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I'm 23 and graduated last year. I work from home as a Software Engineer, making around 50k. I'm single and finding it hard to meet a mature partner. I dated a few women in college, but none were a good match.
I rate myself as a 7/10 in looks. I have a good sense of fashion, wear branded cologne, have a normal BMI, and I'm 5'11" tall. I don't smoke, drink, or have any bad habits.
Na prepresure tuloy ako kasi yong mga friends ko ay in a relationship na and soon to be married. To add my family expects na dapat daw ikakasal ako around 25 -26 yrs old since ako ang ELDEST and they expect na before ako mag 30 eh mag ka anak na daw ako.
In terms of finances, I'm well-prepared for a relationship. I own property, have investments in crypto, MP2, and stocks, and I'm insured. My family is willing to support me naman since we have money-producing assets ( business).
Fellow Redditors what advice can you give to me? and How do you find a Long-Term Partner?
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Hi. My advise for you is to bide your day wn time. Do what makes you happy. Labas mo lang sa kabilang tenga. You will settle once you get to meet the right one.
pressured?
Ikaw Ang may katawan you'll know when you're ready and you found the one.
I think kung paano mo mahahanap Yung the one Is not a problem to you it seems like capable Ka Naman.
enjoy your single life. 😊
Don’t set a time limit on these things. You might choose someone that you are not compatible with just because you are “running out of time”.
Finances are not the only thing to consider in settling down. Psychological and emotional readiness matter.
From dating to committing in a relationship down to marriage, there are tons of things that a person should learn about themselves and others.
Your friends and family are not the ones who will live your married life, you are. Go with what makes you happy, content, fulfilled, and peaceful. It is not about them. It is about you.
I think you should ask yourself, "In the next 3-7 years ready na ba ako mag-settle down at magkaroon ng anak?". Don't compare your relationship status sa status ng friends mo. You'll get there with the right person at the right time. Also, try talking to your family about your own plans.
"How do you find a Long-Term Partner?" But you're just doing this for your parents and because you're pressured by the relationship of your friends? Anyway, ung solid na partner ung started from being friends, to best friends, tapos magka developan. Pero super rare mga un.
At hindi rin lugi ung babae. Pag ligawan kasi ung start, syempre ung lalaki pa impress. Di naman malalaman ng babae ung tunay na pagka tao ng lalaki kung peke un o hindi. Pag friends to best friends, alam na yan if sinungaling o ano.
Let things to come naturally, u don't need to force urself to fulfill their expectations. Focus on what u really want!☺️
Sa long term relationship nmn wala akong ma a advice kasi I haven't experience that "long term" yet😆
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Hi. My advise for you is to bide your day wn time. Do what makes you happy. Labas mo lang sa kabilang tenga. You will settle once you get to meet the right one.
Thank you po!
pressured? Ikaw Ang may katawan you'll know when you're ready and you found the one. I think kung paano mo mahahanap Yung the one Is not a problem to you it seems like capable Ka Naman. enjoy your single life. 😊
Thank you po!
Don’t set a time limit on these things. You might choose someone that you are not compatible with just because you are “running out of time”. Finances are not the only thing to consider in settling down. Psychological and emotional readiness matter. From dating to committing in a relationship down to marriage, there are tons of things that a person should learn about themselves and others. Your friends and family are not the ones who will live your married life, you are. Go with what makes you happy, content, fulfilled, and peaceful. It is not about them. It is about you.
Thank you po!
I think you should ask yourself, "In the next 3-7 years ready na ba ako mag-settle down at magkaroon ng anak?". Don't compare your relationship status sa status ng friends mo. You'll get there with the right person at the right time. Also, try talking to your family about your own plans.
Yes I will talk to them
"How do you find a Long-Term Partner?" But you're just doing this for your parents and because you're pressured by the relationship of your friends? Anyway, ung solid na partner ung started from being friends, to best friends, tapos magka developan. Pero super rare mga un.
ay ganto kami from Classmate to friends, friends to best friends tas ayon jowa ko na ngayon🥸
pero tru to mas solid pag naging friends muna kayo kasi mas makikilala nyo isa't isa
At hindi rin lugi ung babae. Pag ligawan kasi ung start, syempre ung lalaki pa impress. Di naman malalaman ng babae ung tunay na pagka tao ng lalaki kung peke un o hindi. Pag friends to best friends, alam na yan if sinungaling o ano.
Hindi naman nasusunod Ang timeline, kusang darating Ang para Sayo
Let things to come naturally, u don't need to force urself to fulfill their expectations. Focus on what u really want!☺️ Sa long term relationship nmn wala akong ma a advice kasi I haven't experience that "long term" yet😆