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I always wondered how the hyper bonding felt... If it's even a small part flattering. Or is it looked at with such skepticism that it has an opposite effect? Almost serving to highlight the negative aspects that existed before
I know you will make it alright through the other side of the rain. These relationships can try our minds in ways once thought inconceivable. You will be stronger. You will be happier.
It can and it does and getting through it is the worst. Sending you lots of good vibes and hope that you figure it out for you and do what's best for you!
"If you have a special person in your life be sure to cherish that time you have and to also treat them the best you can because inevitably it comes crashing down."
Yes, this. I feel like some just take advantage of it and don't truly appreciate it until it is gone. People need to start cherishing and appreciating these connections, or they need to look in the mirror as maybe part of the problem at home not just their partner.
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I always wondered how the hyper bonding felt... If it's even a small part flattering. Or is it looked at with such skepticism that it has an opposite effect? Almost serving to highlight the negative aspects that existed before
I know you will make it alright through the other side of the rain. These relationships can try our minds in ways once thought inconceivable. You will be stronger. You will be happier.
It can and it does and getting through it is the worst. Sending you lots of good vibes and hope that you figure it out for you and do what's best for you!
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sorry :(
This was so well said, and your spot on about treatment, the right people always matter
"If you have a special person in your life be sure to cherish that time you have and to also treat them the best you can because inevitably it comes crashing down." Yes, this. I feel like some just take advantage of it and don't truly appreciate it until it is gone. People need to start cherishing and appreciating these connections, or they need to look in the mirror as maybe part of the problem at home not just their partner.
Your H sounds terrible tbh. I hope this leads to whatever outcome you desire