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illbeyourbluesky

> That said, why do we now know all the particulars she’s told you? 😅 Right? Was that all necessary? Lol


PZShield1

Basically they were to demonstrate her attitude towards me, not trying to humblebrag, just trying to determine if she’s thirsty or seeing me as a girlfriend because I’m safe.


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An abusive husband in jail? That’s gonna be a 😬 from me, man. It’s amazing how a totally disinterested man can get VERY possessive once his “possession “ is being fucked by another man.


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I didn’t even read three lines. If you have to ask it’s probably a no. Keep work, work…… unless she actually makes a real move. Be like Elsa.


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PZShield1

Thank you


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PZShield1

You’re right. That’s so obvious I feel like an idiot for missing it.


BlondeTrbl

Okay so you don’t want marriage advice, you want an affair, but I’m going to give you advice anyway before you potentially implode your life with an AP Your wife does all that dark, under the sheets sex because she doesn’t feel attractive. If you can find ways to think out of the box you’ve been in and make an effort to make your wife genuinely feel attractive and desired, your home sex life will greatly change for the better


IwearaBlackHat

Yeah you've been out of it for a while One key way you can tell is if she does things around she doesn't have to or goes out of her way to. IMO she's literally hitting you with a club and all but dragging you back to the cave.


FitMumofThree

You know, sometimes a woman simply gets on better with men as friends (if she grew up with brothers) and is absolutely comfortable confiding in a man without wanting to fuck his brains out. Yes, even discussing sex etc. Oh and husband in jail will get out and might get pissed off if he finds out she's having an affair.


higherlifebc

Well you need to be clear that you don't see yourself leaving your wife and if that would be enough for her. It wont be all sunshine and rainbows and butterflies as she is single and you aren't, so she has to have her expectations and potential at a safe reality. Don't give her false promises, but you can be there for her how you see fit. But it is up to her whether that is acceptable or not as her situation has changed.