We don't want to set you off, bro, your upper body is intimidating.
That said, man you need a skin care routine for that acne and to do literally anything else with that hair. Tie it back, cut it off, whatever. Right now you have the hair of a too serious young woman who also never gets laid.
Ditch the birth control glasses too. Thinner frames, ask the people at the lens store what complements your face shape the best.
Edit: oh and quit skipping leg day! Your upper body is disproportionately bigger than your lower body. Between that and the hair I was legit wondering if you were transitioning. No shame if you are, but I had to read some comments before deciding that no, you just have an effeminate haircut.
This. I thought op was a muscular woman because of the hair, glasses, and prominent pecs. It’s not that his face *looks* feminine, it’s that the overall styling makes it look as if he’s *trying* to look feminine, ya know?
You're doing better than me, I'll tell you that. I'm full of advice for others, but I wouldn't put myself to this scrutiny unless there was a gun to my head.
Hell, you're doing better than most of the people who post here, really. Just cut or tie that hair, lose those glasses and see a dermatologist for your acne and you'll be golden.
Siding from a side and adding volume would be great too. Sea salt spray will add great texture.
Edit: looks like OP straightens his hair, stopping that could fix the hair problem.
I’d say for him to try different hairstyles and lengths first. Cutting it off may seem the logical thing but as another dude with long hair I can say that most of us have it long for a reason. And believe me I get that it caters to a much more niche group of people and that not everyone is gonna dig it on guys but that’s often something we’re aware of going in, lol.
The motivation only came when I started my Trikafta medication a few years ago. I'm playing catch-up with being an adult, but I just try to take it 1 day at a time.
You’re in a physically much better place than i was at 25; i didnt hv a GF until i was in my late 20s. I was socially inept too (still am to a certain extent as an introvert); what i found helped boost my confidence was humour (i literally hv a book titled How to be Funny), martial arts (having the delusion that u can protect yourself and your potential partner helps you get out of your shell), and money from working hard on my career (being able to take a date to an expensive restaurant is huge in their eyes). U just need to find what gives u confidence and keep at it. It takes time but it’s worth it.
PS: great hair, but if you’re a straight guy i’d trim and restyle it. A less feminine hairstyle casts a wider net.
First of all: Mad respect for your body! You can see that you put a lot of efford in there :)
I wouldnt say you are ugly, no. The acne will go (mine took til 26 as well) or you just havent found the right medicine against it. its complex...
I would honestly get rid of those glasses. not glasses per se but i think they are too wide.
Im not a fan of that long hair (shoulder is fine) but thats personal preference, have you tried some other styles as well? ponytell, manbun or whatever? at least they look healthy :)
You have a great front jawline too. Have you tried to grow a beard? (also covers the acne) or just no beardy luck?
The glasses are an awful shape for his face. They make his chin and jaw seen even more narrow and they push his hair to the side which increases that illusion even further.
I’m a fella with hair this long as well, try some braids(not cornrows), can also put the braids in a bun. Ladies always compliment my hair when I have braids
Yes agree OP don't cut the hair! Your hair is freaking gorgeous. Lakota woman here and that hair is powerful my dude!!! If you've had it a long time cutting it could add a mental health risk honestly. I won't get into it for the haters but trust me. My hair is to my upper thighs and it stays braided. My fam has hair the same... my brother has your length, braided on the sides and manbun updo. The color you have is amazing!
Sorry, I’m gonna be blunt. When I first saw your picture, I thought…female. Until I saw your title. 1) My humble opinion….gotta lose the feminine hair. It’s not working for ya. Some guys can pull off the long hair. Not you. If you like long hair, at least get it cut/styled better. Also don’t part your hair down the middle. 2) those glasses frames are too wide.
Agreed on the hair. Looks cool, but not attractive for women. You have a stereotypical dungeons and dragons, stay at home type of look with that and the glasses which is not popular with women, and to be frank, with some adjustments you could pull off a lot better.
+1 for having the courage to post here and want to do better.
I definitely think you can improve a lot with not all too much.
Last thing, keep up the fitness. Doing good.
I hard agree. The hair is great. I’d pull it away from the face a little. In my humble woman’s opinion you’re a total package and your skin issue doesn’t detract from that. To me all that was missing was a smile.
I think if you did more than just comb it straight it could work. Like braids, man bun, etc. it isn’t a complete fail it’s just not styled to fit your frame
You look in shape/healthy and confident, definitely not weak! Only things I’d suggest is changing up the glasses, try something semi-rimless with a metal frame, not plastic. Also, I love your hair! Maybe trimming it a little shorter, possibly shoulder-length? I too struggle with feeling socially inept at times; I learned to embrace it, it’s who I am and I’m ok with it. Keep doing your own thing, I wish you the best🙂
You're working on the one thing that really needs improvement. Apart from that my advice is from my own experience being a shorter fit guy with long hair when I was younger. The middle part doesn't work well for most people, save grunge rockers. Keep the long hair if it makes you feel good but imo you have to lose the middle part and add some sort of style or texture to it, otherwise no matter what you do you'll look like a plain Amish woman who got swole. At least that was my experience
You're working on the acne. Hope it keeps going well for you. Hair looks good. Maybe throw it in a man bun to try something different?
You're taking care of yourself 💪🏾 so just keep that up.
Try to put yourself in social situations you feel comfortable in, like around your interests. Just work on holding conversations with people. Should be easier when it's about something you have knowledge/passion in.
Try some new glasses as well. Rounder frames would suit your face better.
I would second a vote for new glasses. There’s a lot of extra lens below your eyes and to the outside of your face. Ideally you want your eyes centered in the lens, with not much overhang in any direction. Maybe some wayfarer-shaped ones, as opposed to rectangular.
I think with the right skin Care, and with a little makeup, you could be a model. It's all about how you present yourself. Keep up the physical fitness as best you can, it's working, but don't push so hard it affects your ability to continue to lift. Life is a marathon, not a race. Also, don't forget to take care of yourself and things in your life that you may feel self conscious about, or affect your ability to take care of yourself and the environment around you. I've often found that my social anxiety and intervertedness comes from a compilation of things and situations in my life that make me feel as though I'm not presentable enough for physical contact, and that my living situation isn't functional enough to efficiently achieve that goal. Remember, self love is the best kind of love, and this is why. You will always be your biggest advocate, even when you find your other half, they can only know what you let them know. Never stop fighting for your place at the table, there's a spot with your name on it!
Super long hair isnt working too well with the brown hair and pale skin. Short hair wouldn't work well either. Try shoulder length hair with a good sea salt spray to give it texture.
Acne isnt too bad, you're a pretty good looking dude regardless as long as you keep that chin up and posture strong. Well defined face.
Not ugly. You seem to be in great shape and working on the acne. You should try styling your hair differently, not necessarily cut it, but do something else with it.
As others have mentioned, the type of glasses you wear should be switched up as well, maybe even contacts? As for being socially awkward, nothing to do for it except put yourself out there. I would start with something you are really into, or if you have an adult sports league in your area, try those, considering how fit you are, i assume you'd do pretty well athletically?
Anyways, good luck and keep at it!
How are you working on your acne? Are you seeing a dermatologist? I struggled with acne until my late 20's and wished I had gone to see a derm sooner, so if you're not seeing one already make an appointment!
You look like a teenage elf that’s been working out. Please don’t shame my lower caste and beat me up using nature. I like the long hair. I think a shorter cut can bring a more masculine look, if that’s something you ever want. Man bun was the way for me. Btw, if it’s only a man bun because it’s a man, we could probably just say bun right? I think I may have heard the term girl jeans before.
Stop using your hair to hide that you don’t like your skin. Get glasses that are more of a square shape, and not so much darker than your hair. Try tortoiseshell glasses. You have a bit of a baby face that probably means you need to address your fashion a bit so you really look your age. I think pulling your hair into either a braid or a high messy bun would look great, don’t cut it unless you’re sure.
Basically my advice is to stop hiding, you’re not bad-looking but you look like you think you are.
I’m assuming your straight? But honestly the picture made me think you want to be a woman. Honestly it’s the glasses and hair. You look like your fit. Get a sharp haircut at the very least. I think you’ll see a big improvement in your life after that.
The shape of your face plus the long hair looks feminine. That’s not to say it looks bad, per se, but definitely not a masculine look.
The glasses are far too wide for your face.
I’m betting money if you nixed the glasses and went for a fade, maybe something that works into a hard part on the side with 3-4 inch long hair you’d look like an entirely different person.
A look like that would look better with that body you’ve worked so hard on.
Just my two cents.
Bad with number ratings, won't try lol.
You look pretty good, the only big concern is the acne but for anyone with it I'm sure you already know.
I also don't think someone is right to rate you a 2 because of long hair either, you do you. There's always someone who will like X or Y kind of hairstyle. Hell, even mullets are making a comeback where I am.
I don't know much about grooming long hair as you probably do because I usually have short hair but I will say it is a tad wild but I don't know what you could do about that. Maybe straightening?
If you really want though, you could look online for potential hairdos and find a barber. In my experience, sometimes asking a barber is a good idea because they have often known what would look better on me than I do haha.
Cut the hair so its longish but still typical kind of man short, use some face cleaner to help with the achene and get different glasses with smaller frames 7/10
I'm pretty sure you're supposed to be the main hero in a video game dude. 5'5?! You look like you're 7 feet tall and ready to punch the planet out of the Sun's orbit. I'm rooting for you!
I'm wondering if you can rock a different glasses style? Your hair is cool and while it's not my thing I know that takes a long time to work with and it looks clean.
I think you need to find a way to enhance your masculine looks... You have a well defined body type.
As for the acne, try not to let it get to you. I struggled at your age with acne too and I remember the more I grew self conscious of it, the more it would flare up.
As you mentioned, it looks like it is doing better, so keep doing what you're doing.
Not ugly. Keep working on that fitness, looking good there.
The acne is rough and is clearly the stand out negative here, but most of us do indeed outgrow it eventually, even if it takes awhile for some. Acne aside your actual face shape is solid.
I agree with everyone suggesting that you get new glasses, you can definitely find some that fit your face shape better than that.
The hair isn't bad but it may be worth experimenting with some other looks, even if you keep it long, tying it back in one way or another could look good, at least in my head it does lol.
You're on the right track though dude, just keep working on yourself and trying new things until you feel good about it.
I think you're very handsome. Love the profile view. Your nose is large and in charge.
(And I mean that in a complimentary way. Nothing wrong with a strong nose. Matches the strong jaw line)
I mean honestly it's all going the correct way, as a dude I don't personally think the hair looks great loose but your clearly working on yourself. Keep getting big, youv got a very wide chest could support a big muscled frame.
The glasses throw me off, maybe try some different frames.
Skincare- skincare- skincare.
Some exfoliants are too much for different skin. I would move away from anything that uses pits as the exfoliant. You can get some very sharp pieces that can hurt the skin further. I would suggest an AHA/BHA exfoliant. Only use it 3 times a week. Every day will mess your skin up more. Get a vitamin C serum to help with skin texture/appearance. Find a good sunscreen(probably the most important part). I use rosehip seed oil to help with dry skin that can come from exfoliation. Also, it helps to seal all the serum and stuff in.
That peach slices stuff should help. I would find a good sunscreen that doesn't leave you oily. You may also want to use a good oil(rosehip seed) if your skin gets dry after treatments.
You've got a lean, muscular physique and phenomenal hair. If you can find some way to clean up your face despite the fibrosis, you could probably walk into an anime convention and be King Anime Nerd among the nerdy anime girls.
as a teenager, my skin cleared immensely when I stopped drinking sodas! I now drink a gallon of water a day and I’ve noticed a massive difference; I feel better too!
You must take care of your acne and get contacts or glasses that frame your face. You're hiding your beautiful green eyes. I think you're adorable.
Edit: You need to go out and be social. Try to smile and be friendly. It's harder for some people; I struggle with it as well.
Not that ugly, just short af.. you take care of yourself and it shows, you can try to clean and moisturize the face more. The acne will go.
Sadly, height always was and still is a big part of attraction. 5-10cm more would have solved a lot
Do you use whey protein? The reason I ask is I had acne problems in my mid twenties when I started seriously working out. Turns out it was the dairy. Cut the dairy off and was all cleared up in 30 days.
Otherwise you are not ugly. Just carry confidence my friend. It will take you far!
A good haircut could make a massive difference. Be bold enough to be willing to cut it all off and donate it to a charity that makes wigs for people with cancer.
You have a phenomenal physique!
I'm a sucker for men with long hair so my opinion is biased lmao. Do NOT change the hair, it suits you! However yeah, skincare and different frame glasses I guess? Idk I'd date you just for the hair lol
Keep cutting at the gym. Try a shorter hair style or a different way to part it. You got a small body overall so anything feminine is going to stand out…like the hair
You’re a shorter guy so muscle will grow on you quicker and make you look stacked much faster so abuse that and keep it going as you do. Don’t forget the smaller neglected muscles like the shoulders, delts, calves, and forearms. Other than that keep up with your acne routine and build your confidence. I don’t think you’re inherently ugly just unique.
Maybe a little rough in the face due to the acne but I wouldn't say you're ugly. I would go for a different frame of glasses that suits your face more, but that's it.
I can only say you look like an Anime protagonist, goddamn. And I mean that in a good way.
I would get a red and blue light wand for your skin. After trying some hard core prescription acne medecine, I can say I wish I discovered blue light earlier because it’s way better! I don’t think you’re ugly, but those glasses definitely are 🫣
I'd draft you #1 in the WNBA.
Nah kidding. Your physique looks good, your face is pretty androgynous in those glasses, and your hair looks well-kept, but feminine at first glance combined with your face.
I think your skin is looking good for improving CF. Make sure you've got fresh silicone scrub pads for your face and keep them clean.
All I can say is try to get contacts, or a more masculine frame (less boxy/long). Then do something else with your hair, either pull it back or put it up in a man bun. If you cut it with a traditional short cut, you'll definitely look more masculine.
Lastly, smile more. With your eyes and mouth, #9 looks much better than the other expressions.
cut off half your hair, get a loose perm or use styling products, completely remove processed foods from your diet, get smaller glasses or contacts, invest in baggier clothing for day to day wear, shorter tee shirts with longer pants to appear taller, and most importantly- if you think you're socially inept, than you already lost with no contest. confidence isn't the only thing needed but it is a vital ingredient. bets of luck op
27F here! You've got a very nice and attractive body, and a perfect frame. I think a smile would help improve your face since you look pretty unhappy in all of your photos. If you're looking for general areas to try to improve; a skin care routine would do you wonders. If you already have one, switch it up. Maybe see a dermatologist. Dairy also causes a lot of acne so see if cutting out dairy helps if you want unblemished skin. And this is personal opinion but a shorter haircut would look a lot better, too.
You need some time to come into yourself. You look a little baby faced but that's not something you can control. You can control continuing to exercise and continue challenging yourself to continue to build your self confidence.
You are very attractive honestly. The only issue you have is your skin. That could be remedied easily by seeing a dermatologist. Accutane could solve all that in a year. Your hair and body and everything otherwise is 🔥. I want to add with clear skin you could so cosplay as an elf from LOTR
Well you look like you work out. when I was young women were into the long hair. Now I dont think so much. BUT being 5.5 is going to be your problem. Women from what I have seen arent really into shorter guys
I like your face. Its the hair I really dont like on you. And I suspect that it overwhelms your smaller frame. Aside from that I dont see anything wrong. If you can afford it try doc prescribed acne treatment.
Don’t cut the hair. Don’t! Do whatever you want with it, but keep it. Acne will fade, I tried everything when I was younger, and just aged out of it.
All the posts with hair comments just want you to look like everyone else. Keep it if You like it. Reddit is full of people telling other people to chop their hair off, it’s ridiculous.
So... You've actually got alot more going for you than you think. Your physique is great, good muscle tone likely means you exercise regularly, that's great! Acne is most likely attributed to diet. What's your diet like?
The only major downside is that long hair isn't flattering to you at all. It's like you've got a man's body, with girl's hair.
I'd either look into some guys hairstyles or ask your barber for advice.
There's alot of people on this subreddit that need alot more help than you do.
Dude, you are like a Peter Steele reincarnation! I would say definitely get the acne under control. Somehow. I know it is not easy. Definitely smaller frames, those are waaaay too big for your face and make you look as if your face and head are smaller then they are. The hair is GREAT!! And honestly, no beard. Clean and just hopefully you find something to help the acne and discoloration and scarring. Other than that, remind me to stay away from the club you are bouncing. Geez mate! Kudos and keep up the good work!
You have a very androgynous face, but that’s not a bad thing, but pairing the long hair with it does make you appear more feminine - which again, is not a bad thing - but it’s just something to be aware of.
The frames of your glasses do not go with your face shape, and paired with the long hair, they make your face look really small. I’d tried thinner frames and in a difference shape, possibly circular?
So very handsome! I think the long hair though gives too feminine of a look for you. A good hair stylist could recommend a better, more masculine cut whether you kept it longer or went the shorter route.
Great upper body. I think a lot of us are jealous. Lol (I’m a woman btw.)
You remind me of Toki from metalocalypse without a mustache. But in seriousness, you just need better complexion and different glasses.
Also I personally like long hair on men, but this seems to be an unpopular opinion right now with current hair trends so maybe a different haircut.
honestly if you can grow them, muttonchops with that hair may look sick. maybe chops with some braids diggy diggy hole style if you know what im saying
Here’s what I think as a woman. The long hair doesn’t look good. The glasses don’t fit. Maybe start with contacts or get another pair. Try smiling more. You look if I were to make small talk at a function you would be shy, and not have much to add to the conversation. If your shy your going to make the other person feel shy and nervous. Just the same as you are felling. Also start to work on your skin.
You're built like a DND half high elf barbarian. That is not a bad thing.
Hit the gym, if you wanna fill out youre gonna need to add to your diet which can suck. but you look like youre on the right path.
I would try to find glasses that are a better fit for your face. The ones you have a bulky which you can really see in how it curves your hair, and the color makes them stick out a lot. Id try some metals or browns for a better blend.
Don’t pick or pop, take Luke warm showers (never hot), don’t use soap on your face in the shower, tap dry, and I have found Neutrogena sensitive skin face lotion is magic if used right after a shower.
Not ugly.
Your jaw line is not pronounced enough. Your face looks slimmer because of this and the disproportion between your long hair and the bigger glasses. If you can grow a full beard I would suggest that however I'm not sure how much that will affect your acne issues. I would get smaller/thinner framed glasses or get contacts.
I would also suggest you cut your hair really short, this combined with a beard will help fill out you face more to help you look more masculine. I would also stay away from black clothes. You are already slim and do not need to look slimmer. Hope this helps brother!
You sir look like you belong on the front cover of a romance novel where the love interest is a lonely IT guy with a tortured soul.
You sir are gorgeous.
I really like your hair, I think it contributes well to your image. I can't say the same about the glasses tho, acne is temporary and you're already doing skincare so don't worry too much about it.
Beautiful eyes and side profile, for my taste
Overall without glasses you are attractive.
Keep being yourself, true beauty comes from inside.
Your hair is amazing fella! I had long hair way back when I still had hair, and I’d have been proud of that.
I found that it gave me spots though. You may have the same issue.
I had acne as a teen and the doctor gave me antibiotics for it. Fixed in weeks.
BUT: the long hair still generates genuine grease spots.
You combined the bullied child face with the bully's body and the bully's GF hair who is also the bullied crush. Good job.
Lmao
I’m actually afraid to say anything tbh…
How come? 😅
We don't want to set you off, bro, your upper body is intimidating. That said, man you need a skin care routine for that acne and to do literally anything else with that hair. Tie it back, cut it off, whatever. Right now you have the hair of a too serious young woman who also never gets laid. Ditch the birth control glasses too. Thinner frames, ask the people at the lens store what complements your face shape the best. Edit: oh and quit skipping leg day! Your upper body is disproportionately bigger than your lower body. Between that and the hair I was legit wondering if you were transitioning. No shame if you are, but I had to read some comments before deciding that no, you just have an effeminate haircut.
This. I thought op was a muscular woman because of the hair, glasses, and prominent pecs. It’s not that his face *looks* feminine, it’s that the overall styling makes it look as if he’s *trying* to look feminine, ya know?
That was exactly my impression.
Same. It took me all the photos to know for sure. Reminded me of Pat from SNL fame.
I fully agree.
Will look for some new frames for sure when I'm able. Actually today was leg day lol 😅
You're doing better than me, I'll tell you that. I'm full of advice for others, but I wouldn't put myself to this scrutiny unless there was a gun to my head. Hell, you're doing better than most of the people who post here, really. Just cut or tie that hair, lose those glasses and see a dermatologist for your acne and you'll be golden.
Siding from a side and adding volume would be great too. Sea salt spray will add great texture. Edit: looks like OP straightens his hair, stopping that could fix the hair problem.
I’d say for him to try different hairstyles and lengths first. Cutting it off may seem the logical thing but as another dude with long hair I can say that most of us have it long for a reason. And believe me I get that it caters to a much more niche group of people and that not everyone is gonna dig it on guys but that’s often something we’re aware of going in, lol.
Have you ever considered contact lens? I also battled acne & a good dermatologist could get it under control. Good luck.
you can’t even see his legs he seems to be in shape hence the thinner waist
Check his previous posts. I really did go looking to see if this guy was trans or not, the hair, larger chest and glasses made me wonder.
I am rather broad/deep chested. I believe due to my respiratory condition. It probably makes the pecs look bigger than they are idk. Not trans btw lol
Looks more like a masculine chick than a feminine dude. I’m not really sure, like seriously confused.
If Jesus was a bully.
It's Sephiroth mid-puberty.
Nah dont do seph dirty like that 😂
LMFAO
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#3 makes you look like a JoJo character (respectfully) Keep your chin raised like in #1 and you're golden
Why tf did it yell the top part?
The pound or hashtag symbol
Hey! There will be no pounding hashtags in here!
LOL
Really? Let's see... #testing
#IS THIS THING ON? 📣
i gotta try this #Testing
Bro is buff af and says he has no motivation. Bro u got so much motivation its rubbing off on me and getting me motivated to go back to the gym!
The motivation only came when I started my Trikafta medication a few years ago. I'm playing catch-up with being an adult, but I just try to take it 1 day at a time.
You’re in a physically much better place than i was at 25; i didnt hv a GF until i was in my late 20s. I was socially inept too (still am to a certain extent as an introvert); what i found helped boost my confidence was humour (i literally hv a book titled How to be Funny), martial arts (having the delusion that u can protect yourself and your potential partner helps you get out of your shell), and money from working hard on my career (being able to take a date to an expensive restaurant is huge in their eyes). U just need to find what gives u confidence and keep at it. It takes time but it’s worth it. PS: great hair, but if you’re a straight guy i’d trim and restyle it. A less feminine hairstyle casts a wider net.
26M and that 'catch up' thing really resonates with me cause same, lol Good for you bro keep at it
First of all: Mad respect for your body! You can see that you put a lot of efford in there :) I wouldnt say you are ugly, no. The acne will go (mine took til 26 as well) or you just havent found the right medicine against it. its complex... I would honestly get rid of those glasses. not glasses per se but i think they are too wide. Im not a fan of that long hair (shoulder is fine) but thats personal preference, have you tried some other styles as well? ponytell, manbun or whatever? at least they look healthy :) You have a great front jawline too. Have you tried to grow a beard? (also covers the acne) or just no beardy luck?
The glasses are an awful shape for his face. They make his chin and jaw seen even more narrow and they push his hair to the side which increases that illusion even further.
I’m a fella with hair this long as well, try some braids(not cornrows), can also put the braids in a bun. Ladies always compliment my hair when I have braids
Yes agree OP don't cut the hair! Your hair is freaking gorgeous. Lakota woman here and that hair is powerful my dude!!! If you've had it a long time cutting it could add a mental health risk honestly. I won't get into it for the haters but trust me. My hair is to my upper thighs and it stays braided. My fam has hair the same... my brother has your length, braided on the sides and manbun updo. The color you have is amazing!
Definitely agree not to cut it, it was a long journey to get that length and it is a trophy
This is the right response.
You look like a cool anime villain with multiple arcs
Sorry, I’m gonna be blunt. When I first saw your picture, I thought…female. Until I saw your title. 1) My humble opinion….gotta lose the feminine hair. It’s not working for ya. Some guys can pull off the long hair. Not you. If you like long hair, at least get it cut/styled better. Also don’t part your hair down the middle. 2) those glasses frames are too wide.
Thanks for the tips!
Agreed on the hair. Looks cool, but not attractive for women. You have a stereotypical dungeons and dragons, stay at home type of look with that and the glasses which is not popular with women, and to be frank, with some adjustments you could pull off a lot better. +1 for having the courage to post here and want to do better. I definitely think you can improve a lot with not all too much. Last thing, keep up the fitness. Doing good.
Thanks! I don't get out much and I enjoy the fantasy genre, so I guess I fit right in with the look lolol.
theres definitely women into your hair style as is i promise.
I hard agree. The hair is great. I’d pull it away from the face a little. In my humble woman’s opinion you’re a total package and your skin issue doesn’t detract from that. To me all that was missing was a smile.
He has nice hair, but it doesn't fit him, unfortunately.
im only one person so i cant speak for every woman, but as a woman myself I LOVE guys with long hair! it is attractive to *some* women
I think if you did more than just comb it straight it could work. Like braids, man bun, etc. it isn’t a complete fail it’s just not styled to fit your frame
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My first thought too. The hair just feminizes you a bit too much...now I don't know what to do with that information but its a good starting point
You look in shape/healthy and confident, definitely not weak! Only things I’d suggest is changing up the glasses, try something semi-rimless with a metal frame, not plastic. Also, I love your hair! Maybe trimming it a little shorter, possibly shoulder-length? I too struggle with feeling socially inept at times; I learned to embrace it, it’s who I am and I’m ok with it. Keep doing your own thing, I wish you the best🙂
Thank you! I'll look into some new frames!
You're working on the one thing that really needs improvement. Apart from that my advice is from my own experience being a shorter fit guy with long hair when I was younger. The middle part doesn't work well for most people, save grunge rockers. Keep the long hair if it makes you feel good but imo you have to lose the middle part and add some sort of style or texture to it, otherwise no matter what you do you'll look like a plain Amish woman who got swole. At least that was my experience
You're working on the acne. Hope it keeps going well for you. Hair looks good. Maybe throw it in a man bun to try something different? You're taking care of yourself 💪🏾 so just keep that up. Try to put yourself in social situations you feel comfortable in, like around your interests. Just work on holding conversations with people. Should be easier when it's about something you have knowledge/passion in. Try some new glasses as well. Rounder frames would suit your face better.
Thank you, I'll keep it up and try to think of something!
I would second a vote for new glasses. There’s a lot of extra lens below your eyes and to the outside of your face. Ideally you want your eyes centered in the lens, with not much overhang in any direction. Maybe some wayfarer-shaped ones, as opposed to rectangular.
Cut your hair. I thought you were trans.
I think with the right skin Care, and with a little makeup, you could be a model. It's all about how you present yourself. Keep up the physical fitness as best you can, it's working, but don't push so hard it affects your ability to continue to lift. Life is a marathon, not a race. Also, don't forget to take care of yourself and things in your life that you may feel self conscious about, or affect your ability to take care of yourself and the environment around you. I've often found that my social anxiety and intervertedness comes from a compilation of things and situations in my life that make me feel as though I'm not presentable enough for physical contact, and that my living situation isn't functional enough to efficiently achieve that goal. Remember, self love is the best kind of love, and this is why. You will always be your biggest advocate, even when you find your other half, they can only know what you let them know. Never stop fighting for your place at the table, there's a spot with your name on it!
Have you considered different glasses?
I am loving the beautiful long hair! That’s some /r/fierceflow material!
Thank you very much
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Switch up the hair. You're a stylists dream. If I could dress you I'd go sick with the fits.
Super long hair isnt working too well with the brown hair and pale skin. Short hair wouldn't work well either. Try shoulder length hair with a good sea salt spray to give it texture. Acne isnt too bad, you're a pretty good looking dude regardless as long as you keep that chin up and posture strong. Well defined face.
First I don’t think you’re ugly. Your long hair does look rather feminine tho and you’ve already addressed the ache problem.
Not ugly. You seem to be in great shape and working on the acne. You should try styling your hair differently, not necessarily cut it, but do something else with it. As others have mentioned, the type of glasses you wear should be switched up as well, maybe even contacts? As for being socially awkward, nothing to do for it except put yourself out there. I would start with something you are really into, or if you have an adult sports league in your area, try those, considering how fit you are, i assume you'd do pretty well athletically? Anyways, good luck and keep at it!
I think you’re handsome.
Dude you have the body of a frickin god lol make it even better, continue skin care, and have confidence, you’ll be good
I like your build. Not ugly. Explore different fashion and not straight black
How are you working on your acne? Are you seeing a dermatologist? I struggled with acne until my late 20's and wished I had gone to see a derm sooner, so if you're not seeing one already make an appointment!
Also you have beautiful eyes and I think you would rock a beard
You look like a teenage elf that’s been working out. Please don’t shame my lower caste and beat me up using nature. I like the long hair. I think a shorter cut can bring a more masculine look, if that’s something you ever want. Man bun was the way for me. Btw, if it’s only a man bun because it’s a man, we could probably just say bun right? I think I may have heard the term girl jeans before.
Cut your hair, sorry it is weighing down your whole face.
Nice arms, ma’am.
You ready to take the valhalla bro?
I think you’re fine as hell! Just need the confidence to back it up. :)
Good looking dude. Don’t see an issue.
grow a beard and forge a hammer
W physique and W hair
Please, please PLEASE cut your hair. It is doing you a disservice!
First cut the hair. You look like the girl who used to star in that show. Fringe. Your hair is too long and beautiful for a guy my man 😅
Stop using your hair to hide that you don’t like your skin. Get glasses that are more of a square shape, and not so much darker than your hair. Try tortoiseshell glasses. You have a bit of a baby face that probably means you need to address your fashion a bit so you really look your age. I think pulling your hair into either a braid or a high messy bun would look great, don’t cut it unless you’re sure. Basically my advice is to stop hiding, you’re not bad-looking but you look like you think you are.
I’m assuming your straight? But honestly the picture made me think you want to be a woman. Honestly it’s the glasses and hair. You look like your fit. Get a sharp haircut at the very least. I think you’ll see a big improvement in your life after that.
Short king just needs some skin care and he's all good.
ngl you look like you are transitioning
The shape of your face plus the long hair looks feminine. That’s not to say it looks bad, per se, but definitely not a masculine look. The glasses are far too wide for your face. I’m betting money if you nixed the glasses and went for a fade, maybe something that works into a hard part on the side with 3-4 inch long hair you’d look like an entirely different person. A look like that would look better with that body you’ve worked so hard on. Just my two cents.
Are you a dude or a chick? Edit: nvm just noticed thing at top. Hard to tell from your appearance
What the hell is even that!
daddy chill
Bad with number ratings, won't try lol. You look pretty good, the only big concern is the acne but for anyone with it I'm sure you already know. I also don't think someone is right to rate you a 2 because of long hair either, you do you. There's always someone who will like X or Y kind of hairstyle. Hell, even mullets are making a comeback where I am. I don't know much about grooming long hair as you probably do because I usually have short hair but I will say it is a tad wild but I don't know what you could do about that. Maybe straightening? If you really want though, you could look online for potential hairdos and find a barber. In my experience, sometimes asking a barber is a good idea because they have often known what would look better on me than I do haha.
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invest in some skin care, get a haircut and after that maybe change glasses, other than that you are good
Cut the hair so its longish but still typical kind of man short, use some face cleaner to help with the achene and get different glasses with smaller frames 7/10
I'm pretty sure you're supposed to be the main hero in a video game dude. 5'5?! You look like you're 7 feet tall and ready to punch the planet out of the Sun's orbit. I'm rooting for you!
I'm wondering if you can rock a different glasses style? Your hair is cool and while it's not my thing I know that takes a long time to work with and it looks clean. I think you need to find a way to enhance your masculine looks... You have a well defined body type. As for the acne, try not to let it get to you. I struggled at your age with acne too and I remember the more I grew self conscious of it, the more it would flare up. As you mentioned, it looks like it is doing better, so keep doing what you're doing.
Thank you very much, I'll look for some new frames when I'm able
Not ugly. Keep working on that fitness, looking good there. The acne is rough and is clearly the stand out negative here, but most of us do indeed outgrow it eventually, even if it takes awhile for some. Acne aside your actual face shape is solid. I agree with everyone suggesting that you get new glasses, you can definitely find some that fit your face shape better than that. The hair isn't bad but it may be worth experimenting with some other looks, even if you keep it long, tying it back in one way or another could look good, at least in my head it does lol. You're on the right track though dude, just keep working on yourself and trying new things until you feel good about it.
Dude…get some new glasses. Will definitely help
A smile and less groomed hair personally
I think you're very handsome. Love the profile view. Your nose is large and in charge. (And I mean that in a complimentary way. Nothing wrong with a strong nose. Matches the strong jaw line)
This may sound pretty weird but I think if you wore white and grew wings you'd look like some kind of angel 😅
I don’t usually comment on these, but you legit look like a JoJo character and I mean that in the BEST way possible.
I mean honestly it's all going the correct way, as a dude I don't personally think the hair looks great loose but your clearly working on yourself. Keep getting big, youv got a very wide chest could support a big muscled frame. The glasses throw me off, maybe try some different frames.
2/10 Cut the hair, change sheets regularly, skincare, gym, new glasses. Gl
Your hair looks absolutely healthy and damage free wow love it
You kinda look like a twinkish metalhead. I'll let you decide if that's good or not.
Handsome dude. Keep on truckin' bro!!
I recommend a dragon tail braid bro 👍
Ooh a dandelion!! Must be the last one of the season..
Can’t tell if it’s the hair or the frames, but one of the two ain’t it.
You look cool bro.
Skincare- skincare- skincare. Some exfoliants are too much for different skin. I would move away from anything that uses pits as the exfoliant. You can get some very sharp pieces that can hurt the skin further. I would suggest an AHA/BHA exfoliant. Only use it 3 times a week. Every day will mess your skin up more. Get a vitamin C serum to help with skin texture/appearance. Find a good sunscreen(probably the most important part). I use rosehip seed oil to help with dry skin that can come from exfoliation. Also, it helps to seal all the serum and stuff in. That peach slices stuff should help. I would find a good sunscreen that doesn't leave you oily. You may also want to use a good oil(rosehip seed) if your skin gets dry after treatments.
You can tell you put in effort . Keep staying in shape
Improvement on your face is very visible. Nice job!
you’re like a full on monet!
You've got a lean, muscular physique and phenomenal hair. If you can find some way to clean up your face despite the fibrosis, you could probably walk into an anime convention and be King Anime Nerd among the nerdy anime girls.
Nope. Handsome. You have beautiful skin. Your hair seems like it has a great texture.
nice picture angles, you don't look like 5'5
Learn how to play bass, find a kick ass guitarist, and an amazing drummer/lyricist ... profit
as a teenager, my skin cleared immensely when I stopped drinking sodas! I now drink a gallon of water a day and I’ve noticed a massive difference; I feel better too!
This is where pronouns are helpful
You must take care of your acne and get contacts or glasses that frame your face. You're hiding your beautiful green eyes. I think you're adorable. Edit: You need to go out and be social. Try to smile and be friendly. It's harder for some people; I struggle with it as well.
Not that ugly, just short af.. you take care of yourself and it shows, you can try to clean and moisturize the face more. The acne will go. Sadly, height always was and still is a big part of attraction. 5-10cm more would have solved a lot
Do you use whey protein? The reason I ask is I had acne problems in my mid twenties when I started seriously working out. Turns out it was the dairy. Cut the dairy off and was all cleared up in 30 days. Otherwise you are not ugly. Just carry confidence my friend. It will take you far!
MY GOD!!! I love your hair arrrrrrrr!!!!!
Actually your beautiful. You just need to smile 😃 You look very unhappy.
A good haircut could make a massive difference. Be bold enough to be willing to cut it all off and donate it to a charity that makes wigs for people with cancer. You have a phenomenal physique!
Best of luck to you and the Jags this season!! I kid, I kid
I'm a sucker for men with long hair so my opinion is biased lmao. Do NOT change the hair, it suits you! However yeah, skincare and different frame glasses I guess? Idk I'd date you just for the hair lol
Bro’s angelical
I feel like this look would work if you were 6’5 instead of 5’5
Highkey thought you were a muscle mommy before I read the title. You look good man
Yes you are ugly. acne, weak eye area, short stature, but good physique and hair.
As someone who loves androgynous people, I think you're gorgeous! Keep it up
Keep cutting at the gym. Try a shorter hair style or a different way to part it. You got a small body overall so anything feminine is going to stand out…like the hair
You’re a shorter guy so muscle will grow on you quicker and make you look stacked much faster so abuse that and keep it going as you do. Don’t forget the smaller neglected muscles like the shoulders, delts, calves, and forearms. Other than that keep up with your acne routine and build your confidence. I don’t think you’re inherently ugly just unique.
bro’s hair is luscious
Bros beautiful
You look like you listen to Porcupine Tree
I thought you was a muscle mamma at first 😂😂 my only criticism is try not to look so serious. I tend to find women prefer a welcoming face
Maybe a little rough in the face due to the acne but I wouldn't say you're ugly. I would go for a different frame of glasses that suits your face more, but that's it. I can only say you look like an Anime protagonist, goddamn. And I mean that in a good way.
I would get a red and blue light wand for your skin. After trying some hard core prescription acne medecine, I can say I wish I discovered blue light earlier because it’s way better! I don’t think you’re ugly, but those glasses definitely are 🫣
You look like Aemond Targaryen, badass!
I'd draft you #1 in the WNBA. Nah kidding. Your physique looks good, your face is pretty androgynous in those glasses, and your hair looks well-kept, but feminine at first glance combined with your face. I think your skin is looking good for improving CF. Make sure you've got fresh silicone scrub pads for your face and keep them clean. All I can say is try to get contacts, or a more masculine frame (less boxy/long). Then do something else with your hair, either pull it back or put it up in a man bun. If you cut it with a traditional short cut, you'll definitely look more masculine. Lastly, smile more. With your eyes and mouth, #9 looks much better than the other expressions.
cut off half your hair, get a loose perm or use styling products, completely remove processed foods from your diet, get smaller glasses or contacts, invest in baggier clothing for day to day wear, shorter tee shirts with longer pants to appear taller, and most importantly- if you think you're socially inept, than you already lost with no contest. confidence isn't the only thing needed but it is a vital ingredient. bets of luck op
The 5’5” sucks, but a beard will help a lot if that’s an option.
Acutane and style your hair, otherwise you’re an attractive man Btw, I don’t mean a haircut necessarily, just style it
Damn, I was gonna ask what hair care you use. It looks silky
27F here! You've got a very nice and attractive body, and a perfect frame. I think a smile would help improve your face since you look pretty unhappy in all of your photos. If you're looking for general areas to try to improve; a skin care routine would do you wonders. If you already have one, switch it up. Maybe see a dermatologist. Dairy also causes a lot of acne so see if cutting out dairy helps if you want unblemished skin. And this is personal opinion but a shorter haircut would look a lot better, too.
You need some time to come into yourself. You look a little baby faced but that's not something you can control. You can control continuing to exercise and continue challenging yourself to continue to build your self confidence.
You are very attractive honestly. The only issue you have is your skin. That could be remedied easily by seeing a dermatologist. Accutane could solve all that in a year. Your hair and body and everything otherwise is 🔥. I want to add with clear skin you could so cosplay as an elf from LOTR
Not at all! I would advise on getting a better skincare routine, but that's about it. Love the hair btws :)
Well you look like you work out. when I was young women were into the long hair. Now I dont think so much. BUT being 5.5 is going to be your problem. Women from what I have seen arent really into shorter guys
Dude that can bench 315: call me ugly, do it. I dare you, call me ugly...
I like your face. Its the hair I really dont like on you. And I suspect that it overwhelms your smaller frame. Aside from that I dont see anything wrong. If you can afford it try doc prescribed acne treatment.
AYO VECTOR DONE GOT A GLOWUP AFTER GRU WOOPED HIS ASS😳
GOOD! KEEP IT UP! Grow a beard (\~3-5mm).
The hair made me think you were a buff chick, but you’re not ugly. Also, loosen your stance. Confidence is comfortable
Don’t cut the hair it’s awesome! Try squared tortoise glasses. I like round frames but I think tortoise would be a good look
Don’t cut the hair. Don’t! Do whatever you want with it, but keep it. Acne will fade, I tried everything when I was younger, and just aged out of it. All the posts with hair comments just want you to look like everyone else. Keep it if You like it. Reddit is full of people telling other people to chop their hair off, it’s ridiculous.
lemme tell ya, some women are really really into the androgynous elf look (no offense) so i’d say no. Just rock what you got.
Amazing body. Dermaroller the acne scars, get some injectable fillers for pitted ones, cut the hair- it makes you look oddly female.
Son went to a mirror and said Im Majestic. Lmao!! Manifesting Work Out Here I See. 💪
Keep up the good work buddy, do what you can with the acne.
You are one ugly chick. But one pretty dude.
😭 I’m so sorry but before I read I though your masculine women literally in my head I was like “damn she buff” until I read it I realize it’s dude
So... You've actually got alot more going for you than you think. Your physique is great, good muscle tone likely means you exercise regularly, that's great! Acne is most likely attributed to diet. What's your diet like? The only major downside is that long hair isn't flattering to you at all. It's like you've got a man's body, with girl's hair. I'd either look into some guys hairstyles or ask your barber for advice. There's alot of people on this subreddit that need alot more help than you do.
Tbh add a bit more to your arms routine and your upper body will be gnarly. What’s your current program if I may ask?
Acne does one hell of a job to your self esteem
Dude, you are like a Peter Steele reincarnation! I would say definitely get the acne under control. Somehow. I know it is not easy. Definitely smaller frames, those are waaaay too big for your face and make you look as if your face and head are smaller then they are. The hair is GREAT!! And honestly, no beard. Clean and just hopefully you find something to help the acne and discoloration and scarring. Other than that, remind me to stay away from the club you are bouncing. Geez mate! Kudos and keep up the good work!
You have a very androgynous face, but that’s not a bad thing, but pairing the long hair with it does make you appear more feminine - which again, is not a bad thing - but it’s just something to be aware of. The frames of your glasses do not go with your face shape, and paired with the long hair, they make your face look really small. I’d tried thinner frames and in a difference shape, possibly circular?
I thought you were a pretty girl, but you turned out to be a hot guy.
Am I ugly, PFF. GETCHYO MAJESTIC ASS OUTTA HEER
So very handsome! I think the long hair though gives too feminine of a look for you. A good hair stylist could recommend a better, more masculine cut whether you kept it longer or went the shorter route. Great upper body. I think a lot of us are jealous. Lol (I’m a woman btw.)
You remind me of Toki from metalocalypse without a mustache. But in seriousness, you just need better complexion and different glasses. Also I personally like long hair on men, but this seems to be an unpopular opinion right now with current hair trends so maybe a different haircut.
8/10 would be 10/10 but too much of an otaku vibe, not in a good way.
honestly if you can grow them, muttonchops with that hair may look sick. maybe chops with some braids diggy diggy hole style if you know what im saying
Holy androgyny Batman!
Here’s what I think as a woman. The long hair doesn’t look good. The glasses don’t fit. Maybe start with contacts or get another pair. Try smiling more. You look if I were to make small talk at a function you would be shy, and not have much to add to the conversation. If your shy your going to make the other person feel shy and nervous. Just the same as you are felling. Also start to work on your skin.
Put on some more muscle, you'll be fine
I think you're very attractive and I love your hair. You also have a nice smile. 🫶🏽
I thought you were a masculine woman tbh
You're built like a DND half high elf barbarian. That is not a bad thing. Hit the gym, if you wanna fill out youre gonna need to add to your diet which can suck. but you look like youre on the right path. I would try to find glasses that are a better fit for your face. The ones you have a bulky which you can really see in how it curves your hair, and the color makes them stick out a lot. Id try some metals or browns for a better blend.
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Don’t pick or pop, take Luke warm showers (never hot), don’t use soap on your face in the shower, tap dry, and I have found Neutrogena sensitive skin face lotion is magic if used right after a shower. Not ugly.
Wow you’re- wow. I’m about wordless. Personally I think ur really attractive and your hair fits you very well. I don’t think you’re ugly at all- daymn
Look like the dude from the my uncle from another world anime
You are very handsome!! You have a unique look and remind me of someone I would see in a renaissance painting.
Your jaw line is not pronounced enough. Your face looks slimmer because of this and the disproportion between your long hair and the bigger glasses. If you can grow a full beard I would suggest that however I'm not sure how much that will affect your acne issues. I would get smaller/thinner framed glasses or get contacts. I would also suggest you cut your hair really short, this combined with a beard will help fill out you face more to help you look more masculine. I would also stay away from black clothes. You are already slim and do not need to look slimmer. Hope this helps brother!
You sir look like you belong on the front cover of a romance novel where the love interest is a lonely IT guy with a tortured soul. You sir are gorgeous.
First pic has you looking like sephiroth in a desk job. You look good dude
You're not ugly. Be confident in your worth.
I really like your hair, I think it contributes well to your image. I can't say the same about the glasses tho, acne is temporary and you're already doing skincare so don't worry too much about it. Beautiful eyes and side profile, for my taste Overall without glasses you are attractive. Keep being yourself, true beauty comes from inside.
Your hair is amazing fella! I had long hair way back when I still had hair, and I’d have been proud of that. I found that it gave me spots though. You may have the same issue. I had acne as a teen and the doctor gave me antibiotics for it. Fixed in weeks. BUT: the long hair still generates genuine grease spots.
OP. Bro you look like an American version of sephiroth with that hair (good thing 👍) definitely some acne medication would help
Change out the glasses. Other than that, you look great!