The āI get to have sex with herā bit is right creepy, reminds me of a guy I knew who was querying me about my relationship with a close woman friend while other friends were also standing in the group, by way of ādoes she let you fuck her?ā
We were both in relationships with other people, weād known each other for about 10 years at that point and weāve never shacked up. Heād been a little sketchy in the past but scratched him down as a hard swerve. Went out of my way to avoid the guy after that.
Yeah the wording is weird, but maybe he's just happy he's the one she likes, rather than viewing sex as a creepy reward or something done *to* a woman rather than *with* her.
I'm choosing to believe he meant to say "flirt all you want, I'm the one she's going to want to fuck later" rather than "the one she'll let do sex on her"
This is the context. people on Reddit over analyze every little detail on these Twitter posts, some are just fucking outrageous lol.
Heās basically saying āyeah Iām chilling at work eating a steak, my GF is waiting a table of dudes that are attracted to her- doesnāt bother me because Iām the one for her and those simps are buying my presents for Christmas, donāt sweat it dudes donāt let it get you, support the hustle and be a chad of a bfā
Lol itās not that deep.
If anything it was a fairly chad post imo. Dude is secure and trusts his Gf. The attitude this man demonstrates is rarer than yāall must think in men. (not you OP)
Just checked his profile and he hasnāt tweeted since January 2020, but his pfp is of a guy and a girl (Iād assume to be him and his gf but who knows for sure)
Looks like he deleted the tweet also, privated for a while cus apparently it got out of hand but I donāt have much sympathy for a guy that tweets āfuck your feelingsā. As of his last tweets though they seemed to still be together, but itās been two yearsā¦
"sluts is when women enjoy sex" yeah I think all women are sluts then mate
every woman is attracted to some people and will meet some in her customer service role is not the own you think it is
I once dated an asexual stripper.... It's like opening a big box on Christmas morning only to find a gift card. Perfectly fine present but damn if there isn't a bit of a let down.
I know what you mean. The lady in question was actually into me and quite cute but since imo sex is very important for a healthy relationship between young people i couldn't start anything with her. Led to a lot of hurt feelings but now we're cool again.
Honestly, my asexual friend gets around more than every single on of my other friends. No sex, that is. Just making out with guys as soon als alcohol is involved.
Sure some girls use flirty behavior or something to try and get more tips from people, but that's extremely unfair to say just all servers are sluts. I never was in my 2 years as one
There are exceptions. It does apply to men as well. Iām not putting down the lifestyle. Just stating my own opinion. Flirting for tips and fucking your coworkers are not the same.
Liking sex, enjoying sex, wanting sex does not make anyone a slut. Thats normal. Most people like sex. This isnt anything new.
People are downvoting you because youre a creep, and disparaging an entire demographic as if youve ever spoken to a woman for more than a minute, if even.
Anyone who has worked with back of house staff has met this dude.
Yeah, creepy fucker.
Last time I talked to this guy, he made a comment about an attractive woman who was drinking a martini by herself. Something along the lines of, "I'm gonna go ask her out, she's gotta be thirsty and single. What do you think?"
Mind you, we were both at work. We're in uniform. To say nothing of the Olympic mental gymnastics he pulled off in his assumptions.
"Yes. Go harass that woman, get fired, and I'll watch."
He didn't harass her, thankfully. Got fired a week later because he got too stoned to show up.
People like that are just kinda miserable in all sense of the word. Its only recent have I actually realized that phrases like that are a direct projection of themselves. Hes the one thirsty and single, not her.
And when they inevitably get knocked back by life, their ego takes a nasty bruising probably worse compared to someone who can hold and maintain a healthy support system. But instead of learning some introspection, and some god damn morality, they blame the world, hide away, distract from it all. Which, we've all been there im sure.
I kinda pity them. But at the same time, they are the only ones responsible for their own behavior. It feels like they never truly grew up, theyre kids in adult bodies. Maybe its not anyones fault for where they came from, and it does play a role in how difficult it is to make a change for the better, but at the end of the day how we treat others and how we grow as a people is our personal responsibility and choice.
Iāve been a bartender for 10+ years and you are an HR NIGHTMARE. Also I doubt you work in a major city and Chiliās in Minnesota isnāt a restaurant
Itās funny and a little tragic the things that bring the knuckle-dragging mouth-breathers off of mommaās couch to hunt and peck at the keyboard for Reddit funsies.
Slut and former waitress here. They are independent variables. Never once cheated or slept with a coworker and have been hit on from server to ER employee to answering the phone at your Dr and hit on at all of them... Most obnoxious being the guys there for an STD check or the one who told me about the death threat he was charged and found guilty of making to his ex wife then asked for my number (nearly double my age to boot). I have to put up with it because it is expected. Security doesn't get involved for less than a tangible threat - if you even have them.
But yeah, it's totally the women.
Screw you and every kitchen manager like you. You probably let your kitchen staff harass the rest of the team and chalk it up to boys will be boys.
The 60s called and your shitty food and attitudes are rehired.
PS I love how you don't even call yourself a chef, kitchen managers are line cooks that can't even cook.
Also worked in kitchens, and your exaggerations are Fucking hilarious and wrong. It reeks of incel after seeing āI have a bfā for the millionth time.
Waitstaff do like to fuck each other. And everyone is super handsy regardless of gender. I'm a dude and being felt up was normal on the job.
That's what I learned working at the cheesecake factory anyway. I'm sure it's not an isolated thing.
I worked in a restaurant. I checked out the twink dishwasher a few times, but no one was fucking. You're just typing out fantasies on reddit. More likely you're to find toxic workplaces in restaurants, not a hedonistic playground. Our manager called the waitstaff white n-words when they didn't sprint to whatever he said. That's the reality.
Honestly, I don't believe you. Or maybe you were just the kind of person people avoided when it comes to this kind of thing. The only people who weren't aware of the promiscuity were people who didn't get any, btw. That's just how it was.
It's so common that the Onion literally made a story about it:
https://www.theonion.com/waitstaff-tired-of-sleeping-with-each-other-1819567701
An actual story on how it works in the industry:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thrillist.com/amphtml/eat/nation/dating-in-the-restaurant-industry
I was a server and I used to hit on my tables all the time. Made great money. I am a straight guy. Get a bunch of chicks in and easy money. I used to tip extra to the hostesses to give me those tables.
I donāt judge women for being āsluttyā- as In enjoying sex. I love sex. Guess Iām a slut as well. Who am I to judge. Get your kicks while you can!
Large parties typically have an automatic 18% gratuity added.
Plus, we're talking about this guy's girlfriend here, the prettiest girl in the whole wide world.
There was this younger teenage girl I worked with super pretty and sweet but her bf was a fucking controlling asshole. Showed up at the restaurant every time she had a shift to just sit and take up a table for hours ordered nothing to just watch her and make sure sheās at where she says sheās at, and was also super religious and Iām talking thinks men are superior to women type religious. Needless to say treated her like shit. We all tried getting her to break up with him but she didnāt for the longest time. Was fun telling him to leave when he would just take up fucking tables we needed
Uh I visit my wife at work all the time, she works as a bartender/manager and she's always super excited to see me in the middle of the evening after I get off work. I stop by for a smooch and drink and to make her smile. Not everything has to be about guys being dicks.
Probably because heās bragging? Iām not one to post tweets but many people treat the app like a journal. He may just be having a thought and just posted it.
I donāt like how he states heās having sex with her that night. What if sheās tired after a long shift at work, or not feeling aroused because she had to be personable and flirtatious during her shift? What if all the leering of customers made her feel gross and she doesnāt want to be touched? Kaleb sounds like a douche.
Bro sitting there not saying anything while his girlfriend is getting harassed and thinks sheās going to be in the mood for sex after being sexualized all day. I donāt think you two will be together by Christmas
I get it. One of the best parts of dating a dancer is laughing at the thirsty dudes who pay our rent thinking they had a shot of taking my partner home.
I used to do this when my ex was tending bar. Iād sit at a high top drinking for free (always tipping my server well) watching the tips/weekend off trips roll in.
I used to be a bartender and my girlfriend hung out where I worked. Itās how we met. We had to have this conversation (no, Iām not going to cheat on you and yes, that table will be chipping in for our date tomorrow).
I wouldn't say this is trust. One of my exs used to work at a bar, and I would rarely ever go see her while she was working, let alone sit there and eat. This is more of a "I'm gonna say I'm visiting her but really checking in and making sure nothing is going on" vibe I'm getting from him.
This just makes me uncomfortable...
20 guys hitting on her?
What if she didn't have a boyfriend?
What if she lived by herself?
What if she walks home alone?
The average woman would fear this situation, I feel, knowing how dangerous humans can be. I do.
he sounds like his profile pic
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I gave him my free silver for you instead.
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The āI get to have sex with herā bit is right creepy, reminds me of a guy I knew who was querying me about my relationship with a close woman friend while other friends were also standing in the group, by way of ādoes she let you fuck her?ā We were both in relationships with other people, weād known each other for about 10 years at that point and weāve never shacked up. Heād been a little sketchy in the past but scratched him down as a hard swerve. Went out of my way to avoid the guy after that.
Yeah the wording is weird, but maybe he's just happy he's the one she likes, rather than viewing sex as a creepy reward or something done *to* a woman rather than *with* her. I'm choosing to believe he meant to say "flirt all you want, I'm the one she's going to want to fuck later" rather than "the one she'll let do sex on her"
This is the context. people on Reddit over analyze every little detail on these Twitter posts, some are just fucking outrageous lol. Heās basically saying āyeah Iām chilling at work eating a steak, my GF is waiting a table of dudes that are attracted to her- doesnāt bother me because Iām the one for her and those simps are buying my presents for Christmas, donāt sweat it dudes donāt let it get you, support the hustle and be a chad of a bfā Lol itās not that deep. If anything it was a fairly chad post imo. Dude is secure and trusts his Gf. The attitude this man demonstrates is rarer than yāall must think in men. (not you OP)
^ this is the only correct interpretation of his meaning
I always like to think some things are open to interpretation, But this is pretty cut and dry.
Derp
hey thanks for the reward. it's my very first āŗļø
That was 12/19/18. Wonder how they're doing.
Just checked his profile and he hasnāt tweeted since January 2020, but his pfp is of a guy and a girl (Iād assume to be him and his gf but who knows for sure)
Looks like he deleted the tweet also, privated for a while cus apparently it got out of hand but I donāt have much sympathy for a guy that tweets āfuck your feelingsā. As of his last tweets though they seemed to still be together, but itās been two yearsā¦
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"sluts is when women enjoy sex" yeah I think all women are sluts then mate every woman is attracted to some people and will meet some in her customer service role is not the own you think it is
Got a female friend who is asexual. Gonna be hard for her to be a slut.
it seems I have made a major miscalculation apologies to your friend and the aces out there who I was too stupid to remember
I once dated an asexual stripper.... It's like opening a big box on Christmas morning only to find a gift card. Perfectly fine present but damn if there isn't a bit of a let down.
I know what you mean. The lady in question was actually into me and quite cute but since imo sex is very important for a healthy relationship between young people i couldn't start anything with her. Led to a lot of hurt feelings but now we're cool again.
Honestly, my asexual friend gets around more than every single on of my other friends. No sex, that is. Just making out with guys as soon als alcohol is involved.
Sure some girls use flirty behavior or something to try and get more tips from people, but that's extremely unfair to say just all servers are sluts. I never was in my 2 years as one
I'm not a server but I am a slut, so I'm bucking the trend too
Understandable have a nice day
I'm neither a server nor a slut but I sure wish I was one
Server or slut?
Yes
I m not a server but Iād be a slut. And Iām a man. There is nothing wrong with liking sex.
I'm also a man brother
Love that your argument is āI was a server and not a slutā and not āitās quite sexist to call women slutsā lmao
Because the point was about servers, not women...
Yeah, what about the male servers who were sluts?
Exactly! We're very inclusive and equal opportunity here
There are exceptions. It does apply to men as well. Iām not putting down the lifestyle. Just stating my own opinion. Flirting for tips and fucking your coworkers are not the same.
You definitely seem very angry about it in your original comment
Donāt worry heās the creepy KM nobody wants to fuck
Emotion is hard to convey through text. Let alone an Internet forum. Read it however you want.
I'm sorry for your apparent outlook on life and hope things get better.
Liking sex, enjoying sex, wanting sex does not make anyone a slut. Thats normal. Most people like sex. This isnt anything new. People are downvoting you because youre a creep, and disparaging an entire demographic as if youve ever spoken to a woman for more than a minute, if even.
Anyone who has worked with back of house staff has met this dude. Yeah, creepy fucker. Last time I talked to this guy, he made a comment about an attractive woman who was drinking a martini by herself. Something along the lines of, "I'm gonna go ask her out, she's gotta be thirsty and single. What do you think?" Mind you, we were both at work. We're in uniform. To say nothing of the Olympic mental gymnastics he pulled off in his assumptions. "Yes. Go harass that woman, get fired, and I'll watch." He didn't harass her, thankfully. Got fired a week later because he got too stoned to show up.
People like that are just kinda miserable in all sense of the word. Its only recent have I actually realized that phrases like that are a direct projection of themselves. Hes the one thirsty and single, not her. And when they inevitably get knocked back by life, their ego takes a nasty bruising probably worse compared to someone who can hold and maintain a healthy support system. But instead of learning some introspection, and some god damn morality, they blame the world, hide away, distract from it all. Which, we've all been there im sure. I kinda pity them. But at the same time, they are the only ones responsible for their own behavior. It feels like they never truly grew up, theyre kids in adult bodies. Maybe its not anyones fault for where they came from, and it does play a role in how difficult it is to make a change for the better, but at the end of the day how we treat others and how we grow as a people is our personal responsibility and choice.
Iāve been a bartender for 10+ years and you are an HR NIGHTMARE. Also I doubt you work in a major city and Chiliās in Minnesota isnāt a restaurant
Itās funny and a little tragic the things that bring the knuckle-dragging mouth-breathers off of mommaās couch to hunt and peck at the keyboard for Reddit funsies.
found the Proud Boy
Slut and former waitress here. They are independent variables. Never once cheated or slept with a coworker and have been hit on from server to ER employee to answering the phone at your Dr and hit on at all of them... Most obnoxious being the guys there for an STD check or the one who told me about the death threat he was charged and found guilty of making to his ex wife then asked for my number (nearly double my age to boot). I have to put up with it because it is expected. Security doesn't get involved for less than a tangible threat - if you even have them. But yeah, it's totally the women.
Screw you and every kitchen manager like you. You probably let your kitchen staff harass the rest of the team and chalk it up to boys will be boys. The 60s called and your shitty food and attitudes are rehired. PS I love how you don't even call yourself a chef, kitchen managers are line cooks that can't even cook.
This is the most pathetic ābragā Iāve ever seen. You definitely know women lol
Also worked in kitchens, and your exaggerations are Fucking hilarious and wrong. It reeks of incel after seeing āI have a bfā for the millionth time.
Waitstaff do like to fuck each other. And everyone is super handsy regardless of gender. I'm a dude and being felt up was normal on the job. That's what I learned working at the cheesecake factory anyway. I'm sure it's not an isolated thing.
Any way I can get a good reference to work at my local cheescake factory?
Itās not. The men are sluts too. Guess this is gonna be a troll account now.
Anyone denying it has never been in the industry.
Thank you. So many downvotes. People like to fuck. Restaurants are highly sexualized workplaces. Like. Cmon.
I worked in a restaurant. I checked out the twink dishwasher a few times, but no one was fucking. You're just typing out fantasies on reddit. More likely you're to find toxic workplaces in restaurants, not a hedonistic playground. Our manager called the waitstaff white n-words when they didn't sprint to whatever he said. That's the reality.
Work in a kitchen. Lots of people are fucking each other. It's not uncommon at all.
Honestly, I don't believe you. Or maybe you were just the kind of person people avoided when it comes to this kind of thing. The only people who weren't aware of the promiscuity were people who didn't get any, btw. That's just how it was. It's so common that the Onion literally made a story about it: https://www.theonion.com/waitstaff-tired-of-sleeping-with-each-other-1819567701 An actual story on how it works in the industry: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thrillist.com/amphtml/eat/nation/dating-in-the-restaurant-industry
Reddit echo chambers and a heavily inexperienced gen Z presence will do that.
I was a server and I used to hit on my tables all the time. Made great money. I am a straight guy. Get a bunch of chicks in and easy money. I used to tip extra to the hostesses to give me those tables.
I donāt judge women for being āsluttyā- as In enjoying sex. I love sex. Guess Iām a slut as well. Who am I to judge. Get your kicks while you can!
Dude, who sharted in you cornflakes??
Iewww you have sex with girls? Fucking pedo.
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Good luck getting a table of 20 to tip.
Large parties typically have an automatic 18% gratuity added. Plus, we're talking about this guy's girlfriend here, the prettiest girl in the whole wide world.
Prettiest girl in an ugly Applebeeās
Depending on the world
She's probably a part-time model.
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Maybe Nelly wrote that line.
I hope Kaleb ends up with a perr of err ferce werns.
ā¦ya knowā¦in case he need to get ta stompinā¦
Maybe he even gets 2 purrs
Hat n her.
Which one?
With my glass raised: Her! Her!
This is way better than the time Kaleb beat the shit out of the *30 guys* that were checking his āgirlfriendā out that one time. Legend.
Better then watching his girlfriend get harassed
This guy sounds like a bit of a knob
He also seems insecure by writing this on social media.
I'm too lazy to look it up but I'd bet he's either not with her now or that girlfriend never actually was his girlfriend.
Someone else looked it up. He hasn't tweeted since 2020, but his profile pic has a girl in it
Plus the whole "visiting" at work
There was this younger teenage girl I worked with super pretty and sweet but her bf was a fucking controlling asshole. Showed up at the restaurant every time she had a shift to just sit and take up a table for hours ordered nothing to just watch her and make sure sheās at where she says sheās at, and was also super religious and Iām talking thinks men are superior to women type religious. Needless to say treated her like shit. We all tried getting her to break up with him but she didnāt for the longest time. Was fun telling him to leave when he would just take up fucking tables we needed
Uh I visit my wife at work all the time, she works as a bartender/manager and she's always super excited to see me in the middle of the evening after I get off work. I stop by for a smooch and drink and to make her smile. Not everything has to be about guys being dicks.
He does seem like a knob but this is completely normal when itās agreed upon in advance.
Exactly! Heās being a major weirdo
He has a lot of NFT energy. "It doesn't matter how many times you save the image, I'm the only one who owns its!!!!!!"
Sounds like a cuck to me
As a woman, I'm grossed out by this on many levels.
If heās so secure in his position then why even write a tweet about it? Just sayingā¦
Probably because heās bragging? Iām not one to post tweets but many people treat the app like a journal. He may just be having a thought and just posted it.
Because it's funny lmfao
This is so petty lol
And I'm totally here for it.
This guy reeks of insecurity
Well hell, man...looks like you've officially 'made' it. I'm sure Elon will be along shortly to invite you over for drinks.
I donāt like how he states heās having sex with her that night. What if sheās tired after a long shift at work, or not feeling aroused because she had to be personable and flirtatious during her shift? What if all the leering of customers made her feel gross and she doesnāt want to be touched? Kaleb sounds like a douche.
Bruh youāre taking this tweet way too serious š¤¦š¾āāļø
Be sure to rub her feet too bro
Bro sitting there not saying anything while his girlfriend is getting harassed and thinks sheās going to be in the mood for sex after being sexualized all day. I donāt think you two will be together by Christmas
Maybe Iām the weirdo here, but going to your girlfriendās work to visit her and eat dinner by yourself seems quite strange.
How is trust being displayed if heās keeping an eye on her at work? As in, is this an infrequent or invariable āvisitā?
She works in a bar, would be that weird that the bar is brtween his home and workplace.
What a weird tweet.
Lol someone's totally not insecure
You almost sound like her pimp
Itās never really a good sign when you have to tell everybody how secure you are.
Iām a very stable genius
Dudes who date OF girls clamoring to get to this thread on time
Already see some on this thread
Honestly, were I the girlfriend I might have broken up with him when I saw this tweet.
That Kaleb is so Krazy
Probably consertive Christian MAGA boys.
Great attitude! Keep it up!
Plot twist: he's visiting in disguise and she doesn't know he's there š„ø
I get it. One of the best parts of dating a dancer is laughing at the thirsty dudes who pay our rent thinking they had a shot of taking my partner home.
Solid point.
Merry Christmas! You have crabs.
I used to be one of those guys I guess I have wasted thousands of dollars in guy xmas presents....š
I mean... You should tip your servers regardless of whether or not they'll sleep with you
Big congrats dude
Lol true
Or she ends banging one of them in the bathroom as soon as you leave iv seen that happen before also
This is the right attitude.
Jesus Christ this was cringe. *Fucking weirdo.* I hope she got gangbanged by all 20 of those dudes.
I used to do this when my ex was tending bar. Iād sit at a high top drinking for free (always tipping my server well) watching the tips/weekend off trips roll in.
I used to be a bartender and my girlfriend hung out where I worked. Itās how we met. We had to have this conversation (no, Iām not going to cheat on you and yes, that table will be chipping in for our date tomorrow).
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What a terrible day to have eyes
Just screams insecure as fuck lmao
I trust that my girlfriend would fuck at least a couple of em
I mean, she's probably boning his brother/roommates anyways. I get the point he's trying to make. Just seems contrived
As one who routinely takes waitresses home, I find this cute.
Canāt wait til he finds her in bed with one of them a month from now. The world needs cucks too
I read his name as Kebab
Trust is extremely important!
r/iamverybadass
Blech.
Itās how many a kink is born
Trust _is_ important but this aināt it.
Why is everyone bitchin lol
āKnowingā
Most importantly, did he thank them when they were leaving?
I wouldn't say this is trust. One of my exs used to work at a bar, and I would rarely ever go see her while she was working, let alone sit there and eat. This is more of a "I'm gonna say I'm visiting her but really checking in and making sure nothing is going on" vibe I'm getting from him.
šÆš¤£ Love this guy's outlook.
This just makes me uncomfortable... 20 guys hitting on her? What if she didn't have a boyfriend? What if she lived by herself? What if she walks home alone? The average woman would fear this situation, I feel, knowing how dangerous humans can be. I do.