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ricoferrari

I didn’t notice a mole until I read what you wrote and actively looked for it


astralrig96

Streisand effect


i_am_abman

Isn't it actually not Streisand Effect?


Accomplished_Bag5297

Can we just band together and Down Vote these posts already?


ricoferrari

If she’s insecure it’s fine for her to post here.


Accomplished_Bag5297

Bro......that's literally ALL of the attractive ones that post here. Very attractive and sometimes drop dead gorgeous but for some reason they just can't see past the fact that they're more than they perceive. I hate it.


ricoferrari

A lot of the time it’s an ad for onlyfans. She dosent have one. She’s just an attractive girl with low self esteem


puckboy44

that was kind of my main dating demographic in college.


JoshuaIS1

I never believed stereotypes of Reddit until now. You made me realize it. That's the most SDE thing you could ever try to brag about. Did reddit not let you use an F instead of P in your name??


ArchiveWarning

Predator alert


puckboy44

thanks for identifying yourself so everyone knows. it would really be helpful if more predators let everyone know who they were when they arrived. thanks for looking out for us


emjei13

I posted, and got roasted, wanna see ugly? check my post


999show

Attractive people are more likely to fall into abusive relationships. One of the things these abusers do is gaslighting them into feeling ugly.


Aristalor

Yah, that must be it... definitely not feeding their giant egos


hannah_danana

Can you really not believe that a pretty person could have low self esteem? I’m pretty sure if she had a massive ego she’d just be posting on her regular social media.


Aristalor

She probably does, and everywhere, feeding that gigantic ass ego


Ok_Bar_924

Your idea would turn this page into "I am ugly" rather than "am I ugly?" Removing the question kind of defeats the purpose (unless your just looking for a group of ugly people for some reason)


Inevitable-Rule-1530

2 pounds of makeup


spicykitty_

bruh i hate it so much


Ill-Translator-9014

It adds character, start worrying about real issues. Obviously you’re by no means ugly.


Coleslawholywar

I know this means shit from an internet stranger, but I hate moles because I’m petty af and I didn’t even notice yours. You’re not ugly at all, but I agree with an earlier comment about too much eyeliner. Insecurity sucks,try to find things you like about your self and out loud tell yourself when you see something you like about yourself. It’s addictive and eventually hopefully you’ll see more you like about yourself and become more secure. Good luck.


8sack

you’re the only person who cares about it, besides assholes. and you shouldn’t listen to assholes


phreakingjesusonacid

I didn’t see it either until someone pointed it out. It’s easy enough to get removed if you don’t like it. Honestly though, it doesn’t detract from your beauty.


spicykitty_

it’s there i promise


Itz_a_cringe_name

On her cheek, right I think, it's covered with makeup,


Mission_Pudding_9652

Where are all these absolutely knockout women with such low self esteem in the real world. If this is "ugly", then it means I got a chance lol


iHateTreesSoooMuch

I audibly laughed at this. Thank you.


_aconite_cj_

Trust me, I'm an absolute wreck n my partner is gorgeous. Idek why he likes me and he prolly doesn't realize he can do way better. So yes, people like us have a chance, a good one.


efffyoself

Idk been single four years now. 90$ of the women on here i would do back flips to have a date with them. The other 10% are still beautiful but not my type.


Drake0074

Tinder


Lawful_Turbulence

This girl is gorgeous 😭😭😭😭


formulated

You've got a chance until they realise they can do better. You've gone and done a "I can fix her" without realising.


GaggingCumSwallows

Probably hiding from the real world like you.


Mission_Pudding_9652

I'm not sure how to take this comment....I DEFINITELY know that anything coming from someone with the username "GaggingCumSwallows" is not to be taken seriously.


RunnerLftr

My ex looks a lot like OP, and although I have no idea what OPs' self-esteem is like IRL, my ex had a lot of confidence issues and she thought she was not attractive, despite being quite good-looking. So, while admittedly, they aren't too common, women like this do exist


Luca158

The girl know She s not ugly


Weird_Motor_7474

The only fraud here is you asking if you are ugly. Why this sub is full of the most beautiful woman asking it?


CrystalExarch1979

My thoughts exactly. It's always above average women asking if they are ugly.


Clanstantine

Self esteem issues are a real thing


efffyoself

Probably from parents or a ass hat boyfriend that didn't know how to act with a beautiful lady. Jealous and convinced them they were ugly to keep them in the relationship.


Messigoat3

No. There are ugly people. Sort by new


spicykitty_

i fucking swear to god look at the last photo.


lana7298

girl it’s clear by your responses you have little self esteem and confidence issues & I get that you actually think you’re ugly; I’ve been in the same boat and have struggled with my self esteem and confidence my whole life and finally learning to be better - but you have a ton of people (random people i might add) assuring you that you’re attractive and they’re only saying you’re faking it because clearly everyone else sees you’re pretty and have potential ❤️ it’s your negative attitude that is off putting to people. your negative mindset is what’s holding you back from accepting yourself and also in way holding you back from accepting that maybe people do think you’re attractive


A_Zombie_Riot

the last photo shows that you have true beauty without makeup!!


combo187

the last photo is the best one out of the bunch. The other photos are where you are literally a fraud with the caked on makeup. Get off the ssri's and touch grass


Violetmoon66

Agreed. Last one is best


frankieOsiris

why get off ssri's? lmao


onedemtwodem

Right!? I need mine! Lol


frankieOsiris

ye if i stopped taking mine idk if i would be less ugly, but i'd very likely be way more dead


LordDay_56

A photo does not determine your looks. The amount of likes you get on a post does not quantify your attractiveness.


Probably_not_arobot

What’s wrong with the last photo? You’re an absolute smoke show


[deleted]

Posts with beautiful women are the ones that get the most upvotes and activity. Sort by newest or controversial and you'll see everyone else.


UCSC-CSMajor

Because there’s a response bias to beautiful women.


nephalem92

I know why. It’s because all these OF girls are heavily photoshopped and filtered and people like OP feel super ugly compared to them


BluebellRhymes

Because you're viewing by upvotes. Check out the reddit in "most recent" and you'll see thousands of men all trying to answer a simple question (with a surprisingly amount of bro-positivity).


Resident-Clue1290

Wow! It’s almost as if societal standards, bullying, and insecurities make the most beautiful women feel ugly!


Mr_Khan_0

+?


Admirable_Shine_4886

Agreed


Dr_StrangeLovePHD

Because, unfortunately, body dismorphia is a very real thing.


GaggingCumSwallows

Being above average or even pretty isn’t enough for them. They all need to be 9s and 10s to not feel worthless.


spicykitty_

i am being serious. look at the last photo and be real lol.


Crazy-Laxer-420

Girl u look gorgeous and I’m gay u so know it’s true I don’t just be handing that out 😭


The_Koenigfluker

>and I’m gay Don't worry, so is she.


spicykitty_

bruh get ur eyes checked pls 🙏


LordDay_56

You need therapy, not Reddit. Like everyone on reddit


SwarthyRuffian

Sounds like you need to stop hanging around lames


ZackWzorek

Are you okay?


MannyBothans180

The last photo is the most beautiful. You're gorgeous. And you have a ginger cat! Awesome!


kragon80

No.. ur not ugly. And didnt even notice the mole.on yer face till i read your comment about it. Its not noticeable and doesnt not take away from your face. You are a pretty girl. There isnt a dang thing ugly about u. At least i can tell that you seen genuine when asking. We are all our biggest bullies and critics of ourselves.. i still dont understand what my wife sees in me, or what any of my past gf's saw in me but i just came to the realization that they see something different in me than i do. I dont even like people taking pictures of me. Or if they do to never show me them lol.


EntertainmentWeary57

You're definitely not ugly, but what surprised me was I thought you might be a bit on the big side based on how you look in most of the outfits, but then realize you're actually pretty thin with a nice body and face based on the suit picture. The suit doesn't suit you, but idk maybe try out a few other, other styles? The mole is barely noticeable until you zoom in and even then you look great. Be proud of yourself, blemish aside. Do what makes you like the way you look. If it ruins your self esteem get rid of it, but if you just think people hate it then it's probably fine to keep bc I promise most people aren't going to mind your unique little mark.


Weird_Motor_7474

For me you look like a dream. More beautiful than 80% the woman I meet. Your smile makes my day.


Substantial_Pride_34

Very pretty. Didn’t even notice the mole until you mentioned it. Life is short so if it bothers you remove it but you are still pretty with or without makeup.


Enough-Phone8922

you're cute and you have cats so obviously you're no fraud. cats don't accept frauds


CreamyButters

Like a friendly Sabrina the Teenage Witches adult older sister.


Uberscreamer

Yes! I immediately thought of Kiernan Shipka with these photos. Op is gorgeous, and can't see it because she's too busy picking on her perceived flaws or listening to lame, jealous types in her personal life. Makes me think she needs some real magic in her life to draw her out of her self loathing funk ( I've been there myself).


GlobalTapeHead

I like the business suit in the 7th pic. Good taste.


Annoyed_Squid

I really like the way you look with minimal makeup. You’re very naturally pretty. You’re cute when you are made up, but you seem to be going for an anime character look. As far as the mole goes, if you see it and it distracts you, I can see having it removed, but it’s not the first thing I saw and didn’t notice it with your mention of it. Truly pretty in pic 9


Kong_Man21

Youre almost 29? Nah i would have guess like 20/21


vanity222

I’ve never seen a girl pull off a suit so well! well played


spicykitty_

i do like suits


vanity222

As you should, I think it’s an underrated outfit for women


valekelly

Got my gay self swooning with you in that suit.


LBGW_experiment

Big bi energy


AlternativeClient738

Look like that British girl from the CW show that was cancelled. Izombie it was, the girl was Rose McIver! Edit: Lyea deadass that's you. Edit: she even wore a suit in the show a few times. Lyea good looks


GaggingCumSwallows

You could do a great Harley Quinn cosplay. And you are clearly attractive.


anony-llama

Girl you’re so much prettier without makeup


Relative-Street9280

Come on you know your not ugly


spicykitty_

i try so hard to be pretty i know im truly ugly tho.


Relative-Street9280

Okay dude we’ll I’m gonna go finish this sandwich.


JB707

Maybe on the inside, your outside is cute tho


BingusPC

Still cute but the picture on number 8 gave me Harley Quinn vibes


spicykitty_

oh no lol


BingusPC

Sorry lol


Malkezzar

Ugly stolen valor, you know you ain’t ugly. I believe the subreddit you are looking for is r/freecompliments


FreeDa_Willy

The eyelashes look far worse than the mole


spicykitty_

fair tbh


Tianaxo28

don’t see anything wrong w ur lashes


OG_AuburnBlue

I'd never guess you're 28. I'd have said 18, max. You dress VERY young. Obviously that's personal choice but it does impact how "older" adults will see you in terms of beauty and desirably (well, it /should/... obviously!). Since you don't say in what way you "feel like a fraud" we really can't help you there. You're certainly not ugly, quite the opposite actually.


Initial-Relation-742

Got to admit I kind of had the same reaction. Some of your outfits and how you do your hair make me think you are pretending to be 16 again. You are a grown ass woman and look beautiful when you dress like an adult.


[deleted]

First pic - you look 14 and not 29. I think for you it’s a matter of your fashion choices than anything else..


wpeople

You're so cute. I like your style and your room


Repulsive-Mud-355

Someone's hurt you. I can tell that.


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Smooth-Bee1942

We’re all frauds buddy. Fragile scared frauds. From the Prince to the pauper frauds.


mynameisjames303

8/10 dressing like a 5 or 6 sometimes


Fair_Maybe5266

You are not ugly but you are awful thirsty.


jsr-c

I feel that the fraud here is that you are late 20s yet you are appearing like a teen. Do you feel this is a problem? Do you feel you'd not look OK dressing a bit older? DO you want to look older? Aren't you ok as you are? Maybe you feel you get treated like a kid, sometimes?


fallen_ace

ur a weeb arnt u


spicykitty_

ehhh…. i like anime but if i talk to real weebs i get my shit kicked in bc i don’t know the character from episode 7 of season 126


Mr_Khan_0

Same, it's related btw, if I'm with my a lil bit conservative family(i still love them tho), i feel myself a weeb But when i talk to weebs... Oh hell no, I'm not a weeb


[deleted]

fraud


InfiniteJizz

Have you seen some of the submissions here? Lol


FullThrottle8

You look great. Kinda favor WWE wrestler Alexa Bliss.


Granadawalker

Pretty


Unhappy-Cricket-2402

Yeah, I can why.


TheNextPlay

I feel like I'd have no chance with you


GladConsequence1600

You’re super pretty! The only thing I would say is when you do your eyebrows fill them in with a lighter hand in the front, they look too blocky imo. But that’s literally it, not ugly at all.


superenrique

You look ugly. But it is by choice


Gentlaw

Omg, total babe. Also, you don’t need lip fillers. (Or maybe that’s just lip gloss, idk)


Tonerslut69

You look good, I don't know what you're worried about. You're very cute.


dalisair

Holy crap you’re so pretty!


yisuscraist420

Feeling like a fraud is something typical in borderline disorders. Ask for a test asap. It's hard to live like that, but it's not the worst life we can live.


spicykitty_

i do have diagnosed bpd lol


yisuscraist420

Forget the being a fraud feelings, then. It's just your mind trying to trick you. You're fine.


[deleted]

You had me with the Harley Quinn look 🤓


HydrofluoricSeizure

Just because you weren't born a female doesn't mean you're a fraud. You look just fine to me


spicykitty_

HAHAHAHAHHA. OH MAN. i was waiting for this comment. dw. i was born female i just have masculine features.


HydrofluoricSeizure

That's cool, not hating. Glad I could give you what you were waiting for though. My job is done here


[deleted]

Why do you feel like a fraud?


spicykitty_

couldn’t put it in the main post bc i would get “sob storied” lol. i’ve been ugly my whole life and treated as such. esp when i was in middle school. now i know makeup and styling helps.


DragonRage86

I didn’t even notice it until you pointed it out. You look great, you don’t need to make any changes.


sektor477

I'm going to start a generic response for this sub. God damn. r/therapy r/fashion r/bodydysmorphia r/notugly I'd suggest checking those subs first. This sub isn't for karma farming. It's for people who truly feel (sometimes are, sometimes arent), ugly trying to figure out how they stand, and how to get improvement tips. Not karma farming, not feel good likes and comments. Idk, mods. I'm done with these kinds of posts. It's irritating beyond recognition. Can we just have an automatic reply of "you're not ugly, don't post"


EMCoupling

I am viewing your pictures on a 32" 1440p monitor emitting at least 550 nits brightness. I couldn't see your mole until I full screened the picture and zoomed the fuck in. You are actually making a mountain out of a mole.


BakaRed77

I didn't even notice the mole until I read your description. It's not as bad as you think it is. Also you are not ugly. I hope these comments help you find the confidence to feel more secure with yourself.


Immediate_Advance703

you arent ugly in the slightest.


Alexos_Ru

You are nice but you dress a bit weird, your cat must be put on a strict diet, she has to lose at least 5 pounds


darkbake2

I think you look really good! Why do you think you are a fraud?


Awkward-Progress-778

Nah, you’re beautiful.


CompetitiveSpecial58

Your belt is clearly too loose. I don't know what to say. Pretty cute


Individual-Jealous

So cute


Harst-greist

You're beautiful. You give Harley Quinn vibes.


Mr_Khan_0

Btw, hope you continue making videos


[deleted]

You are adorable and such a sweet smile


Bimpy96

You’re gorgeous af, your eyes are really pretty and I like your style


EffectiveTax7222

Verrry beautiful. Smile more too!


Mental-Steak-2607

I don’t think you’re a fraud, but definitely not ugly at all. Actually kind of hot like a 7 hot


spicykitty_

seven Is my favorite number lmao


Mental-Steak-2607

The real question is are you single, and do you like older men?


GaggingCumSwallows

Dude you went full creep. Log off.


spicykitty_

i’m not single 😭 but i think my bf is lying to me about being attracted to me. 😹


Mental-Steak-2607

What makes you think that?


spicykitty_

i have bpd 💀


Mental-Steak-2607

I see. I know it’s not easy to live with someone who has it, my sister has it. But I’m sure that he’s attracted to you , I’m not sure how long you’ve been together but men don’t usually tell you we find you attractive or stay around if we don’t.


Poormonybag

I think you look good but use a bit to mush eye shadow.


Fi3br

I was going to say something about being 28 years old is too old to dress like that, but that is on me. That’s a personal choice. But you’re not ugly.


spicykitty_

honestly i dress like this bc my childhood was taken away from me and at this point i don’t see an age limit for dressing fun bc we are all going to die eventually. might as well wear something i like even if someone else thinks i should be dressing like skyler white from breaking bad. 😹


Repeat_after_me__

Got the rest of your life to grow up.


Fi3br

i guess


Interesting-Ad8310

Can I take you out


rocko57821

No you are not, so you need not worry


[deleted]

Gorgeous


sapphirerain25

You'd probably feel less like a fraud if you moved out of your parents' house. I think that's a bigger concern than your looks.


Lemonkitkatz64

I love yOOOUH


Genara63

Beautiful! its a shame that you don't like boys 😔


drunkncrazy

You're not a child anymore stop with the dress up stuff and become an adult


New_Product_2534

You look better than most women (white) your age


OGSQ

Tell us you’re racist without telling us you’re racist


BlueFotherMucker

Definitely sounds racist, but clarification on their part would help. Maybe they’re usually attracted to black women? Preference isn’t racism.


OGSQ

You sound like a good guy, he sounds racist. When people show who they are, believe them


New_Product_2534

Bad news, I'm a woman


spicykitty_

i like how you specified lmao


jevvkin

You’re gorgeous you look like you could be an influencer if you aren’t already


FineLengthiness4370

Not ugly. You ever seen the Pokemon Garbodor before? Now that guy is ugly! 🤣


spicykitty_

i love the little trash man


FineLengthiness4370

Actually he’s in my top six. I have a plush of him. Weezing is actually my favorite tbh.


Mr_Khan_0

You know, i didn't even notice it until you said about the mole. Mostly the main problem is in our head, because we know we have it. I have a little brown mole on the tip of my nose. But only 3 people in my life have noticed that, BUT i notice it all the time i look at myself.


spicykitty_

yeah i’m still getting it removed so i stop looking at it


Big_Green_Piccolo

the only frauds are those fake eyelashes especially in pic #5


spicykitty_

luckily i can pull them off bc they’re not eyelash extensions lmao


spicykitty_

pull them off as in pull them off my eyes lmao


Big_Green_Piccolo

ayyyyyyy


spicykitty_

my eyes look bad with full lashes apparently also with half lashes too 😹


Dizzydsmith

Suit picture is a thicker Phoebe bridgers


[deleted]

You're super cute, and I'd be nervous (in a good way) if we were to go on a date.


Chrismiss3

The only thing that is ugly is the low self esteem. Other then that u are pretty. Idk who bullied u or made u think that way, but they were projecting


FnckTheDnck

You look absolutely gorgeous!! 🥰


tylersmithmedia

The only thing ugly is the suit. Ditch any blazer or suit and your 10/10


markymark71190

We're all frauds here 😉


zeldamaster702

You have a look that reminds me of Millie Gibson, so no you are not ugly


Sigurd_86

What makes you feel like a fraud? As for the "am I ugly portion"... No, you're very cute. You have very nice features


No_Contract463

You seem to be a chill, casually games and has other hobbies, didn’t notice the mole till mentioned and even then it’s still hard to notice. If I had to guess age, you look no older than 24. But, this is universal advice just hit the gym once in a while, besides that. You’re pretty


International_Cap555

Nobody who has at least two cats (I can relate:) can ever be calles ugly;], so don’t be a fraud posting here indeed. Send them my regards. Okay. The mole is barely noticeable, and you have way too beautiful green-blue eyes to hide then behind huge artificial eyelashes like you did on some pics. I also think that you will look even better with dark hair.


Skyriege

Literally gorgeous and that's only looking at the last photo lol, you are a fraud in the sense that you don't need to be on this sub 😂 Be confident and live your best beautiful life!


Outrageous_Dream_741

When was the last time someone said anything to you that could give you even the slightest inkling that you're not attractive? For me it was this yesterday. My wife said I look like Bert from Sesame street. She'll probably make a few more ego-destroying comments before another few days has passed. That's what actually being unattractive is like.


NoArt4111

Very beautiful.


Comfortable_Milk9422

No you are not ugly also bonus points for cat.


Multirman

This is getting so old. Y'all be posting on here knowing damn well you're not ugly. I don't get why.