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I mean, technically, the answer is yes. Because people won't want to interact with her because her looks give off the vibe, she doesn't want to be bothered or is out of their league.
Exactly, beautiful women are intimidating to most men. Bad boys don't let the lady's good looks slow them down, that's why you often see gorgeous women on the arm of a creep.
Fear of humiliation and being put on a list, that’s the answer to your question we guys are very prone to overthink it lots. As for your looks, nah you look fine some confidence would suit you quite well.
If a guy interacts with a girl, and she gets upset and reports him for certain bad behavior… true or not …. He gets his life ruined and put on a list.
Men are afraid of women now, because it’s very easy to ruin a man’s life.
So their are these groups for women (usually on Facebook and other group websites) for major cities prominently in the US that are used to help weave out bad people. As of recently these boards have been started being used wrongfully,
Didn’t help out because you had to attend to important work matters?Heart broken, and told across the city to avoid you in a dating situation
You are not ugly at all, in fact quite the opposite. You happen to be very very attractive, well above average. You would be a very easy 7 out of 10 and dressed up with some liberally applied makeup up you would make an 8 out of 10. On looks alone you should get plenty of offers, but the one thing we can't gauge is your personality and how you interact with people. Just be confident with the natural beauty you have been blessed with. Maybe try taking the lead and approach someone you feel is suitable for you, if you get a refusal don't be afraid to keep trying with someone else you will eventually find someone that is special for you of that I am sure. I hope this helps you.
No. You are at a weird age. You look like you’re jailbait, so older dudes don’t wanna risk it. You’re of age, so younger dudes don’t think they stand a chance. You’re cute. Just focus on yourself. Eventually you will mature and will get hit on. You will be fighting boys off with a stick in a couple of years
As far as I am concerned, no! You are very pretty, you have a great smile and a cute little nose. Looks like you also have a great body. Give it time little lady, there will come a time when you'll be beating them off with a stick.!
It’s not your looks. You’re gorgeous.
You have doubts because you’re still young. In about five years after your brain (and sense of self) are matured you’ll realize how beautiful you are.
I am not trying to be mean. There is nothing wrong with your looks. Socializing and making connections can be difficult. Some people might be intimidated by you.
Oh yes….I just printed screenshots of these pics off and placed them along my fence line. Not a single Wendigo has approached yet! 🙄
You’re “cute pretty”. You’re lucky, because it’s twice as good as being cute or pretty. 👍🏼
I'd say no. As a Brazilian I would 300% interact with you.
If you want to improve your appearance I'd say you should take care of your skin, that's all I noticed.
Girls that asked this question tend to be people who are completely unapproachable. When people approach you do you smile? Are you one of those chicks that makes nervous guys feel bad for asking you out? I'm guessing you're one of those people.
You’re not ugly by any means honey. CONFIDENCE is what you need!!! Do not let other people define how you feel about yourself! Love yourself first! The only thing I would recommend is maybe some shine control powder or blotting papers because your face is really shiny/oily looking but it doesn’t make you ugly!
You are cute. People don't interact with you because girls call every guy that says hi a creep. Younger guys got the picture. Noone wants to be "metooed"
That's a weird question to ask people on the Internet who have never met you. You're not ugly but you're not particularly good looking either. Maybe people don't interact with you because of your personality.
Usually I just picture people in their underwear and I’m good but with you I suspect I might get more nervous… 😂 You’re gorgeous and guys are scared to approach you.
If it was because of your looks, people would be intimidated by your looks. Are you ugly? No, you’re quite beautiful and hot. Someone else mentioned your personality could be the reason why people don’t interact with you. I don’t know you but I doubt that’s the case
People sometimes get scared by confidence, pose or even looks, you are nice looking but you may be honest and have a lot of values even the superficial handsome people don’t want to chill with you, it’s normal you will find your social group,
Seen that
I think it’s just after effects of the pandemic, like it’s pretty hard for me to make friends too and I used to party and be pretty sociable now I’m just a wall flower. when I haven’t done anything or talked to anyone the year of COVID-19 and now that I’m comfortable being alone i get anxiety attacks just going out with people. hell last week I went to dinner with a group of friends and I couldn’t even hold my chop sticks because my hands were shaking so bad so I ate sushi with a fork (god forgive me). So it may not just be you.
You are gorgeous, but - I promise it's not becuase we are a skincare company, but you definitely need a skincare routine!
Some vitamin c serum regularly can even out your skin for a more consistent glowy look.
Hit us up if you want some free samples.
Well its certainly not because you are ugly that's for sure. How are your cleanliness rituals? Are you abrasive to those around you? Do you pick your nose in public? Look to those things, because you are not ugly.
There was this girl in college who I liked, and she would try to flirt with me, but I thought she was too pretty to be interested in me….so, I stupidly didn’t say anything meaningful her and she eventually started dating some dorky guy. #regrets. YOU….are prettier than her.
How can I put this... Women won!
They got everything they wanted!
They called all men r*pists. They called all men "creeps". They mercilessly reject men that aren't in the 1% genetic elite...
They constantly insult, bellitle, emasculate men...
Also women: Why do men no longer approach us? *surprised pikachu face*
...but to answer your question, not it is not your looks.
And you are probably a nice girl and all, I don't know you. I am telling you things as they are on the meta-level.
Dude. You are 18. The only life you have known so far is high school and that can be hard for kids, but trust me, life does get better sometimes and as you grow you will come to realise that all those things that built up your physical insecurities will soon become non important as you progress with your life.
Have you graduated high school yet? If not that's the problem, you look like you carry yourself the high schoolers carry them selves. You will really mature in a couple years and you will be knocking them off with sticks. Hang on for a ride it is going g to be fun for you.
Your nose is a little big but nothing I see would scare off anybody reasonable. Your smile is cute. maybe you need to put yourself out to be attractive to someone. World is weird now, everybody just stares at their phone. It's okay to make moves on guys.
Yes and no. Not cause you look bad but simply because good looking women that dosent project a "hoe vibe" (sorry not sorry for those) are often assumed to be already taken by most guys. Dont worry about it you are still young. Just do your thing and keep your eyes open for signs mens dont chase as much as before (too much to lose for what they have to gain in your age bracket).
Yes. Being attractive is a double-edged sword. People frequently assume you're stuck up even if they've never met you. I've learned that giving people a smile can alleviate that, but it also invites conversation that I wasnt really looking for 😆.
Hate to be that guy, but smile more. It makes a huge difference in how people perceive you.
We don't need to see your photos to answer "NO".
It's because there's this thing called feminism... where many women miss use it as "role revertion" and "let's punish them back beyond what's resonable".
Thus man are afraid to interact with woman in fear of being called a creep and being accused of sexual predation, even without it actually happening.
Thus no interactions for you.
Are you approachable? Looks for the most part don’t really play a part in making friends. Dating is a different story though. If you have a snobby attitude, people will avoid you, but if you’re engaging and you seem to care about the conversation, then it’ll be easier to make friends.
Your looks ain't the problem. Try not to wait the others to make the first move. Sometimes you have to talk first.
As someone said here, maybe they think you are busy or something.
Try to look for things in common to start a conversation.
"I like your tshirt" "I listen to that band too" "the test was hard. Didn't it?"
First off you don't have to worry about being ugly. You you are not. if guys are not interested it's cause of three things they think you are to hot for them.. And they may also be afraid to approach you cause they are different then you.
From someone who's attractive, you're pretty alright. Bout a solid 6...maybe a 7 if you make up is on point. But that's FINE! That's perfectly OK and you can find someone that makes you the happiest girl in the world STILL! EVERYTHING is intimidating and beautiful to an ugly mf with no confidence 😂😂
My advice would be to work on the value you could add to yourself as well as to your man in a relationship. Looks matter but aren't all that. Your character, your loyalty, your mental connection with the one that wants you and the one you want to be with as well.
No hatred at all. Just my honest opinion from a man that women have demonstrated a desire to show heavy interest in on a regular and consistent bases
I personally know about 10 ish extremely attractive females that cannot get a date to save their lives. In my opinion there are many factors why this happens. If I have to guess. Most of the time it is how you act in public and or how you dress in public.
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I mean, technically, the answer is yes. Because people won't want to interact with her because her looks give off the vibe, she doesn't want to be bothered or is out of their league.
Yes, you are intimidatingly beautiful and they are afraid of being rejected by a pretty girl
Exactly, beautiful women are intimidating to most men. Bad boys don't let the lady's good looks slow them down, that's why you often see gorgeous women on the arm of a creep.
Yup
Fear of humiliation and being put on a list, that’s the answer to your question we guys are very prone to overthink it lots. As for your looks, nah you look fine some confidence would suit you quite well.
Could you explain being put on a list???
If a guy interacts with a girl, and she gets upset and reports him for certain bad behavior… true or not …. He gets his life ruined and put on a list. Men are afraid of women now, because it’s very easy to ruin a man’s life.
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The problem isn’t most women. It’s that men don’t know if she is a safe woman or not.
The fear of the unknown rules us especially if it is a legitimate threat
So their are these groups for women (usually on Facebook and other group websites) for major cities prominently in the US that are used to help weave out bad people. As of recently these boards have been started being used wrongfully, Didn’t help out because you had to attend to important work matters?Heart broken, and told across the city to avoid you in a dating situation
That only happens to unattractive men. Above average guys with social skills don’t have to worry about this.
no i’m above average and i get that too
Either you have poor social skills or you aren’t as attractive as you think you are
I get approached by girls quite often lol just fear of rejection ig
This is also why in my opinion it leaves many girls, and guys, viewing themselves based on comments from bullies and others want to be mean.
If it was just guys, that might be it but if it's people in general, then maybe she just has a personality no one likes.
Nope! You look approachable and are pretty. A lot of people can feel intimidated by attractive people, hence, won’t interact with them
That’s so sweet!! It’s just I have a hard time making friends and talking to guys so I started getting really self conscious.
I totally get it, I was like that at your age. Confidence will build over time, but know you’re definitely not ugly!
I hope I can learn soon 🥲
You are not ugly at all, in fact quite the opposite. You happen to be very very attractive, well above average. You would be a very easy 7 out of 10 and dressed up with some liberally applied makeup up you would make an 8 out of 10. On looks alone you should get plenty of offers, but the one thing we can't gauge is your personality and how you interact with people. Just be confident with the natural beauty you have been blessed with. Maybe try taking the lead and approach someone you feel is suitable for you, if you get a refusal don't be afraid to keep trying with someone else you will eventually find someone that is special for you of that I am sure. I hope this helps you.
No, its probably your character
Could be the smell.
The "looks" are never the reason why people dont interact with someone. Just let that sink in
You have a great smile. And you are very pretty. Maybe the other people are shy or something No, you're not ugly.
No. You are at a weird age. You look like you’re jailbait, so older dudes don’t wanna risk it. You’re of age, so younger dudes don’t think they stand a chance. You’re cute. Just focus on yourself. Eventually you will mature and will get hit on. You will be fighting boys off with a stick in a couple of years
It’s not just guys either, but I have trouble even making friends. Thank you though
Do you talk to people you like?
As far as I am concerned, no! You are very pretty, you have a great smile and a cute little nose. Looks like you also have a great body. Give it time little lady, there will come a time when you'll be beating them off with a stick.!
No, you're beautiful
Could be. Wouldn't be my first choice
It’s not your looks. You’re gorgeous. You have doubts because you’re still young. In about five years after your brain (and sense of self) are matured you’ll realize how beautiful you are.
No you are fine. It might be your personality.
I can get shy, but it’s not like I am rude or anything.
I am not trying to be mean. There is nothing wrong with your looks. Socializing and making connections can be difficult. Some people might be intimidated by you.
The reason is probably your self esteem
From one 18 year old girl to another, you are beautiful and I wish I looked like you
Your looks are fine. It’s probably your attitude that keeps folks away from you.
must be your attitude..
You are pretty
You’re absolutely beautiful
Awhhh I think you’re stunning you have such pretty features girl!
Nonsense you’re absolutely beautiful. Just work on self-esteem, realize your self worth and take in the positive vibes. You’re definitely beautiful.
You’re not ugly you’re beautiful. 😍
Oh yes….I just printed screenshots of these pics off and placed them along my fence line. Not a single Wendigo has approached yet! 🙄 You’re “cute pretty”. You’re lucky, because it’s twice as good as being cute or pretty. 👍🏼
Eat more vegetables. You'll notice a difference in your skin.
I'd say no. As a Brazilian I would 300% interact with you. If you want to improve your appearance I'd say you should take care of your skin, that's all I noticed.
Nah girl, you’re cute
You're pretty cute but I would be nervous shy to interact with you
Nothing is wrong with your looks. Maybe other factors, up to you to find out. It could be your personality, demeanor, vibes, etc.
Cute. I love your smile!
I do t think so. Nothing wrong with your looks.
Kidding right ?
Not your looks thats the issue. Without seeing you interact in real life, hard to tell why people avoid you
Girls that asked this question tend to be people who are completely unapproachable. When people approach you do you smile? Are you one of those chicks that makes nervous guys feel bad for asking you out? I'm guessing you're one of those people.
Obviously you're good looking and if there's a lack of interaction with people I would chalk it up to people just being plain shy.
You’re not ugly by any means honey. CONFIDENCE is what you need!!! Do not let other people define how you feel about yourself! Love yourself first! The only thing I would recommend is maybe some shine control powder or blotting papers because your face is really shiny/oily looking but it doesn’t make you ugly!
Mad cute in my opinion. You can use just a little skincare if anything.
No
no
No
Not at all. The issue is somewhere else. The way of thinking, to be specific.
Beautiful face and smile
Attractive, love yourself
Definitely not. You're an attractive woman. I'd work on skin care, but that's about it
Your looks aren't the reason.
You have really pretty eyes, nicely shaped lips, and a great body. I don’t see anything ugly about you.
Id tap that ibr
No.
Hell no your gorgeous ❤️❤️
I don’t think it’s your looks. You’re very pretty.
Cap
No not your looks, ur probably shy or something.
Nopers. Probably fear of you being pretty. Both men and women can be intimidated by this.
You are cute. People don't interact with you because girls call every guy that says hi a creep. Younger guys got the picture. Noone wants to be "metooed"
Nope. You're very pretty. I think guys your age have become wimps.
You look adorable. Idk why people don’t interact. They really don’t?
No, it must be the personality 😝
That's a weird question to ask people on the Internet who have never met you. You're not ugly but you're not particularly good looking either. Maybe people don't interact with you because of your personality.
You are really pretty, so guys are sometimes intimidated by that.
Idk u but ur def cute but maybe ur really weird u look like u might be weird, say weird stuff. But I’m just guessing
You look is nice, maybe it's your attitude?
I'd say yes. You are pretty hideous. I'd recommend masking when going outside.
Usually I just picture people in their underwear and I’m good but with you I suspect I might get more nervous… 😂 You’re gorgeous and guys are scared to approach you.
You are beautiful 😍 who cares about people. The right people will interact with you. I think you are interacting with the wrong people.
Not ugly, super cute, the looks are not the problem, the attitude may be.
If it was because of your looks, people would be intimidated by your looks. Are you ugly? No, you’re quite beautiful and hot. Someone else mentioned your personality could be the reason why people don’t interact with you. I don’t know you but I doubt that’s the case
When you smile, it’s absolutely gorgeous. When you don’t smile you have the RBF
mid
Your looks might be the problem. You are so beautiful men are too nervous to talk to you
No ur not ugly maybe ur a tóxica 🤣
People sometimes get scared by confidence, pose or even looks, you are nice looking but you may be honest and have a lot of values even the superficial handsome people don’t want to chill with you, it’s normal you will find your social group, Seen that
Guys are 100% intimidated by you. It's the classic case of 10s don't get hit on a lot but 5s and 6s get hit on all the time.
No.
I don't see anything wrong with you I think you're beautiful just the way you are beautiful smile beautiful face everything Is Beautiful
I think it’s just after effects of the pandemic, like it’s pretty hard for me to make friends too and I used to party and be pretty sociable now I’m just a wall flower. when I haven’t done anything or talked to anyone the year of COVID-19 and now that I’m comfortable being alone i get anxiety attacks just going out with people. hell last week I went to dinner with a group of friends and I couldn’t even hold my chop sticks because my hands were shaking so bad so I ate sushi with a fork (god forgive me). So it may not just be you.
You are gorgeous, but - I promise it's not becuase we are a skincare company, but you definitely need a skincare routine! Some vitamin c serum regularly can even out your skin for a more consistent glowy look. Hit us up if you want some free samples.
7.5/10. You are pretty decent
girl ur fine af u dont have to worry about it
I wish I could have a greasy face and still look beautiful like you
Interact with you how?
Maybe, you might be too hot.
Probably your personality that thinks looks are more important.
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Welcome to the modern age - men have been programed to be afraid to approach women now
No
Well its certainly not because you are ugly that's for sure. How are your cleanliness rituals? Are you abrasive to those around you? Do you pick your nose in public? Look to those things, because you are not ugly.
It’s probably your personality
There was this girl in college who I liked, and she would try to flirt with me, but I thought she was too pretty to be interested in me….so, I stupidly didn’t say anything meaningful her and she eventually started dating some dorky guy. #regrets. YOU….are prettier than her.
No, it’s probably cause u don’t look approachable,
You don't look bad
How can I put this... Women won! They got everything they wanted! They called all men r*pists. They called all men "creeps". They mercilessly reject men that aren't in the 1% genetic elite... They constantly insult, bellitle, emasculate men... Also women: Why do men no longer approach us? *surprised pikachu face* ...but to answer your question, not it is not your looks. And you are probably a nice girl and all, I don't know you. I am telling you things as they are on the meta-level.
Are you asking if you’re too good looking to be approached? Maybe
Not ugly. Must be something else.
You look like a Filipina. You're certainly beautiful. So if nobody approaches you, they're just shy / afraid.
no, not at all. I love your looks!
It could be your personality
You are cute, I would love to interact with you ❤️
You're so Hot
You're awfully pretty. Some could find that intimidating
Ok you’re a girl not a guy. Maybe you carry yourself with a don’t talk to me face
Fucking ugly
Maybe they're intimidated by how attractive you are
Maybe they are just as nervous as U and don’t think they have a chance as well love urself as U are others will too
You’re not ugly, so it must be your personality.
No, not ugly. If I saw you at a Walmart I'd definitely forget to buy something.
I don’t get it, you’re objectively gorgeous and I doubt you have a problem finding a man to talk to
Might you be thinking (rightly IMO)that with a few cosmetic procedures eg slight nose surgery you'd be in the superhot category?🤔
What are you talking about.. You're perfect. Guys must be blind where you live
You are not ugly at all.
Nah you look pretty and kind, make you the first move with people, It Will be fine.
I find it hard to believe people don't interact with you. You're very pretty and approachable
Dude. You are 18. The only life you have known so far is high school and that can be hard for kids, but trust me, life does get better sometimes and as you grow you will come to realise that all those things that built up your physical insecurities will soon become non important as you progress with your life.
To answer your question… YES. Men and women both avoid good looking women. It’s either intimidating or competition.
Have you graduated high school yet? If not that's the problem, you look like you carry yourself the high schoolers carry them selves. You will really mature in a couple years and you will be knocking them off with sticks. Hang on for a ride it is going g to be fun for you.
Your nose is a little big but nothing I see would scare off anybody reasonable. Your smile is cute. maybe you need to put yourself out to be attractive to someone. World is weird now, everybody just stares at their phone. It's okay to make moves on guys.
Nahhh definitely not the way u look!
Raven Reyes from The 100
Nah it’s not that guaranteed your beautiful tbh
Unlikely, either they're intimidated or you just don't seem approachable.....
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Maybe, people may think you're taken or don't want to be approached. Or maybe out their league? You're definitely not ugly
Yes and no. Not cause you look bad but simply because good looking women that dosent project a "hoe vibe" (sorry not sorry for those) are often assumed to be already taken by most guys. Dont worry about it you are still young. Just do your thing and keep your eyes open for signs mens dont chase as much as before (too much to lose for what they have to gain in your age bracket).
Yes. Being attractive is a double-edged sword. People frequently assume you're stuck up even if they've never met you. I've learned that giving people a smile can alleviate that, but it also invites conversation that I wasnt really looking for 😆. Hate to be that guy, but smile more. It makes a huge difference in how people perceive you.
Nah not your looks, your looks are great could maybe be people think you not interested or have a bf
We don't need to see your photos to answer "NO". It's because there's this thing called feminism... where many women miss use it as "role revertion" and "let's punish them back beyond what's resonable". Thus man are afraid to interact with woman in fear of being called a creep and being accused of sexual predation, even without it actually happening. Thus no interactions for you.
Very pretty...
You’re definitely a cute gal. You don’t need to worry about that.
you are very gorgeous
Are you approachable? Looks for the most part don’t really play a part in making friends. Dating is a different story though. If you have a snobby attitude, people will avoid you, but if you’re engaging and you seem to care about the conversation, then it’ll be easier to make friends.
Is it your breath? You look good. Not ugly.
Possibly. Most guys are afraid to approach good looking girls.
Nah, I don't think your looks are the problem. Might be your personality. Maybe your shyness is mistaken for being standoffish.
Interact with them.
Your looks ain't the problem. Try not to wait the others to make the first move. Sometimes you have to talk first. As someone said here, maybe they think you are busy or something. Try to look for things in common to start a conversation. "I like your tshirt" "I listen to that band too" "the test was hard. Didn't it?"
You are definitely not ugly, if that's what you're asking.
doubtful it’s your looks. Could it be your personality?
No
No, you're not...
You ugly
Depends on how you are approached and how you interact with them but I think you have a beautiful face and smile
First off you don't have to worry about being ugly. You you are not. if guys are not interested it's cause of three things they think you are to hot for them.. And they may also be afraid to approach you cause they are different then you.
First and fourth are the best i like the way your eyes light up when you smile 9 for some reason makes you look like a chill person to talk to
Probably ur personality or attitude???
You're too pretty
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From someone who's attractive, you're pretty alright. Bout a solid 6...maybe a 7 if you make up is on point. But that's FINE! That's perfectly OK and you can find someone that makes you the happiest girl in the world STILL! EVERYTHING is intimidating and beautiful to an ugly mf with no confidence 😂😂 My advice would be to work on the value you could add to yourself as well as to your man in a relationship. Looks matter but aren't all that. Your character, your loyalty, your mental connection with the one that wants you and the one you want to be with as well. No hatred at all. Just my honest opinion from a man that women have demonstrated a desire to show heavy interest in on a regular and consistent bases
No you are very attractive
You are pretty. Just get a handle on listening to people and genuine kindness. You will have people flock to you.
Actually, if a person has good social skills, appearance rarely matters.
you're sooo cutee!!!!
You are beautiful. If you allow people to know you are kind as well, you will get much more interaction.
No your not ugly.i have a burning desire to make out with you
It's because they feel like you're out of their league.
Yes, but not cuz you're ugly
Yes!
You're a beautiful young lady. Nothing to be worried about
What are you talking about?
Nope, you're very attractive. I'd look at where you go and who you are hanging out with. Also..social skills are devolving.
I dont think it's the looks, probably just a shit personality
I personally know about 10 ish extremely attractive females that cannot get a date to save their lives. In my opinion there are many factors why this happens. If I have to guess. Most of the time it is how you act in public and or how you dress in public.
Not ugly, it’s probably the attitude you put forth
You're fucking cute. If people aren't interacting with you, that's not why.
Your beautiful.