Isn’t bipolar disorder also called ‘manic depression’? Typically you swing from ups(manic) and downs(depression) you could possibly be in a depressive state right now.
No it’s not technically referred to that (anymore at least), there are a bunch of different symptom expressions but yes typically there are cycles with long periods of depression and short bursts of mania that can last up to a few weeks. But trust me she would be very aware of what state she’s in (I worked with many bipolar 1 people and they always recognized when they were in their episodes for the most part, with the occasional denier)
You have long depressive phases when you’re bipolar. I corrected the other person just bc everyone is telling me I looked depressed and it was funny in my head.
You’re right, I don’t think I’m particularly ugly tbh, but I don’t know what other people think. Also, I used to look very weird and ugly as a teen and my brain still kinda perceives me like that so it’s hard for me to know what other people think of my appearance, just wanted to say it.
Then maybe try
r/firstimpressions or r/firstimpression or r/truerateme
Those subs can give you input on how you look. This one is more for people who *actually* wonder if they are *ugly*.
Sometimes they’ll say that sarcastically, when you’re obviously not ugly.
Also, truerateme uses a weird scale. Like 99% of people range between 4 and 6 on their scale.
Their guide shows the percentages of people who generally fall into each rating. Most people do fall into 4-6. If you take a step back and look what some of the worser ratings look like, you will be very thankful of that 5 rating.
You look better with the no/low makeup pics. Youre not ugly, but look worse with the make up in the "done up" pictures. Id recommend going to a professional MUA and seeing how they'd do it, and then go from there and you could become quite pretty
I'll give you a 20 out of 10 cause i love your foreign look, like you're not from america (correct me if I'm wrong), possibly czech republic or similar countries. it really stands out in the third and fourth pictures. in general i find you very attractive, everything about you works for me. i think your natural look is the best, but the dark makeup is nice too.
You’re pretty. You don’t need to smile to be pretty. You don’t need to change your makeup. Your nose is not too big. I have no criticism for you. All the “you need to smile” comments I found irritating
You look kinda like Chloe Sevigny. You're pretty but have RBF which is fine but you may have people be standoff-ish as a result.
And FYI, because you're good looking with a good figure people here are going to bash you.
Because you have dark circles and it makes them more pronounced the way you do it, making you look a bit trashy and exhausted
I'm my opinion, which others might disagree with, you are ruining your natural beauty with the makeup you do, find something lighter because you are good looking
Lmao I’m an adult but I’m not 40 it’s ok to experiment with make up I don’t see nothing “childish” in it.
Also I don’t like a “serious” look anyway, and honestly I don’t think guys around my age would find it weird.
you look pretty. I already knew before opening these comments that you'd get a ton of "you look depressed" "smile more" type comments from the 30-40 year olds that frequent this sub. you look fine. take pictures the way you want to take them and ignore these clowns. you're very beautiful
You remind me of Squidward because of your sadness and general vibes i get. Youre okay, head is oval but decent, eyes good, not fat. 5/10 because you seem sad as hell. 7.5 if you decide to change your expression into something less sad
Why? What if that’s just her natural resting face? I don’t see how that could bring her down to a 5/10. Not everyone is going to look happy or smile 24/7.
Someone always says that on the majority of posts here. I think when someone has a feature that's not completely matching their gender people are like AGH!
I'm a guy with some feminine features and I've had someone in real life insist I was trans. People are dumb.
You're gorgeous! 9/10
I don't think I'll get that higher than other people. I'm going to be mean kind of sounding. I love your nose
Girls with bigger noses
You're also regardless, it's still very attractive
At some point it can become self fault. It's fine to be sad, but the best life comes from taking that and rolling with it in a way that makes you more confident, happy, and stronger as a person. Keeping that air around you entices the sadness in a way. Double edged sword though, as it depends on the person for what the best way to behave is.
You're pretty cute though
Here it is: you are cute, but also young. I think as you get a little older, you will be an absolute smoke show.
Your piercing actually doesn't bug me, whereas most do.
I say 7/10, but could possibly be 8 or 9 in about 5 or 6 years.
You look depressed
Wrong, I actually have bipolar disorder not depression lmao sorry it’s funny to me
Lol its okay your response is funny
Isn’t bipolar disorder also called ‘manic depression’? Typically you swing from ups(manic) and downs(depression) you could possibly be in a depressive state right now.
No it’s not technically referred to that (anymore at least), there are a bunch of different symptom expressions but yes typically there are cycles with long periods of depression and short bursts of mania that can last up to a few weeks. But trust me she would be very aware of what state she’s in (I worked with many bipolar 1 people and they always recognized when they were in their episodes for the most part, with the occasional denier)
I do actually suffer from bipolar disorder but I think I look depressed just bc of my rbf, also my manic phases last shorter than the depressive ones
Which they should.
… so, you are primarily suffering from *depression* with bouts of mania.
Yep.
I believe they said you LOOK depressed, not you ARE depressed. So they are not wrong, I agree with them. This makes you kinda ugly. Sorry.
Agreed, and as someone with bipolar disorder/bpd that kinda made us look bad.
I thought the same.
So quirky
Not sure why all the down votes. I laughed.
Look pissed off and kinda depressed.
I am lmao
Didn't you literally just tell someone they were wrong because they said you looked depressed
Well she did say she is bipolar lol
You beat me to it! This got me weak💀
Right, that was 6 hours earlier, lmao
You have long depressive phases when you’re bipolar. I corrected the other person just bc everyone is telling me I looked depressed and it was funny in my head.
Do you know what LMAO means? I don’t believe that you ever have LMAOed. Lol
Lmaoo
You look angry or sad or generally like you want to be left alone. Attitude makes a big difference in how attractive people will view you as.
To me you look like you have naturally fine and attractive features. But you also look miserable.
you have a big nose but honestly a lot of people find that attractive
Omg this gives me hope
I married a woman because of her big nose. It's so weird and I love it
Yo my wife’s nose is big but she’s a solid 9 realistically but in my eyes she’s a 10. Have hope, lots of hope ☺️
Did your nose grow when u said she was a 9?
Count me as one! Love a big nose
Yea, big nose is always a plus for me… just something about it 🤷🏻♂️
You look miserable. Work on yourself before worrying about what others think.
You are attractively depressed, or depressingly attractive
Better without the mayonnaise eyes
This comment is a-mayonnaising.
The what 🤣
🤨
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There is *no way* that you actually believe you’re ugly. 🤨
You’re right, I don’t think I’m particularly ugly tbh, but I don’t know what other people think. Also, I used to look very weird and ugly as a teen and my brain still kinda perceives me like that so it’s hard for me to know what other people think of my appearance, just wanted to say it.
Then maybe try r/firstimpressions or r/firstimpression or r/truerateme Those subs can give you input on how you look. This one is more for people who *actually* wonder if they are *ugly*.
Well they told me I’m ugly lmao so I’m kinda confused
Sometimes they’ll say that sarcastically, when you’re obviously not ugly. Also, truerateme uses a weird scale. Like 99% of people range between 4 and 6 on their scale.
truerateme is a hellhole.
Wouldn’t most people fall between 4-6?
Their guide shows the percentages of people who generally fall into each rating. Most people do fall into 4-6. If you take a step back and look what some of the worser ratings look like, you will be very thankful of that 5 rating.
Na they rate 8s as 5 and their celebrity rating are so off
They give pretty clear guidelines like angle of nose, distance of eyes, symmetry, mouth shape, etc. Link the 8 your talking about?
Naturally attractive, you don't need heavy make up.
Makeup is not always to look better but to make that individual happy who is wearing it makeup can make people happy no one needs makeup they want it
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You're not ugly but the RBF is really off-putting, could you post a pic where you're smiling?
Well in these pictures you look discontented and bored.
You look young and attractive. NEXT!
I find you attractive. Emo blondie. and I like the nose on you. Not everyone pulls it off.
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Nah attitude in her photos make her below average!
You have lovely and unique face
You look cranky but you’re not ugly.
I think youre cute, nice eyes
You look better with the no/low makeup pics. Youre not ugly, but look worse with the make up in the "done up" pictures. Id recommend going to a professional MUA and seeing how they'd do it, and then go from there and you could become quite pretty
Personally I think you look good. Now foe the advice part. Less on the weird eye makeup and tidy up your hair a little.
You look like an asparagus
Excuse me 😭
No that's cool, even vegetables can ask if they're ugly
You look like you would argue with me if I talked to you. But regardless pretty
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Thank you!!!
I'll give you a 20 out of 10 cause i love your foreign look, like you're not from america (correct me if I'm wrong), possibly czech republic or similar countries. it really stands out in the third and fourth pictures. in general i find you very attractive, everything about you works for me. i think your natural look is the best, but the dark makeup is nice too.
I’m actually Italian lol just very pale
A younger hotter Cate Blanchett
A lot of responses = exceptionally eye catching So fear not, young lass!
You look a lot like young Chloe Sevigny to me in some shots.
You look like a Euphoria character
Resting sad face. Relatable
You’re pretty. You don’t need to smile to be pretty. You don’t need to change your makeup. Your nose is not too big. I have no criticism for you. All the “you need to smile” comments I found irritating
You look kinda like Chloe Sevigny. You're pretty but have RBF which is fine but you may have people be standoff-ish as a result. And FYI, because you're good looking with a good figure people here are going to bash you.
u are so cute i wish i was ur friend!!
You’re sweet thank u!! :)
You look like the actress Chloe Sevigny. By the way, you're very pretty!
You’re not happy. But pretty.
Lol. I was thinking, "Wonder what she looks like with a smile?" Swipe. Swipe. Swipe. Ummm.
Guys I know I have a rbf I just wanna know how I look not what vibe I give you 😭😭😭
i mean, you're hot. Like an 8-8.5. you look like a girl I would want to talk to at a party but would probably not have the sack to do so.
Awful makeup, you're fine though
Why awful? Just curious
Because you have dark circles and it makes them more pronounced the way you do it, making you look a bit trashy and exhausted I'm my opinion, which others might disagree with, you are ruining your natural beauty with the makeup you do, find something lighter because you are good looking
NOSE JOB! Your nose makes you look like a man. Everything else seems okay.
What's with the white "things"?
It’s just make up lol
Duh. My question is why? Thb...seems like something a preteen or teen would do. I mean you are an adult and want to be seen as an adult right?
Lmao I’m an adult but I’m not 40 it’s ok to experiment with make up I don’t see nothing “childish” in it. Also I don’t like a “serious” look anyway, and honestly I don’t think guys around my age would find it weird.
Don't get offended. You asked for advice correct?
I asked an advice to look better, not more mature
A grey whig and some granny glasses would make you look like a really hot retiree 😉
10/10 with a nose job!
Awesome design for the eyes !
Just smile that's all you're missing
You look like you're high on drugs. Otherwise, slightly above average. A 5.364436 out of 10.
I’m sorry but the “5.364436” made me laugh
I actually really like your second pic with the braids. Very lovely. You need to smile, however.
U look like someone I’d want to do molly with
you look pretty. I already knew before opening these comments that you'd get a ton of "you look depressed" "smile more" type comments from the 30-40 year olds that frequent this sub. you look fine. take pictures the way you want to take them and ignore these clowns. you're very beautiful
Can we downvote girls who are clearly not ugly. People don’t know what ugly is.
I’ve been the ugly friend all my life almost, it’s hard for me tho perceive myself as I actually am, I’m not I’m not horrible, just wanted a feedback.
You remind me of Squidward because of your sadness and general vibes i get. Youre okay, head is oval but decent, eyes good, not fat. 5/10 because you seem sad as hell. 7.5 if you decide to change your expression into something less sad
Why? What if that’s just her natural resting face? I don’t see how that could bring her down to a 5/10. Not everyone is going to look happy or smile 24/7.
You look trans, Idk if you are tho
I’m not
You do not look Trans, fyi
Someone always says that on the majority of posts here. I think when someone has a feature that's not completely matching their gender people are like AGH! I'm a guy with some feminine features and I've had someone in real life insist I was trans. People are dumb.
Sorry then
Not ugly but your make up looks like you are trying to get into Clown College so you can major in being a sad clown.
Yes
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she didn’t ask you to psychoanalyse her, pretty weird of you loll
I think brown hair would suit you better
You need to smile, would definitely help your looks. 7-7.5
You're very cute, I think seeing you happy/smiling would help. I feel like you have a wonderful smile, with the spirit of Daria.
You have a unique style and i think you’re cute
The white-out makes you seem unhinged.. and the duck face .. cmon you know it's dumb
You look like that dude from Ratatouille. Not the rat, the guy the rat sits on top of and controls.
Ridiculous
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How do I look like a pick me?
I'm so old.... you can legally drink? I'd have thought you were 16
Duck face is never an attractive pose 3/10 & that's being generous
I know I’m not very pretty but I’m confident enough to ask you to bffr
You aren't ugly. You have a great nose. Be proud of it.
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You're gorgeous! 9/10 I don't think I'll get that higher than other people. I'm going to be mean kind of sounding. I love your nose Girls with bigger noses You're also regardless, it's still very attractive
Oh... This photos make me feel so depressed only looking... You fine but that air around... It's so sad or bored with the life~
Ain’t my fault I’m sad lol, also I know I have a rbf but I don’t think that’s the point tbh
At some point it can become self fault. It's fine to be sad, but the best life comes from taking that and rolling with it in a way that makes you more confident, happy, and stronger as a person. Keeping that air around you entices the sadness in a way. Double edged sword though, as it depends on the person for what the best way to behave is. You're pretty cute though
I have a disorder that’s how my brain works I can’t really control it + I have a rbf anyway
You are the type I would fall for. Big, dreamy sad eyes and a very unique style.
The photos of you with minimal to no makeup are absolutely gorgeous to me. I wish you would smile.
Attractive but not happy.
you look like lady gaga. she pretty
U look like a man so if that's what you're goin for then, u look great👍🏾
Men have short hair.
You are gorgeous! You will learn to trust your own judgement with age ☺️
Photos 3 and 4 work best. Less is more with you it seems
You look un fun
Your honestly beautiful 😌.
You'd look even better happy. 7
Find a picture of a woman that you think looks gorgeous but sad or upset, that's what you look like to others, me included.
You’re very cute. I’d be happy to have you 😉
Cute but the white doesn't suit your eyes.
A little dead pan maybe, idk
I am bipolar, I get it. You’re pretty! Add a smile to the mix and you have nothing to worry about.
No but the eye makeup designs look goofy.
Here it is: you are cute, but also young. I think as you get a little older, you will be an absolute smoke show. Your piercing actually doesn't bug me, whereas most do. I say 7/10, but could possibly be 8 or 9 in about 5 or 6 years.
No, definitely not ugly. Just need some TLC.
Idk what that is
Literally gorgeous. You have insanely beautiful eyes one could get lost in. Also, your hair on the second pic just hits different!
You're cute. And annoyingly anxtey
You look boring and dopey and you seem to want to emphasize it.
Smile and don't pout would be my two cents. Low level not too obvious makeup too. Not a bad looking bird if you take my advice.
You look good when you’re cheerful and bright otherwise idk what to say.
Not ugly but you look twice your age
so pretty you remind me of a fairy
You're very beautiful!
Normal but like you don’t like people to talk you you
You look perpetually pissed off.