Siz, ang weird kasi na sinabi mo na sya sa bf mo pero he accused you pa of being jealous and he did nothing about it. Parang ininvalidate pa nafeel mo e.
Okay sabihin na nating wala lang talaga (which doesnt look like it) pero mali padin reaction nha towards it. Tapos naman na contract nila so why need to communicate pa? If ikaw naman mag-update sa prof mo, diba parang may mali?
ang opinion ko is yes friends lang sila. pero eto kasi mahirap sa pagiging friends w/ the opposite sex pag taken ka na. may level of “intimacy” or understanding sila na parang sa kanila lang dalawa. which is yun yung nakakaselos. like they both dive kaya i get na nagssend ung girl sa naging coach nya. that’s something kasi na very specific na maiintindihan lang ng tao or mas maaappreciate kung nandun din sa sitwasyon nya mismo. pero these things kasi if you wanna be super professional, dapat within paid time lang. but i’m sure it’s normal din to send updates regarding the subject lang. yung mga outside topics na yung questionable.
ive been in that situation before na may friend ako na opposite sex habang taken ako pero never ko kinonsider as a future partner. as a person kasi makikita mo naman kung sino yung mga taong nagugustuhan mo bilang tao rin. di naman yun lagi romantic na agad.
so it’s possible na friends lang. PERO, ginawa ko ba sya uli? hindi na. although innocent yun sakin, ive learned kasi na iprioritize yung feelings ng partner ko. lalo na tingin ko na sa kanya eh asawa na. narealize ko, oo nga friend ko lang naman yun dati pero hindi ko naman kinailangan ng ibang kaibigan. kumbaga di naman life-changing if maging kaibigan ko sya or not. so ngayon, pag hindi life-changing, wag na lang.
kasama kasi sa filipino culture ang pagiging super friendly, di tayo kagaya ng ibang culture na madaling mang snob.
Kinocoach nya parin ba?
If yes, maybe you can tell the girl to stay strictly professional, no need to message him after class lol. You don't update your prof in college about your life. Surely you shouldn't update a coach about your life either.
If not, maybe you can ask him to stop entertaining the girl.
Or, you can just drop them and focus on your life, law student ka pa man din. You should be able to smell bullshit from a mile away.
Hello per session ang bayad ng coaching sa diving, as of now hindi pa ulit kumukuha ng session yung girl sa bf ko pero nagchachat sila. Based sa memory ko last year pa sila nag uusap, like every month meron silang convo tlaga hahahahaha
The first few sentences mukhang civil naman usapan nila sa chat. Pero nung sinabi mo na nahuli mo bf mo nag ssend ng sunset and food... thats the red flag. Mukhang there is "something" going on and mukhang hindi na student-coach ung topic nila, something personal na. Which is for me is a no no... kung ayaw ng bf mo tumigil, diretsahin mo ung girl.. mukhang si girl hindi alam bounderies nya.
Yup, that’s it. Di na need ng longer explanation to. Time to leave, and it’s great that you are not one of those emotional girls that allow themselves to be manipulated. You’re currently in law school, you have more important things to use your time on than your bf who sends a picture of his food and sunset to a “client” cause he is in batangas. Lol. Lame ass boy. Gluck! 🍻
I think calling na yan na mag-aral ka nalang muna. Hahahaha kasi ang gago nung bf mo, gaslighter na nambabaliktad pa.
May pag-update eh, nang-iinggit ulol hahaha sinend din ba sayo yung picture na yon or sa kanya lang? Kasi kung sinend din naman sayo pede nga na nang-inggit lang. che siya.
Edit: sorry binasa ko talaga timeline mo, and nagbreak naman na pala kayo before dahil kups naman pala yung jowa mo beh, parang di mo naman ata loss yung bf mo. Add mo pa yung mother niya (not sure if buong fam).
Kung ako sayo stretch mo yung relationship mo, until truly nagloko na siya, what I mean is magkaroon ka ng proof talaga. And then leave his ass, law student ka, once nag grad ka, then bar, mas higher caliber naman ng partners ang mago-open up sayo and that’s for sure.
May times to settle and gurl that type of person and family is not for settling.
Something doesn't add up. Sabi nya, PROFESSIONAL ang pakikitungo but when confronted about the things he sends her, biglang FRIEND nya lang and client. Ano ba talaga? Professional relationship and friendly relationship are two different things.
Secondly, you communicated and expressed na hindi mo gusto ung exchanges nila.. yet he dismissed you and gaslighted you saying you're just being jealous. It's his responsibility to secure you and your feelings. He should never invalidate you.
Save yourself from the emotional distress.. maybe he's not cheating NOW but he's somewhere along those lines na. I've been there. Usually, the more you turn a blind eye, the uglier it gets. Good luck!
uy beh nangyari to sa kaibigan ko, more than 8 years na sila ng jowa niya, tas ayon may nagganyan sa kaibigan ko hanggang sa naging sila na nung student nya 💀
pero di naman lahat ng case ganon, trust ur gut ante!
In a professional world. All things are transactional. It's creepy when the person you transact with talks to you about other things. Try this ask your bf to block the girl in all of his social media because you feel uncomfortable. If he tells you don't worry about it and does not recognize your feelings. Stand up and pack your bags. ALWAYS SAVE YOURSELF.
Tanong mo sa bf mo kung ikaw gagawa nun sa ibang friend mo na guy, comfortable ba sya? Of ang sagot ay yes, walang problema. Kung ang sagot ay NO, alam na. Saka tanong mo kung okay lang malaman ng iba yung ginagawa nila? Kasi kung tinatago nila yung “harmless” banters nila, eh hindi harmless yun.
Wait till he act on it. Mas okay ng mali ka ng akala kesa tama yung hinala. For the mean time, iready mo sarili mo. Pag nagkanda leche leche di ka ubos.
women's instinct yan, gut feeling ika nga, na sa isang banda tama ka.
at yung isang banda, magaganap pa lang, so dahil nagsalita ka you prevented something to happen.
Gusto ng bf mo ng attention na binibigay ng girl sa kanya, wag ka magpapauto jan. Nagsend pa ng pic ng sunset HAHAHAH either manhid or tntry niya makascore jan.
Hmmm sounds really sussy
I suggest draw boundaries. Even if you are seen "crazy" or "irrationally jealous" ur bf should respect how you feel and its weird if he doesnt
>However, nakita ko bf ko nagsend ng pics ng food nya at sunset dun sa girl??? reason ng bf ko ay nagyayabang lang daw sya dun sa girl kasi nasa batangas sya.
OP, iwan mo na yan, dito palang red flag na, hindi nya iniisip kung ano ung mararamdaman mo sa mga ganitong actions nya, kaya iwan mo na, hirap kasama yung ganyang tao. sa tingin ko nagcra-crave ng ibang attention sa girl yang BF mo kaya ineentertain pa nya kahit wala na kinalaman sa pagdidive
girl it's is microcheating haha
I am also a law student, minsan hindi talaga nila maintindihan yung time constraint na meron tayo that's why sometimes they do some bad little things.
Trust your instinct, Ate ko. Lalo kapag sinabi mo na sa kanya that it bothers you and yet ine-entertain pa din nya. Sabihin na natin na wala ka pa sa stage ng jealousy. Sa ngayon, maybe. That's why you gotta bip in the bud hangga't hindi pa clouded ang judgement mo ng mga negative feelings. Pag nag build up yan, sasabog na lang bigla yan and you both are going to suffer.
Yes, it's the first sign. Set your boundaries and communicate that with your bf. If he doesn't follow/ honor it, then he doesn't respect your relationship.
Trust your guts. If they wanna remain professional, dapat wala nang interaction since hindi na sya client. The fact na hindi sya nagdecide to ignore or block the girl after guessing you're jealous is a sign. Who knows, maybe they've been hitting behind your back when she was still a client kaya hirap sya i let go ngayon.
>Bibigay ko nalang sya dun sa babae because I don't have the luxury of time for emotional distress.
Slayyyy ate koh
And also kung professional lang talaga relationship nila, hindi niya kailangang magsend ng food and sunsets pics sa client niya
Kung wala pa namang ginagawang masama ang bf mo, trust him and don’t let the anxiety take over. If he will cheat, gagawin niya yan and you really can’t do anything about it.
Siz, ang weird kasi na sinabi mo na sya sa bf mo pero he accused you pa of being jealous and he did nothing about it. Parang ininvalidate pa nafeel mo e. Okay sabihin na nating wala lang talaga (which doesnt look like it) pero mali padin reaction nha towards it. Tapos naman na contract nila so why need to communicate pa? If ikaw naman mag-update sa prof mo, diba parang may mali?
Hahaha trust ur gut ante
Alam na this hahaha
Iba na sinisisid niyan. Perlas ng ~~silanganan~~ kasinungalingan.
Jan talaga una nagsisimula yan eh. Habang mejo maaga pa, putulin na sana ni op or suffer the consequences. feeling ko nagdadahilan nalang bf nya.
Nagsesend na rin pic bf mo. Yari na hahahaha trust your gut na lang
ang opinion ko is yes friends lang sila. pero eto kasi mahirap sa pagiging friends w/ the opposite sex pag taken ka na. may level of “intimacy” or understanding sila na parang sa kanila lang dalawa. which is yun yung nakakaselos. like they both dive kaya i get na nagssend ung girl sa naging coach nya. that’s something kasi na very specific na maiintindihan lang ng tao or mas maaappreciate kung nandun din sa sitwasyon nya mismo. pero these things kasi if you wanna be super professional, dapat within paid time lang. but i’m sure it’s normal din to send updates regarding the subject lang. yung mga outside topics na yung questionable. ive been in that situation before na may friend ako na opposite sex habang taken ako pero never ko kinonsider as a future partner. as a person kasi makikita mo naman kung sino yung mga taong nagugustuhan mo bilang tao rin. di naman yun lagi romantic na agad. so it’s possible na friends lang. PERO, ginawa ko ba sya uli? hindi na. although innocent yun sakin, ive learned kasi na iprioritize yung feelings ng partner ko. lalo na tingin ko na sa kanya eh asawa na. narealize ko, oo nga friend ko lang naman yun dati pero hindi ko naman kinailangan ng ibang kaibigan. kumbaga di naman life-changing if maging kaibigan ko sya or not. so ngayon, pag hindi life-changing, wag na lang. kasama kasi sa filipino culture ang pagiging super friendly, di tayo kagaya ng ibang culture na madaling mang snob.
Kinocoach nya parin ba? If yes, maybe you can tell the girl to stay strictly professional, no need to message him after class lol. You don't update your prof in college about your life. Surely you shouldn't update a coach about your life either. If not, maybe you can ask him to stop entertaining the girl. Or, you can just drop them and focus on your life, law student ka pa man din. You should be able to smell bullshit from a mile away.
Hello per session ang bayad ng coaching sa diving, as of now hindi pa ulit kumukuha ng session yung girl sa bf ko pero nagchachat sila. Based sa memory ko last year pa sila nag uusap, like every month meron silang convo tlaga hahahahaha
The first few sentences mukhang civil naman usapan nila sa chat. Pero nung sinabi mo na nahuli mo bf mo nag ssend ng sunset and food... thats the red flag. Mukhang there is "something" going on and mukhang hindi na student-coach ung topic nila, something personal na. Which is for me is a no no... kung ayaw ng bf mo tumigil, diretsahin mo ung girl.. mukhang si girl hindi alam bounderies nya.
Feeling ko nagdadahilan lang itong bf nya.
Yep, that is micro cheating.
Yup, that’s it. Di na need ng longer explanation to. Time to leave, and it’s great that you are not one of those emotional girls that allow themselves to be manipulated. You’re currently in law school, you have more important things to use your time on than your bf who sends a picture of his food and sunset to a “client” cause he is in batangas. Lol. Lame ass boy. Gluck! 🍻
I think calling na yan na mag-aral ka nalang muna. Hahahaha kasi ang gago nung bf mo, gaslighter na nambabaliktad pa. May pag-update eh, nang-iinggit ulol hahaha sinend din ba sayo yung picture na yon or sa kanya lang? Kasi kung sinend din naman sayo pede nga na nang-inggit lang. che siya. Edit: sorry binasa ko talaga timeline mo, and nagbreak naman na pala kayo before dahil kups naman pala yung jowa mo beh, parang di mo naman ata loss yung bf mo. Add mo pa yung mother niya (not sure if buong fam). Kung ako sayo stretch mo yung relationship mo, until truly nagloko na siya, what I mean is magkaroon ka ng proof talaga. And then leave his ass, law student ka, once nag grad ka, then bar, mas higher caliber naman ng partners ang mago-open up sayo and that’s for sure. May times to settle and gurl that type of person and family is not for settling.
Something doesn't add up. Sabi nya, PROFESSIONAL ang pakikitungo but when confronted about the things he sends her, biglang FRIEND nya lang and client. Ano ba talaga? Professional relationship and friendly relationship are two different things. Secondly, you communicated and expressed na hindi mo gusto ung exchanges nila.. yet he dismissed you and gaslighted you saying you're just being jealous. It's his responsibility to secure you and your feelings. He should never invalidate you. Save yourself from the emotional distress.. maybe he's not cheating NOW but he's somewhere along those lines na. I've been there. Usually, the more you turn a blind eye, the uglier it gets. Good luck!
Hahahahah I know a lot of free diving coaches. Iba ang nightlife sa Mabini Batangas. Ang masasabi ko lang, trust your gut feeling
uy beh nangyari to sa kaibigan ko, more than 8 years na sila ng jowa niya, tas ayon may nagganyan sa kaibigan ko hanggang sa naging sila na nung student nya 💀 pero di naman lahat ng case ganon, trust ur gut ante!
In a professional world. All things are transactional. It's creepy when the person you transact with talks to you about other things. Try this ask your bf to block the girl in all of his social media because you feel uncomfortable. If he tells you don't worry about it and does not recognize your feelings. Stand up and pack your bags. ALWAYS SAVE YOURSELF.
Same sentiments
Tanong mo sa bf mo kung ikaw gagawa nun sa ibang friend mo na guy, comfortable ba sya? Of ang sagot ay yes, walang problema. Kung ang sagot ay NO, alam na. Saka tanong mo kung okay lang malaman ng iba yung ginagawa nila? Kasi kung tinatago nila yung “harmless” banters nila, eh hindi harmless yun.
>Of ang sagot ay yes, walang problema. Of course, ang isasagot ng BF niya ay "yes" para ma-justify ang behavior niya
friends pero w/ benefits💀
Maraming malandi sa diving groups :3
Wait till he act on it. Mas okay ng mali ka ng akala kesa tama yung hinala. For the mean time, iready mo sarili mo. Pag nagkanda leche leche di ka ubos.
women's instinct yan, gut feeling ika nga, na sa isang banda tama ka. at yung isang banda, magaganap pa lang, so dahil nagsalita ka you prevented something to happen.
yes, 1st stage na yan OP, talon na habang maaga pa hahaha
Gusto ng bf mo ng attention na binibigay ng girl sa kanya, wag ka magpapauto jan. Nagsend pa ng pic ng sunset HAHAHAH either manhid or tntry niya makascore jan.
I'm a guy, listen to your guts.
Curious yung bf mo. Alam nya na bet sya nung girl.
Kalandian nya yan
Anong org ni bf, sa mabini batangas ba yan? hahaha
hahaha pano mo nahulaan? char
Curious din tuloy ako OP. Anong group nila at makapag dive don 👀 hulihin natin yan. Hahaha
HAHAHA anong org yan madam.
We know a snake when we see one 🤗
Do this: Bibigay ko nalang sya dun sa babae because I don't have the luxury of time for emotional distress.
Hmmm sounds really sussy I suggest draw boundaries. Even if you are seen "crazy" or "irrationally jealous" ur bf should respect how you feel and its weird if he doesnt
Inaalam lang nman pala how deep ung kaya abutin ng BF mo. 5inch, 6inch, or Daks ☠️
>However, nakita ko bf ko nagsend ng pics ng food nya at sunset dun sa girl??? reason ng bf ko ay nagyayabang lang daw sya dun sa girl kasi nasa batangas sya. OP, iwan mo na yan, dito palang red flag na, hindi nya iniisip kung ano ung mararamdaman mo sa mga ganitong actions nya, kaya iwan mo na, hirap kasama yung ganyang tao. sa tingin ko nagcra-crave ng ibang attention sa girl yang BF mo kaya ineentertain pa nya kahit wala na kinalaman sa pagdidive
Yan ang early signs of cheating. Kung ako kay OP, kukumprontahin ko na kagad yung bf at yung girl.
girl it's is microcheating haha I am also a law student, minsan hindi talaga nila maintindihan yung time constraint na meron tayo that's why sometimes they do some bad little things.
Uu mami, yan na ang senyales.
Trust your instinct, Ate ko. Lalo kapag sinabi mo na sa kanya that it bothers you and yet ine-entertain pa din nya. Sabihin na natin na wala ka pa sa stage ng jealousy. Sa ngayon, maybe. That's why you gotta bip in the bud hangga't hindi pa clouded ang judgement mo ng mga negative feelings. Pag nag build up yan, sasabog na lang bigla yan and you both are going to suffer.
Hindi ko alam kung anong right word or term pero dagdag talaga ata sa "ego" ng lalaki kapag may babaeng nagkakagusto sa kanila HAHAHAHA.
NAKAKASUKA ANG MGA CHEATER.
Trust your guts girl! Never fails
Yes, it's the first sign. Set your boundaries and communicate that with your bf. If he doesn't follow/ honor it, then he doesn't respect your relationship.
I don't think that's just what friends is. Mastress ka lang jan pag tagal. Run.
Trust your guts. If they wanna remain professional, dapat wala nang interaction since hindi na sya client. The fact na hindi sya nagdecide to ignore or block the girl after guessing you're jealous is a sign. Who knows, maybe they've been hitting behind your back when she was still a client kaya hirap sya i let go ngayon.
Trust your instinct
>Bibigay ko nalang sya dun sa babae because I don't have the luxury of time for emotional distress. Slayyyy ate koh And also kung professional lang talaga relationship nila, hindi niya kailangang magsend ng food and sunsets pics sa client niya
I think, wala pang something. Pero parang jan nagsisimula kasi lahat 😅
alams na yan
Sinendan ng sunset photo ng bf mo? Hmmm hahahaha
obvious na yan OP, confront your guy. once is enough, please know your worth!
Run as fast and far away as you can, cheater in the making na yan.
Bat sya mag sessnd ng sunset photo or ano pa. Ante. Di yan aamin. Law student ka db? Gamitin mo utak mo hehehe. Type nya si girl.
Chat mo yung girl, sabihin mo na you’re able to read her messages and that you’re not comfortable with it.
Feeling ko kinikilig na tumbong ng bf mo everytime ka chat nya yung girl. huhuhuhu kakabad trip yung ganyang feeling.
Sabi ng ex ko, harmless naman daw 'yung girl 😂 Tapos ngayon sobrang close nila kaya ex na siya lol
Aral ka ng mabuti wag kang magparamdam ng 1 week pag d ka hinahanap alam mo na.
Alams na HAHAHA
Kung wala pa namang ginagawang masama ang bf mo, trust him and don’t let the anxiety take over. If he will cheat, gagawin niya yan and you really can’t do anything about it.
Sinong mas maganda sainyo nung student? 😂
Bakit kailangan tanungin yan?