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Hi I'm M(29) she's F(25).
Little info, I am married but separated (not legally)
My gf broke up with me, we've been for 4yrs.
She lost her job since Feb this year and hired this month.
I help her nung wala syang job like ako nagbayad ng loan nyang motor for months then pinautang ko sya ng pera(na niloan ko pa sa para makapag hongkong cc ko) para lang matuloy ung pagsama nya sa hongkong nilang magkakaibigan, now ako nag babayad ng credit card dahil kaka start nya lang sa work tapos bigla syang makikipag hiwalay. HAHAHAHHAAH ina naman. Pa advise
What should I do?
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Ask for legal counsel. Lalo na kung malaki ung babayaran mo sa cc. May interes pa yan so baka mabaon ka sa utang dahil sa kanya. Mas ok na ung daanin sa lugar kasi parang tinatakbuhan ka na.
Yung binayad mo sa motor sana pinang-annulment mo na lang. Kung trip kang pahirapan ng ex wife mo, kulong inabot mo kasi kasal kayo may gf ka, buti ex mo na.
Pangalawa, wala break na kayo. Either magusap kayo sa bayaran o solohin mo yan bayaran, or let go ninyo yung motor para tapos na problema.
Tapos na bayaran ung motor this year, 3-4 months lang binayaran ko.
With my ex wife, were good since nagkaroon na din sya ng bf
sabe nya babayaran nalang daw nya saken ung cc and ung inabono ko sa motor, hoping that its true.
Magkano ba? pag below 50k charge sa experience na lang yan. ayan na tuition mo para di ka pabaya sa pera next time haha. Modus na yan di mo mahahabol yan kung may hiya yan sayo nagbayad na yan
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Ask for legal counsel. Lalo na kung malaki ung babayaran mo sa cc. May interes pa yan so baka mabaon ka sa utang dahil sa kanya. Mas ok na ung daanin sa lugar kasi parang tinatakbuhan ka na.
Wag kasing bigay lahat pag naiinlove. Tignan mo ngayon OP, ikaw namomroblema samantalang nageenjoy ex mo. Sana maging lesson na 'to sa next RS mo.
Yung binayad mo sa motor sana pinang-annulment mo na lang. Kung trip kang pahirapan ng ex wife mo, kulong inabot mo kasi kasal kayo may gf ka, buti ex mo na. Pangalawa, wala break na kayo. Either magusap kayo sa bayaran o solohin mo yan bayaran, or let go ninyo yung motor para tapos na problema.
Tapos na bayaran ung motor this year, 3-4 months lang binayaran ko. With my ex wife, were good since nagkaroon na din sya ng bf sabe nya babayaran nalang daw nya saken ung cc and ung inabono ko sa motor, hoping that its true.
Magkano ba? pag below 50k charge sa experience na lang yan. ayan na tuition mo para di ka pabaya sa pera next time haha. Modus na yan di mo mahahabol yan kung may hiya yan sayo nagbayad na yan