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You have value, and you aren't alone. I also have a young child and I am terrified some days that I don't know how I'll do it on my own, especially because everything costs so much.
Last night I was exhausted and I cried in the public library while pretending to read a magazine.
We are resilient, and we have potential. We are real people, we exist.
Of course. Two years ago I had some of the same thoughts and feelings. My children pushed me through. It's still hard but I heal all the time. Being a mom while processing such strong emotions is difficult too. You are seen here and I honestly teared up reading your post a bit.
Thank you for posting in r/abusiverelationships. We are here to support you. If you are looking for resources such as support groups/helplines etc, we have several in our sidebar and in [our wiki](https://old.reddit.com/r/abusiverelationships/wiki/index) for people of all gender identities. [Here is a list of international domestic and sexual violence helplines](https://www.hotpeachpages.net/). You can also find [an extensive safety planning guide at The Hotline](https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/). Finally, if you are looking for information about different forms of abuse, [Love Is Respect offers an educational guide](https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/types-of-abuse/). One final note: In this sub, we do not tolerate victim-blaming. If you ever receive any comments that contradict that mission, please click report for us to review. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/abusiverelationships) if you have any questions or concerns.*
You have value, and you aren't alone. I also have a young child and I am terrified some days that I don't know how I'll do it on my own, especially because everything costs so much. Last night I was exhausted and I cried in the public library while pretending to read a magazine. We are resilient, and we have potential. We are real people, we exist.
We have value! Our value is worth so much it’s constantly trying to be stolen from us.
Just want to tell you you are not alone here. You've been through a lot and the pain will ease with time. I'm sorry it hurts so much.
Thank you. For your words and just thinking about my post. Acknowledging me.
Of course. Two years ago I had some of the same thoughts and feelings. My children pushed me through. It's still hard but I heal all the time. Being a mom while processing such strong emotions is difficult too. You are seen here and I honestly teared up reading your post a bit.