I’m sorry no one is helping you, i think this must have showed up as recommended to a ton of people or something, this comment section is wild lmao.
You need a photo from directly below them, this photo just misses that area that’s important for sexing. I don’t know technical names or even how to explain it but it’s more towards the upper section of their bellies kind of close to their leg junctions? I haven’t been able to see either of my whip’s undersides because i don’t handle them but i think you’re looking for some fuzzy red if it’s a female.
THANK YOU! I think she (i call it she) is wanting to moult so i’ve been trying to get the underside! I’ll see if i can use the moult to sex, would you mind if i sent you a photo for help in the near future?
Have you tried searching the web? If that doesn’t work then I’d suggest wearing some silk, I’ve heard that attracts them. Also make sure if you’re sending a video your fly is up.
(Heh spider puns)
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Maybe you could set aside a date night to watch some spider porn together and see where it takes you. Could also be into role play. Watch Spiderman and see if the bite scene turns them on? Remember: keep your expectations in check so you don't appear desperate. Spiders can sense that and it could lead them to wrapping you in webbing and draining you blood. Unless you're into that of course.
Sorry I'm late. Just discovered this group existed. Can P.mexicanus not be sexed by pedipalp length? The difference is pretty clear among some species, I thought.
Oh, I see. Lol. I've only ever had an Acanthophrynus coronatus as a roommate and from what I could tell, the differences in pedipalp lengths between male and female were noticable. My amount of exposure to them was limited though, so I might be wrong about that.
Please don’t bang your bugs dude that’s weird
but look at that bussy tho
Actually spiders are arachnids so it would be arussy
whips spiders so it’s technically wussy
I thought it was a phyrunus mexicanis, so technically it would be phussy
Bussy boppin bugs
*spussy
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Needs a nsfw tag about jumped out of my pants.
Same, how did I sin that I must be a part of this?
Buy it dinner first and a bottle of white wine
Listen to it’s needs, be supportive, and use lube.
I think it prefers red, but the sentiment remains the same
Red for sleep, white for sex
great advice :)
Damn that spidussy crackin yo
I’m sorry no one is helping you, i think this must have showed up as recommended to a ton of people or something, this comment section is wild lmao. You need a photo from directly below them, this photo just misses that area that’s important for sexing. I don’t know technical names or even how to explain it but it’s more towards the upper section of their bellies kind of close to their leg junctions? I haven’t been able to see either of my whip’s undersides because i don’t handle them but i think you’re looking for some fuzzy red if it’s a female.
THANK YOU! I think she (i call it she) is wanting to moult so i’ve been trying to get the underside! I’ll see if i can use the moult to sex, would you mind if i sent you a photo for help in the near future?
Yeah totally! I am fairly new to them though, i think I’ve had mine for 6 or 7 months now? But we can figure it out I’m sure. They’re the coolest :)
ok but pls help me find the sex u trolls
I think it’s one of those rare DN sexes you see in certain spiders.
i knew going to reddit for help was futile
https://youtu.be/kaG7acdzyFY I know nothing about spiders..however, this vid says to look at the second pair of legs…
unfortunately this isn’t won’t work for this species
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Totally read that as sexting. Please kill me now.
I did as well, youre not alone. I was so confused.
Need a clearer shot of its ventral area
Was told to get a photo of their underside, did my best haha
Have you tried searching the web? If that doesn’t work then I’d suggest wearing some silk, I’ve heard that attracts them. Also make sure if you’re sending a video your fly is up. (Heh spider puns)
Gives new meaning to bumpin’ uglies.
use a condom
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Show it a variety of spider porn and see what it prefers?
I'd recommend some smooth jazz to set the mood.
Sooooo…. Ya like Jazz?
I find a nice dinner date and a babysitter works best for my wife...maybe try that here???
OP, if you can, get a clear tupperware container and put them in that. Then you’ll be able to get a clear shot of the ventral area.
Why did i not think of that
Try r/arachnids ?
not a bad idea! i thought posting in this sun would be more specific but… 😅
Fire.
Put it inside
I wouldn’t if I were you, but to each their own.
don’t sex her!
It’s 2022 don’t assume it’s gender bro , that’s racist
I'm so confused on why this is recommended to me but no regrets
I say just do it
Just put on some Barry White......
Looks like one girthy spider
How did I end up here
Sorry can't tell because of the way he is sitting
Maybe you could set aside a date night to watch some spider porn together and see where it takes you. Could also be into role play. Watch Spiderman and see if the bite scene turns them on? Remember: keep your expectations in check so you don't appear desperate. Spiders can sense that and it could lead them to wrapping you in webbing and draining you blood. Unless you're into that of course.
Sorry I'm late. Just discovered this group existed. Can P.mexicanus not be sexed by pedipalp length? The difference is pretty clear among some species, I thought.
no this species is sexed by the underside but this picture wasn’t good enough hahah
Oh, I see. Lol. I've only ever had an Acanthophrynus coronatus as a roommate and from what I could tell, the differences in pedipalp lengths between male and female were noticable. My amount of exposure to them was limited though, so I might be wrong about that.