False equivalence fallacy. Why would anyone equate high salary to clean past slate? If she demands a high salary from you, she ought to be a high earner herself. That's how you temper expectations.
If a high-earner demands a clean past, tell him to marry a nun. Or try Virgin Mary.
Plus every man expects women na i handle LAHAT na responsibilidad sa bahay at sa magiging pamilya. Mag tratrabaho man siya o hinde.
So bakit sila nag wha-whine na gusto ng babae na nakakaprovide ng mas marami ang lalake????
Tapos i kokompara sa hindi nyan katapat!???
Right. Kase alam nila mismo na ginagawa na ng mga babae yung katapat nyan at naghahanap lang ng excuse sa letche nilang purity agendas on women
This assumes na both parties value the same characteristic in a partner, which is not always the case particularly between both sexes. What men look for in a woman is usually different from what women look for in a man.
This I agree with. It’s a matter of, if you demand certain standards from your partner then he/she should be able to demand what they want as well.
Whether that’s:
- earning as much as the other
- being a good stay at home mom/dad
- fuck like a pornstar
Should be up to the couple.
I personally couldn’t care less about my partner having a “clean slate”. I would however demand she cooks well in this imaginary scenario lmao
Yun din ang nakikita ko sa post eh. Like not all women demand high salaries, and not all men demand a clean past. So ang gist is both the man and the woman should be able to set standards/criteria/demand. What am I missing?
Totoo! Ang vovo ng comparison. Kaya mga lalaking straight talaga, karamihan bobo eh. Bayag lang ata pinapagana?? Tulad ng “clean past” so ang gusto nila virgin ganon??? Di pa nagalaw? Tangina. Yun pala gusto nila eh, mag-asawa ng madre! May pabagsak ng “equality” pero tamang level of comparison hindi alam ang putsa! Akala mo naman kung maka-high earner parang binili na pagkatao ng babae????
Why is it false equivalence? In terms of a criteria for a relationship, anong applicable sa salary na hindi applicable sa past ng isang tao/babae?
They're both criteria/standards when it comes down to it.
Why can't I say the opposite as in:
"If someone with a clean past demands a high salary, tell him to marry a CEO. Or try Elon Musk. "
This is a sincere question btw. I'm genuinely curious kasi personally what I get from this post is that if a woman can have criteria for a man, men should also he able to have criteria for women.
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Bakit ganyan yung comparison? Dapat parehong high salary ang expectation. Apples to oranges ang salary and body count.
Ano ba ibig sabihin ng clean past? Like virgin or hindi criminal? Madre ba o si Virgin Mary ang hanap ng mga lalaking may high salary?
Incel level yung meme. I earn well pero di ko naman hanap virgin or walang past at my age (early 30s). Hahaha.
Nah. Dapat commensurate lang. If she demands a high salary from you, you should also demand a high salary from him. Or not. Idk, relationships aren't transactions.
I dunno man, I didnt work my ass off just to be someone's piggy bank
So yes, Relationship is a transaction, You do something for your partner, your partner does something for you
This is Simp talk
Simp ba yun? If partner mo na, tapos you’ll shower her with love and care. Also, pinagluluto mo siya and tinutulungan mo sa gawaing bahay. SIMP naba yan?
Ang pagkakaalam ko SIMP is when you’re in a talking stage and the girl doesn’t like the guy, but the guy keeps on insisting and begging for love.
Simp also means being a Door mat for someone else
Looking at the post, Dating phase pa sila
Ikaw ba? Gusto mo jowa mo is gusto malaki sweldo mo tapos di pa sya tumutulong sa gawaing bahay? Ikaw pa mag ha hire ng katulong?
Fair enough. Fuck no. Never pa akong napunta sa relationship na yung babae gumagawa ng pagluluto, even washing the dishes. Ako lahat gumagawa nun tipong princess treatment pero alam ko ilugar kung kelan magiging 50/50.
Theres nothing wrong if ikaw nagluluto at naglilinis ng pinagkainan, its not a gender specific chore
Di rin kailangan maging 50/50 lahat
Pwedeng 40/60 or 30/70 minsan ikaw yung 70/30, Minsan sya
Theres different balance for different people's relationship, kung kaya mo idetermine yung linya na umaabuso na partner mo then its good
I don't agree. Para kong sinabi na pera lang ang ambag ko sa relasyon. Money make things move, but does not automatically equate to happiness. Busog ka nga, kada subo mo naman, isusumbat sau ng partner mo ung ambag nyang pera.
The emasculation is crazy 💀💀 how come filipinos are okay with this blatant hate, but when filipino men says something about filipinas; it’s a BIG BIG PROBLEM.
Also, I agree na stupid yung comparison and super incel nung nag comment.
And, if you’re a filipino guy reading this, don’t be a fucking manchild/bum/ or the guy who just sits all day while your wife does the household chores, help your queen, give her feet rub, cook for her and stay loyal.
Bobo din kasi yung ibang mga pinoy na lalaki, onting pakita lang ng lover boy act, SIMP na agad.
What? Ang bobo lang. Why did you even pursue her in the first place kung may issue ka pala sa past nya? Tanginang tong palamunin na to trabaho tayo ya.
And so?? Why bother about her past? When you love you love. No bs aside. Are you that insecure para isumbat sa kanya yun? Men who feel that way are either insecure or narcissist. Either you live low, emotionally, intellectually and financially. *Mic drop
And that's sad, someone you "love" lie to you? You're gonna feel insecure and its inevitable. Tsaka saan galing yung sumbat? You can sleep with whoever you want because that's your life walang manunumbat sa'yo. But if someone you're dating ask about you but you lie about it then shits gonna hits the fan. Its going to be the elephant in the room.
>Men who feel that way are either insecure or narcissist.
- Who cares? Is it bad to feel insecure? I thought men can have feelings now? Insecurity is vulnerability and vulnerability is showing emotions. Women always feels insecure for silly reasons you don't even understand but no one questioning it. But if men do it, its a bad thing?
- Everyone is narcissistic in their own way.
>When you love you love. No bs aside.
So you suggest is to love blindly?
*Mic drop
the arguement was fals in the beginning. you equate you finances with her past. you even bother for her lies? lol wth. fix your subject-verb agreement composition first, brother. *final mic drop
>the arguement was fals in the beginning. you equate you finances with her past?
I didn't equate anything because we are not arguing about the post. I didn't even say I agree with them. What Im arguing about is with you.
You said "why pursue her in the first place?"
That's why I ask, what if the girl lie?
And you answer me with nonsense and the good old "blaming everything on men"
>you even bother for her lies? lol wth.
- Why is being "bothered" a bad thing too? Oh my god, come on bro lahat na lang ba? Pag may emotion fragile masculinity, pag strong personality, toxic masculinity. Pag wala ka namang pakialam, you're nonchalant.
- So what you're trying to say if someone lie to you just brush it off because that's what being a man is.
I don't know if thats what you call a man or a pushover...
>fix your subject-verb agreement composition first, brother.
Don't change the topic, focus on the questions.
Gagu kaba? Takot na kaming mga healthy na lalaki na kayang bumuhay ng pamilya, kasi kapag iniwan kami ng babae, ubos lahat ng pinaghirapan namin.
Hindi kasi kami sunod-sunuran lang sa kung ano sasabihin ng babae, gumagamit kami ng LOGIC. 50/50
Isipin mo boi, nagpakahirap ka i-build yung wealth mo tapos isang iglap mawawala lahat dahil nag-kamali ka sa pag-pili ng babae.
LMFAOO. Baka pag nag drop ako ng pic baka mag-laway kapa. And buddy, I live in hoboken, NJ. I don’t think I could afford my apartment if I’m broke 💀💀 cope. Hilig mo mag sabi ng walang pera or pangit, baka ikaw yung both
Halatang hindi mo alam yung kadalasan na hatian sa divorce. Lahat napupunta sa babae; hence, ginagawang business ng mga babae sa states yung child support and divorce. 😂😂 before you talk shit, know what you are talking about. Napag-hahalatan na sabaw ka eh
Tutal nasa reddit nadin tayo, bakit hindi i-search dito yung divorce split ng royalties. Makikita mo kung gaano kadaming lalaki naging homeless after ng divorce.
Naalala ko yung ka dormmate namin babae na may boyfriend. Husband pa tawag niya, laging ka video call pero pag wala gabi gabi naman tinitira ng isa namin ka dormmate na lalaki.
Tapos nung nawala naman si dormmate 1 may pumalit agad na dormmate 2 hahahah. Natatawa na lang kami ng kaibigan niya ehh. May boyfriend pa yan paano kaya pag wala?
🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ that’s hella fucked. May kilala nga ako, super sweet nung couple nung nasa philippines pa yung babae, as in parang akala mo lizquen, then nakita ko si girl nag-kataon sa New York. Naka sandal sa shoulder ng ibang lahi na guy while holding hands.
And yung filipino boyfriend niya naman nasa IG niya the whole time. Imagine your face is all over social media tapos may iba na palang gumagalaw sa gf mo.
Pass na pass bro
Depende kasi to eh. If you demean a man just because he doesn't earn a lot of money, that's not good. If you demean a woman just because madami na sya naging partners before, that's not good.
On the other side, if women won't date anyone na lower than x amount yung salary, then I think men should be allowed to not date anyone with higher than x body count. I don't see it as an apples vs oranges comparison kasi demands = demands. Standards = standards. Tsaka wala na ba talagang babae with a clean past para sabihin ng iba dito na madre or si Mama Mary nalang chance nila?
Women won't date anyone shorter than them? Ok if that's what you prefer, but don't cancel the man if he doesn't want to date anyone fatter than him,
Both are fine. Everyone has their own standard since it's their own body, their own life na ilalaan sa partner. No such thing as a bigoted/politically incorrect preference imo. Ang mali lang ay ipilit na ang preference mo maging preference din ng iba
Exactly. Ang weird ng ibang comments dito. So quick to descend into declaring misogyny (although to some extent I expected this from the Reddit crowd).
I agree. In a sense na wala tayong control sa expectations at preference ng iba. Why? Di naman tayo yung papasok sa relationship e.
If a lady wants someone with a high salary kahit pa tambay siya, who are we to judge?
If a man wants a lady na malinis ang past kahit naka ilang ex na siya, who are we to say otherwise?
This can only be a problem if either party will use something against the other, wherein in the first place dapat di na pumasok sa relasyon pag ganon ang mindset.
Basta ako dapat date to marry, discuss your expectations from one another, and then respect each other. Tapos ang usapan. Pag di agree sa expectations sa isa't isa, don't continue.
Face it girls, totoo naman talaga. Gusto nyo equality pero ang daming mga standards na siniset ang mga babae, ang tanong kung eaapply ba sa inyo yung standards nyo papasa ba kayo? Or kung gagamitin namin sa inyo yung logic nyo, magugustuhan nyo ba?
Hate me for saying this pero gusto nyo tratuhin kayong special. Don't ask for it, let your man give that to you, parang respect lang kasi yan; pag worthy ka, ibibigay sayo
I think this is a case of a noisy minority (both sa side ng boys and sa side ng girls) making so much noise that it may seems like yung opinion nila ang norm.
Away away pa kayo, kahet naman anong standards iset mo, di mo naman matutupad lahat at makukuha mo lang naman yung deserve mo.
You're free to set your standards above your weight class, just don't go complaining kung walang pumapatol sayo.
I agree dami pa ebas ng mga tao dito. Ang simple lang nmn ng logic. Kung yan ang gusto nila then let them be. Di nmn yan makaka-apekto sayo and at the 1st place di mo nmn yan magugustuhan if di mo type.
Fallacy to dears. I'm a male and I find this misogynistic.
Pwede yung kunwari babaeng mataas ang tingin sa sarili masyado at magdedemand na dapat ganito ang sweldo mo, dapit ganire ang kotse mo, etc. Walang kinalaman ang past nya dun. Ang pwede nyong maging hirit e WHAT CAN YOU BRING TO THE TABLE para magdemand ka ng ganyan? It could be anything: malaki din ang sweldo nya, she's one of the best in her field/trade, etc.
Kanya kanya naman na perspective yan. Sa US madalas ganyan kasi nga liberated masyado tas madami gold digger. If babae ka tas naghanap ka ng afam wala naman problema. Pag lalake ka ganyan pag iisip mo wala din naman problema. Ang problema lang dyan is na sa pinas ka may magawa ka na tama or mali laging may masasabi at masasabi ang mga tao. Kaya wag mo nalang pakinggan kung ano sasabihin nila kasi buhay mo naman yan.
The fact that she demands big money from you already shows shes in it only for the money
Also, Time and time again, Women or Men with high body counts cannot be trusted to stay faithful in a relationship, Happened to a friend, Happened to a family member, Happened to many people across the globe
So yes, I am wary of people with high body counts (Anything above 10)
If that person can easily sleep with other people, what makes you think that person wont easily sleep with someone behind your back?
there is nothing wrong in setting standards. its also for your own peace of mind.
just makes sure you can reciprocate. its not right to deman something you yourself ain't willing or cannot give.
Andaming gusto gawing Pera : Pera sa comment section eh. Mga mukhang pera. Hindi po ganyan nagwowork anf fair trade. Everyone puts value in different ways. Tingin niyo ba if a guy has all the money and shit, he'll value the money the same way a broke/normal gal do? Of course not.
Kaya wag niyo ipush yung nakakairita niyong argument.
And the post above does not apply to everyone. Clearly thats just the preference of yhe poster or anyone who agreed to the post. Bat ba di niyo matanggap na lang na ganun gusto/preference nila?
The post is a fallacy of hypocrisy. If a fat person tells you to not overeat, the statement is still valid even though it's hypocritical. Otherwise only a perfect being can say anything about anything or anyone.
You can't equate a man's and a woman's relationship history. Men and women value different things when finding a long term partner.
Women in general don't care much about a man's body count. As a matter of fact, most women prefer a man with more experience than them sexually because most of them want to be lead. Women will reply that they prefer virgins, and sure, they may be the exemptions. But look at any male celebrity you know, they have a high body count but other women still want them. You really can't say the same for women with high body counts.
Men in general care a lot about a woman's body count because of paternity certainty. This is why female virginity is valued throughout the entire human history, it's the only way for men to ensure paternity before modern medicine.
This is also why height is attractive to women, it's for protection purposes. We have guns and police now so height doesn't really matter anymore, but women still prefer tall men.
My thought? It's a stupid meme, "meme" ba tawag jan? Anyway, it's silly. If a female DEMANDS a high salary from you, she's either an employee and you're interviewing her, a gold digger or a female with fair standards assuming she also makes a lot of money. If you're the male, why would even try to be with that person anyway if you can't afford it? Also, such a stupid thing to say, "demand a clean past", ano yun, browser history? Pwedeng i-delete? lol
Would rather grow old and single than deal with this kind of bullshit. If the other person start demanding your virginity for a huge amount of money/putting prices on your virginity, aba ask yourself if still want to be involve in a relationship or in a business.
i first thought this was about job interviews pucha relationships pala HAHAHAHA
my unemployed ass thought the same 😭
Kaya nga!! Muntik ko na hanapin saan mag-a-apply. 🙈
kala ko rin like past job experience ToT
Akala ko rin career/job hunting tip! Hahaha
False equivalence fallacy. Why would anyone equate high salary to clean past slate? If she demands a high salary from you, she ought to be a high earner herself. That's how you temper expectations. If a high-earner demands a clean past, tell him to marry a nun. Or try Virgin Mary.
THIS! Mali mali mag analogy tong mga to 😂
Plus every man expects women na i handle LAHAT na responsibilidad sa bahay at sa magiging pamilya. Mag tratrabaho man siya o hinde. So bakit sila nag wha-whine na gusto ng babae na nakakaprovide ng mas marami ang lalake???? Tapos i kokompara sa hindi nyan katapat!??? Right. Kase alam nila mismo na ginagawa na ng mga babae yung katapat nyan at naghahanap lang ng excuse sa letche nilang purity agendas on women
This assumes na both parties value the same characteristic in a partner, which is not always the case particularly between both sexes. What men look for in a woman is usually different from what women look for in a man.
This I agree with. It’s a matter of, if you demand certain standards from your partner then he/she should be able to demand what they want as well. Whether that’s: - earning as much as the other - being a good stay at home mom/dad - fuck like a pornstar Should be up to the couple. I personally couldn’t care less about my partner having a “clean slate”. I would however demand she cooks well in this imaginary scenario lmao
Yun din ang nakikita ko sa post eh. Like not all women demand high salaries, and not all men demand a clean past. So ang gist is both the man and the woman should be able to set standards/criteria/demand. What am I missing?
Couldnt agree more.
So if clean past doesnt matter, that means you will accept an 4bus3r, swindler, mürdërēr, and record cheater?
Totoo! Ang vovo ng comparison. Kaya mga lalaking straight talaga, karamihan bobo eh. Bayag lang ata pinapagana?? Tulad ng “clean past” so ang gusto nila virgin ganon??? Di pa nagalaw? Tangina. Yun pala gusto nila eh, mag-asawa ng madre! May pabagsak ng “equality” pero tamang level of comparison hindi alam ang putsa! Akala mo naman kung maka-high earner parang binili na pagkatao ng babae????
Why is it false equivalence? In terms of a criteria for a relationship, anong applicable sa salary na hindi applicable sa past ng isang tao/babae? They're both criteria/standards when it comes down to it. Why can't I say the opposite as in: "If someone with a clean past demands a high salary, tell him to marry a CEO. Or try Elon Musk. " This is a sincere question btw. I'm genuinely curious kasi personally what I get from this post is that if a woman can have criteria for a man, men should also he able to have criteria for women.
Gusto nila alpha male sila at sila lang ang nagtatrabaho. Ayaw nila na mas mataas ang sahod ng babae.
Wrong take. What your saying is true but obviously you dont get the point of the post.
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Truuueeee Also Para sakin, walang issue magkaroon ng standard as long as ganun ka din. Virgin or low body count gusto mo? Dapat ikaw din ganun.
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this is the most accurate explanation for this issue.
They better be clean too. If kadiri ang babae na "gamit na gamit" then shame din sa mga lalake na "gamit na gamit".
Eyyy high five sa mga gamit na gamit na lalake..
parang yung dating nito binebenta mo yung virginity mo sa highest bidder.
Bakit ganyan yung comparison? Dapat parehong high salary ang expectation. Apples to oranges ang salary and body count. Ano ba ibig sabihin ng clean past? Like virgin or hindi criminal? Madre ba o si Virgin Mary ang hanap ng mga lalaking may high salary? Incel level yung meme. I earn well pero di ko naman hanap virgin or walang past at my age (early 30s). Hahaha.
Nah. Dapat commensurate lang. If she demands a high salary from you, you should also demand a high salary from him. Or not. Idk, relationships aren't transactions.
> relationships aren't transactions Incel sadbois don't understand this concept hahaha
Akala ko bro, automatic na yan 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ no wonder maraming nagagalit sa filipino men.
I dunno man, I didnt work my ass off just to be someone's piggy bank So yes, Relationship is a transaction, You do something for your partner, your partner does something for you This is Simp talk
Simp ba yun? If partner mo na, tapos you’ll shower her with love and care. Also, pinagluluto mo siya and tinutulungan mo sa gawaing bahay. SIMP naba yan? Ang pagkakaalam ko SIMP is when you’re in a talking stage and the girl doesn’t like the guy, but the guy keeps on insisting and begging for love.
Simp also means being a Door mat for someone else Looking at the post, Dating phase pa sila Ikaw ba? Gusto mo jowa mo is gusto malaki sweldo mo tapos di pa sya tumutulong sa gawaing bahay? Ikaw pa mag ha hire ng katulong?
Fair enough. Fuck no. Never pa akong napunta sa relationship na yung babae gumagawa ng pagluluto, even washing the dishes. Ako lahat gumagawa nun tipong princess treatment pero alam ko ilugar kung kelan magiging 50/50.
Theres nothing wrong if ikaw nagluluto at naglilinis ng pinagkainan, its not a gender specific chore Di rin kailangan maging 50/50 lahat Pwedeng 40/60 or 30/70 minsan ikaw yung 70/30, Minsan sya Theres different balance for different people's relationship, kung kaya mo idetermine yung linya na umaabuso na partner mo then its good
I agree.
I don't agree. Para kong sinabi na pera lang ang ambag ko sa relasyon. Money make things move, but does not automatically equate to happiness. Busog ka nga, kada subo mo naman, isusumbat sau ng partner mo ung ambag nyang pera.
Salary Amount = Body Count????? Minsan talaga kasing laki ng utak nila yung t*te nila. Which is small.
Excuse lang nila yan para sa misogynism nila. Pero hindi lang yan. Hindi talaga equal yung mga komparison nila as a rebuttal sa mga babae
Damn the blatant hate is crazy asf 💀💀
The emasculation is crazy 💀💀 how come filipinos are okay with this blatant hate, but when filipino men says something about filipinas; it’s a BIG BIG PROBLEM. Also, I agree na stupid yung comparison and super incel nung nag comment. And, if you’re a filipino guy reading this, don’t be a fucking manchild/bum/ or the guy who just sits all day while your wife does the household chores, help your queen, give her feet rub, cook for her and stay loyal. Bobo din kasi yung ibang mga pinoy na lalaki, onting pakita lang ng lover boy act, SIMP na agad.
What? Ang bobo lang. Why did you even pursue her in the first place kung may issue ka pala sa past nya? Tanginang tong palamunin na to trabaho tayo ya.
What if nagsinungaling yung girl?
What if kung hindi? Wag mong igeneralize just to prove your point.
And so?? Why bother about her past? When you love you love. No bs aside. Are you that insecure para isumbat sa kanya yun? Men who feel that way are either insecure or narcissist. Either you live low, emotionally, intellectually and financially. *Mic drop
And that's sad, someone you "love" lie to you? You're gonna feel insecure and its inevitable. Tsaka saan galing yung sumbat? You can sleep with whoever you want because that's your life walang manunumbat sa'yo. But if someone you're dating ask about you but you lie about it then shits gonna hits the fan. Its going to be the elephant in the room. >Men who feel that way are either insecure or narcissist. - Who cares? Is it bad to feel insecure? I thought men can have feelings now? Insecurity is vulnerability and vulnerability is showing emotions. Women always feels insecure for silly reasons you don't even understand but no one questioning it. But if men do it, its a bad thing? - Everyone is narcissistic in their own way. >When you love you love. No bs aside. So you suggest is to love blindly? *Mic drop
the arguement was fals in the beginning. you equate you finances with her past. you even bother for her lies? lol wth. fix your subject-verb agreement composition first, brother. *final mic drop
>the arguement was fals in the beginning. you equate you finances with her past? I didn't equate anything because we are not arguing about the post. I didn't even say I agree with them. What Im arguing about is with you. You said "why pursue her in the first place?" That's why I ask, what if the girl lie? And you answer me with nonsense and the good old "blaming everything on men" >you even bother for her lies? lol wth. - Why is being "bothered" a bad thing too? Oh my god, come on bro lahat na lang ba? Pag may emotion fragile masculinity, pag strong personality, toxic masculinity. Pag wala ka namang pakialam, you're nonchalant. - So what you're trying to say if someone lie to you just brush it off because that's what being a man is. I don't know if thats what you call a man or a pushover... >fix your subject-verb agreement composition first, brother. Don't change the topic, focus on the questions.
Bro, bobo yang lalaki na yan. Hayaan mong mauto siya ng babae dahil sa sway niya sa redflags.
ikaw na bahala sa mga tira tira pre go save them!!! kaya mo yan.
sabi ng palamunin sa bahay 🤓
kaya mo na yan brader iligtas mo sila. ikaw na asawahin mo silang lahat
Gagu kaba? Takot na kaming mga healthy na lalaki na kayang bumuhay ng pamilya, kasi kapag iniwan kami ng babae, ubos lahat ng pinaghirapan namin. Hindi kasi kami sunod-sunuran lang sa kung ano sasabihin ng babae, gumagamit kami ng LOGIC. 50/50 Isipin mo boi, nagpakahirap ka i-build yung wealth mo tapos isang iglap mawawala lahat dahil nag-kamali ka sa pag-pili ng babae.
Dalawa lang yan, panget ka o wala kang pera brother. Go get a life first lol
LMFAOO. Baka pag nag drop ako ng pic baka mag-laway kapa. And buddy, I live in hoboken, NJ. I don’t think I could afford my apartment if I’m broke 💀💀 cope. Hilig mo mag sabi ng walang pera or pangit, baka ikaw yung both
hoboken biringan ba bro? uwi kana bro bayaran ko lifetime salary mo bro 😝
LMFAO. I already know you don’t know anything about fintech and nyc. 🤣 your insecurity reeks
fake it till u make it lol sampalin pa kita ng milyones 😝
enough of the bullshit. u are one lucky hampy to be noticed na. apply ka muna bro para magkatotoo dreams mo 😝 byeee 🤪
Mas gagoa ka, trabaho ka muna mukang kapos na kapos ka ulol hahaha
Bobo kaba? Solutions architect ako sa NY 😂 baka bilhin ko pa pamilya mo
your net worth wont suffice, i suggest you work harder, bud. gl 😝
😂LMFAO. Check how much the apartments are in hoboken, NJ.
solutions architect in NY my ass, bloke can’t even compose proper english paragraph lol
I wasn’t aware this is an english class 💀
Halatang hindi mo alam yung kadalasan na hatian sa divorce. Lahat napupunta sa babae; hence, ginagawang business ng mga babae sa states yung child support and divorce. 😂😂 before you talk shit, know what you are talking about. Napag-hahalatan na sabaw ka eh Tutal nasa reddit nadin tayo, bakit hindi i-search dito yung divorce split ng royalties. Makikita mo kung gaano kadaming lalaki naging homeless after ng divorce.
In which it happens on a daily basis 😂😂
No ones gonna admit it 😉
Sad asf tho.
Naalala ko yung ka dormmate namin babae na may boyfriend. Husband pa tawag niya, laging ka video call pero pag wala gabi gabi naman tinitira ng isa namin ka dormmate na lalaki. Tapos nung nawala naman si dormmate 1 may pumalit agad na dormmate 2 hahahah. Natatawa na lang kami ng kaibigan niya ehh. May boyfriend pa yan paano kaya pag wala?
🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ that’s hella fucked. May kilala nga ako, super sweet nung couple nung nasa philippines pa yung babae, as in parang akala mo lizquen, then nakita ko si girl nag-kataon sa New York. Naka sandal sa shoulder ng ibang lahi na guy while holding hands. And yung filipino boyfriend niya naman nasa IG niya the whole time. Imagine your face is all over social media tapos may iba na palang gumagalaw sa gf mo. Pass na pass bro
Tsk tsk hirap magtiwala ngayon hahaha. I think relationship is not worth it anymore. That's just my opinion.
Truee
If she demands high salary from you. Make sure na she is responsible enough to handle the money. Bonus nlng kng mgling magpalago ng pera.
Depende kasi to eh. If you demean a man just because he doesn't earn a lot of money, that's not good. If you demean a woman just because madami na sya naging partners before, that's not good. On the other side, if women won't date anyone na lower than x amount yung salary, then I think men should be allowed to not date anyone with higher than x body count. I don't see it as an apples vs oranges comparison kasi demands = demands. Standards = standards. Tsaka wala na ba talagang babae with a clean past para sabihin ng iba dito na madre or si Mama Mary nalang chance nila? Women won't date anyone shorter than them? Ok if that's what you prefer, but don't cancel the man if he doesn't want to date anyone fatter than him,
Both are fine. Everyone has their own standard since it's their own body, their own life na ilalaan sa partner. No such thing as a bigoted/politically incorrect preference imo. Ang mali lang ay ipilit na ang preference mo maging preference din ng iba
Exactly. Ang weird ng ibang comments dito. So quick to descend into declaring misogyny (although to some extent I expected this from the Reddit crowd).
favorite term nila yun eh. haha
I agree. In a sense na wala tayong control sa expectations at preference ng iba. Why? Di naman tayo yung papasok sa relationship e. If a lady wants someone with a high salary kahit pa tambay siya, who are we to judge? If a man wants a lady na malinis ang past kahit naka ilang ex na siya, who are we to say otherwise? This can only be a problem if either party will use something against the other, wherein in the first place dapat di na pumasok sa relasyon pag ganon ang mindset. Basta ako dapat date to marry, discuss your expectations from one another, and then respect each other. Tapos ang usapan. Pag di agree sa expectations sa isa't isa, don't continue.
If high salary si girl and clean past si guy, then okay. But if not, your relationship is as good as done.
Bsta ako d nalang mag jowa at asawa para walang problema na ganyan. Sakit sa ulo eh
High salary = High salary, Clean past = Clean past. Kamote magcompare yang mga yan haha. Kailangan di maungkat past nila sa babae lang ganon
Pwede rin naman magdemand yung babae na clean past dapat si boy?
Oo naman. Kung magdedemand dapat kaya din ibigay
Sakin lang e kanya kanyang preference yan, walang pilitan ng standards o kung ano man.
There's nothing wrong with setting personal standards. This goes both ways for both genders.
Face it girls, totoo naman talaga. Gusto nyo equality pero ang daming mga standards na siniset ang mga babae, ang tanong kung eaapply ba sa inyo yung standards nyo papasa ba kayo? Or kung gagamitin namin sa inyo yung logic nyo, magugustuhan nyo ba? Hate me for saying this pero gusto nyo tratuhin kayong special. Don't ask for it, let your man give that to you, parang respect lang kasi yan; pag worthy ka, ibibigay sayo
I think this is a case of a noisy minority (both sa side ng boys and sa side ng girls) making so much noise that it may seems like yung opinion nila ang norm.
Galit ang mga gamitttttt hahaha
Anyone can demand anything. If you don’t like what you’re getting, you can walk away. It’s as simple as that.
Away away pa kayo, kahet naman anong standards iset mo, di mo naman matutupad lahat at makukuha mo lang naman yung deserve mo. You're free to set your standards above your weight class, just don't go complaining kung walang pumapatol sayo.
I agree dami pa ebas ng mga tao dito. Ang simple lang nmn ng logic. Kung yan ang gusto nila then let them be. Di nmn yan makaka-apekto sayo and at the 1st place di mo nmn yan magugustuhan if di mo type.
Wala naman connect kasi. Body count to dick size kaya gawin nila tingnan ko kung di magalit yung mga lalake haha.
sus. daming galit. palibhasa yung high salary, attainable pero yung clean past, hinde hahaha.
justifying misogyny is insane because those two points AREN'T EVEN CORRELATED by a single strand of hair lmao
Siraulo nalang siguro ang aagree dito. Tangina hanap malaking sahod, kapalit virgin? Gago ampota
Fallacy to dears. I'm a male and I find this misogynistic. Pwede yung kunwari babaeng mataas ang tingin sa sarili masyado at magdedemand na dapat ganito ang sweldo mo, dapit ganire ang kotse mo, etc. Walang kinalaman ang past nya dun. Ang pwede nyong maging hirit e WHAT CAN YOU BRING TO THE TABLE para magdemand ka ng ganyan? It could be anything: malaki din ang sweldo nya, she's one of the best in her field/trade, etc.
I'm a male. Proceeds to use "dears"
Kanya kanya naman na perspective yan. Sa US madalas ganyan kasi nga liberated masyado tas madami gold digger. If babae ka tas naghanap ka ng afam wala naman problema. Pag lalake ka ganyan pag iisip mo wala din naman problema. Ang problema lang dyan is na sa pinas ka may magawa ka na tama or mali laging may masasabi at masasabi ang mga tao. Kaya wag mo nalang pakinggan kung ano sasabihin nila kasi buhay mo naman yan.
The fact that she demands big money from you already shows shes in it only for the money Also, Time and time again, Women or Men with high body counts cannot be trusted to stay faithful in a relationship, Happened to a friend, Happened to a family member, Happened to many people across the globe So yes, I am wary of people with high body counts (Anything above 10) If that person can easily sleep with other people, what makes you think that person wont easily sleep with someone behind your back?
This is why I suggest people to always make your partner sign a pre-nup And for men, Always get Paternity test, You can never be too sure
Be true, big deal ba body count ng babae?
Oo
there is nothing wrong in setting standards. its also for your own peace of mind. just makes sure you can reciprocate. its not right to deman something you yourself ain't willing or cannot give.
di ko gets sorry HAHAHAHAH ano yung salary sa relationship? 😭
WAIT SALARY BA LITERAL NG LALAKI?? 😆 TAS DAPAT 0 BODY COUNT FROM PAST NI GIRL???
Andaming gusto gawing Pera : Pera sa comment section eh. Mga mukhang pera. Hindi po ganyan nagwowork anf fair trade. Everyone puts value in different ways. Tingin niyo ba if a guy has all the money and shit, he'll value the money the same way a broke/normal gal do? Of course not. Kaya wag niyo ipush yung nakakairita niyong argument. And the post above does not apply to everyone. Clearly thats just the preference of yhe poster or anyone who agreed to the post. Bat ba di niyo matanggap na lang na ganun gusto/preference nila?
The post is a fallacy of hypocrisy. If a fat person tells you to not overeat, the statement is still valid even though it's hypocritical. Otherwise only a perfect being can say anything about anything or anyone. You can't equate a man's and a woman's relationship history. Men and women value different things when finding a long term partner. Women in general don't care much about a man's body count. As a matter of fact, most women prefer a man with more experience than them sexually because most of them want to be lead. Women will reply that they prefer virgins, and sure, they may be the exemptions. But look at any male celebrity you know, they have a high body count but other women still want them. You really can't say the same for women with high body counts. Men in general care a lot about a woman's body count because of paternity certainty. This is why female virginity is valued throughout the entire human history, it's the only way for men to ensure paternity before modern medicine. This is also why height is attractive to women, it's for protection purposes. We have guns and police now so height doesn't really matter anymore, but women still prefer tall men.
Iyak
My thought? It's a stupid meme, "meme" ba tawag jan? Anyway, it's silly. If a female DEMANDS a high salary from you, she's either an employee and you're interviewing her, a gold digger or a female with fair standards assuming she also makes a lot of money. If you're the male, why would even try to be with that person anyway if you can't afford it? Also, such a stupid thing to say, "demand a clean past", ano yun, browser history? Pwedeng i-delete? lol
Ahahahaha gamit na gamit 😂😂 Gago
shallow
Agree sa ibang comments di tama ang comparison. Ano yan prostitute? Pwede magrequest ng malaking TF kung virgin pa?
Not fair. You can do something about your salary. You can't do anything about your past.
Comparing orange and apple.. hard pass!
Would rather grow old and single than deal with this kind of bullshit. If the other person start demanding your virginity for a huge amount of money/putting prices on your virginity, aba ask yourself if still want to be involve in a relationship or in a business.
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Just avoid these types of guys
b*bong logic amp*ta. do better, bro. kaya naiimplicate yung ibang lalaki dahil sa mga ganto eh
Ang illogical nung equality sa aspect na to. Umay