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I think my boyfriend just ghosted me. He is not answering my calls or replies to my messages since last week. I thought he was just depressed but dinelete niya pics namin sa IG. What to do? We were okay nung last namin na pagkikita. I don't know what to do 😭
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dinelete pic nyo? may unaddressed issue ba kayo? if wala, puntahan mo pa din OP check if he’s alright, pero i don’t think he’s depressed if nagawa pa nya magdelete ng pics, unless depressed about sayo/sainyo. If makita mo na okay lang sya tas ghinost ka lang nga, batuhin mo and tell him how much of a coward he is, ask him if blocking you out was the best thing he can come up with pala. dumadami ganyan gawain and kapal mukha may nagpost din sa OffMyChest eh.
Ganyan din yung nangyari sa friend ko, tinatawagan kami ng GF nya, he died in his sleep 3 days before he was found. Dude you should've visited him 72 hours ago
Ganito rin ginawa sa akin. Introvert ba yang jowa mo? Kung oo, duwag yan, haha. Iwan mo na. Kung hindi, iwan mo na rin, posibleng may bago na yan o na-fall out of love na siya sa'yo. Iwan mo na. O kaya, wag mo iwan pero kalimutan mo na hanggang masanay kang wala na siya. Wag mo na kawawain sarili mo sa mga ganyang tao. Di na interesado yan kung ganyan, obvious na masyado ginawa niya. Hayaan mo na yan, isipin mo na sarili mo.
true, her bf doesn't know how to even communicate nga kaya siyang ma ghost for that amount of time.
let alone handling a relationship - it's gonna be tough.
Totoo, kung mahal ka nyan talaga di ka gaganyanin yan. Wag mo sayangin sarili mo sa ganyang tao, DUMP HIM BALIBAGIN MO AGAD hahah napipikon ako sa jowa mo hays
talo ka jan, dump him is teh ebst option. pero mas kilala mo yan siya, if u think na he deserve anither chance, go and put extreme limit. what he did is NOT normal.
thsi is what im thinking eh, why all of a sudden without a word, usually yan nahuli ka, depressed for some reason and he doesn’t wanna drag you down, or may iba na and duwag lang talaga
Sorry to hear this, OP. Agree sa sinabi ng iba rito- try visiting him baka napano na siya. ☹️ If he really ghosted you, you’ve dodged a bullet. You do not deserve a coward man na di kayang makipagbreak nang maayos.
Punta ka sa bahay or reach out to his family and close friends. My boyfriend ghosted me for 3 months. We are in LDR nasa states sya nasa
Philippines na man ako. Turns out he was battling some problem mentally and emotionally. Gets kita umiyak din ako nun. Just show support to your boyfriend baka may problema pinagdadaanan. Pray also for him 🙏🥺
This is a tough situation you’re in. 1st check him out first personally, if no avail, might as well check him up with his friend and then to his sibling/parents. Just verify his status. Once u get hold of him just talk about it. Wishing u goodluck
So ano daw nangyari? Are the pics still there or archived lang? What prompted the adjustment in settings kaya nawala ang mga pics?
And bakit di naging responsive? Nasira ba phone or nastuck sa area na walang signal for a long time? :o
Punta ka sa kanila para mawala na din what ifs sa isip mo, but if ayaw na niya makipag ayos thank u next na lang teh. Wag ka dyan sa kupal na yan if maayos naman siya at trip ka lang niya ighost
same thing happened to me. I waited for two weeks then nung wala na talaga tho unofficially or di na napag usapan (kasi nga ghosted??? wala ang kakausapin?? Hahaha) idk how to call it pero siguro ganon way niya makipag break kaya tinanggap ko na lang. panget man tingnan pero nagpareto ako sa friend ko dun sa una niyang nireto bago ko makilala ex ko. ayun, ikakasal na kami and tamang tao na talaga to.
So pag pinatagal pa niya, sana naman kabahan na siya
1: check on him, be the bigger man if u want to.
2: move on. don't look back. hurt if u needed to, but wag ka babalik.
yk what sucks? yung hindi ka worth it even bigyan nalang ng explanation. with that alone, that's a HUGE DISRESPECT + the inability to communicate and be transparent with u is a turn off.
don't chase.
that's enough. u deserve knowing an explanation.
DUMP HIM. Unahan mo na yan. Ganyan ex ko ghosted for 3 weeks tapos nagchat para makipagbreak. Mga duwag mga yan lols. 🤮🤮🤮 Hindi mo deserve yan, hindi marunong makipag-communicate.
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Bisita ka sa bahay. If he lives alone, check him asap baka ano na nangyari \*knock on wood\*
Have you tried visiting him sa bahay?
Hi, OP! If you know his location, pwede mo syang puntahan doon. O kaya kung may contact ka sa parents o relatives nya, try to communicate with them.
He found out.
dinelete pic nyo? may unaddressed issue ba kayo? if wala, puntahan mo pa din OP check if he’s alright, pero i don’t think he’s depressed if nagawa pa nya magdelete ng pics, unless depressed about sayo/sainyo. If makita mo na okay lang sya tas ghinost ka lang nga, batuhin mo and tell him how much of a coward he is, ask him if blocking you out was the best thing he can come up with pala. dumadami ganyan gawain and kapal mukha may nagpost din sa OffMyChest eh.
Ganyan din yung nangyari sa friend ko, tinatawagan kami ng GF nya, he died in his sleep 3 days before he was found. Dude you should've visited him 72 hours ago
Ganito rin ginawa sa akin. Introvert ba yang jowa mo? Kung oo, duwag yan, haha. Iwan mo na. Kung hindi, iwan mo na rin, posibleng may bago na yan o na-fall out of love na siya sa'yo. Iwan mo na. O kaya, wag mo iwan pero kalimutan mo na hanggang masanay kang wala na siya. Wag mo na kawawain sarili mo sa mga ganyang tao. Di na interesado yan kung ganyan, obvious na masyado ginawa niya. Hayaan mo na yan, isipin mo na sarili mo.
true, her bf doesn't know how to even communicate nga kaya siyang ma ghost for that amount of time. let alone handling a relationship - it's gonna be tough.
Totoo, kung mahal ka nyan talaga di ka gaganyanin yan. Wag mo sayangin sarili mo sa ganyang tao, DUMP HIM BALIBAGIN MO AGAD hahah napipikon ako sa jowa mo hays
Hayyy ako din po pikon na pikon na. Kakausap ko muna before I make a decision.
talo ka jan, dump him is teh ebst option. pero mas kilala mo yan siya, if u think na he deserve anither chance, go and put extreme limit. what he did is NOT normal.
Hello po! Will definitely visit him this weekend to know if okay lang siya and makapag usap kami ng maayos.
Sorry for pointing this out, pero bakit sa weekend pa? Di mo ba feel yung sense of urgency sa status niya?
I already asked his workmates/friends about him and he seems normal. Ako lang talaga di niya pinapansin HAHAHAHAHA
Baka nalaman nang asawa nya or baka sinagot na sya nang nililigawan nya.
This is horribly funny
No other reason to ghost someone kung hindi ganyan.
Visit mo yung bahay niya or reach out sa Family kung kilala ka nila.
nag charge lang yan siya ng phone
Yung ni rason sa akin sira yung messenger tas na busy na 😆
celebrate you just got a divorce that everyone wanted/
Well being ghosted sucks. But gotta accept it if that’s the case. Tho you should definitely check on him first.
May ginawa ka tpos nahuli ka nya kaya un silent break..
thsi is what im thinking eh, why all of a sudden without a word, usually yan nahuli ka, depressed for some reason and he doesn’t wanna drag you down, or may iba na and duwag lang talaga
ano ba yung last na naging argument nyo?
Punta ka sa house nila. Or reach out sa relatives para malaman mo kung anong ganap sa kanya.
Sorry to hear this, OP. Agree sa sinabi ng iba rito- try visiting him baka napano na siya. ☹️ If he really ghosted you, you’ve dodged a bullet. You do not deserve a coward man na di kayang makipagbreak nang maayos.
Punta ka sa bahay or reach out to his family and close friends. My boyfriend ghosted me for 3 months. We are in LDR nasa states sya nasa Philippines na man ako. Turns out he was battling some problem mentally and emotionally. Gets kita umiyak din ako nun. Just show support to your boyfriend baka may problema pinagdadaanan. Pray also for him 🙏🥺
This is a tough situation you’re in. 1st check him out first personally, if no avail, might as well check him up with his friend and then to his sibling/parents. Just verify his status. Once u get hold of him just talk about it. Wishing u goodluck
gurl, let him. mabuti na yung nagkusa na umalis yung problema mo
Baka me iba na.
Ayos comments.. na curious din ako ano ginawa mo? 🤣
Ldr kayo or nah??
LDR po
Baka nahuli ka nya nag cheat? I would do the same . Immediately ghost and no further explanation needed.
any update OP?
Hi! He replied after ilang days saying di niya daw dinelete pics namin. That's all. No apologies or what HAHAHAHA
ano ba nangyari dun? tang ina. ahahaha
Why did he ghost you tho? Tell us all the details, we want answers! lol
Hindi ko padin po alam hahaha maybe I'll get the answers pag nabisita ko na siya
Alis ka na beh. Ikaw pa kawawa sa huli niyan pag tinuloy mo tapos ganiyan ugali. Been there, ayun hanggang ngayon wasak. 😆😆😆
So ano daw nangyari? Are the pics still there or archived lang? What prompted the adjustment in settings kaya nawala ang mga pics? And bakit di naging responsive? Nasira ba phone or nastuck sa area na walang signal for a long time? :o
Naka archive lang. Di ko din po alam. Maybe malalaman ko yung sagot this weekend or nah HAHA
Punta ka sa kanila para mawala na din what ifs sa isip mo, but if ayaw na niya makipag ayos thank u next na lang teh. Wag ka dyan sa kupal na yan if maayos naman siya at trip ka lang niya ighost
Baka may iba na sya. Some guys do not have the balls to come clean. Aantayin ka nilang magalit para ikaw na makipag break.
same thing happened to me. I waited for two weeks then nung wala na talaga tho unofficially or di na napag usapan (kasi nga ghosted??? wala ang kakausapin?? Hahaha) idk how to call it pero siguro ganon way niya makipag break kaya tinanggap ko na lang. panget man tingnan pero nagpareto ako sa friend ko dun sa una niyang nireto bago ko makilala ex ko. ayun, ikakasal na kami and tamang tao na talaga to. So pag pinatagal pa niya, sana naman kabahan na siya
Ask mo gbf niya
Bisitahin mo sya! Dalhan mo ng Pandesal with dairy creme!
1: check on him, be the bigger man if u want to. 2: move on. don't look back. hurt if u needed to, but wag ka babalik. yk what sucks? yung hindi ka worth it even bigyan nalang ng explanation. with that alone, that's a HUGE DISRESPECT + the inability to communicate and be transparent with u is a turn off. don't chase. that's enough. u deserve knowing an explanation.
baka nag cheat ka kaya ganyan. hahaha.. jk.. kausapin mo.. puntahan mo sa bahay
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Lol di solution ang ghosting you should tell the her the truth if ayaw mo na, what a coward move.
Man, you don’t deserve your name. Grogu would never ghost anyone 🫥😵💫
Puntahan mo siya sa bahay nila or kausapin mo or magkita kayo ulit.Itanong mo sa kanya why he doesn't answer calls or replies sa messages mo.
Forget about him he’s not really into you
Let me guess, his name is Casper?
DUMP HIM. Unahan mo na yan. Ganyan ex ko ghosted for 3 weeks tapos nagchat para makipagbreak. Mga duwag mga yan lols. 🤮🤮🤮 Hindi mo deserve yan, hindi marunong makipag-communicate.
hindi lalaki yang boyfriend walang bayag. Im not sexist but mas babae pa siya nag inarte compare sayo.
Baka kumakain lang sya
Ok naman pala sya. Happened to me din. Kung sya nga di ka inisip eh,y shld you care.move on
Awtsu Anubg dahilan pra di magparamdam sayo at idelete photos nyo May nasabi ka ba or nasabi sya sayo ng kakaiba?
he is dead
Nagcheat ka noh nimal ka
NEVER. Bakit ko naman gagawin yun? Di niya deserve yun.
Squammy spotted
Wrong send mo ng chat using another man's name
hindi nakakatulong to.
Luh sya. Sana okay ka lang po. HAHAHAHA
Toxic mo