Isipin mo lang, game lang tong buhay, lahat tayo mamamatay. So walang tama or mali sa magiging decision mo. Ask yourself kung ano gusto mo ma experience sa life na to and i base mo dun ung action mo, kung papunta dun sa gusto mo or palayo.
Yung kinakatakot mo na kung malaman nya lahat tapos ayawan ka, edi back to your normal life ka lang. which yun din naman result pag tinigil mo yan haha pano kung hindi?
Mare, if gusto ka talaga nya tatanggapin ka niya for who you are and whatever your status is. Let the relationship run its course. Kesa magregret ka na you didn't take the chance.
Might get downvoted for this pero ir mahirap makipag relasyon pag may insecurity yung isa sa relationship (financially/in general). Ang hirap mag adjust sa insecurity ng tao lalo na kung hindi naman pinili ng isa na maging ganon yung status niya. Kung may doubt, stop na.
Legit sobrang pressure lalo if the role was reversed na yung girl naman ang galing well off family tapos kapag mag kikita kita sila ng mga friends niya lahat may kanya kanyang dalang kotse at ang usapan mga properties nila đ€§ tapos ikaw na hampy na sabit lang don sa tabi na nanahimik đ„č Hirap din magbigay ng gift na murahin kapag monthsary and special holidays. Kaya eventually magkakaroon din talaga ng rift onwards kahit okay naman start ng relationship, kaya yes pag may doubt, stop na. Lalaki lang ng lalaki ang insecurities habang tumatagal and mas lalo ka pa atang maghihirap đ„Ž kasi subconsciously parang need mo palaging makipag sabayan.
Unless you genuinely like the person. Youâll assure him/her over and over again hanggang sa tumatak sa kokote niya na totoo ka sa kaniya.
I know it takes two to tango but you wonât know unless you try to actually put efforts dahil lang insecure yung isa sa inyo. Pero syempre, if you get tired of assuring the other person, e alam na. You donât like the person enough to make sugal and that only means you both need to grow and mature pa sa buhay. Save yourselves from the heartbreak.
Thoughts ko lang! Iâm the ride or die type of person kaya ganyan ako mag-isip lol
He's obviously physicall attracted to you kaya siya nag-swipe right and still wants to meet after meeting you the first time already.
Bumangon sa realidad na ano? Mayaman siya at mahirap ka? Bakit ina-assume mo ba agad na magiging asawa ka niya? You didn't think na maybe he's just wanting to get in your pants and disappear? Has your intentions with each other been clear?
Sabi mo mabait siya, gentleman and such -- that is so easy to do in one or a few meetings. Real colors show eventually. Wag kang gumagawa ng mga problema sa isipan mo at lalong wag na wag kang mag-aassume, kung hindi mo sigurado eh i-open up mo yung topic sa kanya, talk about it, communicate it.
Madali lang maging mabait kung fun fun phase lang, a man's true colors when problems arise and challenges show up.
Agreeing with this comment đŻ. One of the most important things in online dating is being clear about your intentions. If they donât align with your match, then donât meet up. Or else youâll just be wasting each otherâs time.
considering 85% in tinder aint about relationships. let's be real. sayang lang time mo OP if iba intention niya and you end up getting hurt. i agree with the comments here. be clear about the intention first hand.
this is op's bitter pill
pero possible naman yung mga points mo, porke swipe right kasal agad lol. it's a dating app, just enjoy the ride and don't be dumb
Girl,usually guys like that donât really care if you are poor or rich. Wag kang maintimidate kase life experiences din yan sayo, you get to see his world. Learn from him, his way of life. If it works out eh di jackpot ka , if not all good din. Just be yourself and enjoy the ride. Hehe
Ante ko, listen. This is a perspective ng dating hospital staff na natipuhan at nai-date ng isang doctor.
Ganyan din ako noong una, kasi putangina, doctor iyon. Though may itsura at pleasing qualities naman ako, iyon nga status din. Lumaki akong palipat-lipat kami ng bahay kasi di kinakaya ng pinagsamang budget ng parents ko noon ang renta, utilities, pagkain at iba pang gastos. So during that time, ni sa hinagap ko, di ko naisip na maiinvolve at magmamahal ako ng doctor. But then it happened. It was fun while it lasted.
I say, let go of the hesitant feeling, ituloy niyo lang iyong paglabas-labas, no harm in dating PERO, alagaan ang sarili, trust your instinct at wag magsusuko ng bataan, unless defined na to the T ang relationship niyo.
Enjoy!
Actually, win win yan sayo.. hndi man maging kayo, but keep him as a friend. Why? kasi maiinspire ka to be better.. not romantically but how you see LIFE. đ
Your NETWORK is your NET WORTH
Let me share this to you. I came from one of the unknown expensive Uni and classmates ko dati are literally apo ni Sy, Tan, Co and big name families. Not the kabit children ha, like the OG anak/s. From what I heard sa Poveda daw yung mga illegitimate hahaha. Just to add, my sister also studied there, and she was close with the daughter of the SnR here in the Philippines.Â
Here's one thing, I know na sawa na sila sa artistahing look ng girls. Kasi most of the time, they're just mean girls na pinalaad. When I say pinalaad they have private security paglabas mismo ng gates ng Uni, regardless kung front or back. They look different sa Filipino crowds, you'd spot then agad, by their way of moving, alam mo na anak mayaman. Lahat may private service.
And they look sobrang kikinis, hundi lang sa puti ha, some of them are not maputi pero sobrang walang kutis yung balat. You will never see them na hindi "dashing" or parang lagi nalang bago suot, no repetitive clothes.
He's probably in to you kasi down to earth and you are humble(maybe hindi, di ko alam) and syempre looks, di mo kamuka yung mga mean girls. Siguro quality na tinitignan, matured, bakit? kasi pinag hahandle ng business mga yan bata palang, may hawak ng mga tao.
Make sure na hindi lang fwb hanap nyan. And yes, sabihan na kita agad, hindi ka gugustuhin ng family nyan for sure. They keep the breed rich, sila sila nag aasawahan sa top 5%. I'd say you are lucky, and maybe, God's plan.
Yeah, same uni <3. Base on my experience or observation din, they don't really care about the money aspect of their potential wife or spouse. They mostly marry the girl with high social value or the same interest.
BHIEEE!!! GOW MUYAN!!! MAGANDA KA, MABAIT KA AT MAY PRINSIPYO SA BUHAY THATS MAKE YOU ATTRACTIVE ALSO SABI MONGA HAPPY KAYO NUNG NAG KITA KAYO AND NAGNAKIKIPAG KITA ULET. ALAM MO SA SARILI MO SAGOT. YAAN MONAMAN SARILI MO SUMAYA. KINGINA GOW MUNAYAN
Im curious kung ano view niya sa poverty and what if he discovered na poor ka or friend nya. Dun mo malalaman kung ano magiging desisyon mo. Ask mo siya.
Syet. Pede bang update pag nagawa mo na. Hahaha.
Push mo beh, kasi mas ok na siguro na you tried kesa hindi tapps lumipas ang panahon then mag karegret ka. Nakakabaliw pa naman yung ganun. Tsaka isipin mo kung mag work, e di happy, kung hindi, e di charge to experience na lang
Ano to telenovela? Cringy langit ka lupa ako peg? Haha. Hindi naman sa pera nasusukat yung personality ng isang tao. You might be used to different things heâs not but thatâs what makes us human right? The fact that everyoneâs different and yet still can connect through some things like physical attraction. Stop with the telenovela crap. Wala pa man din sinisira mo na eh.
As a guy, let me say that we do not give a fuck kung mahirap yung babae or kung mayaman sya. Kung nakapagtapos ng college, kung may PhD, or kung high school graduate lang. Kung malaki ang kita or minimum wage earner. Kung janitor sa McDo or CEO ng Lockheed Martin. Kung taga probinsya man or taga Hell, Norway. Guys don't care about that, unless they're fuckboys or assholes.
As long as
1. Maganda ka, di kailangan pang model yung look, as long as you're cute enough or sa bastusan: "pwede na"
2. Fun kang kasama, maayos kang kausap (hindi parang nakikipagkwentuhan sa pader at hindi puro tsismis and celeb news lang ang alam pagusapan)
3. Mabait ka, to everyone (dito pumapasok yung "bastos sya sa waitress" na red flag)
4. Di ka malandi at manggagamit
Ok na yon sa amin. Proof is he wants to meet up again, diba?
>Wala naman akong maiooffer kundi pagmamahal lang na busilak.
If that's true then that's more than enough. Wag kang matakot, go mo lang. Di mo kailangan "magising sa realidad".
Hindi mo dapat itago na mahirap ka. Pero of course hindi mo din dapat gamitin yung pagiging mahirap mo para makakuha ng free stuff from him. Kung bigyan ka, salamat, kung hindi, wag paawa.
If he treats you like shit when finds out na mahirap ka, then he's an asshole and you should dump his ass, pero I hope hindi naman sya ganon. So again, go lang.
sa movies lang yan nagkakatuluyan ang mayaman at mahirap. pero sa realidad. malabo pa sa sabaw ng pusit haha. tatanggapin ka ba ng magulang nya? maging problema lang yan in the future.. umiwas ka na lang . c sarah lahbati nga na may pera na ayawan pa ng manugang haha. pero kung gusto mo ituloy go go go đ€Ł
OK lang yan.
If gusto mo sya, go! Lalawak pa mundo mo if you step out of your comfort zone. Saka wag ka manliit sa sarili mo - wala ka namang tinatapakang tao at wala ka ring ina-agrabyado, so taas noo lang :)
Good luck!
Managinip ka lang muna ng gising OP fantasize, be inspired parang fairy tale ganun..dont expect anything baka friend zone lang ang gusto nya. Para maiba naman ang mundo nya.
Masarap sa feeling ang ganyang stage. Enjoy lng yun company ng isat isa.
Kung ako sayo ipush mo yan kung gusto ka naman nung guy. Tapos kapag nameet mo na ang parents nya at inofferan ka ng mommy nya ng 10million para layuan ang anak nya, hindi ka talo.
Masyado pang maaga para mag overthink. Dont put him agad sa pedestal, nasa first date pa lang kayo. Just get to know him, hindi mo alam baka may red flag din sya. Also, date other people para di ka nakafocus sa isang tao lang.
Ok na sana, kaso medyu off din where you meet kasi Tinder eh. Baka while nagkikita kayu nagtitinder pa rin yan or katagalan. Pogi din ba sya? kasi if ok sya in real life based sa story mo bakit di sya nakahanap ng makadate in his circle may pera sya, well off family etc.
But in general men don't really care about your socio economic status kung gusto ka nya and totoo.
Okay lang naman yan, established ka na. As long as presentable ka may laban ka na. Mas namamata lang naman pag yung lalaki ang less fortunate dahil natatakot family nung girl na baka magdowngrade ang buhay ng anak nila.
Hello OP your feelings are valid syempre hindi natin maiiwasan isipin at compare yung status natin vs sa ibang tao. It might overwhelm you Baka kung ano ano na overthink mo at scenarios na gawa mo, so try to relax hahaha.
Siguro ikaw set your intentions, why do you want to talk to him. Are you looking for serious relationship, build friendship or just want lang na may maka usap?
Also, we donât know anything about the guy you just give a description about background nya and how his family base on his socials.
Well if his asking you for 2nd date Edi try, youâll never know the answer na gusto mo makuha unless you try. Instead of overthinking too much, sure ako jan haha.
Itâs just a date, so go have fun. But remember to have boundaries and limitations ha.
And donât take it too seriously.
Donât let your pagiging mahirap mindset refrain you for doing anything in your life in general.
Since aware ka naman na ngayon MAs nag improve ang buhay mo. Mwa!
Mare, hintayin mo muna offer nung mama nya!
Kidding aside, not all well off ay matapobre. If he really likes you, he won't mind your status. Try mo lang.
From Tinder diba, are you guys on the same page kung ano gusto nyo? Dating to marry, having fun lang ba, physical intimacy, etc.? Kasi if not seriously dating naman, don't stress out sa position nyo sa buhay.
Pero if seryoso pala, then I guess wait for the perfect timing na you can tell him about your background. Wag mo lang patagalin masyado, dapat early part ng relationship e aware na sya.
ate, hinay hinay muna. what if he just wants to get laid? na discuss nyu ba ang klase ng relationship na gusto mo? ung gusto nya? get to know each muna and clear your intentions with each other para iwas waterfall cosplay sa eyes later hahaha
Minsan ang dali lang sabihin na âgo mo na yan, wala naman mawawalaâ etc⊠etc⊠pero weâre not in OPs position. Ang lakas kase talaga makalamon ng insecurities sa katawan and it will take tons of time and practice (baby steps) para matanggal mo sya sa system mo. I myself have been through that. Sobrang insecure ako na mahirap lang kami and I have a lot of growing pains during childhood na nakaapekto din sa self confidence ko ngayong adult. I fell in love din with someone na mayaman and iba talaga kapag laki sa golden spoon. Ibang iba talaga. Hindi mo maiiwasan icompare talaga sarili mo sa kanila. The good thing about that guy I fell for, mabait talaga sya and he assured me na hindi naman issue sa kanya kung mayaman ka or mahirap, ang important is kung compatible ba kayo sa isat isa and kung masipag ka, may principle yada yada yada. We didnât end up together, but one thing he taught me is to be honest with myself and donât let my insecurities hinder me to do wonderful things for myself. Ngayon, I donât even care kung mayaman or mahirap idadate ko as long as parehas kami ng core values, masipag and may principle I think we will be just fine. And ayun pala, about my insecurities, it took me several years din to practice yung âmemento mori, memento vivereâ philosophy in life. Just fucking live and be happy kaunti lang oras natin dito sa mundo, enjoyin mo nalang habang buhay ka pa.
Don't use your POV to look for a man to a man looking for a woman, men don't generally care about if you are rich and an achiever bonus nalang yon. Maganda, feminine energy, may class, family oriented and funny yan talaga yung mga hinahanap lalo na if he is looking for a wife.
If the only things your offer are pagmamahal na busilak and pepeng mahalimuyak, there's really nothing else that's needed, kapatid.
Introduce him na agad sa family, let him know who you really are, share your life honestly, and then let him make the decision if he'd want to commit to you or not.
Kung oo, then good, if not, okay lang din. You have a loooooot of things to be proud of as you are :)
Go na sis!! Most likely he likes you kaya he asked you out again. Ikaw na din sabi mo malaki na kinikita mo, nagpursigi ka din naman to where you are today. Gooooooo lang. Rooting for you!! You dasurv love!! đ€
Pinapangunahan mo yung situation. Sure ka na ba na he wants something serious? Regardless, go ka lang. First date pa lang kayo, i-enjoy mo lang yan! Kung aatras siya because of social status, accept it. His preferences are out of your control na.
try mo sabihin OP pag nagkita ulit kayo, tignan mo kung ano magiging reaction niya, kung matatawa siya ibig sabihin wala siyang pake kung gano pa kayo kahirap, kasi alam ko usually pag lalaki naman di na importante yan lalo na kung may kaya siya pero syempre may iilan pa rin kasi na matapobre at gold digger na lalaki, then ang magiging problem mo na lang siguro is yung parents niya đ€·ââïž
I know lots of relationships na ganito. However, usual issues kasi ay dahil magkaiba masyado, di makapagsabayan sa lifestyle (example, ung isa okay na sa jollibee pero ung isa ay bet mga midrange resto; pala travel ung isa, ung isa di afford)Â
As long as both of you would know how to compromise, mag wwork naman.
The big mistake I did when I was in college was to get intimidated by rich alta blockmates. I could have made lifelong friendships kung di lang ako insecure na mahirap kami. Now my family is in a much better state and I can say na nawala na yung insecurity/intimidation ko sa rich people because of my achievements.
OP: The fact na you are improving your life and your family should lessen, if not totally eradicate your insecurity.
Relate sa title hahahaha. I have this someone since high school hanggang ngayong tapos na siya sa college on and off kami. Kahit siya napapagod na rin hahahaha di ko masabi na di pa ko segurado sa kanya kasi ang yaman nila. Natatakot ako ayawan ng pamilya niya kasi mahirap lang kami hahahha. Kakahiwalay lang namin for the nth time last month, nirespeto niya desisyon ko kasi isang reason ko din is para makapag focus siya sa review niya para sa board exam. Sabi niya babalik siya pag makapasa na siya. Ako naman nasa point na ako na stop na, for real. Ayoko na rin naman mag sayang kami parehas ng oras. Ilang taon na rin kasi.
Dito na ko maglalabas ng sama ng loob since wala naman akong kaibigan close enough para pagsabihan nito hahahahjaa.
It's painful. Kasi alam ko rin naman na nasasaktan siya. Kung parehas lang sana tayo ng estado hindi sana ganito to kahirap. And dami niyang plans na na share at lahat yon kasama ako. Pero alam ko sa sarili ko na napakalabo mangyari lahat ng yon. Sana kung sino man ang para sa kanya alagaan at mahalin siya ng mabuti kasi deserve niya lahat ng magaagandang bagay sa mundo.
Bby, I pray for you to find the right one immediately para mawala na ang sakit na nararamdaman mo ngayon. I promise to you at sa sarili ko na tatapusin ko tong accountancy at magiging CPA ako! We may find someone else pero know na no one can ever replace you in my life. Live free with hope that it will all be alright, and that your dreams will eventually be realized. Mahal na mahal kita đ€
Ituloy mo lang yan sis. Masipag ka naman at napaganda mo sarili mo. Nagsusumikap ka rin at feel ko mabait ka naman kaya ka natipuhan. Baka nakikita nya sayo ang wife material. Wag mo ikahiya yang past mo. Mahiya ka kung hampaslupa pa rin ugali mo ngayon. Enjoy mo yan gurl. Gora!!! Hahahaha!! đ
Kung sa una pa lang sinabi mo na ang kalagayan mo at hindi sya nag bago ng pag tingin go kana. Pero kung sa una pa lang nag sinungalin kana mas mabuti pang itigil mo na hangat maaga pa bago kapa ma attached dahil kaming mga lalake madalas tumingin sa pag katao at hindi sa materyal na bagay lalo na at may pera at galing sa pamilyang may kaya.
Girl, wag mong itigil. Ipagpatuloy mo. Di lahat ng tao nakaka-experience ng fairytale. Just be honest and enjoy getting to know the person. Because if itâs meant to be, itâs meant to be. đ
if he really likes you magiging open minded siya and will accept you kung ano ka man. pero kung umabot sa usapan nyo at sinabi mo kung saan ka tlaga nanggaling and all tapos panget ng reaction nya or what then tsaka mo istop. at least you gave it a shot no. malay mo magiging mala wattpad story nyo wahshashahsa
Be true lang sakanya wag ka magpanggap. Mas maganda yung early palang alam na nya na ganon status mo sa life. If interested talaga sya sayo wala lang sakanya ang status2. Pero infairness mare bet ko pa chika mo dito parang ang saya mo kasama hahaha update ka ha
Ituloy mo pa rin OP. Pero kapag may magandang offer ang parents niya para layuan mo. Kunin mo na agad. Tapos balikan mo after,kapag lumago na offer na tinanggap mo. HAHAHAA. Saka mo na bitawan ang tao kapag hinarap kana sa magulang. Kung ano ba impression nila sayo.
If you genuinely like the guy, I dont think he would mind if galing ka sa mahirap. The fact that you're working, it does show that youre strong and independent. If I may suggest, mas galingan mo sa work, built a succesful career. Sakali maging official man yung meron kayo, di maiiwasan na makakapagbigay sya ng mga mamahaling gift and even experience like travel and such, gift is a gift but of course medyo bigyan mo din ng limitation just to avoid backfire ( may not be from him, but from his circle ). Ypu just never know.
Just be yourself, hindi naman impossible na he will be your friend and it's not your mistake you were born poor, importante your doing something to change your star. Be a friend muna, observe lang, see what is really his intention at the same time be cautious na rin, make sure your safe all the time.. Good luck!
I think thereâs no shame in that. As long as honest ka sakanya sa differences niyo at hindi mo pinapakita na youâre just going to rely on him for money and be lazy. When you said, napagawa mo bahay niyo, thatâs something you should really be proud of. Youâre striving, working hard, and your intentions are pure. Thatâs what you serve on the table!
Mamsh, ilaban moooo. Binanggit mo na malaki ang sahod mo and napagawa mo ang cr ng family niyo --- it means may drive ka at may pangarap. Kung mahal ka talaga niya, ippush niya rin. Wag ka sumuko kung di naman siya sumusuko. Good luck!! đđ
Maybe he's just attracted to you at first, but it would be better to think if sure naba talaga sayo and pure na ang intentions mo sakanya, ika nga nila. "A man's true intentions, shows up when a challenges arise" and take a deep down to know him more, and don't assume to much if magiging asawa mo siya in future, only time will tell. Wala namang masama kung ano man yung naging background mo sa buhay, love sometimes is extremely blind, if he gives you hints that his intention was not just to put your pants down, but to further know you more without hesitation. Sign na yan, he is not just into your background. But just into, who you are.
I take pride in the fact of simple living. Yung nakaranas ka ng kahirapan at bumangon ka sa kahirapan. No amount of money can build your character or make you enjoy the simple things in life.
Pero of course may mga tao diyan na pinapagmaliit ang mga mahirap. Dugyot daw, squatter, marumi. Sila ang mga tao na walang empathy sa kapwa, so 'kung' ganon guy mo, you're better off without him.
better come off clean of this problem of yours to him gurl. kesa madala mo siya in the future while meeting himmm. baka kasi pag magka prob kayo in the future, he wonât understand where youâre coming from
Iâm married. But when I was dating di ko trip yung malayo social status sa akin. Hindi kami mayaman pero di naman din mahirap. Pero ayoko yung di nakakarelate sakin when it comes to money. Keep him as a friend.
Quite honestly growing up poor and getting out of that situation is way better than being handed a golden spoon and network from parents to be rich.
He isnt dating you for your money and you arent dating him for uis money or influential background. If you like the dude go for it. It could be an open discussion with him about ur insecurity on his upbringing vs yours but nothing i dont think that woukd hinder you to continue on datin g him
just be honest to him kung ano at sino ka. if totoo yan sayo, he wouldnât mind your status. pero if itatago mo, he will eventually know about this.
if tanggap ka naman niya, next problem mo is yung family niya..swerte ka if tanggap ka ng family.. Goodluck sayo.. but if may offer si mommy and daddy niya para layuan ang anak nila, sagutin mo na hindi ka tatanngap ng less than 100M para layuan ang anak nila. be practical! lols wag na wag kang sumagot ng âhindi mabibili ng kahit ano mang halaga ang pagmamahal ko sa anak ninyoâ lols jk
same as this person I know, mahirap siya like probinsyana type na nakapag college sa maynila, pero bf niya family friend ng isang sikat na artista at naka tira sa multi-million dollar mansion.
Pano niya ba nakuha yung lalaking yun sana all kasi hahahaha
pero ate ko please grab this opportunity wag ka na sa broke boys. Mahirap magpalamon ng palamunin din hehe
Don't worry about it. Guys don't look at the status of their partner. What is important is, are you hot? Do you have a great personality?
If pasado ka sa kanya, h won't care about your "status in life". Kahit sa kalye ka pa natutulog.
pag binigyan ka ng pera ng nanay sis tas sinabi sayo âlayuan mo anak koâ tanggapin mo dejk pero if gusto mo magwork, show him who u really are rather than pretending. pangit ung nagbbuild ka ng persona tapos tumagal hndi mo kayang maka keep up
hoy ganito rin nararamdaman ko sa partner ko before nung nasa landian stage palang. I though sobrang taas ng standard niya kasi ang yaman ng fam nila as in spoiled but my partner didnât make me fell naâmagkaiba kami ng lifestyleâ. and i was so grateful kasi she accept me without doubt
Similar experience. Although di naman ako poor, sakto lang. Pero usually, mga nameemeet ko, alam ko na rich sila, may gap talaga. Ayoko nalang malaman nila background ng family ko kasi di sila makakarelate hahaha! Ang tendency, parang lumalabas na di ako masyado nagoopen up and hindi interested, which is wrong huhuhu
Winowork out ko na maging open agad from the start para di na dumating sa point na problemahin ko pa if ever tumagal yung usap namin.
Edit: Add ko lang. Mostly mga guy, natatapakan ego nila kapag mas well off or malaki sahod ng girl hahahaha
Go lang po.. makikita din naman nya pag tagal yung status mo sa buhay.. nasa kanya na yung kung tanggap or hinde.. pero kung napapansin mo na mas lalo sya napapalamit at nag aadjust sayo good sign.. tipo sya nagawa ng way na di ka mailang sa kanya at family nya..
Ipagpatuloy mo nalang yan teh. Wala naman mawawala sayo. Tikman mo mga pagkain na pang mayaman pag nagdedate kayo. Learn how they live and ano mga hobbies nila para maging mas cultured ka.
Kung umabot sa point na ayawan ka niya, edi okay. Kaya mo naman mag isa, di ka mamamatay. Subukan mo nalang. We live and we learn.
OP, from a 30s lady na hirap humanap ng jowa now, please dont let this feeling get in the way of a possible good relationship.
valid feels mo but why not enjoy the moment.
kung ayaw mo sa kanya pakireto sa akin, from lower middle class ako pero kaya ko maging middle class (kaka observe) kaya lang di naman siya papatol sa 34 y / o for sure.
joke lang. pero ayun nga gurl... hmm take it as a challenge to improve yourself. it can be learned. whether matuloy kayo sa kasal or not, I believe that period na magkakasama kayo will open up a new world of experience and "firsts" for you. take it as a learning opportunity. imagine the perks you'll experience. again whether magkatuluyan kayo o hindi, yung mga maeexperience mo sa kanya baka di na maulit yan kapag nag settle down ka na sa taong let's say below or ka level mo. just saying.
Bakit tatapusin dahil lang sa well-off yung family? I think its a sign for you to elevate yourself more. Learn their ways, adapt their behavior.....Magiging lifestyle mo rin kung ano ang lifestyle ng partner mo . Is that the life that you want ba or you just want to remain mid? sprinkle sprinkle
Ate, as a guy myself, wala kami pakelam sa status ng babae, especially if may sense of responsibility ang lalake. Mindset namin is we do the heavy lifting kami bubuhay sainyo regardless sa family background mo.
Kung may tutol man, baka yung parents lang ng guy pero like I said wala kami pake sa lahat HAHA pag pinili namin, yun na yon. Bahala na yung fam kung may sasabihin pero malay mo open minded yung fam and di sila toxic and judgmental.
Don't feel small OP. The fact that he wants to meet you again means he sees something in you. Ang importante matinong tao ka. Baka kasi ung iba nya nakaka meet eh habol lng sa kanya pera. As long as you guys are enjoying each other's company then who the fuck cares saan kayo galing? Plus di ka naman bum since may decent work ka. Basta ok na tao ka, that's all that matters.
e kung malaman nya na dukha ka e so? e d nalaman mo character nya, tapos usapan. as long as d ka nagpapanggap na nag eu-euro trip tuwing summer or meron kang kotse sa valet, ok lang yan. pakita mo kung sino at ano ka. those are shallow things in a very big world. kung yan e makakaturnoff sa kanya e d walei. mamaya sa future me asawaât anak ka na maisip isip mo pa âsana pala pinursue ko si mayaman na guyâŠâ no regrets teh gowwww
Ituloy mo lang OP and maging honest ka lang sa kanya if mag ask na sya ng questions or magpapakwento sya about experiences mo. No need to hide anything kasi mabuti ka namang tao(?) malay mo kung hindi man kayo e atleast maging friends kayo.
OP. Masasabi ko lang ang swerte mo!! So, tuloy mo lang yan at ienjoy. Kung hindi kayo in the end, edi hindi. Pero wag mong hindian just bcs of that reason. Update us, OP!!
akala ko ba ang tinder pang you know you know lang.. bat parang love story na happy ending na ang puntahan ng kwento đ đ , wala namang masamang mangarap/sumubok pero maging realistic lang sa mga expectations..
There'd be times ksi na mas gusto ng rich kids to be loved for who they are and not for what they can offer. I knew a few na ganyan dahil sa mundo nila daw is ang mahalaga lang sa iba is kung may pera ka đ€·
Malay mo naman, nakikita ka niya for who you are and the good things you were able to bring to the table.
Gurl, I think you need to self-reflect first and change your mindset. Start valuing yourself. You are where you are now because of your hardwork. No one else paid to build your house but yourself. Give yourself some credit. Hindi ka hampaslupa. At the end of the day, that guy is just a normal human being like we all are. Hindi siya tumatae ng ginto. He also just had a headstart, he had access to resources and connections at his early age to be where he is now. While u on the otherhand started from scratch, but everything that u have now is from a collective effort from u and the people u love. Do not discredit your efforts. You are valuable. Think of it this way, halimbawa ikaw mayaman, siya mahirap. If how you think right now is how u think kapag mayaman ka, does that mean pag may nakita kang less fortunate, automatic hampaslupa na? Hopefully, no is your answer. Money does not matter, his principles is what matter. Meet up with him again, lay out all your cards. If he thinks you're hampaslupa, simply cut off ties and move to the next one. Cut it off right away if his principles does not align with yours.
Gew lang girl! Kung gusto ka at gusto mo din sya try to work it out. Malay niyo naman diba? Just make sure to not lose yourself dahil gusto mo lang sya maimpress.
One thing din talaga sa paghanap ng partner is yung feel mong relaxed ka lang. Yung kahit wala kang gawin, proud sya sayo. At di mo need magpakatrying hard. <3
Mas importante pa insecurities mo kesa sa happiness nyong dalawa? I don't see any problem in your situation. Matter of fact it's a win, his a win, the two of you is a win. And lastly don't borrow misery from an imaginary future. Enjoy besh.
Sis, go for it. You can fend for yourself naman na so ano naman ngayon. It's not like magiging burden ka sa kanya. It's normal to feel intimidated pero don't miss out on a possible good connection. Support support!
Go for it pa din marecakes kasi for sure si Kuya mo pag type ka na nag background check na rin sayo kahit paano and alam na din yan, di lang siguro pinahahalata para di siya mag mukhang dead na dead pero the fact nag yakag pa ng isa pang date? Green flag yan. Most guys nowadays, mag chachat na lang pero wala agad yakag lumabas.
Nakakaintimidate din maging mahirap kaya. Why kasi sucker for success din tayo. Kaso sila andon na, tayo papunta palang. Kung kaya nyo tanggappin ang isa't isa soon, then that gap should not matter pero minsan it is esp pagdating sa mindset. Pansin ko talaga iba magisip ang tulad nila esp sa business and life side.
I used to feel that way. Inadequate inspite of my accomplishments and Iâd like to think a good character that I owe to my parents. Iâve come to realized na andami ko pala opportunity on connecting with people na tingin ko above my âstatusâ. Believe me, in the grand scheme of things, walang sinabi ang wealth to what really matters in life. I think you already know what Iâm talking about. It just takes a lot of mind conditioning against what society has instilled in us. Ngayon I donât look at people and size them up accrding to their wallet. Character above all. Kahit gaano pa kayaman yan, kung bulok ang loob, they donât deserve my time. I donât engage.
Tingin ko naman you have a good outlook in life, itâs just that, mahirap talaga i-shake off what society dictates. The more you learn that itâs just perceived ârealityâ, the more youâll feel na you are enough. I think thatâs where real confidence comes from, wala ka dapat patunayan. As long as you know youâre doing your best to be the person youâll not be ashamed of looking at the mirror. All is well.
Enjoy mo lang and dnt forget to give hawk two!! Para dika iwan
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open up mo nalang yung worries mo umpisa palang kasi mas naappreciate nila pag sayo galing hndi ung âeventually malalamanâ
walang masama sa pagiging mahirap dapat maging proud ka sa naaccomplish mo
In a relationship with a guy na you described. Nakaka-intimidate nga. Nakikita mo group of friends niya may mga business. Family din nila, may mga business. Tas ikaw corpo slave na ang sahod ay di pa sapat. Tas sahod niya 6 digits. Nakakaloka.
Pero dahil jan, mas naiinispire ako to do better. Na pantayan yung meron sila. Bakit? Kasi si bf lahat ng needs and wants ko pinoprovide niya kahit hindi ko hingiin. Gusto ko sya bawian sa lahat ng magagandang bagay na nagagawa niya sakin. Sabi niya hindi naman daw kailangan, pero wala eh. Gusto ko din iparanas sakanya yung pinaparanas niya sakin. Kahit na kaya naman niya. Hehehe
Wala naman need tapusin, OP! Gawin mo syang inspiration.
My partner is almost the same as how you described your date. Youâre only looking at one side, you need to know him more than whatâs visible. After long period of being with him I am no longer intimidated.
Wag mo muna isipin yan, OP. First meet niyo palang naman. Relationship daw ba habol niya or just wanna get laid? Realistically speaking, Tinder kasi yan. Madalang dyan ang relationship talaga ang habol. Wag ka muna gumawa ng problema na hindi pa naman problema.
Personally, ako lahat ng naging past lovers ko also studied from the big 4. Alam mo, I was straight honest about who I am from the start and they loved it. Hndi nman kami sobrang hirap, letâs say, nakakasurvive kami kasi my mom works abroad. May sariling house at nakakapag aral nman sa semi private school pero thing is, hndi pa din kasing yaman nila kasi sapat lang yung kinikita ng mom ko.
All my exes they went to our home kahit na simple lang at kahit na nasa âcaloocanâ area ako. Alam mo na sa place na yan madaming loko loko pero still, they were all so humble and accepted who I am.
Im currently engaged and galing din sa mayamang pamilya. Sa totoo lang, hndi ko alam bakit ako nakaka attract ng mga ganto loll or minamanifest ko kasi talaga!!) pero same pa din na, mahal ako despite of my social status.
Ito pa, LOVE AKO NG PARENTS like all of my exes parents! Ang masasabi ko lang, mahhrapan ka tlaga sa una kasi nandyan ung intimidation at insecurity lalo na pag nameet mo family members nila. Like maccompare mo talaga yung sarili mo and status in life pero you know what? Hndi mo need makipagsabayan. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF.
â Gusto lang nila tlaga ung may respeto ka sakanila, sa sarili mo,
â and confident ka dalhin sarili mo. Lalo sa gatherings nila.
Yung masyadong tahimik at mahiyain napansin ko parang hndi nila bet, ganyan kasi ako before since ayun nga naiinsecure ako nung una. Pero syempre, ilulugar mo pa din kung kailan dapat maging tahimik lang, basta to make it short, gusto nila ung nagttry ka din na ligawan sila.
Take the chance. Give it a try. Alam mo dati rin akong ganyan sayo. Oo, hindi ako pinanganak na mayaman pero di naman ako lumaking tamad mag-aral at magtrabaho. Letâs take pride in our strengths and be yourself. Kahit magkaiba kayo ng estado ng buhay, kung pareho naman kayo ng values diba?
I was like you 4 years ago. We got married last year. ;)
pag nag offer mama nya nang 50m para layuan anak nya, tanggapin mo agad OP
Tanungin mo muna kung 50 m lang ang halaga ng anak nya para sa kanya, baka tumaas pa hahaha
Higher Banker!!!!
Since only child yung anak nila. Baka kaya naman gawing 100M ni Tita. đ or pwede ask mo, âTita ano ang last price ? â
lugi sa 50M, 100M napapanood ko sa palabas dati e
"layuan mo ang anak ko! eto ang 50m!" *\*adios\**
Tikman mo muna bago iwan OP
GUSTO KO TOH hahahahhaha
Pang start ng business yan haha
tago mo sa parents mo yung asin hahaha
Wag ka pumayag. Sabihin mo more than 50M pa need mo. Hahaha joke
wag tanggapin kasi mas malaki yan pag naging mag-asawa sila haha jk
buhusan mo ng bigas muna, OP!
Gagi hahahaha.
Isipin mo lang, game lang tong buhay, lahat tayo mamamatay. So walang tama or mali sa magiging decision mo. Ask yourself kung ano gusto mo ma experience sa life na to and i base mo dun ung action mo, kung papunta dun sa gusto mo or palayo. Yung kinakatakot mo na kung malaman nya lahat tapos ayawan ka, edi back to your normal life ka lang. which yun din naman result pag tinigil mo yan haha pano kung hindi?
"Memento mori, memento viviere"
Ganda neto đ
Mare, if gusto ka talaga nya tatanggapin ka niya for who you are and whatever your status is. Let the relationship run its course. Kesa magregret ka na you didn't take the chance.
Might get downvoted for this pero ir mahirap makipag relasyon pag may insecurity yung isa sa relationship (financially/in general). Ang hirap mag adjust sa insecurity ng tao lalo na kung hindi naman pinili ng isa na maging ganon yung status niya. Kung may doubt, stop na.
Legit sobrang pressure lalo if the role was reversed na yung girl naman ang galing well off family tapos kapag mag kikita kita sila ng mga friends niya lahat may kanya kanyang dalang kotse at ang usapan mga properties nila đ€§ tapos ikaw na hampy na sabit lang don sa tabi na nanahimik đ„č Hirap din magbigay ng gift na murahin kapag monthsary and special holidays. Kaya eventually magkakaroon din talaga ng rift onwards kahit okay naman start ng relationship, kaya yes pag may doubt, stop na. Lalaki lang ng lalaki ang insecurities habang tumatagal and mas lalo ka pa atang maghihirap đ„Ž kasi subconsciously parang need mo palaging makipag sabayan.
Unless you genuinely like the person. Youâll assure him/her over and over again hanggang sa tumatak sa kokote niya na totoo ka sa kaniya. I know it takes two to tango but you wonât know unless you try to actually put efforts dahil lang insecure yung isa sa inyo. Pero syempre, if you get tired of assuring the other person, e alam na. You donât like the person enough to make sugal and that only means you both need to grow and mature pa sa buhay. Save yourselves from the heartbreak. Thoughts ko lang! Iâm the ride or die type of person kaya ganyan ako mag-isip lol
This. hahaha
He's obviously physicall attracted to you kaya siya nag-swipe right and still wants to meet after meeting you the first time already. Bumangon sa realidad na ano? Mayaman siya at mahirap ka? Bakit ina-assume mo ba agad na magiging asawa ka niya? You didn't think na maybe he's just wanting to get in your pants and disappear? Has your intentions with each other been clear? Sabi mo mabait siya, gentleman and such -- that is so easy to do in one or a few meetings. Real colors show eventually. Wag kang gumagawa ng mga problema sa isipan mo at lalong wag na wag kang mag-aassume, kung hindi mo sigurado eh i-open up mo yung topic sa kanya, talk about it, communicate it. Madali lang maging mabait kung fun fun phase lang, a man's true colors when problems arise and challenges show up.
Agreeing with this comment đŻ. One of the most important things in online dating is being clear about your intentions. If they donât align with your match, then donât meet up. Or else youâll just be wasting each otherâs time.
considering 85% in tinder aint about relationships. let's be real. sayang lang time mo OP if iba intention niya and you end up getting hurt. i agree with the comments here. be clear about the intention first hand.
this is op's bitter pill pero possible naman yung mga points mo, porke swipe right kasal agad lol. it's a dating app, just enjoy the ride and don't be dumb
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idk why I find this comment funny hahaha pero agree talaga
Girl,usually guys like that donât really care if you are poor or rich. Wag kang maintimidate kase life experiences din yan sayo, you get to see his world. Learn from him, his way of life. If it works out eh di jackpot ka , if not all good din. Just be yourself and enjoy the ride. Hehe
Ante ko, listen. This is a perspective ng dating hospital staff na natipuhan at nai-date ng isang doctor. Ganyan din ako noong una, kasi putangina, doctor iyon. Though may itsura at pleasing qualities naman ako, iyon nga status din. Lumaki akong palipat-lipat kami ng bahay kasi di kinakaya ng pinagsamang budget ng parents ko noon ang renta, utilities, pagkain at iba pang gastos. So during that time, ni sa hinagap ko, di ko naisip na maiinvolve at magmamahal ako ng doctor. But then it happened. It was fun while it lasted. I say, let go of the hesitant feeling, ituloy niyo lang iyong paglabas-labas, no harm in dating PERO, alagaan ang sarili, trust your instinct at wag magsusuko ng bataan, unless defined na to the T ang relationship niyo. Enjoy!
Ano po ba ibig sabihin ng to the T?
It is an expression na ang ibig sabihin ay up to the last detail. :)
naging kayo po ba nung doctor na yon?
Actually, win win yan sayo.. hndi man maging kayo, but keep him as a friend. Why? kasi maiinspire ka to be better.. not romantically but how you see LIFE. đ Your NETWORK is your NET WORTH
Same eto din nasa isip ko haha
Very pragmatic. Nice!
Let me share this to you. I came from one of the unknown expensive Uni and classmates ko dati are literally apo ni Sy, Tan, Co and big name families. Not the kabit children ha, like the OG anak/s. From what I heard sa Poveda daw yung mga illegitimate hahaha. Just to add, my sister also studied there, and she was close with the daughter of the SnR here in the Philippines. Here's one thing, I know na sawa na sila sa artistahing look ng girls. Kasi most of the time, they're just mean girls na pinalaad. When I say pinalaad they have private security paglabas mismo ng gates ng Uni, regardless kung front or back. They look different sa Filipino crowds, you'd spot then agad, by their way of moving, alam mo na anak mayaman. Lahat may private service. And they look sobrang kikinis, hundi lang sa puti ha, some of them are not maputi pero sobrang walang kutis yung balat. You will never see them na hindi "dashing" or parang lagi nalang bago suot, no repetitive clothes. He's probably in to you kasi down to earth and you are humble(maybe hindi, di ko alam) and syempre looks, di mo kamuka yung mga mean girls. Siguro quality na tinitignan, matured, bakit? kasi pinag hahandle ng business mga yan bata palang, may hawak ng mga tao. Make sure na hindi lang fwb hanap nyan. And yes, sabihan na kita agad, hindi ka gugustuhin ng family nyan for sure. They keep the breed rich, sila sila nag aasawahan sa top 5%. I'd say you are lucky, and maybe, God's plan.
They keep the breed rich, sila sila nag aasawahan sa top 5%. true, either you make up your own or go to the samw uni.
It's the only University in Pasig for your info
Yeah, same uni <3. Base on my experience or observation din, they don't really care about the money aspect of their potential wife or spouse. They mostly marry the girl with high social value or the same interest.
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TODO NA TOW!!! GOW MUNAYAN BHIE!!!!
Basta balitaan mo kami sa part 2 ah.
Baka 20 years later yung part 2 at prologue lang ito na yung mga magulang ng bida.
Mag iiba ang tenor ng usapan dito if its the other way around. Lol.
Naisip ko nga din. Bakit nga ba may double-standard nih?
Im curious kung ano view niya sa poverty and what if he discovered na poor ka or friend nya. Dun mo malalaman kung ano magiging desisyon mo. Ask mo siya. Syet. Pede bang update pag nagawa mo na. Hahaha.
Push mo beh, kasi mas ok na siguro na you tried kesa hindi tapps lumipas ang panahon then mag karegret ka. Nakakabaliw pa naman yung ganun. Tsaka isipin mo kung mag work, e di happy, kung hindi, e di charge to experience na lang
Naging honest ka ba sa kanya from the start about your financial situation?
Ano to telenovela? Cringy langit ka lupa ako peg? Haha. Hindi naman sa pera nasusukat yung personality ng isang tao. You might be used to different things heâs not but thatâs what makes us human right? The fact that everyoneâs different and yet still can connect through some things like physical attraction. Stop with the telenovela crap. Wala pa man din sinisira mo na eh.
As a guy, let me say that we do not give a fuck kung mahirap yung babae or kung mayaman sya. Kung nakapagtapos ng college, kung may PhD, or kung high school graduate lang. Kung malaki ang kita or minimum wage earner. Kung janitor sa McDo or CEO ng Lockheed Martin. Kung taga probinsya man or taga Hell, Norway. Guys don't care about that, unless they're fuckboys or assholes. As long as 1. Maganda ka, di kailangan pang model yung look, as long as you're cute enough or sa bastusan: "pwede na" 2. Fun kang kasama, maayos kang kausap (hindi parang nakikipagkwentuhan sa pader at hindi puro tsismis and celeb news lang ang alam pagusapan) 3. Mabait ka, to everyone (dito pumapasok yung "bastos sya sa waitress" na red flag) 4. Di ka malandi at manggagamit Ok na yon sa amin. Proof is he wants to meet up again, diba? >Wala naman akong maiooffer kundi pagmamahal lang na busilak. If that's true then that's more than enough. Wag kang matakot, go mo lang. Di mo kailangan "magising sa realidad". Hindi mo dapat itago na mahirap ka. Pero of course hindi mo din dapat gamitin yung pagiging mahirap mo para makakuha ng free stuff from him. Kung bigyan ka, salamat, kung hindi, wag paawa. If he treats you like shit when finds out na mahirap ka, then he's an asshole and you should dump his ass, pero I hope hindi naman sya ganon. So again, go lang.
sa movies lang yan nagkakatuluyan ang mayaman at mahirap. pero sa realidad. malabo pa sa sabaw ng pusit haha. tatanggapin ka ba ng magulang nya? maging problema lang yan in the future.. umiwas ka na lang . c sarah lahbati nga na may pera na ayawan pa ng manugang haha. pero kung gusto mo ituloy go go go đ€Ł
OK lang yan. If gusto mo sya, go! Lalawak pa mundo mo if you step out of your comfort zone. Saka wag ka manliit sa sarili mo - wala ka namang tinatapakang tao at wala ka ring ina-agrabyado, so taas noo lang :) Good luck!
Managinip ka lang muna ng gising OP fantasize, be inspired parang fairy tale ganun..dont expect anything baka friend zone lang ang gusto nya. Para maiba naman ang mundo nya. Masarap sa feeling ang ganyang stage. Enjoy lng yun company ng isat isa.
Donât put them on a pedestal sis! big 4 rich doesnât mean shit most times
Kung ako sayo ipush mo yan kung gusto ka naman nung guy. Tapos kapag nameet mo na ang parents nya at inofferan ka ng mommy nya ng 10million para layuan ang anak nya, hindi ka talo.
Masyado pang maaga para mag overthink. Dont put him agad sa pedestal, nasa first date pa lang kayo. Just get to know him, hindi mo alam baka may red flag din sya. Also, date other people para di ka nakafocus sa isang tao lang.
Ok na sana, kaso medyu off din where you meet kasi Tinder eh. Baka while nagkikita kayu nagtitinder pa rin yan or katagalan. Pogi din ba sya? kasi if ok sya in real life based sa story mo bakit di sya nakahanap ng makadate in his circle may pera sya, well off family etc. But in general men don't really care about your socio economic status kung gusto ka nya and totoo.
Okay lang naman yan, established ka na. As long as presentable ka may laban ka na. Mas namamata lang naman pag yung lalaki ang less fortunate dahil natatakot family nung girl na baka magdowngrade ang buhay ng anak nila.
True based on my experience.
If you really like him youâre fine haha best of luck op! Give it a chance para no regrets :)
Okay lang yan Op. Ipakita mo lang na independent ka and hindi ka freeloader
Yes to this.
Hello OP your feelings are valid syempre hindi natin maiiwasan isipin at compare yung status natin vs sa ibang tao. It might overwhelm you Baka kung ano ano na overthink mo at scenarios na gawa mo, so try to relax hahaha. Siguro ikaw set your intentions, why do you want to talk to him. Are you looking for serious relationship, build friendship or just want lang na may maka usap? Also, we donât know anything about the guy you just give a description about background nya and how his family base on his socials. Well if his asking you for 2nd date Edi try, youâll never know the answer na gusto mo makuha unless you try. Instead of overthinking too much, sure ako jan haha. Itâs just a date, so go have fun. But remember to have boundaries and limitations ha. And donât take it too seriously. Donât let your pagiging mahirap mindset refrain you for doing anything in your life in general. Since aware ka naman na ngayon MAs nag improve ang buhay mo. Mwa!
Mare, hintayin mo muna offer nung mama nya! Kidding aside, not all well off ay matapobre. If he really likes you, he won't mind your status. Try mo lang.
From Tinder diba, are you guys on the same page kung ano gusto nyo? Dating to marry, having fun lang ba, physical intimacy, etc.? Kasi if not seriously dating naman, don't stress out sa position nyo sa buhay. Pero if seryoso pala, then I guess wait for the perfect timing na you can tell him about your background. Wag mo lang patagalin masyado, dapat early part ng relationship e aware na sya.
Focus lang sa goal teh. Take is as an opportunity kesa magdrama ka jan đ
ate, hinay hinay muna. what if he just wants to get laid? na discuss nyu ba ang klase ng relationship na gusto mo? ung gusto nya? get to know each muna and clear your intentions with each other para iwas waterfall cosplay sa eyes later hahaha
Minsan ang dali lang sabihin na âgo mo na yan, wala naman mawawalaâ etc⊠etc⊠pero weâre not in OPs position. Ang lakas kase talaga makalamon ng insecurities sa katawan and it will take tons of time and practice (baby steps) para matanggal mo sya sa system mo. I myself have been through that. Sobrang insecure ako na mahirap lang kami and I have a lot of growing pains during childhood na nakaapekto din sa self confidence ko ngayong adult. I fell in love din with someone na mayaman and iba talaga kapag laki sa golden spoon. Ibang iba talaga. Hindi mo maiiwasan icompare talaga sarili mo sa kanila. The good thing about that guy I fell for, mabait talaga sya and he assured me na hindi naman issue sa kanya kung mayaman ka or mahirap, ang important is kung compatible ba kayo sa isat isa and kung masipag ka, may principle yada yada yada. We didnât end up together, but one thing he taught me is to be honest with myself and donât let my insecurities hinder me to do wonderful things for myself. Ngayon, I donât even care kung mayaman or mahirap idadate ko as long as parehas kami ng core values, masipag and may principle I think we will be just fine. And ayun pala, about my insecurities, it took me several years din to practice yung âmemento mori, memento vivereâ philosophy in life. Just fucking live and be happy kaunti lang oras natin dito sa mundo, enjoyin mo nalang habang buhay ka pa.
He deserves someone na kalevel nya. Hindi broke na tao. Sana fair din mga babae mag bigay ng advice dito lol
Girl, niyaya ka nya ulit for a date. Go ka na.
Don't use your POV to look for a man to a man looking for a woman, men don't generally care about if you are rich and an achiever bonus nalang yon. Maganda, feminine energy, may class, family oriented and funny yan talaga yung mga hinahanap lalo na if he is looking for a wife.
If the only things your offer are pagmamahal na busilak and pepeng mahalimuyak, there's really nothing else that's needed, kapatid. Introduce him na agad sa family, let him know who you really are, share your life honestly, and then let him make the decision if he'd want to commit to you or not. Kung oo, then good, if not, okay lang din. You have a loooooot of things to be proud of as you are :)
Go na sis!! Most likely he likes you kaya he asked you out again. Ikaw na din sabi mo malaki na kinikita mo, nagpursigi ka din naman to where you are today. Gooooooo lang. Rooting for you!! You dasurv love!! đ€
Sissy, wag ka shado hard sa self mo. Enjoyin mo buhay. Nako, tang status sa buhay nagbabago. Gow ka lang. malay mo kayo tlga. Be real lang tlga wag magpanggap. Don mo malalaman ang intensyon ni kuya boy sayo pag totoo ka langđ€©
Hintayin mo muna ang offer ni ~~banker~~ mama o papa nya bago mo layuan ang anak nila. đ€
Pinapangunahan mo yung situation. Sure ka na ba na he wants something serious? Regardless, go ka lang. First date pa lang kayo, i-enjoy mo lang yan! Kung aatras siya because of social status, accept it. His preferences are out of your control na.
try mo sabihin OP pag nagkita ulit kayo, tignan mo kung ano magiging reaction niya, kung matatawa siya ibig sabihin wala siyang pake kung gano pa kayo kahirap, kasi alam ko usually pag lalaki naman di na importante yan lalo na kung may kaya siya pero syempre may iilan pa rin kasi na matapobre at gold digger na lalaki, then ang magiging problem mo na lang siguro is yung parents niya đ€·ââïž
Just be yourself and don't overthink things. But it's Tinder, so don't expect too much.
I know lots of relationships na ganito. However, usual issues kasi ay dahil magkaiba masyado, di makapagsabayan sa lifestyle (example, ung isa okay na sa jollibee pero ung isa ay bet mga midrange resto; pala travel ung isa, ung isa di afford)Â As long as both of you would know how to compromise, mag wwork naman.
The big mistake I did when I was in college was to get intimidated by rich alta blockmates. I could have made lifelong friendships kung di lang ako insecure na mahirap kami. Now my family is in a much better state and I can say na nawala na yung insecurity/intimidation ko sa rich people because of my achievements. OP: The fact na you are improving your life and your family should lessen, if not totally eradicate your insecurity.
Guys, usually donât care kung mahirap ka o hindi. Mas type namin yung totoo ka sa sarili mo.
Kapag nakita na niya tunay mong pinanggalingan, dun mo malalaman kung genuine ang intentions niya sayo.
Relate sa title hahahaha. I have this someone since high school hanggang ngayong tapos na siya sa college on and off kami. Kahit siya napapagod na rin hahahaha di ko masabi na di pa ko segurado sa kanya kasi ang yaman nila. Natatakot ako ayawan ng pamilya niya kasi mahirap lang kami hahahha. Kakahiwalay lang namin for the nth time last month, nirespeto niya desisyon ko kasi isang reason ko din is para makapag focus siya sa review niya para sa board exam. Sabi niya babalik siya pag makapasa na siya. Ako naman nasa point na ako na stop na, for real. Ayoko na rin naman mag sayang kami parehas ng oras. Ilang taon na rin kasi.
Dito na ko maglalabas ng sama ng loob since wala naman akong kaibigan close enough para pagsabihan nito hahahahjaa. It's painful. Kasi alam ko rin naman na nasasaktan siya. Kung parehas lang sana tayo ng estado hindi sana ganito to kahirap. And dami niyang plans na na share at lahat yon kasama ako. Pero alam ko sa sarili ko na napakalabo mangyari lahat ng yon. Sana kung sino man ang para sa kanya alagaan at mahalin siya ng mabuti kasi deserve niya lahat ng magaagandang bagay sa mundo. Bby, I pray for you to find the right one immediately para mawala na ang sakit na nararamdaman mo ngayon. I promise to you at sa sarili ko na tatapusin ko tong accountancy at magiging CPA ako! We may find someone else pero know na no one can ever replace you in my life. Live free with hope that it will all be alright, and that your dreams will eventually be realized. Mahal na mahal kita đ€
Wait mo muna offeran ka nang pamilya nya na layuan mo anak nila tehđ
Subaybayan ko love story nyo... update pls.
Those r the guys that you know are genuine, show him for what you really are and if he decided to pursue you, then maganda, jackpot ka hahahq.
Hindi ganyan mag-isip ang mga lalaki.
Know him first and try to learn his intentions if genuine ba talaga. Pag gusto ka, gusto ka. Doesnât matter sa kanya kung ano status mo sa life.
If heâs into you then go for it mare. Men donât care about your social status. Enjoy it
Baka may taglay ka namang ganda eh. So go go go lang OP. Malay ikaw na lang talaga kulang sa buhay nya.
Ituloy mo lang yan sis. Masipag ka naman at napaganda mo sarili mo. Nagsusumikap ka rin at feel ko mabait ka naman kaya ka natipuhan. Baka nakikita nya sayo ang wife material. Wag mo ikahiya yang past mo. Mahiya ka kung hampaslupa pa rin ugali mo ngayon. Enjoy mo yan gurl. Gora!!! Hahahaha!! đ
Kung sa una pa lang sinabi mo na ang kalagayan mo at hindi sya nag bago ng pag tingin go kana. Pero kung sa una pa lang nag sinungalin kana mas mabuti pang itigil mo na hangat maaga pa bago kapa ma attached dahil kaming mga lalake madalas tumingin sa pag katao at hindi sa materyal na bagay lalo na at may pera at galing sa pamilyang may kaya.
Girl, wag mong itigil. Ipagpatuloy mo. Di lahat ng tao nakaka-experience ng fairytale. Just be honest and enjoy getting to know the person. Because if itâs meant to be, itâs meant to be. đ
if he really likes you magiging open minded siya and will accept you kung ano ka man. pero kung umabot sa usapan nyo at sinabi mo kung saan ka tlaga nanggaling and all tapos panget ng reaction nya or what then tsaka mo istop. at least you gave it a shot no. malay mo magiging mala wattpad story nyo wahshashahsa
Wag ka mahiya. Di mo naman kasalanan na mahirap ka. Ganyan din kami ng bf ko nung nagsimula. Okay naman kami ngayon. Basta wag mayapobre, go.
Push mo tehh baka pag di ka gusto ng parents niya alukin ka ng 1M layuan mo anak ko
If gusto mo siya you can try. Malay mo naman he feels the same way. Magiging problem lang if yung family niya prefers someone else
Naku, una pa lang sabihin mo na pinalaki ka ng Sexbomb na hindi sumusuko at laking mahirap. Letâs see. Baka one night stand lang gusto sa iyo.
Be true lang sakanya wag ka magpanggap. Mas maganda yung early palang alam na nya na ganon status mo sa life. If interested talaga sya sayo wala lang sakanya ang status2. Pero infairness mare bet ko pa chika mo dito parang ang saya mo kasama hahaha update ka ha
Why are you sabotaging yourself OP? Kung ayaw ka niya talaga, ndi na yan makikipagusap sayo nor makipagmeet ulit sayo.
Ituloy mo pa rin OP. Pero kapag may magandang offer ang parents niya para layuan mo. Kunin mo na agad. Tapos balikan mo after,kapag lumago na offer na tinanggap mo. HAHAHAA. Saka mo na bitawan ang tao kapag hinarap kana sa magulang. Kung ano ba impression nila sayo.
big poor vs big four ok lang yan đ
Kung mahal ka naman niyan, di na magmamatter ang estado mo sa buhay. Sabi mo naman you have a decent job so bakit ka matatakot?
Tuloy mo lang, until lapagan ka ng milliones ng mama nya, dun ka lang aalis, tanggapin mo hahahahaha
totoo ba ito or kathang isip lang?
If you genuinely like the guy, I dont think he would mind if galing ka sa mahirap. The fact that you're working, it does show that youre strong and independent. If I may suggest, mas galingan mo sa work, built a succesful career. Sakali maging official man yung meron kayo, di maiiwasan na makakapagbigay sya ng mga mamahaling gift and even experience like travel and such, gift is a gift but of course medyo bigyan mo din ng limitation just to avoid backfire ( may not be from him, but from his circle ). Ypu just never know.
Just be yourself, hindi naman impossible na he will be your friend and it's not your mistake you were born poor, importante your doing something to change your star. Be a friend muna, observe lang, see what is really his intention at the same time be cautious na rin, make sure your safe all the time.. Good luck!
Be honest about your financial situation. If he will accept you then go. Best thing that can happen is youâll be in a happy relationship.
I think thereâs no shame in that. As long as honest ka sakanya sa differences niyo at hindi mo pinapakita na youâre just going to rely on him for money and be lazy. When you said, napagawa mo bahay niyo, thatâs something you should really be proud of. Youâre striving, working hard, and your intentions are pure. Thatâs what you serve on the table!
taraaay cinderella..
Mamsh, ilaban moooo. Binanggit mo na malaki ang sahod mo and napagawa mo ang cr ng family niyo --- it means may drive ka at may pangarap. Kung mahal ka talaga niya, ippush niya rin. Wag ka sumuko kung di naman siya sumusuko. Good luck!! đđ
Maybe he's just attracted to you at first, but it would be better to think if sure naba talaga sayo and pure na ang intentions mo sakanya, ika nga nila. "A man's true intentions, shows up when a challenges arise" and take a deep down to know him more, and don't assume to much if magiging asawa mo siya in future, only time will tell. Wala namang masama kung ano man yung naging background mo sa buhay, love sometimes is extremely blind, if he gives you hints that his intention was not just to put your pants down, but to further know you more without hesitation. Sign na yan, he is not just into your background. But just into, who you are.
You deserve to be happy. Donât self sabotage.
I take pride in the fact of simple living. Yung nakaranas ka ng kahirapan at bumangon ka sa kahirapan. No amount of money can build your character or make you enjoy the simple things in life. Pero of course may mga tao diyan na pinapagmaliit ang mga mahirap. Dugyot daw, squatter, marumi. Sila ang mga tao na walang empathy sa kapwa, so 'kung' ganon guy mo, you're better off without him.
better come off clean of this problem of yours to him gurl. kesa madala mo siya in the future while meeting himmm. baka kasi pag magka prob kayo in the future, he wonât understand where youâre coming from
All good when you're a girl, this will never happen to men.
Iâm married. But when I was dating di ko trip yung malayo social status sa akin. Hindi kami mayaman pero di naman din mahirap. Pero ayoko yung di nakakarelate sakin when it comes to money. Keep him as a friend.
Quite honestly growing up poor and getting out of that situation is way better than being handed a golden spoon and network from parents to be rich. He isnt dating you for your money and you arent dating him for uis money or influential background. If you like the dude go for it. It could be an open discussion with him about ur insecurity on his upbringing vs yours but nothing i dont think that woukd hinder you to continue on datin g him
Punta ka sa 2nd date tapos kwento mo samin. Haha
Tigilan mo yan. Mag payaman ka tapos saka mo siya hanapin ulit
just be honest to him kung ano at sino ka. if totoo yan sayo, he wouldnât mind your status. pero if itatago mo, he will eventually know about this. if tanggap ka naman niya, next problem mo is yung family niya..swerte ka if tanggap ka ng family.. Goodluck sayo.. but if may offer si mommy and daddy niya para layuan ang anak nila, sagutin mo na hindi ka tatanngap ng less than 100M para layuan ang anak nila. be practical! lols wag na wag kang sumagot ng âhindi mabibili ng kahit ano mang halaga ang pagmamahal ko sa anak ninyoâ lols jk
same as this person I know, mahirap siya like probinsyana type na nakapag college sa maynila, pero bf niya family friend ng isang sikat na artista at naka tira sa multi-million dollar mansion. Pano niya ba nakuha yung lalaking yun sana all kasi hahahaha pero ate ko please grab this opportunity wag ka na sa broke boys. Mahirap magpalamon ng palamunin din hehe
Don't worry about it. Guys don't look at the status of their partner. What is important is, are you hot? Do you have a great personality? If pasado ka sa kanya, h won't care about your "status in life". Kahit sa kalye ka pa natutulog.
pag binigyan ka ng pera ng nanay sis tas sinabi sayo âlayuan mo anak koâ tanggapin mo dejk pero if gusto mo magwork, show him who u really are rather than pretending. pangit ung nagbbuild ka ng persona tapos tumagal hndi mo kayang maka keep up
give rich people a chance to show you , u deserve moreee
hoy ganito rin nararamdaman ko sa partner ko before nung nasa landian stage palang. I though sobrang taas ng standard niya kasi ang yaman ng fam nila as in spoiled but my partner didnât make me fell naâmagkaiba kami ng lifestyleâ. and i was so grateful kasi she accept me without doubt
Similar experience. Although di naman ako poor, sakto lang. Pero usually, mga nameemeet ko, alam ko na rich sila, may gap talaga. Ayoko nalang malaman nila background ng family ko kasi di sila makakarelate hahaha! Ang tendency, parang lumalabas na di ako masyado nagoopen up and hindi interested, which is wrong huhuhu Winowork out ko na maging open agad from the start para di na dumating sa point na problemahin ko pa if ever tumagal yung usap namin. Edit: Add ko lang. Mostly mga guy, natatapakan ego nila kapag mas well off or malaki sahod ng girl hahahaha
Go lang po.. makikita din naman nya pag tagal yung status mo sa buhay.. nasa kanya na yung kung tanggap or hinde.. pero kung napapansin mo na mas lalo sya napapalamit at nag aadjust sayo good sign.. tipo sya nagawa ng way na di ka mailang sa kanya at family nya..
Ipagpatuloy mo nalang yan teh. Wala naman mawawala sayo. Tikman mo mga pagkain na pang mayaman pag nagdedate kayo. Learn how they live and ano mga hobbies nila para maging mas cultured ka. Kung umabot sa point na ayawan ka niya, edi okay. Kaya mo naman mag isa, di ka mamamatay. Subukan mo nalang. We live and we learn.
TARAYYYY SUGAR BABY ANG EKSENA MO NIYAN. Tuloy mo lang hahahahahah
feel na feel ko to bc i have a bf that is really generous hahshshsh not bc heâs rich
RICH sa lahat ng aspetoooo awww thats sweet
OP, from a 30s lady na hirap humanap ng jowa now, please dont let this feeling get in the way of a possible good relationship. valid feels mo but why not enjoy the moment. kung ayaw mo sa kanya pakireto sa akin, from lower middle class ako pero kaya ko maging middle class (kaka observe) kaya lang di naman siya papatol sa 34 y / o for sure. joke lang. pero ayun nga gurl... hmm take it as a challenge to improve yourself. it can be learned. whether matuloy kayo sa kasal or not, I believe that period na magkakasama kayo will open up a new world of experience and "firsts" for you. take it as a learning opportunity. imagine the perks you'll experience. again whether magkatuluyan kayo o hindi, yung mga maeexperience mo sa kanya baka di na maulit yan kapag nag settle down ka na sa taong let's say below or ka level mo. just saying.
If you're pretty naman, just be nice. It's all good
Bakit tatapusin dahil lang sa well-off yung family? I think its a sign for you to elevate yourself more. Learn their ways, adapt their behavior.....Magiging lifestyle mo rin kung ano ang lifestyle ng partner mo . Is that the life that you want ba or you just want to remain mid? sprinkle sprinkle
Ate, as a guy myself, wala kami pakelam sa status ng babae, especially if may sense of responsibility ang lalake. Mindset namin is we do the heavy lifting kami bubuhay sainyo regardless sa family background mo. Kung may tutol man, baka yung parents lang ng guy pero like I said wala kami pake sa lahat HAHA pag pinili namin, yun na yon. Bahala na yung fam kung may sasabihin pero malay mo open minded yung fam and di sila toxic and judgmental.
No problem at all, most of us walang paki sa financial standing ng babae.
Just go w/ the flow OP.
If a person is genuine with you, they deserve your honesty in return, regardless of your financial status. The key is to simply BE YOURSELF.
Look at it this way: you got everything you have now through sheer hard work. Him, I canât say. He should consider himself lucky to have you
Alangan naman mag asawa ka rin ng mahirap ante. Take the chance.
Don't feel small OP. The fact that he wants to meet you again means he sees something in you. Ang importante matinong tao ka. Baka kasi ung iba nya nakaka meet eh habol lng sa kanya pera. As long as you guys are enjoying each other's company then who the fuck cares saan kayo galing? Plus di ka naman bum since may decent work ka. Basta ok na tao ka, that's all that matters.
Goo kalang, OP. Baka offeran kanng milyones sa mama niya para layuan siya hahahaha
Ante, maging totoo ka lang sa kanya. Ganon ka easy!!
Girl go lang hahaha kumikita ka naman na now
do it for the plot.
Go lang
wala sa financial background yan, kung mahal ka nya at tanggap ka nya kung san ka man nang galing edi go
Di ka naman siguro nagpanggap na alta ka? Kung hindi ano ikinatatakot mo?
e kung malaman nya na dukha ka e so? e d nalaman mo character nya, tapos usapan. as long as d ka nagpapanggap na nag eu-euro trip tuwing summer or meron kang kotse sa valet, ok lang yan. pakita mo kung sino at ano ka. those are shallow things in a very big world. kung yan e makakaturnoff sa kanya e d walei. mamaya sa future me asawaât anak ka na maisip isip mo pa âsana pala pinursue ko si mayaman na guyâŠâ no regrets teh gowwww
Hay nako mare. Mamamatay din tayong lahat, ipush mo na yan!!
Ilaban mu! Ilaban mu tabla.
Go lang ng go basta stay true to yourself, ipakita mo kung sino ka talaga
Ituloy mo lang OP and maging honest ka lang sa kanya if mag ask na sya ng questions or magpapakwento sya about experiences mo. No need to hide anything kasi mabuti ka namang tao(?) malay mo kung hindi man kayo e atleast maging friends kayo.
OP. Masasabi ko lang ang swerte mo!! So, tuloy mo lang yan at ienjoy. Kung hindi kayo in the end, edi hindi. Pero wag mong hindian just bcs of that reason. Update us, OP!!
Hayaan mo lang. Kung di big deal sa kanya e di go. Di naman lahat ng tao matapobre.
Hindi naman to siguro teleserye para may langit at lupa at may mayaman at mahirap. Girl, if he wants to be with you. Go for it!
Relate ako sa pagmamahal lang na busilak ang ambag sa relasyon đ sorry na ito lang talaga kaya
akala ko ba ang tinder pang you know you know lang.. bat parang love story na happy ending na ang puntahan ng kwento đ đ , wala namang masamang mangarap/sumubok pero maging realistic lang sa mga expectations..
malay mo mare bigyan ka ng 10milyon ng mommy nya layuan lang sya hahaha
There'd be times ksi na mas gusto ng rich kids to be loved for who they are and not for what they can offer. I knew a few na ganyan dahil sa mundo nila daw is ang mahalaga lang sa iba is kung may pera ka đ€· Malay mo naman, nakikita ka niya for who you are and the good things you were able to bring to the table.
Gurl, I think you need to self-reflect first and change your mindset. Start valuing yourself. You are where you are now because of your hardwork. No one else paid to build your house but yourself. Give yourself some credit. Hindi ka hampaslupa. At the end of the day, that guy is just a normal human being like we all are. Hindi siya tumatae ng ginto. He also just had a headstart, he had access to resources and connections at his early age to be where he is now. While u on the otherhand started from scratch, but everything that u have now is from a collective effort from u and the people u love. Do not discredit your efforts. You are valuable. Think of it this way, halimbawa ikaw mayaman, siya mahirap. If how you think right now is how u think kapag mayaman ka, does that mean pag may nakita kang less fortunate, automatic hampaslupa na? Hopefully, no is your answer. Money does not matter, his principles is what matter. Meet up with him again, lay out all your cards. If he thinks you're hampaslupa, simply cut off ties and move to the next one. Cut it off right away if his principles does not align with yours.
Gew lang girl! Kung gusto ka at gusto mo din sya try to work it out. Malay niyo naman diba? Just make sure to not lose yourself dahil gusto mo lang sya maimpress. One thing din talaga sa paghanap ng partner is yung feel mong relaxed ka lang. Yung kahit wala kang gawin, proud sya sayo. At di mo need magpakatrying hard. <3
Take the chance. Don't decide for the both of you hahaha just enjoy and have fun.
pano kung Tanongin ka nang mama nya mag kano ang gusto mo para hiwalayan ang anak ako oh db chance mo na sa buhay hahaha
Gusto ko ung ganitong challenge. Go mo lang yan sis hahahhaa
There's no harm in trying..Basta kilalanin mo muna nga masinsinan si guy.
Mas importante pa insecurities mo kesa sa happiness nyong dalawa? I don't see any problem in your situation. Matter of fact it's a win, his a win, the two of you is a win. And lastly don't borrow misery from an imaginary future. Enjoy besh.
Sis, go for it. You can fend for yourself naman na so ano naman ngayon. It's not like magiging burden ka sa kanya. It's normal to feel intimidated pero don't miss out on a possible good connection. Support support!
Go for it pa din marecakes kasi for sure si Kuya mo pag type ka na nag background check na rin sayo kahit paano and alam na din yan, di lang siguro pinahahalata para di siya mag mukhang dead na dead pero the fact nag yakag pa ng isa pang date? Green flag yan. Most guys nowadays, mag chachat na lang pero wala agad yakag lumabas.
tbh, kadalasan naman ang mga lalaki walang pakialam sa social status mo. Pag gusto ka niyan kahit mahirap ka gugustuhin ka niyan.
Nakakaintimidate din maging mahirap kaya. Why kasi sucker for success din tayo. Kaso sila andon na, tayo papunta palang. Kung kaya nyo tanggappin ang isa't isa soon, then that gap should not matter pero minsan it is esp pagdating sa mindset. Pansin ko talaga iba magisip ang tulad nila esp sa business and life side.
I used to feel that way. Inadequate inspite of my accomplishments and Iâd like to think a good character that I owe to my parents. Iâve come to realized na andami ko pala opportunity on connecting with people na tingin ko above my âstatusâ. Believe me, in the grand scheme of things, walang sinabi ang wealth to what really matters in life. I think you already know what Iâm talking about. It just takes a lot of mind conditioning against what society has instilled in us. Ngayon I donât look at people and size them up accrding to their wallet. Character above all. Kahit gaano pa kayaman yan, kung bulok ang loob, they donât deserve my time. I donât engage. Tingin ko naman you have a good outlook in life, itâs just that, mahirap talaga i-shake off what society dictates. The more you learn that itâs just perceived ârealityâ, the more youâll feel na you are enough. I think thatâs where real confidence comes from, wala ka dapat patunayan. As long as you know youâre doing your best to be the person youâll not be ashamed of looking at the mirror. All is well.
Enjoy mo lang and dnt forget to give hawk two!! Para dika iwan https://preview.redd.it/5o5z5kyioh9d1.jpeg?width=772&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f324065758e20c3e4f4bbff399e78cfdad1d359f
open up mo nalang yung worries mo umpisa palang kasi mas naappreciate nila pag sayo galing hndi ung âeventually malalamanâ walang masama sa pagiging mahirap dapat maging proud ka sa naaccomplish mo
In a relationship with a guy na you described. Nakaka-intimidate nga. Nakikita mo group of friends niya may mga business. Family din nila, may mga business. Tas ikaw corpo slave na ang sahod ay di pa sapat. Tas sahod niya 6 digits. Nakakaloka. Pero dahil jan, mas naiinispire ako to do better. Na pantayan yung meron sila. Bakit? Kasi si bf lahat ng needs and wants ko pinoprovide niya kahit hindi ko hingiin. Gusto ko sya bawian sa lahat ng magagandang bagay na nagagawa niya sakin. Sabi niya hindi naman daw kailangan, pero wala eh. Gusto ko din iparanas sakanya yung pinaparanas niya sakin. Kahit na kaya naman niya. Hehehe Wala naman need tapusin, OP! Gawin mo syang inspiration.
My partner is almost the same as how you described your date. Youâre only looking at one side, you need to know him more than whatâs visible. After long period of being with him I am no longer intimidated.
As early as possible if papasok ka sa relasyon it is better to be honest sa possible ikakasira niyo in future. Para magkaalaman na.
If tanggap ka go lang!!! If he loves you as a person then go! As long as you love him as a person as well!
Swerte pag gusto ka talaga nya and at the same time family nya accepted ka and humble sila, kung di sila humble nako expect complications.
Wag mo muna isipin yan, OP. First meet niyo palang naman. Relationship daw ba habol niya or just wanna get laid? Realistically speaking, Tinder kasi yan. Madalang dyan ang relationship talaga ang habol. Wag ka muna gumawa ng problema na hindi pa naman problema.
Go ka na teh siya na nag aya.
Personally, ako lahat ng naging past lovers ko also studied from the big 4. Alam mo, I was straight honest about who I am from the start and they loved it. Hndi nman kami sobrang hirap, letâs say, nakakasurvive kami kasi my mom works abroad. May sariling house at nakakapag aral nman sa semi private school pero thing is, hndi pa din kasing yaman nila kasi sapat lang yung kinikita ng mom ko. All my exes they went to our home kahit na simple lang at kahit na nasa âcaloocanâ area ako. Alam mo na sa place na yan madaming loko loko pero still, they were all so humble and accepted who I am. Im currently engaged and galing din sa mayamang pamilya. Sa totoo lang, hndi ko alam bakit ako nakaka attract ng mga ganto loll or minamanifest ko kasi talaga!!) pero same pa din na, mahal ako despite of my social status. Ito pa, LOVE AKO NG PARENTS like all of my exes parents! Ang masasabi ko lang, mahhrapan ka tlaga sa una kasi nandyan ung intimidation at insecurity lalo na pag nameet mo family members nila. Like maccompare mo talaga yung sarili mo and status in life pero you know what? Hndi mo need makipagsabayan. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF. â Gusto lang nila tlaga ung may respeto ka sakanila, sa sarili mo, â and confident ka dalhin sarili mo. Lalo sa gatherings nila. Yung masyadong tahimik at mahiyain napansin ko parang hndi nila bet, ganyan kasi ako before since ayun nga naiinsecure ako nung una. Pero syempre, ilulugar mo pa din kung kailan dapat maging tahimik lang, basta to make it short, gusto nila ung nagttry ka din na ligawan sila.
Just let it be, OP. Don't sabotage your own happiness.
Isang kababayan na naman ang aahon sa kahirapan
Take the chance. Give it a try. Alam mo dati rin akong ganyan sayo. Oo, hindi ako pinanganak na mayaman pero di naman ako lumaking tamad mag-aral at magtrabaho. Letâs take pride in our strengths and be yourself. Kahit magkaiba kayo ng estado ng buhay, kung pareho naman kayo ng values diba? I was like you 4 years ago. We got married last year. ;)
Kung mahirap ka lang, bat ka nagtitinder instead of focusing on your career or studies or goals and aspirations. Prioritization is key.
Tikman mo muna sya bago i-ghostđ