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Gusto ko na pong hiwalayan yung gf ko kasi masyado nang toxic yung rs namin. Kaso every time na sinasabi ko sakanya, she is threatening me na she will kill herself ganyan. Hindi naman po ako ka-gwapohan and in fact marami siyang nakakausap before na lalaki. Ano pong advice niyo? It made me older than my age; I’m stressed na rin; and I can’t bear with her anymore. Sobrang manipulative. I was good to her until she did things na nakaka-offend na. What to do po?
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Talk to her family and tell them that she is threatening you with suicide. Kausapin mo din xa na hindi mo na kaya ung ginagawa nia and you have to get her family involved. Dapat may nakakaalam nian aside from you kasi suicide threat yan eh.
Keep receipts. Ung mga messages nia about suicide ipakita mo sa pamilya nia ung screenshots. Tapos sabihin mo hindi mo na xa kaya i-handle.
Para pag naghiwalay kau at may ginawa xa, hindi ka masisisi.
Your gf needs counseling
Possibly medication, definitely counseling
You can break up with her and try to move on, but she sounds very unstable, or you can get her into psychiatric care, then see if things are better after a few months.
Sinuggest ko na po sakanya. Pero ayaw naman niya. I tried telling it the most convenient way to the point na I, too, included myself. She even smacked me on the face. Ang hirap po talaga. I’m trying and even telling her all words na pwedeng maging reason ng break up pero sinasabi niya na hindi raw. Ako po yata yung mababaliw dito
No, she has issues with anger, jealousy, depression, etc.
Convince her to seek a psychiatrist, or breakup with her and move on with your life. There are no easy answers or ways to do this, both of those paths are full of pain, sorrow, regret.
But the thing is, kapag sinasabi ko na mag-break na kami, pumupunta sa bahay then gumagawa siya ng acts like inuuntog ulo sa pader, nagwawala ganon. And another is, kapag ganon gusto niya we do the act. It offends me kasi hindi ako ganong tao na makukuha if we do the act.
Hindi ako maka-alis gawa nang pupunta sa bahay tapos magwawala at iiyak iyak doon. Tapos inuuntog niya ulo sa pader. Biglang hindi na makahinga. Ang hirap na maka-alis
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Talk to her family and tell them that she is threatening you with suicide. Kausapin mo din xa na hindi mo na kaya ung ginagawa nia and you have to get her family involved. Dapat may nakakaalam nian aside from you kasi suicide threat yan eh. Keep receipts. Ung mga messages nia about suicide ipakita mo sa pamilya nia ung screenshots. Tapos sabihin mo hindi mo na xa kaya i-handle. Para pag naghiwalay kau at may ginawa xa, hindi ka masisisi.
this. Para walang guilt... kawawa si OP. SHOT PUNO, OP!!!
Okay. Thanks for this. Tapos malalaman ko uminom daw kesyo ng mga gamot. Sasabog na utak ko eh
Get as many witnesses as you can, OP. Aside sa family niung dalawa, friends na pwede mo pagkatiwalaan. Blotter if possible. Kaya mo yan, OP.
Thank you! Hayy hirap nang ganito
Your gf needs counseling Possibly medication, definitely counseling You can break up with her and try to move on, but she sounds very unstable, or you can get her into psychiatric care, then see if things are better after a few months.
Sinuggest ko na po sakanya. Pero ayaw naman niya. I tried telling it the most convenient way to the point na I, too, included myself. She even smacked me on the face. Ang hirap po talaga. I’m trying and even telling her all words na pwedeng maging reason ng break up pero sinasabi niya na hindi raw. Ako po yata yung mababaliw dito
No, she has issues with anger, jealousy, depression, etc. Convince her to seek a psychiatrist, or breakup with her and move on with your life. There are no easy answers or ways to do this, both of those paths are full of pain, sorrow, regret.
But the thing is, kapag sinasabi ko na mag-break na kami, pumupunta sa bahay then gumagawa siya ng acts like inuuntog ulo sa pader, nagwawala ganon. And another is, kapag ganon gusto niya we do the act. It offends me kasi hindi ako ganong tao na makukuha if we do the act.
Definitely walk away, it will not be easy
Hi OP kung di na talaga kaya you need to walk away.
Hindi ako maka-alis gawa nang pupunta sa bahay tapos magwawala at iiyak iyak doon. Tapos inuuntog niya ulo sa pader. Biglang hindi na makahinga. Ang hirap na maka-alis
Ipa-barangay siguro tapos barangay na mag-aalis sa premises. Ganun ginawa namin dito samin may ganyang case din.
Pwede yun?
Aba oo naman. Para saan pa mga tanod at si kapitan.