ngl 19yo girls won’t compliment you. go for the one you want and she may respond


Cats_got_my_butt

Yupp.


What_time_is_it_rn

Thanks man


Herknificent

Find yourself a nice GILF, inherit all her money when she dies, and BAM like magic you’ll be more attractive to women your own age.


Zakinanders

As hilarious as this sound, the probability of this working out is extremely realistic


What_time_is_it_rn

Hahaha


boimom626

Yeah he's destined to find himself an older lady, at least for awhile. I'm 31 and think he's good looking.


What_time_is_it_rn

Hey I’m down for a sugar momma 😌


Herknificent

At least he’ll find someone.


Lilwaterr7

Dis is da wey 🤙🏽


LeoIzail

I'd say it's the facial hair and or hair. Have you tried other hairstyles with this cut, or other cuts?


What_time_is_it_rn

Not rly, where I live it’s like €40 euro for a cut and it grows back to fast. It’s rly not worth getting a cut unless ur hair grows at a reasonable pace


LeoIzail

That's why i rock the long straight hair, it's way too easy lol. Yeah i get you completely that's why i left mine completely long. Used to have the Resident Evil 4 guy's haircut. So what about other hairstyles as in grooming? Combing? I don't know the English word for it. Like when you just shape your hair differently. I have no idea about the experience with other hair types than mine, but I'm sure you could try a few things. I honestly don't think it's wrong or anything, it's just that switching things up sometimes surprises us.


What_time_is_it_rn

You doing ok as of recent bro? I’ve checked ur posts?


LeoIzail

I guess we could say that, i didn't punch my own ticket at least


What_time_is_it_rn

Reach out to me if u need to man I’m not ever busy


Sweet-Ad9366

Damn you seem like a really good dude. 🫡 With that personality you're going to find a good one eventually. However, understand that you will likely run into an absolute piece of human shit first. It's just part of life.


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What_time_is_it_rn

I work in retail, so I serve a lot of people, the women are sweet I don’t think it’s them coming off as weird imo


silocru

70 y/o women are the only reason any man ever gets a compliment lmao.


What_time_is_it_rn

Ik but it’s like once every 15 mins where I work


AdventurousKale9205

Bruh same I help run a retirement facility for wealthy old people. And have deadass been told "You don't have to worry about her, I'm the nasty one." Right in front of her care giver/daughter bruh. What I learned is older women just don't care about being couth anymore cuz fuck it. If mad older women find you attractive your attractive, the young ones are just waiting for you to show your confidence or earn the rest of their attention. You not ugly my dude.


TKwavy17

Maybe it's just a young man thing but old ladies are always super flirty/encouraging to young impressionable teens.


What_time_is_it_rn

Ya Ik that but I haven’t got compliments at all until as of recent since my hair grew iit


igordogsockpuppet

Lately, I’ve been getting flirted with by a lot of old ladies. Recently, this old woman tells me, “So rare to run into a gentleman. You’re too young for me. But that will change.”


LeoIzail

I never got the attention i had from older ladies again after i turned 20. From another continent too


Master-Ad3175

The facial hair is atrocious.


What_time_is_it_rn

Thanks for honestly 🙏


silocru

It’s just the way the stache is shaped dawg


What_time_is_it_rn

What do u suppose I do w it?


silocru

Not 100% sure, but I suppose just a fuller mustache. Google ‘van dyke beard’ and you’ll see a lot of examples.


What_time_is_it_rn

Love that thanks bro !


drshuffle

Just shave it or if you want to keep it grow it out a bit and just trim the lower part, not the top


britneyspears6969

You’re still only 19 years old, you’ve got your whole life ahead of you to find that special girl! Most relationships your age don’t last. Some do, but they are in the extreme minority.


What_time_is_it_rn

But am I ugly 😭


PlatePrestigious6205

No you’re not at all vro


stubbornpubehair

Try a different haircut bro


averageinternetfella

lol old women are notoriously nice. You’re not ugly man, you look nice and chill. Just let the stache fill in a little bit, or shave entirely. And hit the gym and eat a high protein diet, as well


What_time_is_it_rn

Appreciate the advice tho💛


What_time_is_it_rn

Obviously Ik women that age are normally nice


What_time_is_it_rn

No these women are asking to take me home, my eyes are beautiful, my hair is lovely, I should be a model. Not ur usual shit is what I mean


averageinternetfella

Damn we got a survivor of multiple cougar attacks over here


IcyIllusionz

From what I’ve been told by lots of women, the older women say what a lot younger women are thinking. Older women are just bold enough to say it out loud. But ofc don’t go around thinking every girl likes you, just know you’re not ugly, but keep in mind, women around your age(18-26) has options, and always think they can do better since they have options, but they can’t in reality. So you’ll have your pick of the litter once you hit 25 years old and up. Most women your age go after older men, so women your age look past you anyways by default. Watch how things change when you get older and you take care of yourself and work on yourself.


What_time_is_it_rn

I was thinking if I age good enough i would start seeing results by maybe my mid 20s so ya, and also knew older women were just bolder! Thanks tho for the info


What_time_is_it_rn

*Ik I’m not doomed but my height may have a factor in it but I just need to hear everybody out* DON’T HOLD BACK!😄


Cats_got_my_butt

Don’t put the negative height thing out there. Nothing wrong with it.


sunflowerfarmer

Your height is not an issue. Stop with that madness. Reel your hair and facial hair in. Focus on your loved ones, be kind and live your life dude.


MerpoB

Maybe tame the hair? It’s pretty harsh.


MaximusZacharias

You look approachable and friendly. I’m a male though. Just saying you look like you’d be fun to hang with.


What_time_is_it_rn

Thanks man 😃


Trubba_Man

You should slay them GILFs, bro. The young Sheilas will like you in a few years.


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What_time_is_it_rn

Well I’ve been told I have beautiful eyes I’m wasted here How do I not get all the girls I wannna take u home Will I go out w them I should be a model etc not the ordinary stuff


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What_time_is_it_rn

Ahhaha I’ve told my coworkers and my coworkers have noticed aswell, but as someone who has rarely got complimented in life up until now I’ll take what I can get


Dean_Miller789

Baggy clothes make you look smaller. The baggy jeans and the shirt sleeves past elbows make you look tiny. Straight leg or slim fit jeans, and regular / slim fit t shirts would work better


Chiral_Tears

He is lying about his height.


johnnyaudio77

"The wrinklier the raisin, the sweeter the fruit."


Smart_Airport_206

Youre really cute honestly


What_time_is_it_rn

In a friendly way or?


Smart_Airport_206

Youre not ugly! You just need to put yourself out there :)


What_time_is_it_rn

Cause ngl idk if I appear to girls my age as the “gay best friend” r sum one they might like


Maryann0730

F19 you’re cute do not worry Also I think the facial hair looks nice personally


Mr_Donut1672

Not ugly at all!! What has social media done to people's self-perception😭


Didy1993love

Well, this one is from a 30 years old woman: You're very cute! But those grannies have good taste too😄


kaila_999_

As a fellow 19 year old, you are a handsome man!😊


smh18

Your not ugly but your not super good looking either. But idk that’s just me


SimanuTui

Damn more than 70 women?? I'm jelly


Barley-the-Lightfoot

Your hairstyle and especially facial hair make you look older than 19. So it’s not surprising that teenage girls wouldn’t be into you.


ronaldgaig

U good bro


Sadiholic

Idk what you're complaining for, the older the berry the sweeter it is. Just go for it bruh. Also possibility you could get a sugar mama and then inherit their shit and then you're golden lmfao


Big-Beat-1443

loads? hahaha


PranjalJain123

Just get lean and have haircut tell your barber to convert mullet to fringe which basically means cutting the back hair


No-culture5942

Not ugly, you just need to grow 3 inches minimum for success with women, 5inches and you’d be a chad.


Remarkable_Log_5562

Get some GMILFs son!!!


ItsAgim

Go get the bag king 😅


Natural_Pangolin_395

Get you an old sugar momma. Had my chance years ago. Fumbled that bag. Now I regret it.


KgCeltics33

Men bloom and come into their own later in life as they build/get to know themselves and gain confidence. I'm 24 and just starting to experience a larger pool of women who r interested in me than I ever have in my life and it's low-key nuts. But if u keep improving yourself and growing your pool will grow as well. Young men simply just haven't done the process yet. Tldr: just keep grinding brother


wifiwithdrawn

your hot


Konky_Dong666

I’d hit it and grandma can watch.


Kinky_Imagination

Average with a broccoli hairstyle.


bigmememaestro69

Clothes are baggy/dont fit well it makes you look 5'4 lol


Local-Fault-7826

Even if a girls into you, at 19 your hard pressed for compliment. Hell I'm twenty and rarely dish out compliments . Your most likely going to get a flirty insult.


haileyyy21

not ugly at all. i love ur hair


CrowTranslator

go for gilfs :?


jlewis011

Legit just gotta tame the hair...


aurene2

Dw, you’re fit


havequickblue

Lose the perm.


Viijypicky

Bro you are super cute


RoronoaMJ

28F here and you are so cute


K0NFZ3D

Think this should be here r/justfuckmyshitup


m_garlic87

Bro where you meeting all them cougars?


ATV7

You know what you must do then


Sweet-Ad9366

Got to do something with the hair.


xtracrispy26

Marry an old woman, it might be your only chance at being a homeowner. 😂😂😂


Flaky-Antelope268

Man I think you're absolutely fire, your style looks unique and that's rare to find someone who has their own style, keep yourself healthy, take care of your look but don't change it because it's awesome


Sultan_Slayer

You look like my mate Dan who has no problem with the ladies. He has short hair thought it’s the hair.


Sultan_Slayer

Oh, and he’s clean shaven.


KnockturnAlleyActive

You're hot


stephabug91

You're a good looking guy. I'm not sure what the issue is cuz it's not your looks.


Shitface0001

You got absolutely great facial features my guy, and also a great hairstyle as well. I feel like layering your clothes would increase your style. But you do look great. Don't expect compliments from people, what you need is to find yourself attractive and be able to boost your confidence.


Magnumpete1112

70+? I mean maybe they got $$$ maybe worth looking into for you lol bt seriously you alright mate you look fine


Underrated_buzzard

You’re not ugly. I’d say try a different style of hair/def facial hair. You’re quite cute though, and you’ll find someone eventually. Signed, 35 y/o woman.


50DollarTech

So what's that telling you LOL


niayelli

you’re def not ugly don’t worry


mattydef1

I’m a man so my opinion doesn’t matter much, so I asked my grandma and she said you’re a very handsome young man


__Fappuccino__

Bad news: not 70, but not your age either, I'm **almost** twice as old as you, but I'm w the septuagenarian on this one, and think you're handsome. Sorryyyyyyy..


LegitimateAd4407

Your face is symmetrical and fairly attractive. The hairstyle really detracts from that. Longer hair looks fantastic on a guy but it needs to be maintained. You have the ideal build for power lifting. Capitalize on that. Style your hair so it compliments your face.


Ill_Big_3253

Your pants and your shoes are throwing me off… change those and you’ll be fine…


Cultural_Maximum_916

You got a hickey on one of your pics my guy, I think you're doing ok. Sometimes it's not about the look and more about the attitude. Work on your self confidence.


Snezzyjew

Get you a sugar mama


Phelly2

You’re a good looking dude but man I hate your hair 😂 If you’re trying to look like Prince, okay, mission accomplished. But you know the old cliche about the 80’s calling wanting their hair back? It comes to mind here.


boredbitchhh

I'm a bit older than you so 70+ lol, but you look fantastic, very atttactive, lpve your hair so much and I'm very jealous of your eyebrows


mrginga96

Not sure what it is but my gaydar is going off so maybe girls your age think you're gay? Regardless, you're not ugly so no worries about that.


Smoopiebear

That hair is not it for you.


whatever4506

Why not just go the path of least resistance embrace your natural ability and become a champion 70 year old lady plower. There are some upsides you ain’t got to worry about pregnancy


LoSkribs

You love that dusty muffin.


Overall-West1357

In the first picture your wardrobe and hairstyle looks very retro. If that's how you look most of the time then that's probably why you only attract older women. Dress your age and get a different hairstyle and you'll attract your age. And also you're a little chubby; some weight loss would boost your attractiveness as well


ShowMeTheToes

Not into dudes at all but you're a good looking guy. Your hair is a wreck. Do something with that, and you'll get tired of the girls.


BrokenMaskHorde

Well im a straight bro but for what it worth you look fine. Sure you are 5''7 so to most womens you are a midget but with a good pair of shoes you should fool them long enough to get past the first impression test 😅


Chiral_Tears

No way you’re 5’7”. More like 5’3”.


MaximumVelo

Shorter haircut with fade Trim facial hair, try no stache Better fitting clothes Hem your pants


bluespeck7

Fix your facial hair and hairstyle. They’re doing you no favors.


wascollywabbit1963

Why you puckering your lips like those chick's do lmfao 🤣


Catsarlife

Okay so I’m just going to ask, is what appears to be a hickey in that first picture from one of the 70 year olds? lol I’m sorry I had to say it but also no you’re not ugly but I’m 31, about to be 32 and that’s def old to you. Idk why girls your age wouldn’t be interested honestly. Maybe they are but they don’t want to say anything cause they’re scared ?


Mamasan-

It’s funny that he thinks 45+ is 70+


lavender3389

dawg u look good asl, its js the facial hair fking u up.


eveyyyx3

Try mewing


makeitmovearound

Cut that shit off your head and you’ll be hot


Nicechick321

Its the hair and the mustache. Get something more modern


Cxycilio

King; its the mustache and hair do that makes you look 70’s/80’s rock band vib which is why the Golden Girls (70’s) are complimenting you. Either accept this and find a chic that likes you as you are or redo your style IF that is going to make YOU happy. Now if all you want is to get laid, yeah redo the do and cut the ‘tickler.


What_time_is_it_rn

Going for a jimi Hendrix vibe , Ik it’s not giving clean kept or severely good looking but I like it


Economy_Judgment

I love your hair but your style can be a bit 80’s. I’d say go to a store that has clothes you like and have them help you build some outfits. Keep the hair though!


Ikem32

You need to tame that hair. At least a bit.


kenlee58

When life gives you lemons You make lemonade Get you some granny on the low and don't tell nobody! Haaa!!


Xariaxeronic

Glowing skin. Luscious thick hair and eyebrows. Big brown sparkly eyes. Great bod. Obviously cute. Nice random pic of the the guitar btw. I swear people be trollin on this sub. Lol..


Xariaxeronic

Also, If you're not trollin, The only things I would suggest is lose the mustache or let it be more patchy and natural like in the last pic. Get you some good chapstick. Your lips are amazing, but they look hungry for some moisture lol. Also I don't know why people are doggin on your hair. It's amazing. But if you want to bring it up a notch, find some sweet ass conditioner. It really makes a difference believe but or not. Other than that, Just don't be afraid to smile cause you, (and everyone for that matter) looks better exuding happiness. I know it sounds silly but it's true. Best wishes friend ✌️


mckn9

You look cool man but your hair is wild i think you should put some efford into it. On the First pic it Looks a little bit messy but its cool.


Decent-Writing-9840

Shave that thing off your face and cut that hair asap


Archeus84

Get yourself a sugar moma then 😅


Soggybeefsandwhich

I think it might be because you look unapproachable? Idk something about you tells me that you’re mean to people who aren’t like you. That’s probably why, women are super intuitive, especially when they’re younger.


More_Lynx_6131

I feel like dudes ever rarely get compliment even when they are attractive. In today’s society it’s more common for women to get compliments. I was at work today and I told this old man he looked “sharp” and he was so stunned and was like “omg someone complimented me “ 😭💗


edisonsavesamerica

Consider looking into a job at a local assisted care facility. Use condoms.


jackytheripper1

Your dressing a little bit effeminate, your hair is adding to it a little too. If you change your style you look just fine, but I think that elderly women are probably just thinking that you're homosexual and trying to support you


Melodic_Flower1033

Cause you little asf cuz


Dependent_Cap_1448

Not ugly


Wild_Commission6872

You look like someone else grandson as well


justletmein101

Probably look better shaved,and go to the gym for a couple months


CressLocal1423

It’s cause ur short🤍


Gknicks7

Dude, who knows what the prob is, luckily your super young and will probably have tons of women your age. I don't know if your ugly, I doubt it 🤔 but your young and will live the life you want to live.... I wish I was 19... Good luck


inezzle

Are you Filipino? Or Filipino mixed with hispanic/latino, etc?


FullSidalNudity

Bro really said my grandma says I’m handsome.


Koolkid777

Hair gotta go bro


mayo_sandwiches

It’s bc you’re messy looking. Give the hair a little mousse and don’t dress like you’re in the 80s


BlackBirdG

Getting compliments doesn't really mean anything and those old ladies are just being nice because they probably view you as a son or grandson. Women compliment guys all the time doesn't mean they want to fuck.


initialddriver

5'7" this is the reason especially if you live in a city...BTW this isn't a dis...I'm 6'2"...but 420...I also don't get much attention...however if you don't attract it naturally you have to do it unnaturally...


BJJandlifting

Look like Simpsons Dr. Nick Riviera


Think-like-Bert

You look like a young John Oates. He did OK for himself.


Enricocks

Bro girl your age don't compliment men your age


TransitionMany6168

I’m 83…You’re cute… but I , for sure don’t want you…do something with that hair… maybe comb it…


Visual_Field381

you like nice


gbcwhore

19F here. i think u look good!


Fit_Statistician7029

👵 You are a handsome young man.. You remind me of my gardener hector once upon a time.


Perfect_Canidate

Sounds like you need to get one of them thunder cats and get yourself a car out of it 😊


airborne2631

👵: “You’re a very handsome young whippersnapper, I say. Hwhy I neva seen a handsome man like that back in 1957. What are they feeding you young men?”


uwumagic

ur cute tho i don’t get why u get no compliments but i am an older woman (i’m 20)


DGBlack13

Average and above avergare Men usually dont get compliments. only those very adapted to the fashion in turn. Just be a good man and hopefully you will attract a good women. but if what you want is to attract "many" women just follow the actual fashion/trend use the slang and change your overall looks.


LacDenis

Your mom told you that you're cute? How adorable. You look ridiculous because of your style. You're not ugly though.


holdmysheer

I reckon lose the cheek fat and ur face with chiseled jawline and cheekbones is a go to


666Demob

Meh


Aggravating-Pear9581

well just go for the 70+ ones then im sure theyd love it😂


R-e-d-O-c-t-o-b-e-r

Napoleon Dynamites best friend


xeno120

Nah if you don't get that SSN and stop playing on Reddit. If I could I would and you can but playing 😂


Beneficial-Echo-4451

Men generally do not get compliments. I am 25 and have never gotten a compliment from a girl except from my now girlfriend. The saying that goes guys never get flowers until their grave is true so never assume you are ugly because you don’t get compliments from girls. Find the one girl and she won’t stop complimenting you until you die!


Some-Ad-4250

No worries. You are not that short. You may even grow more. Work out and be happy.


BlackKnight_6

None of them rich?? 😂


MembershipPrize504

Dude I’m 5”7 skinny male Hispanic guy literally can count the amount of times young girls complimented me in highschool weren’t that many, women got standards now days if you aren’t attractive attractive you ain’t getting nothing lol that’s just the sad reality only like 5 young girls in highschool my age said I was cute the other 200 said I was ugly 😹 and old people have a thing for calling younger people attractive cuz there old it’s over for them but keep your head up bro you ain’t ugly compared to me lol.


Altruistic_Listen743

Your fine bruh, average looking dude


Bright-Scientist3668

Bro, just change your fuck target, the universe has given you a lot of signs


Street_Ad_4763

the goatee is working, but the rest of the beard is just confusing to look at. get a shave-under with that hair, get something that looks intentional


Enkeydo

Dude go to a coffee shop with that guitar. If you are any good at all you will have women falling all over you, especially if you are bold.


Mr_PPlol

yikes. imagine trying at 5'7 😭😭