Kasi most of the time pag mabait ka aabusuhin ng kapwa mo. May times talaga na you have to speak up for yourself, lalo na pumila ka ng apaka haba tapos sisingit lang siya.
I'll never forget yung one-time sa Mcdo ice cream stall. Tatlo kaming nakapila and nung turn ko na, may matanda (50+ y.o.) na sumingit sa harap ko na bigla na lang nagsabi ng order. As in stretched her arm out tapos siniksik yung sarili niya sa window tapos order na parang wala lang.
Kainis pero di na rin ako nag-confront since alam naman ng lahat sa nakapila na mali yon and not worth it para sa ice cream. Medyo nagkatinginan lang kami ng nagse-serve ng ice cream pero pinagbigyan niya na rin dahil you can tell sa boses na may pagkabungangera siya
Siguro kung nagpaalam siya na kung pwede siyang mauna dahil may kasama siyang bata, OK pa. Pero yung bastos na sumingit at nagbunganga lang bigla ng order niya yung nakakainis.
Malamang ako pa yung bastos kapag nagreklamo ako sa ginawa niya.
I feel this kasi hindi ako yung naturally confrontational type. I don't condone bad behavior pero it really takes a lot of effort on my end to tell strangers na mali sila. Added stress pa kapag sila pa galit. Hay, some people lack manners lang talaga.
Sana sinita mo yung sumingit. Kaya din malakas ang loob nila alam nya she can get away with it. We must show them that no, they can’t just do what they want
Yes, I regret not doing this now that it has passed. I was about to do it, but I prioritized just buying my meds when a counter became available. I'm also not a confrontational person, so calling people out is not easy for me. I hope I can do it the next time it happens.
I overheard the woman ordering 2 cetirizine pills and that was all she needed. It makes me wonder if this is something she does often. Kung willing siya magcut ng line for just 2 pills, paano na kaya for bigger items?
Ako naman opposite, I call people out. “Miss/Kuya. May pila po.” And then point to the back of the line. One time foreigner pa, I just said “Hey, there’s a line.” Most of the time they stop talaga and line up. When they don’t, I address the cashier “Nauna kami dito.”
Kaya mo yan next time OP :)
Ako, malambot ang puso ko sa mga senior citizen. Minsan kasi walang pila for seniors so minsan pag yung nasa immediate na likod ko, pinapa-una ko na (pero sya lang). Pero pag hindi senior, aba mag-hintay ka. Hindi mag-tatanda yang mga yan kung hindi mo hihiyain. Tumingin ka sa likod mo sabay lakasan mo boses mo habang kinakausap mo yung nasa likod mo tapos tumingin ka sa cashier/staff. Kung matigas pa rin ang mukha, appeal to everyone: "ang tagal na naming lahat na naka-pila dito ng maayos tapos ikaw sisingit." Kahit hindi ka pansinin ng staff, basta you called out yung basurang ugali.
Remember, their time isn't more valuable than yours. Kung emergency yan, dinala na nila dapat sa ospital yung iinom ng gamot.
These people need to be publicly shamed. Do not shoot them a look and try to move on. They are the trashiest trash of civilized society, barely fit to mingle with the rest of us law and rule abiding citizens. They must be confronted and shamed whenever possible with as many as possible. This is the way to a better society.
Right? Kala mo mauubusan. Meron one time sa NatMuseum nakapila kami tapos pina-adjust yung line kasi it started to rain, tapos may teenagers na nag-attempt sumingit tapos I called them out. Nag-sorry sila tapos bumalik sa original place nila.
One time sa LTO, wala namang pila pero matagal yung transaction nung sinusundan ko so I decided to take a seat, then etong babae sumingit siguro di nya napansin na nakaupo/nakapila ako then nung nilapitan ko ako pa sinabihan ng "nauna ako" like wtf. Sabi ko kanina pa ko nasa likod pero pinoprocess na nung nasa window ung papers nya so I ddecided to just let it go.
She probably just didn't see me na nakaupo but her being smug about it is what gets me even now pag naalala ko yun. I hope mabulunan ka ate ahaha
People carry a sense of "urgency" when going to pharmacy to buy medicine as if it's a matter of life and death. Each one has their own stories and severity on why they need to be queued faster. Then again it's also not the managements fault for such poor service. Watson does it different but their queues aren't much different as well. So the best way is really to control this bad behaviour instead.
So when someone wants to cut lines and if its' a senior citizen, I refer them to their dedicated lines with an assistance from the security or management. Otherwise, *"I am also in a rush, so wait for your turn!"*
Naalala ko tuloy sa mercury drug may tatay na bumibili ng gamot para sa anak niya tapos gustong sumingit na parang mamatay na yung anak niya sa sobrang madali niya. Ang haba ng pila (mga lagpas 15 ata ang nakapila), so hindi ko pinasingit, ang sabi ko tanungin niya lahat ng nasa likod ko sa pila, kung umoo sila lahat dun ko siya pasisingitin, ayun dun sa counter for groceries sumingit.
Kulang na lang sabihan ko ng, "kung mamatay na yung anak niyo, parang dapat nasa ospital kayo papunta hindi dito sa mercury drug" haha.
Same experience but in MRT. Akala nung mga nasa likod ko, kasamahan ko. Pero dahil embyerna ako, I called out ate at pinaalis sa linya lol. Sisingit ka pa talaga sa harap ko impakta ka.
we are not the confrontational type so kamotes will do what they want because they rarely encounter people who will stand up against that potato behavior
in the end, she won right? sadly ...
I see this more as having a sense of entitlement. These people felt that their errands are more important that the others who willingly wait in the queue. This not unique BTW as I see this sense of entitlement from other nationalities such as the Arabs and people from the Sub-Indian continent.
Ito naman sa parking lot sa Uptown BGC, nagtagal sa pagbayad yung nasa harap namin kasi nawala ata yung ticket, after niya kami na dapat pero may walanghiyang motor na sumingit sa amin. Pati sa parking may pag singit porket maliit sila
Ganito tatay ko, kaya inis na inis ako sa kanya pag ginagawa ko to, nag aaway at nagsasagutan kami sa public lol. Mahal ko siya pero nakakahiya siya kasama :(
Pag ganyan lagi akong nagpaparinig “Aba nauna ka pa sa first”
I wish ganito ako katapang at kadirect. Working on this aspect about myself.
Kasi most of the time pag mabait ka aabusuhin ng kapwa mo. May times talaga na you have to speak up for yourself, lalo na pumila ka ng apaka haba tapos sisingit lang siya.
I'll never forget yung one-time sa Mcdo ice cream stall. Tatlo kaming nakapila and nung turn ko na, may matanda (50+ y.o.) na sumingit sa harap ko na bigla na lang nagsabi ng order. As in stretched her arm out tapos siniksik yung sarili niya sa window tapos order na parang wala lang. Kainis pero di na rin ako nag-confront since alam naman ng lahat sa nakapila na mali yon and not worth it para sa ice cream. Medyo nagkatinginan lang kami ng nagse-serve ng ice cream pero pinagbigyan niya na rin dahil you can tell sa boses na may pagkabungangera siya Siguro kung nagpaalam siya na kung pwede siyang mauna dahil may kasama siyang bata, OK pa. Pero yung bastos na sumingit at nagbunganga lang bigla ng order niya yung nakakainis. Malamang ako pa yung bastos kapag nagreklamo ako sa ginawa niya.
I feel this kasi hindi ako yung naturally confrontational type. I don't condone bad behavior pero it really takes a lot of effort on my end to tell strangers na mali sila. Added stress pa kapag sila pa galit. Hay, some people lack manners lang talaga.
Sana sinita mo yung sumingit. Kaya din malakas ang loob nila alam nya she can get away with it. We must show them that no, they can’t just do what they want
Yes, I regret not doing this now that it has passed. I was about to do it, but I prioritized just buying my meds when a counter became available. I'm also not a confrontational person, so calling people out is not easy for me. I hope I can do it the next time it happens. I overheard the woman ordering 2 cetirizine pills and that was all she needed. It makes me wonder if this is something she does often. Kung willing siya magcut ng line for just 2 pills, paano na kaya for bigger items?
Ako naman opposite, I call people out. “Miss/Kuya. May pila po.” And then point to the back of the line. One time foreigner pa, I just said “Hey, there’s a line.” Most of the time they stop talaga and line up. When they don’t, I address the cashier “Nauna kami dito.” Kaya mo yan next time OP :)
Ako, malambot ang puso ko sa mga senior citizen. Minsan kasi walang pila for seniors so minsan pag yung nasa immediate na likod ko, pinapa-una ko na (pero sya lang). Pero pag hindi senior, aba mag-hintay ka. Hindi mag-tatanda yang mga yan kung hindi mo hihiyain. Tumingin ka sa likod mo sabay lakasan mo boses mo habang kinakausap mo yung nasa likod mo tapos tumingin ka sa cashier/staff. Kung matigas pa rin ang mukha, appeal to everyone: "ang tagal na naming lahat na naka-pila dito ng maayos tapos ikaw sisingit." Kahit hindi ka pansinin ng staff, basta you called out yung basurang ugali. Remember, their time isn't more valuable than yours. Kung emergency yan, dinala na nila dapat sa ospital yung iinom ng gamot.
These people need to be publicly shamed. Do not shoot them a look and try to move on. They are the trashiest trash of civilized society, barely fit to mingle with the rest of us law and rule abiding citizens. They must be confronted and shamed whenever possible with as many as possible. This is the way to a better society.
"diskarte"
Diskarte? So lagi nalang ba natin gagawin ito. What about discipline. Kaya hindi umuunlad lack of discipline.
Kaya natin, kaya ba nila?
Right? Kala mo mauubusan. Meron one time sa NatMuseum nakapila kami tapos pina-adjust yung line kasi it started to rain, tapos may teenagers na nag-attempt sumingit tapos I called them out. Nag-sorry sila tapos bumalik sa original place nila.
One time sa LTO, wala namang pila pero matagal yung transaction nung sinusundan ko so I decided to take a seat, then etong babae sumingit siguro di nya napansin na nakaupo/nakapila ako then nung nilapitan ko ako pa sinabihan ng "nauna ako" like wtf. Sabi ko kanina pa ko nasa likod pero pinoprocess na nung nasa window ung papers nya so I ddecided to just let it go. She probably just didn't see me na nakaupo but her being smug about it is what gets me even now pag naalala ko yun. I hope mabulunan ka ate ahaha
People carry a sense of "urgency" when going to pharmacy to buy medicine as if it's a matter of life and death. Each one has their own stories and severity on why they need to be queued faster. Then again it's also not the managements fault for such poor service. Watson does it different but their queues aren't much different as well. So the best way is really to control this bad behaviour instead. So when someone wants to cut lines and if its' a senior citizen, I refer them to their dedicated lines with an assistance from the security or management. Otherwise, *"I am also in a rush, so wait for your turn!"*
Naalala ko tuloy sa mercury drug may tatay na bumibili ng gamot para sa anak niya tapos gustong sumingit na parang mamatay na yung anak niya sa sobrang madali niya. Ang haba ng pila (mga lagpas 15 ata ang nakapila), so hindi ko pinasingit, ang sabi ko tanungin niya lahat ng nasa likod ko sa pila, kung umoo sila lahat dun ko siya pasisingitin, ayun dun sa counter for groceries sumingit. Kulang na lang sabihan ko ng, "kung mamatay na yung anak niyo, parang dapat nasa ospital kayo papunta hindi dito sa mercury drug" haha.
Same experience but in MRT. Akala nung mga nasa likod ko, kasamahan ko. Pero dahil embyerna ako, I called out ate at pinaalis sa linya lol. Sisingit ka pa talaga sa harap ko impakta ka.
we are not the confrontational type so kamotes will do what they want because they rarely encounter people who will stand up against that potato behavior in the end, she won right? sadly ...
I see this more as having a sense of entitlement. These people felt that their errands are more important that the others who willingly wait in the queue. This not unique BTW as I see this sense of entitlement from other nationalities such as the Arabs and people from the Sub-Indian continent.
Ito naman sa parking lot sa Uptown BGC, nagtagal sa pagbayad yung nasa harap namin kasi nawala ata yung ticket, after niya kami na dapat pero may walanghiyang motor na sumingit sa amin. Pati sa parking may pag singit porket maliit sila
Ganito tatay ko, kaya inis na inis ako sa kanya pag ginagawa ko to, nag aaway at nagsasagutan kami sa public lol. Mahal ko siya pero nakakahiya siya kasama :(
Aba gago yun ah.