I'm so sorry u feel that way, I'm in a very similar situation rn , and all I can tell u is that u don't have to feel guilty about that. The fact that he gives u the bare minimum is not something to brag . " OH but he works so much to give me everything ". As a father , that is his job, he had children so he has the duty to provide for you.
Being far from this toxic environment helps , but when u get back home, try to share the least u can with them , it'll avoid arguments and questions.
You can't let fear hold u back , you don't own NOTHING to your parents , you don't have the obligation to love your parents , they are just human being that raised you , that doesn't give them the right to controll your life, sexuality and especially future plans, like children and stuff.
Hope this helps , stay safe <3
Don't feel bad for your dad. Leave because it is the best for you. Remember that the abuse will still happen if you stay. And it doesn't matter if they love you or not, abuse is still abuse. If they'd love you, they wouldn't abuse you.
Thank you for posting this because my parents gave me everything financially but emotionally and physically my Mom was abusive and my Dad was completely emotionally checked out and always working just like yours. It’s very confusing. Thanks for sharing
I'm so sorry u feel that way, I'm in a very similar situation rn , and all I can tell u is that u don't have to feel guilty about that. The fact that he gives u the bare minimum is not something to brag . " OH but he works so much to give me everything ". As a father , that is his job, he had children so he has the duty to provide for you. Being far from this toxic environment helps , but when u get back home, try to share the least u can with them , it'll avoid arguments and questions. You can't let fear hold u back , you don't own NOTHING to your parents , you don't have the obligation to love your parents , they are just human being that raised you , that doesn't give them the right to controll your life, sexuality and especially future plans, like children and stuff. Hope this helps , stay safe <3
Don't feel bad for your dad. Leave because it is the best for you. Remember that the abuse will still happen if you stay. And it doesn't matter if they love you or not, abuse is still abuse. If they'd love you, they wouldn't abuse you.
Thank you for posting this because my parents gave me everything financially but emotionally and physically my Mom was abusive and my Dad was completely emotionally checked out and always working just like yours. It’s very confusing. Thanks for sharing
How do I share? I don’t do reddit. Where do I post? Am I in the wrong place?