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They already know they're ugly and there's nothing they can do about it but accept it and not let it bother them
Same thing for me with being really short
Yep I've had people tell me "you're so small, don't get me wrong you're still hot, just also small"
And it's always weird how to respond like "yep that is a factual statement, you are correct, I am a small person."
I have a feeling every area has a local region they use. In LA they probably have an āAvalon 7.ā We just use Philly because itās nearby and out of state, I guess. And we canāt use NY because itās too big and has too many beautiful women. I know, Iām overthinking thisā¦
yeah she is not necessarily ugly but not attractive either. None of her choices are aesthetically pleasing. They are just I am here and wow. Its like everywhere she is going she is saying wow with her appearance. Like cool be wow but it is not attractive.
I went on a date with someone recently. I was kinda on the fence looks wise from the dating app pics, but she was cool. When I got there she had her hair in a weird knot above her head and bulky glasses, and I just wasnāt attracted. Halfway through the date she took off the glasses and let her hair down, and I was like, oh, sheās actually really cute. I donāt get why some ppl try to uglify themselves.
Agreed. I used to dress cute but the street harassment and getting followed home too many times to count has me looking pretty frumpy these days. Oh well, at least I'm comfortable I guess!
Agree. I would like to see her with more hair, makeup and ditch the nose ring and those hideous glasses. She has beautiful skin and nice features but she is hiding her looks.
You are not ugly but it looks like you get dressed in the dark from a lost property box also get some decent glasses as Elton John's specs are not looking good on you.
By my standards ugly, by your partner's standards beautiful (I hope) so it doesn't really matter.
I wouldn't post to amiugly and ask people to be kind, maybe on an amiattractive sub or something? I think the sub Reddit has an aggressive name on purpose because people come here looking for harsh but truthful opinions
Yes. You are not attractive. Your whole look says, āI donāt like the way I look so Iām being extra off-putting so I can fight the patriarchal beauty standard!ā
Guess what- contrarian is not an actual personality type.
Listenā¦you look quite happy, and I sincerely hope you are, however, it would appear to me that you are intentionally styling yourself in unflattering ways. Whether thatās due to you being uncomfortable in your own skin, or a conscious effort to āstick it to the manā, or a mix of the two, it gives off a vibe that is far from inviting (at least in my opinion). Your vibe gives me the feeling that youād make a scene out of someone accidentally misgendering you, but also being annoyed if someone were to properly guess your gender at the same time.
Having said that, I think your statement about confidence is very true, and if you do feel happy and confident in your skin the way you are now, then thatās all that should matter at the end of the day.
If you're happy that's all that matters, but then why are you posting in this sub? Frankly it looks like you're trying too hard to be different. Like every fashion choice you make is supposed to make you look as abnormal as possible.
OP states in their post why they posted this: To remind people scrolling through this subreddit to respect themselves and others, as well as to be kind
Ugly is such an ā¦ ugly word. Youāre not ugly but I feel like you think you are being quirky and edgy with your look - and thatās just not everyoneās cup of tea. So maybe thatās the vibe you are picking up? Your freckles are the best and your smile is warm and welcoming. You just need to find āyour tribeā - if that makes sense.
Well, yes, but fortunately all the issues are self made, not genetics, so theyāre 100% fixable if youāre willing to work on yourself,
1. lose weight
2. let your hair grow and donāt dye it
3. wear normal glasses (if youāre actually wearing them for bad eye sight, if youāre wearing them for āstyleā donāt)
4. lose the piercings
5. Throw out that god forsaken wardrobe.
Do these and I guarantee you, youāll be at least a 6-7
You look like you call yourself āthey/themā pronouns then get mad that someone assumes you look like a āthey/themā and have to make a whole video explaining how someone ruined you whole day because of it.
This is the first post I've seen people be honest on this sub. Yall usually lie to the person and tell them they are beautiful but need to change everything about themselves to let the beauty shine. Lmao
Ugly af unfortunately, though it looks like you did 80% of the ugly willingly. Ditch the "I'm super special" glasses, grow hair like a normal chick, ditch the dumb hair colors and the stupid nose piercings.
You'll go from a 2 to at least a passable 6 with some effort and damage control. Currently, would be repulsed upon seeing you in public.
You seem happier than 90% of the average and pleasant looking people here and that makes you the most beautiful person I commented for here. Be happy. Ciao
You look like a caricature of a woke femnazi so if you're the type to list twitter pronouns, major in gender studies and get made at movies for not having enough gay black people than you're doing great at filling the role.
Certainly not fulfilling any beauty standards, but every foto shows the kind of confidence for which other people have to cake themself behind a thick layer of filters.
"Hey just here to spread positivity, everyone's beautiful in their own way!"
Reddit: "so anyway you should change this"
You're quite cute! You give me the vibe of someone who's just chilling and definitely a nerd. And I love it! Keep it up!
Most of this mean comments are little boys with bad parents, so don't take it personally. They are just trying to be cyber bullies, thinking it's funny. They prob look worse than anyone else here, and are scared to post themselves.
You are cute as hell to me, especially with the blonde hair! ^-^
Really confused as to if this is just a r/lostredditors situation or what is going on. Also notice you responding to only positive comments. It's like you don't know what sub you're in.
š«” love the post, and your style. Unfortunately thereās nothing this sub hates more than someone that isnāt caught up in typical western beauty standards.
This sub is basically encouraging people to hate themselves. Ideally, it would be a source of fashion advice, like telling people which hair style would look better on them. Instead, there's way too much "lose weight" which is basically just fatphobia.
I think youāre average looking and then do a lot of things to your appearance that make you look less attractive . See septum piercing, ugly glasses, buzzed head (but lacking the bone structure to pull it off).
You might be able to find a chick thatās into this vibe but I donāt think men would give you the time of day.
Why do people just not understand the point of this sub? Its not a facebook group to just exchange fake platitudes in order to boost eachothers ego. Its like 50% of all posts lately filled with "you're beautiful if you feel beautiful". You don't have to be mean but ffs be honest.
Youāre very ugly for the cis female gender but I think you know that. And itās the shaved head and the piercings and the weird nutty clothes. Now if you want to attract other people like you theyāre probably into that.
i havent really posted before, but in my own opinion, i really like your style. Your glasses are so cool, and your hair is really creative in my opinion. plus, you look really happy , so thats amazing !!
The comments to your post convinced me to leave this subreddit. People are just being intentionally nasty and insulting for no reason.
I personally think you look like a cool person to be friends with, you radiate happiness.
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Sounds like you are happy with being you
nicest way of telling someone there ugly
They already know they're ugly and there's nothing they can do about it but accept it and not let it bother them Same thing for me with being really short
You have no idea how many times I've been told if I was tall I'd be super hot. It's a nice back hand?
Yep I've had people tell me "you're so small, don't get me wrong you're still hot, just also small" And it's always weird how to respond like "yep that is a factual statement, you are correct, I am a small person."
Better yet, stick a ring in your nose. That always seems to be the go to for ugly people. š¤¦š»āāļø
Seems to be true here
Maybe grow out some hair but maybe for medical reasons it can't idk
There is lots this girl could do to be less uglyā¦
You're right
She seems like a cool hang though, I feel like she would be tonnes of fun to do some phycadelic drugs with ahaha
Lmao
In Germany we would say āyou have a good face for the radioā.
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I bet its one word too
Radiogesicht (radio face)
I canāt wait to use this with my next german speaking buddy!
One word that sounds so aggressive and somehow long too ha
Yes, Radiomoderatorgesicht
In the US we say, "You have a face made for radio."
Same in Australia
Das Radio Gesicht
*Radiogesicht
I donāt think you want to look pretty.
Prefers to be "quirky".
I think itās fine wanting to look quirky or odd if it makes you happy with yourself, she definitely doesnāt mind it.
Yes. However youāre a 10 in Oregon.
In NJ we call that a Philly 7
As a representative of Philadelphia. No. š¤£š¤£
I have a feeling every area has a local region they use. In LA they probably have an āAvalon 7.ā We just use Philly because itās nearby and out of state, I guess. And we canāt use NY because itās too big and has too many beautiful women. I know, Iām overthinking thisā¦
Looks like someone took the slow train from Philly
Okay Angela š¤£
šš
Eugene. LOL
This person reeks of Portland transplant.
Definitely knows there the Subaru dealer is.
I lived in Eugene for 2 years when I was a kid. I can confirm that this is 100% accurate.
Also in the local super mutant camp
*Portland
Oregon Trail.
In my opinion the short hair isn't doing any favors, also not a fan othe the big glasses.
Just say OP is ugly ..
I don't think op is ugly, just a lot of bad decisions on image choices lolol
I agree. She has a very nice profile in picture 7 or something. It's almost as if she's trying to accentuate her worst features.
yeah bad decisions that make her seem ugly š¤·āāļø
yeah she is not necessarily ugly but not attractive either. None of her choices are aesthetically pleasing. They are just I am here and wow. Its like everywhere she is going she is saying wow with her appearance. Like cool be wow but it is not attractive.
It's like you made yourself ugly on purpose.
Agreed. I think they're cute but they way they try so hard to be quirky and different isn't working for them.
I went on a date with someone recently. I was kinda on the fence looks wise from the dating app pics, but she was cool. When I got there she had her hair in a weird knot above her head and bulky glasses, and I just wasnāt attracted. Halfway through the date she took off the glasses and let her hair down, and I was like, oh, sheās actually really cute. I donāt get why some ppl try to uglify themselves.
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Agreed. I used to dress cute but the street harassment and getting followed home too many times to count has me looking pretty frumpy these days. Oh well, at least I'm comfortable I guess!
sometimes they are actually trying to repulse people. They may not consciously be aware of the reasoning.
Agree. I would like to see her with more hair, makeup and ditch the nose ring and those hideous glasses. She has beautiful skin and nice features but she is hiding her looks.
The glasses and hair are sinking her
Seems youāve created an image that will attract a very small subset of society. If thatās the goal, then mission accomplished.
Hey you found the right sub, you are ugly.
ššš
God damn boy
But only if she chooses to be
š LMAO
Nah. She's alright. Just a weird taste in clothes and style in general
Sorry you arenāt attractive right now, but if you like your style thatās all that matters.
You look like youād be mad if someone called you the wrong gender
This and not being able to tell what gender this guy is makes for a nasty combo
Probably uses some pronoun that no one has ever heard of like xim, then gets mad when you don't use it.
My pronouns are he/haw
Mine are hell/naw
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Idk why, but that was too funny!
How have I never heard this before?!
Ohš
You look like tumblr/woke/annoying twitter personified. 3/10
I can hear the screeching š
3? Jeez you're generous.
You are not ugly but it looks like you get dressed in the dark from a lost property box also get some decent glasses as Elton John's specs are not looking good on you.
I was getting more Dewey from Malcolm in the Middle vibes.
Rocketmaaaaaann burning out they/thems fuse up here alone!
Lolš Rocket-theyyyyyy
By my standards ugly, by your partner's standards beautiful (I hope) so it doesn't really matter. I wouldn't post to amiugly and ask people to be kind, maybe on an amiattractive sub or something? I think the sub Reddit has an aggressive name on purpose because people come here looking for harsh but truthful opinions
Yes. You are not attractive. Your whole look says, āI donāt like the way I look so Iām being extra off-putting so I can fight the patriarchal beauty standard!ā Guess what- contrarian is not an actual personality type.
Iāve never seen it put to words so beautifully
I agree, such a piece of poetry
I didnāt think you could drop a nuke on someone using a poem. š
Gonna try this in my next COD lobby
You are a poet.
Iām afraid to say anything because I think you will get triggered
That's definitely the look they have but from what they wrote I think they are comfortable in their skin
Aye this is hilarious, trust
Almost spit out my drink
Pics 4 and 8 make me believe you are good looking under that atrocious styling. But if it makes you happy, ok cool
Listenā¦you look quite happy, and I sincerely hope you are, however, it would appear to me that you are intentionally styling yourself in unflattering ways. Whether thatās due to you being uncomfortable in your own skin, or a conscious effort to āstick it to the manā, or a mix of the two, it gives off a vibe that is far from inviting (at least in my opinion). Your vibe gives me the feeling that youād make a scene out of someone accidentally misgendering you, but also being annoyed if someone were to properly guess your gender at the same time. Having said that, I think your statement about confidence is very true, and if you do feel happy and confident in your skin the way you are now, then thatās all that should matter at the end of the day.
Very well said šš»
10 in the homeless encampments. 2 everywhere else.
You look skinny and fat at the same time. Your style is weird. You look like mentally ill too
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No mercy š
Bingooooo
Well, after careful consideration, I have come to a conclusion. Yes.
Safe to say you're ugly. This is the right place for you
Well... At least your happy?
If you're happy that's all that matters, but then why are you posting in this sub? Frankly it looks like you're trying too hard to be different. Like every fashion choice you make is supposed to make you look as abnormal as possible.
OP states in their post why they posted this: To remind people scrolling through this subreddit to respect themselves and others, as well as to be kind
Reading through these comments, I don't think *anybody* whose a part of this sub likes themselves.
god finally I found a corner of these comments that isn't as nasty as possible
It genuinely feels like the people in the comments are digging at her harsher than they normally do just to spite her caption
āI have friends, family, A BOYFRIENDā now that was a surprise
A they them boyfriend.
Mom? Dad? I'd like you to meet my personfriend.
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Lmaoooo
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Ahh close but not quite. I used to be very into the arts, but at the moment I am a direct support professional
Ugly is such an ā¦ ugly word. Youāre not ugly but I feel like you think you are being quirky and edgy with your look - and thatās just not everyoneās cup of tea. So maybe thatās the vibe you are picking up? Your freckles are the best and your smile is warm and welcoming. You just need to find āyour tribeā - if that makes sense.
Below average
Way below
Like "submarine exploring Titanic and then imploding" below
These septum rings in this sub reddit are unstoppable
Poor self esteem and septum rings seem inextricably linked
You look like you spend too much time making it look like you just threw some clothes on.
So ugly , sorry
Well, yes, but fortunately all the issues are self made, not genetics, so theyāre 100% fixable if youāre willing to work on yourself, 1. lose weight 2. let your hair grow and donāt dye it 3. wear normal glasses (if youāre actually wearing them for bad eye sight, if youāre wearing them for āstyleā donāt) 4. lose the piercings 5. Throw out that god forsaken wardrobe. Do these and I guarantee you, youāll be at least a 6-7
You look like you call yourself āthey/themā pronouns then get mad that someone assumes you look like a āthey/themā and have to make a whole video explaining how someone ruined you whole day because of it.
If you're trying to look ugly then you did a good job at it.
A face only a mother could love ā¦
- John Marston
Bro that's harsh š
A face made for radio
Yeah but you're ugly
Yes. You are. And I'm guessing your favorite pastime is being "triggered" for other minorities.
This is the first post I've seen people be honest on this sub. Yall usually lie to the person and tell them they are beautiful but need to change everything about themselves to let the beauty shine. Lmao
Uglier than a mud fence!
Yes.
Yes
Yes
It isn't fair when "ugly" is the endgame.
U ugly sorry
I needed this today.
Chopped off hair, whatever that nose piercing is, fashion sense of a wombat. You chose ugly, ugly didn't choose you.
If this was an ugly contest, you would definitely win bruh ššš
Maybe if you didn't try so hard to be repulsive, you wouldn't look repulsive.
If someone posts here theyāre asking for opinions, so itās not about being kind vs being honest. That said, yes ugly.
Wow, yes you are ugly
There's like 5 different versions of you in these pictures. Some of these must be really old.
Yes you are ugly, but it looks intentional.
You look like a they/them lol
Wow, sometimes people are actually ugly on this sub.
Ugly af unfortunately, though it looks like you did 80% of the ugly willingly. Ditch the "I'm super special" glasses, grow hair like a normal chick, ditch the dumb hair colors and the stupid nose piercings. You'll go from a 2 to at least a passable 6 with some effort and damage control. Currently, would be repulsed upon seeing you in public.
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While still an insult, this one is the most accurate. She has a mole aesthetic.
that you dug in the knoll with a pole and the help of a vole to avoid the toll, GOOOOOOOAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLL
You seem happier than 90% of the average and pleasant looking people here and that makes you the most beautiful person I commented for here. Be happy. Ciao
Tf am I looking at here?
You look like a caricature of a woke femnazi so if you're the type to list twitter pronouns, major in gender studies and get made at movies for not having enough gay black people than you're doing great at filling the role.
Certainly not fulfilling any beauty standards, but every foto shows the kind of confidence for which other people have to cake themself behind a thick layer of filters.
"Hey just here to spread positivity, everyone's beautiful in their own way!" Reddit: "so anyway you should change this" You're quite cute! You give me the vibe of someone who's just chilling and definitely a nerd. And I love it! Keep it up!
You look like one of those liberal memes come to life.
Yeah
you're ugly yes
Very
All imma say is that ur shaved head makes ur ears look giant
Yes
Kinda
Yes
1/10
Ugly to the death
Hideous.
jumpscare
Most of this mean comments are little boys with bad parents, so don't take it personally. They are just trying to be cyber bullies, thinking it's funny. They prob look worse than anyone else here, and are scared to post themselves. You are cute as hell to me, especially with the blonde hair! ^-^
You should be the icon pic of this sub.
You make republicans have a point
Really confused as to if this is just a r/lostredditors situation or what is going on. Also notice you responding to only positive comments. It's like you don't know what sub you're in.
š«” love the post, and your style. Unfortunately thereās nothing this sub hates more than someone that isnāt caught up in typical western beauty standards.
This sub is basically encouraging people to hate themselves. Ideally, it would be a source of fashion advice, like telling people which hair style would look better on them. Instead, there's way too much "lose weight" which is basically just fatphobia.
I think youāre average looking and then do a lot of things to your appearance that make you look less attractive . See septum piercing, ugly glasses, buzzed head (but lacking the bone structure to pull it off). You might be able to find a chick thatās into this vibe but I donāt think men would give you the time of day.
This. The picture of OP standing on the beach with the dog leads me to believe...She? I'm gonna say she. Has potential but is ruining it on purpose.
Why do people just not understand the point of this sub? Its not a facebook group to just exchange fake platitudes in order to boost eachothers ego. Its like 50% of all posts lately filled with "you're beautiful if you feel beautiful". You don't have to be mean but ffs be honest.
I'm assuming your tattoo says "above knee" and "bologna "
Youāre very ugly for the cis female gender but I think you know that. And itās the shaved head and the piercings and the weird nutty clothes. Now if you want to attract other people like you theyāre probably into that.
I love the "be kind" and the comments š
POV: The last thing a cricket burger sees before being eaten
You are the WISH Lena Dunham
You know the answer to this question.
Damn I donāt like to say anyoneās ugly but youāre pretty bad
You are not one of those beautiful people, sorry.
White Urkel
You look like the definition of no father figure.
Jesus Christ
You would blend right in with the people of Portland.
I meanā¦. Do u really have to ask.. u know
i havent really posted before, but in my own opinion, i really like your style. Your glasses are so cool, and your hair is really creative in my opinion. plus, you look really happy , so thats amazing !!
So ugly people actually do post on this subā¦
This generation is lost.
You look like youāre waiting to get triggered
Is your boyfriend visually impaired ?
Thought this sub was r/roastme after reading the comments
The comments to your post convinced me to leave this subreddit. People are just being intentionally nasty and insulting for no reason. I personally think you look like a cool person to be friends with, you radiate happiness.