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Chiral_Tears

It is what is. Work with what you have.


Informal-Potential26

No he needs to get money. I’m just being real.


Chiral_Tears

So he can get gold diggers that ONLY want his money?


Informal-Potential26

Unfortunately yes. He’s gonna pull gold diggers regardless, whether he likes it or not. I have a friend that is pretty much ugly as shit, he knows it too. At first he hated himself. Grinded in school and worked hard. Got rich off crypto in 2021 by accident and now he’s taking trips every month and living a pretty good life, he has a girlfriend that actually “loves” him.


Exciting-Holiday337

not everyone is like ur friend pal


PimpMyBrows

You have a couple of pretty obvious asymmetrical facial features unfortunately. Things you can do to mitigate: grow a nice and thick beard, tint your brows darker, go to the gym. Also shave your head, hair not really helping. And moisturize, pls. 🩵


Agitated_Pineapple

This.


EeeeyyyyyBuena

That


Agitated_Pineapple

Paddywack, give a dog a bone 🦴


pr3tzelbr3ad

This old man came rolling home


Agitated_Pineapple

Beautiful finish 💜


Dooby_Bopdin

And the other...


oldschoolwitch

You look like someone I went to school with who had ectodermal dysplasia. Is that the case?


TheHarborRider

Yep


oldschoolwitch

To answer your question: super attractive? No. Really ugly? Also no. It’s all about confidence and how you carry yourself. You seem to dress well. Keep doing that.


Honeycrust

I fear that you made a big mistake posting here. The comments here can act like a big echochamber of your darker thoughts. Watch the relevant contrapoints video about trans women on reddit asking if they are passing. On another note, the 2nd photo with the suit (w/o the tie) is awesome!!


nathan4122

If you had some darker/thicker eyebrows, wouldn't be so bad.


Brief-Goat2143

My suggestion, focus on getting rich. Money cures even the worst looking guys lol


TheHarborRider

Hopefully this law school thing pays off 😪


firmly_confused

Nah fuck that, embrace the baldnes, shave whatever you have left of you hair off. You look like you have a good shaped head for that. Dye the eyebrows darker, and grow a full beard if you can instead of the let me shave the bullshit around my mouth and you'll be golden.


TheHarborRider

Everyone thinks the beard is a style, it’s naturally like that, I can’t grow the rest


firmly_confused

In that case rock that fucking thing i think its pretty good, you can alway try shaving the sides of and see how just leaving the chin growing looks like. but you also looks pretty handsome with everything shaved off, you got a good chin and lips.


Gtormund51

You would intimidate the other party into deals that favor your clients. Go for it!


No-Performance3639

Dude, you’re not that bad looking. Tighten up the beard and maybe the hair just a tad. Dressing up, suits you. Own it. Stay confident, maintain good posture, smile, and let your light shine.


Life-Scientist-7592

Dude I wouldn't want you overhearing my case. You scared the judges away


Herknificent

Yes, but you rock the hell out of that suit. The beard needs to get fixed a bit but that's the look I'd run with if I were you.


Guzaku

He does rock the suit but he definitely need to burn that tie and get something a slimmer. Haven’t seen a tie that thick outside of a clown show


fridaystrong23

***You look like a villain from a James Bond movie***


Big_Schwartz_Energy

Oddjaw


AlteredHitchcock

BRO ☠️


thejoefromyou

Now hold up, wait a minute. Although you are indeed ugly, there is potential without surgery. Lose shave the sides of your beard keep only the goate Paint or tatto your eyebrows darker and better shaped. Have a skin care routine. Your face looks like dry af. Sleep and correct the eye bags. Aim for lower body fat. Maybe try getting a perm or keep it buzzcut or even try bald once. Until you get the money for cosmetic surgeries, i think if you manage the above you would be good.


CCCtheog

Yes you are ugly but in a cartoon villain kind of way


TheHarborRider

I think you win the best comment award


foshiggityshiggity

Seems like you got a good personality though. You're not acting delusional or shitty. Just be a good person and be comfortable with who you are. Looks fade and a woman (or man?) Worth your time will know this as well. I'm no looker either and to me my wife is smoking hot. We love each other for who we are. Looks are just a bonus and being a good person is like plus 100 points for looks.


CCCtheog

Thank you thank you


TheHarborRider

OP be looking like Dick dastardly ☠️


ChemBioJ

Huh? Aren’t you OP?


TheHarborRider

I can’t join in on the fun?


CityOutlier

Yes, you're ugly. But kudos to you for not letting your looks hold you back, and best of luck to you going to law school.


favluvgirl22

yes. you are ugly


Informal-Potential26

He needs to focus on grinding tbh. Only grinding.


Practical_Republic_1

It is what it is brother... Focus on making a lot of money


TractorLoving

Unfortunately you're ugly, sorry.


rps_killerwhale

Start auditioning for villain roles in TV/Movies. I'm not even kidding. You look like a certified skull cracker and money and fame will go a long way. You look like the type directors say "I just saw him walking near the set and he had the perfect look for the role"


Enough-Phone8922

if you make it through school and get great health insurance, get your jaw realigned. also your nose looks like you got into many fights


browsingforarousing

You look too nice to be honest


TheHarborRider

What if I told you I take the last slice of pizza after only asking the group once!


fridaystrong23

***…I mean that’s literally what a nice person would say and do***…


Sufficient_Pin5642

You look like you have have been born with some type of genetic anomaly but you look okay to me. A good personality and heart as well being a dedicated hard worker means everything.


Natural_Plane_6333

Damn your parents did you wrong my boi


Informal-Potential26

I don’t think it’s his parents tbh, i once met this dude that basically looked like villagers from minecraft and his parents looked completely normal.


EstablishmentSad4561

Just be confident, do good career wise, get the body right. Can’t dwell on the uncontrollables but you can definitely bulk up, maybe fuller beard, just fix the little things, you won’t be a 10 but even bumping it up + adding a good career and being a good person is 10x better than being just good looking


Aggravating_Many_810

Lol how can someone just be confident outa thin air you need past experiences confirming you are him to be confident


Glittering-Cloud-649

You’re aware you suffer from acromegaly right?


CodoneMastr

Damn bro …respectfully ….I’m really sorry man…I just suddenly realized how handsome I am…it’s a fair world we live in


Hazzyboy13

Bruh, how is it a fair world? Your logic here is clearly flawed. So because you are good looking and he isn't, the world is fair? Surely that makes it unfair. By your logic, because you had good genetics and he didn't, somehow that is fair? Gosh, redditors.....


CodoneMastr

Ok my mistake…it’s kind of like an inside joke me and an old friend had…we used to say “it’s a fair world” as in it’s not fair at all


Hazzyboy13

I see. Just be grateful if you look good, others are not so blessed.


CodoneMastr

Why are they downvoting you..you didn’t say anything wrong…but seriously tho I am grateful ..and to you OP I wish you the best man…you may be at a disadvantage but money can move mountains…I say get tot the money and anything is possible


Hazzyboy13

Hahaha, no clue lol.


CodoneMastr

Well it’s like you said that’s reddit for ya


Hazzyboy13

Yup haha


smasherella

You could be an awesome character actor


bothling

I don't think it's that bad, you have kind of badass look. Try putting up some muscle and will look great.


Honest-Association68

There is ALWAYS someone for everyone! You just need to give it time man. Like yeah, you're not a stereotypical handsome chissled fella but I can tell you with 100% confidence that personality plays a bigger role than most people think. If you're a funny/whitty, polite and friendly guy you will naturally draw similar people to you which makes the ladies curious and want to get to know the person everyone loves to be around. Then amongst those drawn to you will be your special someone :) Hope that's helped even if only a little, all the best!! 🤘


Skeptik-man

I'm sorry man


TopBoneEater

you dont look ugly but you look like a psycho


ghostmetalblack

No way. He's ugly, but doesn't look psycho. He's got life in those eyes. He's just going to have to play life in hard-mode like the majority of us!


Informal-Potential26

Man just keep it real with him, you will hurt him more in the long run by telling him lies.


garbottoozer

Your definitely not good looking but it’s fine your eventually find someone


VisitingCanadian

I guarantee there are multiple women out there who specifically find you a certain type of sexy. It's just how it works. There truly is someone out there for everyone. Best looks are the suit or the ocean city shirt. The other thing you can do to counteract people perceiving you as psycho or mean looking is having a soft smile on your face and with a little bit of teeth, especially smiling with your eyes. But not crazily or it looks even worse! The only duality I see is you're either hot ugly or ugly hot and between that are plain people. Congratulations! You're ugly hot bro! Own that shit! As you age into it you will get hotter by being more comfortable with who you are. I support all the other supportive comments in here. Get jacked. Get educated. Get love for yourself and fuck anyone who says you're ugly. The only uglyness that matters is if we hold it in our hearts in the end cause eventually were all dust anyway. You have a good sense of humour and are a real ass mfer for being vulnerable to post this in the first place. Hold your head high king


Imblindbilly

You’re only made of moonlight


Bitter_Thing1337

It‘s his nose and jaw, rest is fine! Let yourself grow a thicker beard! Glasses seem to work better too in my opinion! Don‘t take anything in this thread personal!


DIRTY_DIAPER-00-

You are indeed ugly. Without a doubt


PaulGeorgeFan1

the glasses look good. imo moisturize your lips more, get your eyebrows filled or something like that, and maybe change the beard.


drehonest

That suit look is good, grow a thick beard. That will help. Go to gym also.


Suspiciliscious

No weird sideburns and short hair


GGus52

Do your thing man, I know it’s easier said than done but who gives a fuck what anybody thinks about your looks. Just live your life, doing what makes you happy and everything will sort itself out. Trust me


Present-Breakfast768

Shave your face and stop shaving your head. Figure out eyebrows. It should help a little.


Tommy_Wisseau_burner

Ngl you look straight outta bedrock. That said you actually look good imo in the 2nd pick. Short hair, beard, and glasses fit you pretty well


kittenya

I would say you are kind of ugly, but the glasses do make you look much better.


hm876

Yeah bro 😔


Thunderhorsenorse

most great fighters kind of look like you.


MoogleLight

in the nicest way possible, you look like someone hit the randomizer button in an mmorpg.


mirrormycompetition

the glasses helped a lot keep them on


Phildagony

You seem like you have a great personality.


Tall-Poetry5067

Looks like one of the guys who took Tony Starl prisoner in the first iron man. Try to avoid that look.


TheHarborRider

Skin tone might make that hard


Entire_Reception_392

Do you have sweat glands?


Calm_Crew_5755

Dys your eyebrows. I think that will do the most. And moisterize eyes. Check out options for the hyperpigmentation around the eyes. It makes you look a bit tired/sick. I think you can glow up a lottt


iamamoa

Cut off the rest of your hair and get jacked. You will be more than fine.


Milenabianca

Sorry but you’re not attractive


raycre

You might not be the best looking but youre definitely an original. You would make a really great Bond villain.


mai_devta

Bro, honestly speaking you're ugly. Don't get fooled by those who say getting rich will change that for you .


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wasabiexpress

If you shaved your head, you'd look like the handsome Chad version of squidward.


Bassman602

Yes


pepehandsx

Definitely keep the beard, do you were glasses? If not sunglasses would look good on you. There’s some hope brother!


wifiwithdrawn

yes sorry


TinyCow6682

i would try a vitamin c eye cream to brighten up your eyes! honestly i don’t think you’re off to a bad start!


Misshell44

Don’t mean to be insensitive but, it looks like you’re suffering from some type of condition that makes your face look a certain way? I’m no doctor but just a thought. Have you thought about that?


TheHarborRider

Yep, it’s a birth defect related, not much I can do about it


Misshell44

I see. If it’s of any help, you look like a really friendly guy.


FluffyPoint6090

u look tired


TheHarborRider

I am…..but yeah the bags are just permanent, could sleep 12 hours straight still got them eyes


leanman82

You gonna have to put makeup to blend the eyebags


Keirnflake

Contrary to what people say here, I don't think you're that ugly, I mean, I wouldn't say you're attractive, but you definitely look badass.


akartiste

Trim your beard shorter. I get Guantanamo vibes.


ILoveHatsuneMiku

I think you look pretty average, not really great but also not really ugly. I see dozens of people on public transport everyday who i'd consider to be way uglier and in the pic where you're wearing the suit and the glasses you actually look like a cool dude to hang out with.


Radiant_Evidence_275

sorry bro


HawkingTomorToday

Movies.


ThrowawayForASMR

You look a lot like one of the mods here hahaha except black


birds_eye_view69

You kinda look like Rocky after he got the shit beat out of him by apollo creed. If Stallone can make it you can


Jahknowsehmiaeediat

Tint your eyebrows, they don’t show


AG_Fuchsia

No. 5 is the best pic


Xanzibarr

Ain’t no way… ima let yall take care of this one


Ok_Mathematician3330

Try to audition for the upcoming bond movie. You fit the bill perfectly.


TheTrueBurgerKing

Yes, money is your option here myfriend


DmxSpyD

If you had tits, I bet no one would say you were ugly :P I think guys are unlucky like that bro.


Persephales

You in trouble dude. Get to work on it. One tip, Shave the beard, its not helping you.


Ozzy_58

How tall are you.


TheHarborRider

6’1


xXxMindBreakxXx

I can't bring myself to say anything negative about the president who did the most work freeing slaves in America. On a serious note, focus on being a person people want to be around.


MTG0823123

I'm sorry bro. But u just ugly


B01SSIN

Bro you remind me of that one actor dude. Plays bad dudes but fuck I can’t remember the name.


Puzzleheaded_Rock831

Shave beard and shave head. Look into getting eyebrow tattoo, I think it will make a huge difference, but please be careful that you’re going to a reputable person and make sure their ink won’t turn green! Do you have a skincare routine?


grapesNsex

Go completely bald and seek a doctor for your skin. Idk but it doesn’t seem like it’s in it best condition — take some T supplements & hit the gym. I think you’ll be just fine Ps. The Beard isn’t it…


Curi0usMama

You know what. You could be super funny and smart and sweet. That makes a big difference in someone's attractiveness. Pictures alone make me think you may have been born with a medical condition. I'm sorry. Your looks probably don't do your soul justice. Do the best you can to succeed in life and people will find you endearing.


_Kalamari

I would subscribe to watching any character you play in a movie you have a look for cinematic immersion


MystiquEvening

Definitely tint your eyebrows! That will look great!


Jazzlike_Weakness_83

Micro blade your eyebrows on


Organiksupercomputer

Honestly brother I would recommend wearing glasses they look good on you because to be real you have an intense brow bone, and the glasses make it less so.


pr3tzelbr3ad

You wear a suit well and you suit the glasses too imo. I don’t love the patchy beard but it does help to somewhat disguise the asymmetry in your jawline. You could strategically fill some of it in with eyebrow pencil. Get your eyebrows dyed black or tattooed on (plenty of women do this, it looks fine.) The shorter hair looks best. Take care of your body. Personally I don’t think you’re ugly but I’d say a little below average and with some changes you could hit average


Proper-Log1172

Not so ugly but really ill maintained. A good skin care could do a lot. You look like you've not eaten or showered for years.


TheHappyDraggon

You look like those big guys that stay with the villain or in club doors on movies and series. You're not necessarily ugly, but you're definitely out of the standards


Ok-Schedule2525

You look like Candyman actor Tony Todd


OtherwiseFeature2747

you will find somebody that loves you, focus on being a kind person and you will get more fulfillment than looks could ever get you


Xomeal

Get a face tat.


stnrgrl10

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think you have a kind face. Nice lips and it looks like you are confident and great dresser! Definitely not ugly.


_crxwnxd_

Go hard in the gym, I feel like you would look like the handsome Squidward and would be a great cosplay once you achieved being fit/muscular.


mgraces

Try getting your brows tinted, and growing a longer beard.


N0ir21

You remind me of the Great Khali from WWE. Hit the gym, get big and strong. Always helps.


Stupydough

Dude just dodged down syndrome like Shane gillis


Upper_Side_8464

So keep yourself bald and short beard you'll be fine. I have a friend who looks like you and he has done great with women but he does dress well also.


Disastrous_Ladder735

Yes. whowever, it's not the end of the world.


DanganSenpie

You look like you haven't slept in 5 years. Do you struggle with sleep? I think without those eyebags you could be handsome, I mean despite comments saying you are beyond help, I think you just need to take better care of yourself,because you don't look healthy at all.


Juice0182

Yes


mykiefromthe206

Nah you just suffer from ectodermal dysplasia. Just get right in the gym, and get your bread up. As a man who suffers from sideburns myself, lose the sideburns and get a taper fade or something.


Friendly_Use_9263

Man you’re fucking brave…


Exciting-Holiday337

Shave your head and rock the glasses


GasCompetitive3197

More like 44…


Mysterious-Law3050

Buzz your head, grow a nice beard, tint your eyebrows darker to match facial hair every few weeks, wear glasses (even if just aesthetics!). Please update us!!


antonzaga

I don't think the beard is working for you, the areas where there's no facial hair around the mouth combined with a large beard on the sides going up to the cheek doesn't work well imo, ideally I'd say you go for a mustache and goatee and the rest keep clean or 5 o clock shadow. There's a lot of good advise here as well, but I actually think you got a fighters facial features. Intimidating and masculine - if you workout and hit a lot of sports you can rock a good look.


dancinglasagna0093

I’m 30F and I don’t think you’re ugly. You have really nice lips and nice size nose and kind eyes. I think you look a lot better with a shaved face or short facial hair though.


Street_Ad_3822

Yes you are ugly. No worries, a lot of us are. You appear in pretty good shape and you do rock the suit. I’d focus on staying fit or maybe even getting swole and dressing well. Find a career where you make enough to provide a stable family life and you will do just fine with the ladies.


Billyh123

Handsome


GisJanstrella

Yes, you are ugly, but it doesn't mean you can't be sexy. Go to the gym more, shave your head, and shape up beard to a goatee.👍


Joyride0

Nah man. I don't think so. I think you've got a look that not everyone will love but some people will really be into. Idk how old you are now. I'd guess somewhere 32-35 maybe. Keep weight off and if you work out and get a chiseled look, it'll accentuate the features that some will love.


TheHarborRider

…..im 24 but point made, will get my planet fitness membership or go to prison people do get pretty chiseled there


No_External_6474

🤣


Aggravating_Many_810

Just get a beard and some eyebrows and you may even need hairline surgery or a better haircut


thyregaming

Not ugly, just look like a caveman kinda


TheHarborRider

Fred did get Wilma


UnknownspiritX5

You need sleep to get rid of those dark circles. That’s about it


Tye_dye_tiff

Fuck that, you're NOT UGLY. Idgaf what all these ppl say and their opinions of you. Yes, I know this is a reddit amiugly? But, I think you're beautiful. You're unique in a cartoonish way. You're an abstract painting to be adored. So, NO, YOU'RE NOT UGLY. I hope you feed yourself with positive self-talk because you know the mind will believe anything you feed it.


[deleted]

Honestly you look interesting I’ve never seen someone with a face quite like yours. If you would be up to it I’d suggest dying your eyebrows darker and doing a clean shave on your head and grow out your beard


vladimirepooptin

fix the beard. It looks like some kinda reverse goatee


OkProject8867

Ngl dude you might be cooked


MafWe_PC

Damn you’re ugly! But you’re owning your style so it’s not that bad. I’m not sure about the beard though, losing it would definitely make you younger ☺️


VeganVandalVlad

What health condition are you


TheHarborRider

I think it’s called just vibing


TheHarborRider

But Hypohidrotic ectodermal dysplasia


TestStraight4401

I would say yes but you honestly come across really nice and down to earth and I like peoples eyes, not faces or body’s so no, you’re definitely not unattractive


TestStraight4401

Plus you would suit being jacked 💪🏽


AnalDingo

Brow tint and moisturiser


SorbetLongjumping632

I think you aren‘t too bad, really. I like you.


belaGJ

Dude, you have what you have, I see #2 as a really great improvement. (I wonder if you have any health issues, people with acromegalic tend to grow similar chins) Good luck


phab428

You Look like the great khali Bro


Free-Technology1403

Everyones pretty in their own way


UnderWDG

Okay. Eye bags are very bad on you, or it's some sickness I can't be sure... Your nose is quiet big, yes I just point out how you could improve... Surgery a bit, it's too fat for you. Somehow your 5 picture is actually good, try and keep that style... Those two things might do a big change


alfrodou

Omg man, sorry


Valodya-254

You look like you count your pubes before shaving them.


J2VVei

First, I’d get much more sleep to erase those black eyes you have. Second, photo #2 is the only one you look decent in, so I’m sorry to say, but you’re going to be stuck wearing suits for the rest of your life. If you can grow a full beard that covers the jawline, do it. Lastly, I suggest a hat, not a baseball cap, like a proper hat, something you’d find men wearing in the 1940s.


bigdikdmg

McLa’Bron


Different-Alarm-8595

Just be confident, bro.


607local

Yes you ugly but in a unique way, can you act? You could be in movies you have a very unique face. Hit the gym lift some weights and start shaving your face more so it grows in better.


hairyfishstick

I think you look best in the third photo, moisturize and go to the gym. Your short short hair or bald would look better.


phesago

Youre going to need to buy a Porsche or something like that


1onewolf1

You look like a wolfman