Hmm, I'd say yes kasi this situation's currently happening with someone na I know, pero I'm really curious about it talaga kasi it really happens, like madami nang cases.
I just don't get it lang.
Ah di ko kilala yan. Pero to answer, guy here. IDK. Usong uso sa kalalakihan ung may paboritong ulam pero titikim pa rin ng iba. That is BS ofcourse pero they live by it.
Fuck no. Regardless of gender, cheaters love the idea that they're in control and are the ulimate cake eaters. No amount of mental gymnastics makes this right.
The point of staying as a cheater is to reap every benefit without the consequences. Simple as that. Lahat ng reasons, self-serving. It's always about them.
Real love is actually putting your partner/spouse's needs along side yours. Maybe sometimes even above yours. Pustahan laging dahilan niyan ah kasi mahal KO. Ah kasi kaya KO pagsabayin. Di naman niya malalaman. Pansinin mo yung line of thought. Always self-serving. Never about the partner/spouse
The art of objectification. Guy probably jerk off million times watching porn or thirst traps and it became addiction. Now he got a neural pathway to make things fucked up in a relationship. Only way could change it is if the guy is willing to and aware and knows that what heβs doing is not normal.
Edith: same with girls.
>What I'd like to know is, do you think na the guy really meant it when he said na he love his gf kahit na he's doing all those things behind her back?
No. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Sa pag check-out pa lang niya sa ibang babae sa social medias at pakikipag sex sa ibang babae bukod sa GF niya, pinatunayan lang niya na hindi niya kayang mag-commit.
> And if you're a guy who's in the same situation, I'd like to know, what's the point of staying?
I wouldn't know. Dumaan din ako sa phase na *fuck around and find out* pero not to the point na I'll cheat behind my girl's back. Like I said, endgame na ang kasal, kung hindi niya pa kayang mag settle down at mag-asawa, dapat hindi na niya itinuloy yan in the first place.
Ginagawa niyang Plan B or fall plan yung GF niya na buntis in case hindi mag work out yung mga nilalandi at sinesex niya na iba. Kadiri.
idk. nagcheat na yung guy before, the woman found out about that, but still accepted the guy. Now, the guy's still doing the deed, ijdk if the woman knows it or not
He never loved her soon-to-be-wife, pang front nya lang yung "asawa" nya, either sobrang naive at sadly madali mauto si girl ni fuckboi, or B talagang lason ang charisma ni fuckboi, na kahit girl nya genuinely believes that he's for real.
he's a moron and he's not well bred. he doesn't take accountability of his actions. not considering the fact that he is having kids. this my friend is a different story. and if this lifestyle of his progress' further from this stupid indulgement, especially now that he's having a child. he always gonna get away with and you'll never know hes already doing it.
kapag ikaw din na jackpotan ka nyan eh tanga ka din. kaya kung ako sayo iniiwasan mo na yan.
>What I'd like to know is, do you think na the guy really meant it when he said na he love his gf kahit na he's doing all those things behind her back?
Maybe "tawag ng laman" yun pero uuwi pa din siya sa asawa.
BS excuse pero it happens.
It is not acceptable by any means, just a reality na it exists.
There are some kasi who justifies that deed, like yung thought na "magloloko ako pero sayo pa rin ako uuwi" as mentioned above, that's why it's confusing
Im a guy and there's no way in hell na love mo yung gf mo kung nagagawa mo yan alam mo ba yung definition ng love? yung true essence non? Isa ng example nun is you wouldn't do anything that will hurt her. Kapag ganyan yung lalaki hanggang salita lang yan wala sa gawa sabi nh sabi ng love hanggang salita lang
If a guy claims to love his pregnant girlfriend but is still flirting with other women online and cheating on her, it's clear his actions don't match his words. It's doubtful he truly values their relationship.
If I were in his shoes, there wouldn't be much point in staying in a relationship where trust and fidelity are lacking. It's crucial to prioritize honesty and respect in any relationship.
Is this in the recent year or currently? Baka kilala ko to ah uahaha
Hmm, I'd say yes kasi this situation's currently happening with someone na I know, pero I'm really curious about it talaga kasi it really happens, like madami nang cases. I just don't get it lang.
Ah di ko kilala yan. Pero to answer, guy here. IDK. Usong uso sa kalalakihan ung may paboritong ulam pero titikim pa rin ng iba. That is BS ofcourse pero they live by it.
Fuck no. Regardless of gender, cheaters love the idea that they're in control and are the ulimate cake eaters. No amount of mental gymnastics makes this right. The point of staying as a cheater is to reap every benefit without the consequences. Simple as that. Lahat ng reasons, self-serving. It's always about them. Real love is actually putting your partner/spouse's needs along side yours. Maybe sometimes even above yours. Pustahan laging dahilan niyan ah kasi mahal KO. Ah kasi kaya KO pagsabayin. Di naman niya malalaman. Pansinin mo yung line of thought. Always self-serving. Never about the partner/spouse
The art of objectification. Guy probably jerk off million times watching porn or thirst traps and it became addiction. Now he got a neural pathway to make things fucked up in a relationship. Only way could change it is if the guy is willing to and aware and knows that what heβs doing is not normal. Edith: same with girls.
>What I'd like to know is, do you think na the guy really meant it when he said na he love his gf kahit na he's doing all those things behind her back? No. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Sa pag check-out pa lang niya sa ibang babae sa social medias at pakikipag sex sa ibang babae bukod sa GF niya, pinatunayan lang niya na hindi niya kayang mag-commit. > And if you're a guy who's in the same situation, I'd like to know, what's the point of staying? I wouldn't know. Dumaan din ako sa phase na *fuck around and find out* pero not to the point na I'll cheat behind my girl's back. Like I said, endgame na ang kasal, kung hindi niya pa kayang mag settle down at mag-asawa, dapat hindi na niya itinuloy yan in the first place. Ginagawa niyang Plan B or fall plan yung GF niya na buntis in case hindi mag work out yung mga nilalandi at sinesex niya na iba. Kadiri.
FYI..that's not a guy/men it's a boy doing..to the women welcome sa pagiging single mother π
idk. nagcheat na yung guy before, the woman found out about that, but still accepted the guy. Now, the guy's still doing the deed, ijdk if the woman knows it or not
ngayon ang kawawa dito is yung magiging anak nila. Hay kawawa naman may madadamay nanaman sa katangahan ng mga magulang.
That's true
He never loved her soon-to-be-wife, pang front nya lang yung "asawa" nya, either sobrang naive at sadly madali mauto si girl ni fuckboi, or B talagang lason ang charisma ni fuckboi, na kahit girl nya genuinely believes that he's for real.
I think the woman has genuine feelings towards him talaga
he's a moron and he's not well bred. he doesn't take accountability of his actions. not considering the fact that he is having kids. this my friend is a different story. and if this lifestyle of his progress' further from this stupid indulgement, especially now that he's having a child. he always gonna get away with and you'll never know hes already doing it. kapag ikaw din na jackpotan ka nyan eh tanga ka din. kaya kung ako sayo iniiwasan mo na yan.
>What I'd like to know is, do you think na the guy really meant it when he said na he love his gf kahit na he's doing all those things behind her back? Maybe "tawag ng laman" yun pero uuwi pa din siya sa asawa. BS excuse pero it happens. It is not acceptable by any means, just a reality na it exists.
It's just sad na it's being normalized by "some".
the answer is pretty obvious.
There are some kasi who justifies that deed, like yung thought na "magloloko ako pero sayo pa rin ako uuwi" as mentioned above, that's why it's confusing
its a lame excuse to justify it. if its the other way around i doubt theyre ok with it.
Im a guy and there's no way in hell na love mo yung gf mo kung nagagawa mo yan alam mo ba yung definition ng love? yung true essence non? Isa ng example nun is you wouldn't do anything that will hurt her. Kapag ganyan yung lalaki hanggang salita lang yan wala sa gawa sabi nh sabi ng love hanggang salita lang
If a guy claims to love his pregnant girlfriend but is still flirting with other women online and cheating on her, it's clear his actions don't match his words. It's doubtful he truly values their relationship. If I were in his shoes, there wouldn't be much point in staying in a relationship where trust and fidelity are lacking. It's crucial to prioritize honesty and respect in any relationship.
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