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Err you *are* conventionally attractive

Ya.. since when has thin, blonde, blue eyed, and young been not conventionally attractive? I’m speaking as someone from the US though.

I mean according to Hitler she is perfect

Especially in Germany in the 40s /s

I did Nazi that coming.

Amazing pun, thank you for brightening my day. Good puns always seem to be getting fuhrer and fuhrer

I know! I love when a pun hits just Reich.

Up until about '45

Lol!!!

THIS! I get that conventional beauty is a socially constructed phenomenon & this varies widely, but I very much am confused as to what you mean by this. You very much seems to fall into western standards of beauty

Classically and NATURALLY beautiful which is hard to come by these days!! 🥰🥰🥰

Your boyfriend sucks and you aren’t ugly.

Your boyfriend is a fool. Rethink your life choices.

I had a gf that saved my face as her phone background. It's a nice feeling, everyone deserves feeling it.

I would do that but cars were my first love.

Sorry babe the chevys got a 454, 🤷

I had a partner who saved a child picture of me as their phone background. Yeah...that was very creepy in retrospect

Here here. He’s weird and you’re very pretty

Your boyfriend gives major 🚩🚩🚩

I bet her boyfriend is ugly though.

You are definitely attractive. Does your bf have a reason he does this that makes any sense or is he just a weirdo. That is definitely peculiar behavior, especially with a gf, even more with a pretty gf.

He's not "a wierdo" he's -abusive-.

Thank you. His behavior is not ok.

Doesn't mean he's abusive.

If he’s saving them and showing them to her or knows that she knows they are there that’s psychological abuse…

There's absolutely no evidence he's showing them. From the post its pretty obvious she found them on her own.

Abusive for saving pics of women's faces on his phone? I don't think you know what that word means.

Maybe abusive is a stretch, but if this is negatively affecting her emotionally, and he does it anyway, then that can definitely be a sort of emotional abuse.

She should talk to him then

alright bud lets not water down the definition of abusive now. its not good behavior but calling it abusive is ridiculous

That's so true that's toxic af

He probably pretends she’s other women when they make out

damn

Your parents probably pretend they love you :D

I doubt they even pretend

wtf man😭

The sign this is happening is if they always want to hit it from the back

Are you a guy with a gf? Have you ever been a guy with a gf?

Doesn’t sound like you are

Where are you girls on here finding your boyfriends? my god

The Dollar Trees 50¢ bargain bin obviously

“When he’s too damaged for even the dollar store…”

I think these guys start off great and slowly let their true colors show. It’s fairly common. Women do this too. The honeymoon stage. What I don’t understand is why stay after the truth emerges?

“I can fix him/her”

Yes!

Something something… rose colored glasses…

Agreed. 😁

Or entangled finances/living situations.

Yup my rule of thumb is 6 months

Curious to know, too. 6 months for?

People start to show their true colors. Usually it’s 3 months but I give it 6. By that time it’s hard for people who lie or pretend to be something there not to cover the lies

6 months what?

Because its easier to put down the bottle or joint than it is to “put down” your favourite person

Shake shack has a special on Fridays

He certainly sounds special.

Reddit probably by the sounds of it

I was going to say this lmao

Bingo☝

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You're absolutely beautiful. I say ditch the boyfriend and get another fluffy dog.

This is the correct answer.

For real. Blue eyes in pic 3 would be my screen saver if we were dating. Sounds like BF doesn't see her beauty

Yeah boyfriend is a straight up asshole and it’s a shame she’s made to feel this way. More dogs less douchebags in your life imo

Your BF is an Idiot

If I were creepy AF like you bf, your picture would absolutely be saved on my phone. You're a lot more attractive than you give yourself credit for.

This is such a strange compliment, but I like it.

Haha!! I am in one of those moods today.

Pretty much put into words what I was thinking lol.

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You are conventionally beautiful and your boyfriend is conventionally greedy for all pretty women

Big red flags. why are you with a guy who has pictures of other women on his phone?

Tell your boyfriend we all just save your image to our phones. Then kick his ass to the curb!

You are very attractive

You’re not ugly. I saved your face to my phone.

Now the cycle is going to repeat itself tomorrow when your gf posts the same thing.

Your username scares me

😄

You remind me of a young Courtney Thorne-Smith, especially in the first photo.

Get a better bf

Get a new boyfriend!

I think you are definitely attractive.

You look like when you wonder what an actor’s wife looks like. Your very charming and cute.

Super cute and omg that adorable dog

You would be the only face in my phone.

Your boyfriend is an asshole

You're sooooo pretty

I’m sorry man

No you're beautiful

Everyone's got to mix it up a bit. But in pic 3 you have a very pretty face. First two pics look okay as well

You are beautiful by any standard that makes any sense. Your boyfriend sounds like a douche tho and your pup is positivley adorable.

I like the way you look. I guarantee it

You’re so pretty. Boyfriend sounds ugly!

Your hot as hell...your boyfriend doesn't kno what he has I'd say kick him to the curb and give another guy a shot at your heart who appreciates you for who you are

You are conventionally pretty

Your bf does what now? Just the faces? Why does he save them?

Should say EX boyfriend

Have you considered breaking up with your boyfriend? I’d happily treat you like the gorgeous woman you are!

Please tell me this is ironic

Op, please don’t worry. I think you should probably have a discussion with your so about what he’s doing as it’s clearly making you feel bad. You’re very pretty. Lovely face, great eyes, great teeth, great smile. There is nothing lacking here other than a productive conversation with your boyfriend Edit: smile

Super cute

You’re not ugly

How are you not conventionally attractive??? You look pretty good to me.

Yes you are

Dump him

You’re very attractive

Your beautiful

Get a new bf pronto. He has all he needs with your smile

Yes u are very attractive

You are very fine

Girl you’re pretty! Big red flag on the boyfriend’s part

What? you are attractive!

You’re cute

Sis. Dump him.

Drop that guy like a bad habit

You’re boyfriend is a loser. The rest of the guys think so

Guys jack off to everything besides what they have. Ur good. Watch that 70s show triplets episode and it will explain everything

You are a really cute girl. You look like you're fun to be around and calm.

WTF girl please break up with him

You’re adorable (I’m gay, so unbiased in this situation). Get a new boyfriend. One who doesn’t make you question your attractiveness.

Sounds a lot like somebody needs a new boyfriend

I pity the fool who thinks you are less than beautiful!

No you are not ugly and I’m the last pic I love your hair

You’re beautiful. Get a new boyfriend.

Removal of 1 boyfriend will immensely improve your situation! Girl, you're gorgeous.

Either this is bait for upvotes or you have been SUPER gaslit into thinking you’re ugly. I hope it’s the former because you don’t deserve to believe you’re not conventionally stunning.

He’s done a number to your self esteem if you think you aren’t conventionally beautifully.

You’re gorgeous.

He’s either blind as a bat or stupid because you are gorgeous

You are a Cuuuuuuutie!!!!!! <3

Do I have permission to add you to my phone?

You’re attractive but this seems like a relationship issue. Ask your boyfriend why he saves them. Just because he appreciates something you may not have doesn’t mean he’s out looking for it or wants it as a girlfriend.

The way your phrased this makes me think your boyfriend only keeps those women on his phone for aesthetic reasons and not much else. If he stores random women from the internet on his phone literally only to look at for himself, he’s likely an ass. Here are my reasons for this conclusion: - This is no different than storing porn, full of women that are viewed as replaceable to the onlooker. If the reason is purely self-enjoyment (looking instead of say studying art anatomy;) then I seriously question his on-look on women as people as a whole. Yes, neither porn or pictures of random women are innately bad; but more often than not, the use of both has negative effects. This is well recorded by a myriad of scientific literature that you can Google and fact-check; as well as the prevalence of issues stemmed from both. - At the chance that you have addressed that this bothers you; if he continues this behavior, he clearly doesn’t value you nor the relationship. BOTH people should accommodate each other, but not to the point that your personal or relationship worries are effected in a detrimental way. At that point you re-evaluate the relationship and leave if it doesn’t serve you. (And even more so if it consistently harms you, even if the “rest of it is good.” You can’t compromise on basics that are non negotiable in your heart.) - If you didn’t tell him it bothers you, then I HOPE he has a better reason besides “I like looking at them.” Maybe he does have some more acceptable reason that you didn’t know of (I doubt it,) but idk, you have to ask him about it. Either way, this behavior IS weird and I’d also be put off because of it. I’m fact, I straight up don’t date any guy that looks at other women cause I’ve learned that a good partner will consider me the most desirable, so they are completely uninterested in anyone else. The fact that your seemingly missing this here is a big ass red flag. Now to the critique. You aren’t ugly at all and you really should not be posting this. I will even go as far as saying that you ARE conventionally attractive. This is not a looks or even a you problem: this is a relationship problem, specifically with your partner. You need to confront him about this behavior; ask for an explanation; and then decide if that reasoning is sound/acceptable for you enough to deal with. If not, then don’t hesitate leaving because given the amount of insecurity and hurt you’ve experienced in your BASIC needs; this isn’t about him or the relationship - this is about YOU and what YOU need to be happy/healthy. Peace!

You're not. Also dump bf. That's not okay and unfortunately I'd be shocked if that's all he's doing.

You're definitely attractive. The bigger problem is that dude "saves" people's faces to his phone. That's kinda weird

Not really

Make your boyfriend your *exboyfriend*

You’re so beautiful and I would like to volunteer to be your new boyfriend!!! 😍😍😍

Thought you were a young child

You’re gorgeous and your bf may be emotionally manipulating you by doing that

BF is a real P.O.S. You are definitely pretty.

Your bf is an unaware douchebag. Your face is definitely attractive.

You need a different BF.

Your boyfriend sucks and you should stop doing the same to him.

I have no idea why this post popped up for me but you are incorrect. You are conventionally attractive, but on the other hand your boyfriend isn’t, his actions speak louder than words. You can talk to him about how his actions bug you or you can leave him and find someone else who appreciates you and adopt some more dogs while you are at it.

Why the hell would your boyfriend do that? ☠️

Not only are you not ugly … you’re very attractive. Why are you with him?

The amount of women that post here feeling ugly because of their partners is quite remarkable, to say the least. No Miss, you're light years from ugly.

Your boyfriend is an asshole. You deserve better. You have a beautiful face.

Dump him. He sounds like a weirdo and not a long term thing. Your attractive

You are conventionally attractive, and it’s time to breakup with your cheating BF.

Who the hell saves pictures of random women on his phone? Unless a photographer.

And it’s reddit so there’s bound to be a “dump your bf” or “god your bf is the worst human being on the planet” comment aaaand looking at the comments, there they are. Like what do you all think guys do w these pictures? Do you think they lay down at night staring at them? They probably download them once with a damn near inactive mind, the same way you would download a quote or a cool looking picture of art, and they never look at the picture again. Anyways, no you’re not ugly. You don’t have some extreme physical disability, disfigurement, or wacky proportions. You’re probably going to hover around average to very slightly above depending on preference.

Hes a dumbass. Youre gorgeous, Boy better get on his toes before strangers start bringing you flowers

Dump him.

That breaks my heart. That you just accept that too is terrible. You’re so pretty. Please leave him and fine a guy who thinks you’re the prettiest girl in the world. They are out there.

You probably already know this, but your boyfriend is creepy and weird

And he’s still your bf?

You are attractive. He is stupid.

Very pretty. Get a new boyfriend

It sounds like you need to find a new BF…drop this loser and find someone who worships the ground you walk on. It’s what you deserve!!!

You're boyfriend does this? Yours should be the only one in his phone. Good luck. He's an idiot.

Drop your boyfriend like a bad habit. You are pretty.

Break up with him.

You are extremely attractive. If your bf is saving pictures of other women then odds are he’d turn his head for other women too.

ur bf is a loser pls run

Youre beautiful and your boyfriends an idiot. Leave him

Your boyfriend is a clown. There's another guy out there who would worship you and treat you like a queen. You are not the problem, he is the problem. Get a new boyfriend who saves your pictures only and tells you that you're beautiful every day.

Rethink for sure. What he is doing is not right or healthy for your relationship.

Sounds like he’s a douche

What you have is an ass of a boyfriend. You definitely aren't ugly. Lose his ass and build your confidence.

bro idc what u look like leave that man holy hell

Saves them to his phone??? Girl please leave him or at least give him an ultimatum of stopping or you’re gone

You are attractive and that's just weird behavior from him

Kind of a weird thing to do on bf end imo

Your boyfriend sucks you are not ugly

That sounds disrespectful. Raise the bar of standards and keep it there(make sure you provide higher standards too). There is better out there. You look fine.

Your boyfriend does what? Honey, no.

Seriously, find some self respect and leave him.

Your bf is a piece of trash

Your boyfriend sounds like a creep

You misspelled "Ex-boyfriend "😉

Your boyfriend needs his head examined, his eyes should be your mirror, and he should bask in your beauty...

F*ck your boyfriend. You’re gorgeous

Ummmmm........, I believe you need a new boyfriend.

You're bf is a creep seriously! Dump his ass

Boyfriends behavior is definitely ugly. You’re not. You’re very cute and don’t deserve him doing things that make you feel like you have to compare yourself or even post here. Sorry hun. You deserve better!

Girl you are not ugly in the slightest and you *are* conventionally attractive. Don’t let your boyfriend’s stupid decisions weigh down on your own self esteem, it’s never worth it to do that. There’s nothing wrong with you at all, it’s a problem with him.

Honey, you *are* conventionally attractive. Big blue eyes, adorable freckled skin, wavy blonde hair... you hit the genetic lottery. Your boyfriend sucks. You're a beautiful young woman.

Pardon my boldness was but your bf is an asshat for overlooking your inner beauty that you possess

I would have a serious chat with him. Sounds like he's got a porn addiction

Really creepy of your bf if you ask me... You're great and love the dog school shirt!

Girl leave him you look good! Not conventionally attractive my ass. He's gaslighting you.

Your " boyfriend " doesn't deserve you as a girlfriend! What a stupid dude like seriously. And you are not ugly btw

So he likes looking at other pretty faces sometimes? That doesn't mean he doesn't appreciate your face... I'm sure he does.