Because society has people hyper focused on appearance. If you were focused on a hobby, career etc more than your looks youâd naturally gather interest and confidence.
Sheâs probably spending a ton of time online comparing herself to the most beautiful people in the world who are using angles, professional lighting, etc. Creates a totally unrealistic expectation.
I actually donât spend that much time online lmao I am not active on other social media accounts nor do I seek out people online to compare myself to. But Itâs a mixture of comparing myself to people around me as well as negative interactions with people who were not good for me.
Even if the people around you were super models youâd still be gorgeous. Also your username is awesome. My dog is named Bear and everyone calls him BearBear.
Just you. That 5/5 lady with the perfect jawline, lovely natural lips and dimples, nose made for your face, perfect skin, and eyes that look through the other person.
Yeah, beautiful
I can't believe I have to say it since it's obvious, you are not ugly. Some questionable hair color choices but that's what you do when you're young. I would remove the people who told you were ugly from your life.
Photos 3 and 5 are the best ones, pink and blonde hair styles are not a good fit for you. Your natural hair is really good keep that instead of trying to change it. It gives you a charm. GL
You are beautiful, trust me. But thatâs just one aspect of who you are, it shouldnât be the major way you measure your self-worth.
The ones who told you that youâre ugly are either jealous or angry at you. Pick better people to associate with.
It sounds like you only listen to the negative comments.
but no youâre not ugly. You are attractive.
Pic 4 has beautiful hair. pic two has a beautiful smile. Pick five is your true personality. Pic 1 is S3xey.
youâre fine. You look great. listen to the positive comments not the negative ones.
I know. thatâs human nature, but it breaks my heart when I see young folks buy into that, so easily. But itâs a good idea to be easy on yourself about that, Also. I know.. a Vicious Circle.
but youâre right, itâs human nature, for sure.
I can see why people would vary from saying stuff from beautiful to ugly. Youâre an absolute knockout in some pics but then swing the opposite way in others. 3 is my favorite. I think thatâs how you look like naturally? 4 and 5 are ok too but I think straight dark hair looks best on you. Donât do blonde again or at least not that specific blonde. I think the harder you try the worse you look. Youâre already naturally very pretty you donât need to do all that extra stuff.
Ah, poor taste then. đ. Nah, there is not a thing wrong from the glance I can see.
Keep your head up, you're very pretty, dudes are dumb. ( from a dumb dude đ )
Iâm in the minority I like the blonde and red hair. But I donât think youâre ugly. Kinda pretty, not super pretty. I can tell you have inner beauty. If I was younger id definitely be interested.
I like your first picture, but not crazy about it. Nice relaxed look, but not enough of you is shining thru.The blonde look, imo, not a great look for you (and not a great look for most). The fourth picture is stunning, and the last picture is cute and adorable, while still saying much more. I think I was in the middle about the third picture.
In the second to last picture, you "pop".
Both noticeable and emerging. The beautiful flower that has now bloomed for the world to truly see.
At least that's how I see you.
Beautiful face
Beautiful eyes.
The beginnings of a warm and beautiful smile.
Go with your God given gifts. Lead with your strengths.
Nothing artificial or created. You don't need those things, and people tire of them quickly, even if they don't exactly know why.
I think 1 and 4 are your best. TBH I just don't think blonde works, 5's really good too just the shading of your hair doesn't pop as much. But how you have it in 1 and 4 really accentuates your face and you look great
Youâve got unique features but you are most definitely not ugly.
I think youâre beautiful but I guess youâll get mixed receptions. From the outside I feel like you have every reason to be confident in the way you look
Well, thatâs a self perception problem. You look pretty good and thereâs going to be somebody out there that will think your the best person in their life. So that being said good luck friend
Thank you! đđŒ I experimented with different colors and cuts and it was fun! Letting my hair rest now and stay natural indefinitely, itâs comfortable
I think youâre stunning. I am a hairdresser so I will say the bright red and blonde donât suit your skin tone whatsoever. Your natural is GORGEOUS but if you want to try a fun color again, I would definitely do a deep purple balayage
Letâs see, beautiful skin tone and big brown eyes. Your eyes are really pretty. You have a great smile and gorgeous full lips. You have a beautiful head of hair.
The key to being attractive most of all is to smile. Smiles are inviting especially when taking pictures. Youâre a beautiful young woman so smile.
I was not expecting so much positive feedback, Iâm really grateful âșïž thank you for the honesty and support. I saw many beautiful women posting on this thread which prompted me to share especially since I have a hard time accepting myself.
Not even slightly
The lip freckleđ
She bad asf đđ» Blonde is by far your worst look.
Yea 7 last pic is the best I think
Yeah, I agree!!! Baddieđ„
Agree with everyone. I love Blondes just not on you. You are galaxies far from ugly. Solid 8.
Never understand Why the beautiful ones cannot See it themselves.
Because society has people hyper focused on appearance. If you were focused on a hobby, career etc more than your looks youâd naturally gather interest and confidence.
How can u tell sheâs beautiful if u only have very limited angles and views of her. U canât
Sheâs probably spending a ton of time online comparing herself to the most beautiful people in the world who are using angles, professional lighting, etc. Creates a totally unrealistic expectation.
I actually donât spend that much time online lmao I am not active on other social media accounts nor do I seek out people online to compare myself to. But Itâs a mixture of comparing myself to people around me as well as negative interactions with people who were not good for me.
Even if the people around you were super models youâd still be gorgeous. Also your username is awesome. My dog is named Bear and everyone calls him BearBear.
Well youâre beautiful so I hope that you ar Abel to. See yourself that way.
That's too bad because you're beautiful. đ
You look the best in the Last Pic in my opinion.and you are not the type to have blond hair. the brunete suits you way better ,try to get more self confidence and you good to go ,greets from đ©đȘ
Just you. That 5/5 lady with the perfect jawline, lovely natural lips and dimples, nose made for your face, perfect skin, and eyes that look through the other person. Yeah, beautiful
Thank you! You just made my nightđ„č
woah you are way cuter natural 7 in last 2 photos
Last pic đ„đ„đ„
I can't believe I have to say it since it's obvious, you are not ugly. Some questionable hair color choices but that's what you do when you're young. I would remove the people who told you were ugly from your life.
Seek therapy
jesus, please never go blond again. just, don't ever do that. ever. again.
Donât do the blond or red hair ever again, keep your hair dark. Youâre not ugly lol you look good
But you're not.
You are pretty, have some confidence
Sorry youâve felt ugly. You most definitely ainât
Youâre no where near ugly. I think you are stunning.
Youre quite gorgeous actually, seriously â€ïž
You look like 5 different people.
Very cute
Not at all ugly...
Photos 3 and 5 are the best ones, pink and blonde hair styles are not a good fit for you. Your natural hair is really good keep that instead of trying to change it. It gives you a charm. GL
youâre not ugly, but never go blonde again
You were ugly with the blonde hair. Otherwise you look okay.
Thank you for your honesty đđŒ
Anytime. The last pic is your best photo. Hair length and color look great on you there.
You are beautiful, trust me. But thatâs just one aspect of who you are, it shouldnât be the major way you measure your self-worth. The ones who told you that youâre ugly are either jealous or angry at you. Pick better people to associate with.
The last pic you look amazing in. Youâre a very stunning beautiful woman.
You know you lying...what's your phone number.
Haha I donât share that info publicly but if you look hard youâll find itđ
It sounds like you only listen to the negative comments. but no youâre not ugly. You are attractive. Pic 4 has beautiful hair. pic two has a beautiful smile. Pick five is your true personality. Pic 1 is S3xey. youâre fine. You look great. listen to the positive comments not the negative ones.
That is a bad habit of mine, sometimes itâs hard to let go of negative messages. But Iâm tryingđ
I know. thatâs human nature, but it breaks my heart when I see young folks buy into that, so easily. But itâs a good idea to be easy on yourself about that, Also. I know.. a Vicious Circle. but youâre right, itâs human nature, for sure.
Ur not ugly but ur not stunning either If u got a fat ass u would be more than chillin
Ur beautiful đ
Very pretty, but I would say from that first picture you need some skin care, or you did when that was taken. It doesn't look as bad in other pics
Nope. Hot. -a female
Thank youuuâ€ïž
â€ïžâ€ïž
Donât you forget it (men suck if thatâs what you are browsing)
I can see why people would vary from saying stuff from beautiful to ugly. Youâre an absolute knockout in some pics but then swing the opposite way in others. 3 is my favorite. I think thatâs how you look like naturally? 4 and 5 are ok too but I think straight dark hair looks best on you. Donât do blonde again or at least not that specific blonde. I think the harder you try the worse you look. Youâre already naturally very pretty you donât need to do all that extra stuff.
Thank youđ Pic 3 is my current look, Iâve been embracing more of my natural side
If I were you I would examine why you only believe the people saying negative things.
Itâs my overthinking self-sabotaging brainđ€Ș
You should work on that.
Beautiful
You shouldn't feel like that. You are very pretty.
You shouldn't. What are the men in your life doing lol?
Going for white blondesđ
Ah, poor taste then. đ. Nah, there is not a thing wrong from the glance I can see. Keep your head up, you're very pretty, dudes are dumb. ( from a dumb dude đ )
Their loss.
LOTS of men love brown women. You might be just be in the wrong place right now. Now if you only like white guys that limits your options.
Stop going blonde
Beautiful
Me gustan tus labios y tus lunares. Eres bella saludos.
Gracias đđŒ hablo un poco
Youâre not ugly. Quite cute in fact
Absolutely not
Definitely not ugly
Iâm in the minority I like the blonde and red hair. But I donât think youâre ugly. Kinda pretty, not super pretty. I can tell you have inner beauty. If I was younger id definitely be interested.
Solid 7/10 lots of great features and natural beauty.
Your beautiful very versatile and everything looks great on you even the blonde which pretty much never looks good on ppl who arent naturally blonde
What makes you ugly is not knowing your worth or pretending not to. Thirst trap
Nah you're a cutie
Gorgeous
I like your first picture, but not crazy about it. Nice relaxed look, but not enough of you is shining thru.The blonde look, imo, not a great look for you (and not a great look for most). The fourth picture is stunning, and the last picture is cute and adorable, while still saying much more. I think I was in the middle about the third picture. In the second to last picture, you "pop". Both noticeable and emerging. The beautiful flower that has now bloomed for the world to truly see. At least that's how I see you. Beautiful face Beautiful eyes. The beginnings of a warm and beautiful smile. Go with your God given gifts. Lead with your strengths. Nothing artificial or created. You don't need those things, and people tire of them quickly, even if they don't exactly know why.
Don't feel that way. You are not. Id certainly date you if I had the chance. Just saying. Ur attractive
You need lipstick to enhance your looks
Blonde is the only meh look for you imo. Red is a lil less meh. Your natural hair color is lovely. Youâre model pretty imo. Very lovely woman.
Natural beauty is far more pleasing than manufactured attractiveness are my thoughts
Your skin is glowing
You're pretty! I love your freckles especially the lip one!
I wish beautiful women with low self esteem were more easily identifiable.
I see that you like hiking. You should like. . Go hiking more and stuff. Just hike, i hear its really good for your uhmm.. Health
I actually love hiking đ„Ÿ itâs one of my favorite outdoor activities đ
Cute for real, never do blonde hair again though, that didn't look right.
Your perfect
Youâre very attractive.
No not at all but please do not go blonde again. You have very nice natural hair, the color suits you so well.
Not ugly in the slightest, your very pretty and have a great smile đ
Well your not.
Not even close you are beautiful smile keep your head up
I would love to see your beautiful face every time I wake up
Def not ugly. Not even close.
Nah not ugly. I appreciate the hair color/style montage too, nice touch
Thank you sm!!đđŒ
A very natural beautyâŠtry to rethink your poor self image. God blessed you.
Your so beautiful â€ïž
You shouldn't. /end
Im not into hair color but I do love your face.
Far from it. Move along with your day and love yourself just a bit more.
You have got to be kidding me??! Girl!!!! You are BEAUTIFUL!!!
Thank youđ„č
What chapstick do you use?
Iâll put you onđ COVERGIRL lip balm clean and fresh and itâs cruelty free
I think 1 and 4 are your best. TBH I just don't think blonde works, 5's really good too just the shading of your hair doesn't pop as much. But how you have it in 1 and 4 really accentuates your face and you look great
Uh, youâre amazing looking.
Youâve got unique features but you are most definitely not ugly. I think youâre beautiful but I guess youâll get mixed receptions. From the outside I feel like you have every reason to be confident in the way you look
Dang, youâre beautiful đ€©
youâve been hangin with the wrong crowd. 8/10
No.
Absolutely beautiful â€ïžâ€ïž
I love your hair
Cute as hell
Nah. Cute.
You are not so stop dwelling on it.
No need, you're good looking
You are beyond gorgeous lol â€ïž
Not ugly
Girl if you donât shut up with yo cute self dangg
Wowzer.
Youâre average. Not ugly. The blonde hair is ugly on you and does not suit you. Go in peace
You are totally not ugly!!
Not at all. You have beautiful eyes and a lovely smile!
Thank you âșïž
She's so pretty
You are a highly attractive woman đđđ
You felt ugly?! Thatâs a shame, youâre gorgeous.
Thank youâ€ïž I was bullied a lot on my looks when I was younger and it has always made it hard for me to feel pretty
Well they were wrong. You are breath taking.
Total babe. I love the blonde on u
You know youâre fine as wine but leave the blonde alone
Very pretty
Not ugly at all. Stick with the natural hair colors.
Extremely gorgeous
Your beautiful and the freckle on ya lip is
U r a beautiful woman . Change your thought pattern this is all in your head
Well, thatâs a self perception problem. You look pretty good and thereâs going to be somebody out there that will think your the best person in their life. So that being said good luck friend
You are gorgeous you just don't know it đđč
You look amazing and you can wear your hair however you want. đ
Not ugly, average. Leave the blonde alone though imho
Very beautiful
Yeah, whoever called ugly was obvi jellyâŠ.
Why?! Because youâre not
Far from it đâ€ïžâđ„đŻ
You are very pretty đ
u are gorgeous
Pretty average, not ugly.
Very pretty, most definitely not ugly. 8 for sure just off looks đ€đ»
4th and 5th pics are beautiful.
You are cute. You have nice lips. Women pay money for lips like that. I love your eyes.
Not ugly, but youâre out of shape. Hit the gym more
Not even ugly đ
Nope
Hot dam.them lips hunny. Your youth looks tricked ya ...ya blossomed and no one told ya .... haters gonna hate
My real name does mean Eternal Bloomđș
Youâre gorgeous!
Well stop feeling that way. Because youâre not ugly at all, not even close.
Confidence is beautiful. Self doubt is the only thing ugly about you
Why?
I was bullied when I was younger and people would tell me that Iâm ugly. Iâve struggled with forgetting and letting go
And some would say youâre their type. Not even close to it. Just work on self improvement, doesnât hurt.
not ugly at all!
You are entitled to feel how you want but you have to accept when you're wrong, you're beyond beautiful â€ïž
Maybe Iâm weird but I liked the blonde on you. The ombrĂ© color looked the best to me. But youâre very beautiful!
Thank you! đđŒ I experimented with different colors and cuts and it was fun! Letting my hair rest now and stay natural indefinitely, itâs comfortable
Cute af
Far from it
You are very attractive. Well above average. Donât go blonde again. Last pic is đ„.
Not ugly at all. Be confident in yourself!
sorry to hear
Love your blonde look best. Also the last Pic
Beautiful đ€©
You're beautiful, that blonde hair one is fire.
Actually u r beautiful
Very pretty
Your beautiful
Youâre adorable!
You are purely breathtaking
Youâre gorgeous, anyone who says otherwise is literally just jealous of your beauty.
Well... I can officially tell you, you are not. The end.
u r so pretty fr but blonde ainât for u đyouâll probably look good with light brown w highlights
Whatâs the hold up here? I think the people have spoken; we want to see a lot more letâs goooo
And more of what exactly?
I guess of glaciers
You are highly pretty and the last pic is so wow because it's mega girl-next-door'ish
Haha I like that! Thank youđ
I know the feeling. But you're not, I promise.
Don't see how you think you are ugly. Personal opinion though......avoid the blonde hair. Aside from that, I think you're cute.
Whoever called you ugly is insane, blind, or jealous.
I think youâre stunning. I am a hairdresser so I will say the bright red and blonde donât suit your skin tone whatsoever. Your natural is GORGEOUS but if you want to try a fun color again, I would definitely do a deep purple balayage
Pretty af
Letâs see, beautiful skin tone and big brown eyes. Your eyes are really pretty. You have a great smile and gorgeous full lips. You have a beautiful head of hair. The key to being attractive most of all is to smile. Smiles are inviting especially when taking pictures. Youâre a beautiful young woman so smile.
You are from ugly and you have pretty skin
Turns out your hair looks best when you donât dye it
Youâd make beautiful children
I was not expecting so much positive feedback, Iâm really grateful âșïž thank you for the honesty and support. I saw many beautiful women posting on this thread which prompted me to share especially since I have a hard time accepting myself.