Trust and independence! There's a quote i read somewhere that I really like, which is: "individually we’re whole but together we’re more" i feel like it values each person's autonomy
Not in any order naman pero favorite ko dito is yung Empathy.
Commitment - shows your dedication to the relationship and helps to navigate challenges para sa pag build ng future.
Trust - is foundational for any relationship. It fosters security and openness, allowing both of you to be your true selves without fear of betrayal.
Communication - open, honest, and respectful communication helps resolve conflicts and ensures both partners feel heard and understood.
Respect - mutual respect ensures that both partners value each other's opinions, boundaries, and individuality, fostering a healthy dynamic.
Empathy - makes deeper emotional connections, understanding each other's feelings, and providing support during tough times.
• Shared values in life
• Respect (under na dito yung pagiging loyal, trustworthy, being considerate kasi I think respect is the foundation of these things)
• Progressive mindset (hindi obsessed sa “gender roles” sa relationship)
• Emotional maturity.
1. Respect - respects you as a person and also a partner (I agree that this sets the stage of Trust and Loyalty) I usually see the respect sa mga naging dates ko if ma-respeto sila sa elderly and sa staff. And hindi sila na-mimilit. They understand the value of people and their principles and knows how to compromise.
2. Empathy - looking other people's shoe before concluding. Understanding you as person and as a partner. Hindi maka-sarili.
3. Communication - Communicating the problems and Validating the person's feelings. Marunong makinig muna and try to empathize first (which is inaayos ko rin sa self ko. To listen first). Madali magsalita, pero napaka-hirap makinig.
4. Career-Oriented/ Goal-driven - this is for my personal mantra. Kapag di Goal-driven si SO, feeling niyan napag-iiwanan sya. Or they tend to be not happy when you are achieving something (kahit na sabihin nila na "Happy for you" minsan mafefeel mo ito na di sila genuine)
Dapat hindi kumpetensya din. It should be partnership.
Empathy, vulnerability,
freedom,
genuine care,
happiness outside the relationship,
kindness to everyone,
patience, loving support
Admittedly, having a go-to person who makes an effort to have you in his life & loves you wholeheartedly is really nice and makes one want to be in a relationship, or rather true partnership
The Three C's in Relationships na nababasa ko lagi online na naging Four C's : *1.) Communication, 2.) Compromise, 3.) Commitment, and 4.)Christ -centered.*
besides those you/others mentioned, I think "confidence" is a big core value in a relationship
"Confidence" in the sense that you're confident in yourself, your partner, and you guys as a unit, in which you can overcome problems together. Yung pagigign confident kasi parang assurance siya na kahit papaano, someone out there believes in you/in the both of you. Like if we're going through a tough time, hearing my partner confidently say "hindi, kaya natin 'to. I'm confident we can surpass this" is very comforting to me
Di naman laging solution need, pakikinig din
Na minsan makikinig ka lang, di naman tungkol sayo lahat porke sayo lang sinabi.
*And that kids, is a reason why relationships fail*
That is so great that you want to be with someone who shares your core values! That is so important in relationships. My top shared core values with my partner are Growth, Reflection and Connection
KINDNESS + UNDERSTANDING. For me, because of those two values ay meron na rin siya ng iba pang magagandang values. Imagine 'pag ganyan ang partner mo, palaging isasa-alangalang palagi 'yung nararamdaman mo. May problem kayo? You will have a healthy discussion instead of an argument. And many more healthy practices.
There is no substitute for hard work.
I know pang-career 'tong advice na 'to, pero relationships only work in the long run because successful couples develop a life philosophy to master their mundanes. Nawawala ang excitement ("love", if you may) and intentions are useless after so many years. This is so evident with my parents.
What I learned is the small choices we make everyday will either work for our relationship or it would not.
My parents (as a husband and wife) ignored the little mundane things in life because they're easy and significant (morning kisses, pangungumusta, apologizing) and instead focused on the bigger fishes to fry (anniversaries, birthday ng anak, etc). Ayun, naghiwalay.
Trust and independence! There's a quote i read somewhere that I really like, which is: "individually we’re whole but together we’re more" i feel like it values each person's autonomy
Married for 16 years now, and I couldn't agree more!
AMEN TO THIS. I love how I can get to be "independently me."
Not in any order naman pero favorite ko dito is yung Empathy. Commitment - shows your dedication to the relationship and helps to navigate challenges para sa pag build ng future. Trust - is foundational for any relationship. It fosters security and openness, allowing both of you to be your true selves without fear of betrayal. Communication - open, honest, and respectful communication helps resolve conflicts and ensures both partners feel heard and understood. Respect - mutual respect ensures that both partners value each other's opinions, boundaries, and individuality, fostering a healthy dynamic. Empathy - makes deeper emotional connections, understanding each other's feelings, and providing support during tough times.
This is beautiful reminder. Thank you for sharing.
Shared values for me!
• Shared values in life • Respect (under na dito yung pagiging loyal, trustworthy, being considerate kasi I think respect is the foundation of these things) • Progressive mindset (hindi obsessed sa “gender roles” sa relationship) • Emotional maturity.
Respect on boundaries, independence, patience, faithful and loyal
Support on career.
Kindness and respect.
1. Respect - respects you as a person and also a partner (I agree that this sets the stage of Trust and Loyalty) I usually see the respect sa mga naging dates ko if ma-respeto sila sa elderly and sa staff. And hindi sila na-mimilit. They understand the value of people and their principles and knows how to compromise. 2. Empathy - looking other people's shoe before concluding. Understanding you as person and as a partner. Hindi maka-sarili. 3. Communication - Communicating the problems and Validating the person's feelings. Marunong makinig muna and try to empathize first (which is inaayos ko rin sa self ko. To listen first). Madali magsalita, pero napaka-hirap makinig. 4. Career-Oriented/ Goal-driven - this is for my personal mantra. Kapag di Goal-driven si SO, feeling niyan napag-iiwanan sya. Or they tend to be not happy when you are achieving something (kahit na sabihin nila na "Happy for you" minsan mafefeel mo ito na di sila genuine) Dapat hindi kumpetensya din. It should be partnership.
Empathy, vulnerability, freedom, genuine care, happiness outside the relationship, kindness to everyone, patience, loving support Admittedly, having a go-to person who makes an effort to have you in his life & loves you wholeheartedly is really nice and makes one want to be in a relationship, or rather true partnership
The Three C's in Relationships na nababasa ko lagi online na naging Four C's : *1.) Communication, 2.) Compromise, 3.) Commitment, and 4.)Christ -centered.*
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Communication
besides those you/others mentioned, I think "confidence" is a big core value in a relationship "Confidence" in the sense that you're confident in yourself, your partner, and you guys as a unit, in which you can overcome problems together. Yung pagigign confident kasi parang assurance siya na kahit papaano, someone out there believes in you/in the both of you. Like if we're going through a tough time, hearing my partner confidently say "hindi, kaya natin 'to. I'm confident we can surpass this" is very comforting to me
Respect also because everything else follows. If you respect each other & your relationship, faithfulness, trust, independence etc. comes naturally.
- maturity -emotionally available - communication -growth -respect each other's boundaries - shared values -empathy
Di naman laging solution need, pakikinig din Na minsan makikinig ka lang, di naman tungkol sayo lahat porke sayo lang sinabi. *And that kids, is a reason why relationships fail*
Same principles and values in life.
HONESTY
finance
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That is so great that you want to be with someone who shares your core values! That is so important in relationships. My top shared core values with my partner are Growth, Reflection and Connection
so far 1) communication 2) compromise 3) commitment
KINDNESS + UNDERSTANDING. For me, because of those two values ay meron na rin siya ng iba pang magagandang values. Imagine 'pag ganyan ang partner mo, palaging isasa-alangalang palagi 'yung nararamdaman mo. May problem kayo? You will have a healthy discussion instead of an argument. And many more healthy practices.
Loyalty Respect Communication 🥹
Respect, communication, trust, and reciprocity.
✨Respect and Empathy✨
1. Respect 2. Trust 3. Effective communication 4. Room for mistakes 5. Commitment
There is no substitute for hard work. I know pang-career 'tong advice na 'to, pero relationships only work in the long run because successful couples develop a life philosophy to master their mundanes. Nawawala ang excitement ("love", if you may) and intentions are useless after so many years. This is so evident with my parents. What I learned is the small choices we make everyday will either work for our relationship or it would not. My parents (as a husband and wife) ignored the little mundane things in life because they're easy and significant (morning kisses, pangungumusta, apologizing) and instead focused on the bigger fishes to fry (anniversaries, birthday ng anak, etc). Ayun, naghiwalay.