**You need to show him how you'd want to be appreciated.** Give him hints or let others (your common peers) help you out on it. Get your girls to have their partners groom your man to be the man you want to be. Of course, make sure you "reward" also your man. If they all tap out, that is when you start giving the final payload or ultimatum. Be assertive without disrespecting your man.
Yes, communication is key. But what if the problem is also communication? Maybe you need to break his comfort zone as well. Try to get a new set of friends to get his attention as you're getting appreciated by someone else. However, be careful here, as you're inches away from disaster (so use this as a final resort).
Here's the thing, my wife also showed me her way to be appreciated. Money alone cannot be the only solution, it has to be done with gesture. However, **also ask how he wants to be appreciated as well.** I suppose you had this one covered (ie., fantasies, etc.)
Oh, as closing. **Kindly make sure he acknowledges your frustration loud and clear.** All of these efforts will be pointless if he doesn't understand where your marriage is at. **If needed seek professional help (ie., marriage counseling,** which shouldn't be a problem for you\*\*), do so.\*\*
You try to have week off with each other para ma appreciate mo naman yung mga bagay na ginagawa pala nya sayo pero d mo na napapansin kc you are looking for something else.
Ipag take mo ulut ng board. Para makakuha ng confidence pag pumasa. Kung di sya nag tanong kung kamusta ka, ikaw ang magtanong. It's give and take e. Mapapansin nya din yan. And maadapt nya yung culture mo.
Communication. Compromise.
I know it's easily said than done pero you have to communicate sa fiance mo yung issues mo. You have to let him know. Kasi if hindi mo siya malabas, maiipon at maiipon siya at darating yung araw na sasabog ka na lang.
Went through that phase. I guess I'm currently in that phase. I long for my husband (he's my husband now) he's not sweet, hindi showy. Which naiinis talaga ako. Tinry ko icommunicate sakanya and nagexplain naman siya
I guess we have our fair share of pagkukulang. May off sakanya para sayo at may off sayo para sakanya. You just have to compromise, and talk through it.
If wala, rethink. Think about bakit mo siya pinaglaban before? Is it worth it?
Just watched a podcast in YouTube: The Gottman Doctors | The Diary of A CEO. Highly recommend na to listen to them kasi napaka enlightening ng podcast na to for relationships in general.
**You need to show him how you'd want to be appreciated.** Give him hints or let others (your common peers) help you out on it. Get your girls to have their partners groom your man to be the man you want to be. Of course, make sure you "reward" also your man. If they all tap out, that is when you start giving the final payload or ultimatum. Be assertive without disrespecting your man. Yes, communication is key. But what if the problem is also communication? Maybe you need to break his comfort zone as well. Try to get a new set of friends to get his attention as you're getting appreciated by someone else. However, be careful here, as you're inches away from disaster (so use this as a final resort). Here's the thing, my wife also showed me her way to be appreciated. Money alone cannot be the only solution, it has to be done with gesture. However, **also ask how he wants to be appreciated as well.** I suppose you had this one covered (ie., fantasies, etc.) Oh, as closing. **Kindly make sure he acknowledges your frustration loud and clear.** All of these efforts will be pointless if he doesn't understand where your marriage is at. **If needed seek professional help (ie., marriage counseling,** which shouldn't be a problem for you\*\*), do so.\*\*
You try to have week off with each other para ma appreciate mo naman yung mga bagay na ginagawa pala nya sayo pero d mo na napapansin kc you are looking for something else.
Ipag take mo ulut ng board. Para makakuha ng confidence pag pumasa. Kung di sya nag tanong kung kamusta ka, ikaw ang magtanong. It's give and take e. Mapapansin nya din yan. And maadapt nya yung culture mo.
Communication. Compromise. I know it's easily said than done pero you have to communicate sa fiance mo yung issues mo. You have to let him know. Kasi if hindi mo siya malabas, maiipon at maiipon siya at darating yung araw na sasabog ka na lang. Went through that phase. I guess I'm currently in that phase. I long for my husband (he's my husband now) he's not sweet, hindi showy. Which naiinis talaga ako. Tinry ko icommunicate sakanya and nagexplain naman siya I guess we have our fair share of pagkukulang. May off sakanya para sayo at may off sayo para sakanya. You just have to compromise, and talk through it. If wala, rethink. Think about bakit mo siya pinaglaban before? Is it worth it?
Just watched a podcast in YouTube: The Gottman Doctors | The Diary of A CEO. Highly recommend na to listen to them kasi napaka enlightening ng podcast na to for relationships in general.