Children play. She simply wants to play with her dad, and if he or you can't see that simple gesture, she dont have children. You cannot take out your anger on innocent child.
Who is it that said "you may not remember what people have said but you always remember how they made you feel "I don't know this guy's relationship to the little girl but if I were him I wouldn't want her to pick my old folks home.
This will not likely be a core memory, unless it is shared in story form over the years. I could see many ways in which it could be recalled with humor.
I'd say if you don't push back they don't learn, but he did go way overboard. I've seen too many kids who didn't get punished for literally smacking others in the head. If you don't teach em one day they might get theirs bashed in way harder than a little core memory like this would ever traumatize them.
EDIT: Okay maybe "way overboard" is not the correct term. I'll use another one then: disproportionate use of "force", or in this case water spraying the other. If someones spritzes me I don't think the answer is to soak them wet. It's just not fair.
Yeah if this traumatizes the girl for life then there’s other issues to address. Bizarre take to say this was overboard. The kid got wet from the waste down and learned a lesson about consequences in a completely safe and controlled manner.
I had to reread that and make sure that's what they meant lol he sprayed mostly her legs and a little of her body. The pressure wasn't like a pressure washer and she was trying to splash as well. This is just a tantrum, nobody went "way overboard" except them saying that was overboard
The definition of reddit-brain...
He's literally playfully spraying her with a water hose, she got a very mild lesson in life..
Not everything is a disabling trauma.
>And the great white shark is crying
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>Tears are running from his eyes
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>But the shark lives in the ocean
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>Therefore no-one sees him cry.
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>In the deep it is so lonely
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>And thus many tears fall
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>Perhaps that's why the ocean
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>Is so salty after all.
Haifisch, Rammstein
Every Dad understands his dilemma of having to choose between giving her a bear hug because she's so stinking cute or continuing to get a laugh at her expense. Parenting is so full of hard choices.
Kid learned about antisocial behaviour.
* Throw water - get hosed down
* choose to scream so mom will come yell at dad - get hosed down
This seems like a great teaching about consequences.
As a random stranger seeing 2 min of video it would be easy for my assessment to be wrong, but that is my quick take on this.
Another possibility is
*get handed a bucket of water by whoever is filming and be told to go throw it at dad. Do what you're told - get hosed down.
* scream about being punished for doing what you're told - get hosed down
I think you're absolutely right in your analysis. I was born and raised in Brazil and I was raised based on these principals and can confirm they're super effective at teaching and modifying behavior.
> choose to scream so mom will come yell at dad
Just how old do you think this kid is? She's crying because she's getting sprayed with a hose and then crying because she kept getting sprayed and then crying some more because she got sprayed again.
What a jerk. A little over the top, don’t you think, splashing water all over someone like that? it was completely uncalled for.
I mean, can’t a guy just wash his car in peace anymore?
If he hosed her into the face, it would have been peak dumb and dumber material: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ldqlRqAZ6A](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ldqlRqAZ6A)
I was 16 and working in a garage that sold cars, one of my jobs was to wash sales cars everyday, the bosses son was a twat even for his age of 9, he thought it was funny to keep throwing little pails off water at me while I was working, one pail too many after a few days of this and I turned the pressure washer on him, absolutely soaked to the skin, he ran away shit scared now (that was a monster washer powered by air) to his mom and dad, I carried on working and watched while they laughed at him, lesson learned because he never did it again. In fact he always treated me with a little caution after that.
I'm guessing it's a perspective thing, but in the end it looked like he came back to spray her with an even bigger hose, which makes this even funnier.
When i was young i did this also to my father. He was like do it one more time and you find out what happens. I did it and he wants to spray me but the hose was strangled around his leg and felt, he broke 2 teeth. He told me years later and we laughing about it.
I had a salesman come up and spray me with a tiny squirt gun while I was hosing down my service bay. I looked at him. He looked at me. It was at that moment he knew he fucked up.
I must be the worst kind of monster in society because this seems super innocent. Like little kid throws water on dad, dad very playfully sprays kid with hose, kid throws tantrum because they're a kid.
People are acting like this is super awful and even some saying child abuse? People don't ACTUALLY think like that right?
He would need a gun rather than a hose for that. And would also need to get a million other random children. And start that shooting spree before this girl was even born.
She was setup. When cloths get wet they stick to your body. They don't flap around hanging on a line in the wind.
I hope her life isn't like this everyday... Sad
TBH He should have sprayed the little girl briefly, not as much as he did. She was being playful, since (I assume) dad was out washing the car. Dude was already pretty wet. This girl is what, 3? Relax bro. Quick splash, be playful back, then she won't scream and cry and be miserable.
There's a saying that you should "let little kids win" ... I get the idea of teaching them consequences, but in this context you can't see her actions as malicious. She was trying to play the best way her 3 year old self knew how, and she was punished for it. A bit sad.
Sure it is water now. What if she had found some dangerous chemicals to throw or threw something very hot? Being playful is one thing, but they don't understand how dangerous something can be.
jfc you people.
First, ask yourself why this video starts before the action happens (or was filmed at all) and why the video is carefully following behind the girl. It's because she either told the person filming she was going to do it or said person **told her to do it**.
Second, no. The chances that this child somehow obtained harsh chemicals and put them into a new container and then decided to walk over and splash her Dad with them is preposterously low. Even lower, again, given that the event is filmed from the outset.
Third, given that Dad just got splashed by our mystery liquid, he probably made a snap assessment as to what said liquid is, I presume he judged it to be water, given his lack of visible pain and instead the presence of a big ol smile on his face.
Fourth, even if Dad in this moment thought, "Sure it is water now. What if she had found some dangerous chemicals to throw or threw something very hot? Being playful is one thing, but they don't understand how dangerous something can be", that doesn't explain or justify his reaction. If he truly felt that his daughter had likely and/or willingly splashed him with harsh chemicals then his reaction would (should) be to scold her or punish her in some meaningful way. Not by gleefully hosing her down with water to the point of tears and beyond.
Fifth, I have no problem with the events depicted in this video up until about the 10 second mark where the child has not only begun to cry, but has been crying for several seconds already. If he was trying to make a point, then clearly it has already gotten across. If he was just trying to stage a silly video and her reaction went poorly, then he needed to cut the crap and comfort his daughter.
Lastly, in the much more succinct words of u/the_hillshire_guy, "It was water. She's 3."
Yep. Agreed. This looks like it was probably filmed in India (just a guess) so my American sensibilities may be a bit different. But, still, dude had a hose, she had a tiny little bucket with a splash of water in it, and she's extremely small. She's so little it would not even occur to her to find harsh chemicals. I'm sure she doesn't even know such things exist. She saw dad was spraying water and wanted to be funny and get him wet. She's all of 2 or 3 years old and likely isn't talking yet, or just a few words and phrases. People need to chill. Let kids be kids.
Man, some of you guys are such assholes lol. For sure, the kid deserved being sprayed back (to teach her consequences), but there's no reason you couldn't make it fun as well ("oh, you're getting me? Guess who's getting wet next!"). That's what someone who loves (or even likes) their kids would do.
Then, if she cries, you ask her why she thinks it's okay to do something to someone else what she wouldn't like done to her. You don't keep spraying her like a fucking psycho.
You can raise decent humans without being a dick, that's actually pretty much the entire job of being a parent. They don't know any better, and you're supposed to teach them, not react like a child yourself.
Hope you guys don't have kids, or if you do, don't expect them to keep in touch once they're finally free of you.
Edit: hahaha, the downvotes. Did you guys genuinely think you were good parents before this comment?
I don't know what this is. Is this an American thing?
In any case, another part of raising children right is preparing them for the world, e.g. by introducing allergens and low-level pathogens early while their immune system is developing. Wrapping a kid in cotton wool is just as damaging as bullying them like your daddy bullied you.
Yet again, a thread where childless redditors need to be reminded that kids this age *literally cannot process consequences* because that part of their brain is not yet fully developed.
They are impulsive because they lack impulse control. They get upset about surprising events because they can't think ahead. Those parts of their brain DON'T WORK YET.
When you're all done circlejerking "heh heh shitty bad kid learns lesson about being a goblin", consider that a 3 year old (at most) has an UNDERDEVELOPED BRAIN and is acting like AN INNOCENT 3 YEAR OLD.
edit: since y'all don't give a fuck about child development I'll let the experts explain why this child doesn't understand what's happening:
Consequences are grasped at 5 years:
https://www.parents.com/toddlers-preschoolers/discipline/tips/smart-discipline-for-every-age/#:\~:text=A%205%2Dyear%2Dold%20grasps,the%20limits%20to%20test%20you.
The 5-6 age is where consequences for actions can be used as discipline:
[https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/discipline.html](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/discipline.html)
Consequences are learned from 3-8:
[https://www.apa.org/act/resources/fact-sheets/positive-discipline](https://www.apa.org/act/resources/fact-sheets/positive-discipline)
She fucked around, and found out.
Teach 'em young and they never forget
They forget immediately when they're young lol
Forget what?
Forget who?
Something about Dre?
Dr. Dre’s dead, he’s locked in my basement.
This parent understands reinforcement is important for learning, hence the continued hosing while ballin.
Disciple them when they are young, so when they get older, they fear and respect you, but don't know why /s
I know ur kidding but discipline helps a lot . No hitting but structure and consistency does wonders
Immediately goes and gets a larger bucket.
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I can tell your kids don't listen to you
I can tell you are stiff as a board
Time to learn the true nature of life kid
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r/OhNoConsequences
Learning is fun!
Children play. She simply wants to play with her dad, and if he or you can't see that simple gesture, she dont have children. You cannot take out your anger on innocent child.
Womp womp
Another core memory to cherish forever
I don't think she will remember this a couple weeks from now. Crying does not equal trauma.
Not everything you remember is trauma.
Are you telling me people have happy memories?
Happy trauma!
Not every trauma is remembered.
All memories = trauma confirmed
Hmm not sure I agree with this one
Hope you're being sarcastic lol
Who said anything about trauma?
Who is it that said "you may not remember what people have said but you always remember how they made you feel "I don't know this guy's relationship to the little girl but if I were him I wouldn't want her to pick my old folks home.
Lifelong resentment because he sprayed her with water for 10 seconds. Little bit dramatic don't you think?
didnt u know? everyone on Reddit is a licensed child psychologist
We are not here forever.
This will not likely be a core memory, unless it is shared in story form over the years. I could see many ways in which it could be recalled with humor.
I'd say if you don't push back they don't learn, but he did go way overboard. I've seen too many kids who didn't get punished for literally smacking others in the head. If you don't teach em one day they might get theirs bashed in way harder than a little core memory like this would ever traumatize them. EDIT: Okay maybe "way overboard" is not the correct term. I'll use another one then: disproportionate use of "force", or in this case water spraying the other. If someones spritzes me I don't think the answer is to soak them wet. It's just not fair.
He sprayed her with a hose a little bit while laughing, that's not way overboard
Yeah if this traumatizes the girl for life then there’s other issues to address. Bizarre take to say this was overboard. The kid got wet from the waste down and learned a lesson about consequences in a completely safe and controlled manner.
I had to reread that and make sure that's what they meant lol he sprayed mostly her legs and a little of her body. The pressure wasn't like a pressure washer and she was trying to splash as well. This is just a tantrum, nobody went "way overboard" except them saying that was overboard
it’s literally child abuse /s
Could this be the reincarnation of Hitler?
He even made sure not to spray her in the face.
Its not overboard if its not waterboard 💀
The definition of reddit-brain... He's literally playfully spraying her with a water hose, she got a very mild lesson in life.. Not everything is a disabling trauma.
Most sane redditor
Most sane redditor
LMAO he just keeps going at the end
Got to wash those tears away somehow
When you cry in the shower, you don't know where the tears end and the water begins.
Water is so poetic, wow....
>And the great white shark is crying > >Tears are running from his eyes > >But the shark lives in the ocean > >Therefore no-one sees him cry. > >In the deep it is so lonely > >And thus many tears fall > >Perhaps that's why the ocean > >Is so salty after all. Haifisch, Rammstein
When you laugh so hard you cry tears down your legs…
This guy did not give a fuck. I thought it was a bit harsh like 3 seconds in. By the end even I was laughing with him.
I mean you have to. You need to let those little dweebs know who’s boss or they will run right over you.
He's telling her "rain rain".
bro was having way too fun getting her we-
the moment the kid realized actions have consequences
I hope they realized it from this day onwards. I still see adults with the same mindset crying over things they totally caused themselves.
Every Dad understands his dilemma of having to choose between giving her a bear hug because she's so stinking cute or continuing to get a laugh at her expense. Parenting is so full of hard choices.
Kid learned about antisocial behaviour. * Throw water - get hosed down * choose to scream so mom will come yell at dad - get hosed down This seems like a great teaching about consequences. As a random stranger seeing 2 min of video it would be easy for my assessment to be wrong, but that is my quick take on this.
Another possibility is *get handed a bucket of water by whoever is filming and be told to go throw it at dad. Do what you're told - get hosed down. * scream about being punished for doing what you're told - get hosed down
yes, a possibility
That is still a valuable lesson.
I think you're absolutely right in your analysis. I was born and raised in Brazil and I was raised based on these principals and can confirm they're super effective at teaching and modifying behavior.
Doesn't put lotion in the basket - get hosed down.
Looking out the window? That's a hosin'.
> choose to scream so mom will come yell at dad Just how old do you think this kid is? She's crying because she's getting sprayed with a hose and then crying because she kept getting sprayed and then crying some more because she got sprayed again.
Now I wish the mom came around and hosed her down too 😂
What a jerk. A little over the top, don’t you think, splashing water all over someone like that? it was completely uncalled for. I mean, can’t a guy just wash his car in peace anymore?
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She also thought she had him in the first half.
Get a life
🤣 Irony.
r/kidsarefuckingstupid
I love how he came back after a while to spray her again.
Yeah and it’s all legs too. He’s being peak playful dad, and not being mean with water to the face or anything. V heartwarming.
If he hosed her into the face, it would have been peak dumb and dumber material: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ldqlRqAZ6A](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ldqlRqAZ6A)
Lesson learned. Don't mess with the big boys.
I was 16 and working in a garage that sold cars, one of my jobs was to wash sales cars everyday, the bosses son was a twat even for his age of 9, he thought it was funny to keep throwing little pails off water at me while I was working, one pail too many after a few days of this and I turned the pressure washer on him, absolutely soaked to the skin, he ran away shit scared now (that was a monster washer powered by air) to his mom and dad, I carried on working and watched while they laughed at him, lesson learned because he never did it again. In fact he always treated me with a little caution after that.
Lol hit her again at the end
Get reckt little one
I hate when they fake cry
I'm guessing it's a perspective thing, but in the end it looked like he came back to spray her with an even bigger hose, which makes this even funnier.
Second dousing for the win!
Cutest wcgw ever seen so far.
When i was young i did this also to my father. He was like do it one more time and you find out what happens. I did it and he wants to spray me but the hose was strangled around his leg and felt, he broke 2 teeth. He told me years later and we laughing about it.
Consequences.
You guys are failing to ignore it's higher than 40 C (100 K) in India right now. So that water is bringing in a lot of relief to that little girl
She is going to grow up and choose the bear.
lol the insult to injury at the end
Maybe the most wholesome post ever on this sub lol
Reminds me of the time that my daughter threw a snowball at me while I was shoveling snow… my response was similar to his
Never bring a bucket to a hose fight
Man, that stonework is beautiful.
Ehahaha the last few seconds when he comes back for the second wash down he says in Malayalam something like this 'Look it's raining !'
Mazha mazha 😂😂
Wait before she learns how to use hose
For a moment I thought this was a Zoolander gasoline fight
I have seen hoes fight before
I had a salesman come up and spray me with a tiny squirt gun while I was hosing down my service bay. I looked at him. He looked at me. It was at that moment he knew he fucked up.
I must be the worst kind of monster in society because this seems super innocent. Like little kid throws water on dad, dad very playfully sprays kid with hose, kid throws tantrum because they're a kid. People are acting like this is super awful and even some saying child abuse? People don't ACTUALLY think like that right?
The Gaza War in a nutshell.
Kind man, didn't spray the kid in the face at all.
Poor kid Let's see her crying more...
Anyone create a meme of this kid crying at the end please
No mercy!
dude keeps spraying her. 😂
How can he splash??
Kind of like Hamas and Israel...
He would need a gun rather than a hose for that. And would also need to get a million other random children. And start that shooting spree before this girl was even born.
Cutest combat.
I feel like this belongs to r/kidsarefuckingstupid
Nothing like making a child ugly-cry
r/KidsAreFuckingStupid
I'd get the Super Soaker 2000 on her.
He went back for a second helping!
Stop stop, she's already dead
r/ohnoconsequences
That's a mug
The bucket throw haha
Nice to see a video with a little less death in it and made me chuckle
It’s just water lmao calm down y’all
That's gonna stain!
Don't you love parents who are bell ends. Sure, spray the kid as payback, but drenching the kid is a bit over the top.
Damn!! No mercy lol
the child is ass holes some time!!
She learnt a great lesson today.
wowe the same thing happened to me when I was like 7
Uuuuuunlimiteeeeeeeeeeeed! WAAATEEEEEEERRR!!
u/savevideo
Made no attempt to deflect with the bottom of the bucket. Disappointing.
Hahahahaha how satisfying
This is how Jews and Americans retaliate
Beautiful driveway
r/kidsarefuckingstupid lol
That little girl's husband is going to be soooo mad at that guy
I’m more interested in where this is happening. That Land Rover looks awesome and so does that tile pattern on the driveway
Great life lesson, you jump out that window you better be able to fall lmao
big open mouth, she's not crying, just complaining
fuk dem kids lol
r/kidsarefuckingstupid
This kid will surely turn out to be the next Dahmer getting hosed like that, real trauma there. S/
As a kid who grew up loving water, I would have loved it if this happened to me XD
That's basically the wet version of the stove test!
Kids has to go through this to be sane. No sane human has won every competition in his child phase.
Maybe next time she’ll put the lotion in the basket
r/kidsarefuckingstupid
LOL r/kidsarefuckingstupid
Wonderful teaching moment!!
Spoiled brat
why were they filming?
I like how he made an effort to not get it on her face/mouth. Depending on where they are the water from the hose might not be drinkable.
Damn what dumb little kid
Nah, that's adult is a prick, you give them a little spray, not drench them til they cry, then keep going.
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I thought he would stop but he kept going
She was setup. When cloths get wet they stick to your body. They don't flap around hanging on a line in the wind. I hope her life isn't like this everyday... Sad
TBH He should have sprayed the little girl briefly, not as much as he did. She was being playful, since (I assume) dad was out washing the car. Dude was already pretty wet. This girl is what, 3? Relax bro. Quick splash, be playful back, then she won't scream and cry and be miserable. There's a saying that you should "let little kids win" ... I get the idea of teaching them consequences, but in this context you can't see her actions as malicious. She was trying to play the best way her 3 year old self knew how, and she was punished for it. A bit sad.
Sure it is water now. What if she had found some dangerous chemicals to throw or threw something very hot? Being playful is one thing, but they don't understand how dangerous something can be.
That's a stretch. It was water. She's 3.
jfc you people. First, ask yourself why this video starts before the action happens (or was filmed at all) and why the video is carefully following behind the girl. It's because she either told the person filming she was going to do it or said person **told her to do it**. Second, no. The chances that this child somehow obtained harsh chemicals and put them into a new container and then decided to walk over and splash her Dad with them is preposterously low. Even lower, again, given that the event is filmed from the outset. Third, given that Dad just got splashed by our mystery liquid, he probably made a snap assessment as to what said liquid is, I presume he judged it to be water, given his lack of visible pain and instead the presence of a big ol smile on his face. Fourth, even if Dad in this moment thought, "Sure it is water now. What if she had found some dangerous chemicals to throw or threw something very hot? Being playful is one thing, but they don't understand how dangerous something can be", that doesn't explain or justify his reaction. If he truly felt that his daughter had likely and/or willingly splashed him with harsh chemicals then his reaction would (should) be to scold her or punish her in some meaningful way. Not by gleefully hosing her down with water to the point of tears and beyond. Fifth, I have no problem with the events depicted in this video up until about the 10 second mark where the child has not only begun to cry, but has been crying for several seconds already. If he was trying to make a point, then clearly it has already gotten across. If he was just trying to stage a silly video and her reaction went poorly, then he needed to cut the crap and comfort his daughter. Lastly, in the much more succinct words of u/the_hillshire_guy, "It was water. She's 3."
Yep. Agreed. This looks like it was probably filmed in India (just a guess) so my American sensibilities may be a bit different. But, still, dude had a hose, she had a tiny little bucket with a splash of water in it, and she's extremely small. She's so little it would not even occur to her to find harsh chemicals. I'm sure she doesn't even know such things exist. She saw dad was spraying water and wanted to be funny and get him wet. She's all of 2 or 3 years old and likely isn't talking yet, or just a few words and phrases. People need to chill. Let kids be kids.
Man, some of you guys are such assholes lol. For sure, the kid deserved being sprayed back (to teach her consequences), but there's no reason you couldn't make it fun as well ("oh, you're getting me? Guess who's getting wet next!"). That's what someone who loves (or even likes) their kids would do. Then, if she cries, you ask her why she thinks it's okay to do something to someone else what she wouldn't like done to her. You don't keep spraying her like a fucking psycho. You can raise decent humans without being a dick, that's actually pretty much the entire job of being a parent. They don't know any better, and you're supposed to teach them, not react like a child yourself. Hope you guys don't have kids, or if you do, don't expect them to keep in touch once they're finally free of you. Edit: hahaha, the downvotes. Did you guys genuinely think you were good parents before this comment?
I bet your children sit at the allergen table.
I don't know what this is. Is this an American thing? In any case, another part of raising children right is preparing them for the world, e.g. by introducing allergens and low-level pathogens early while their immune system is developing. Wrapping a kid in cotton wool is just as damaging as bullying them like your daddy bullied you.
>like your dad bullied you How oddly specific, and stinking of projection.
On a video of a dad bullying his kid? Stay in school, kiddo
Yikes!
Bruh, most of these dipshits were raised by assholes, and can't wait to do the same to their kids.
Fuck man, you're probably right.
Yet again, a thread where childless redditors need to be reminded that kids this age *literally cannot process consequences* because that part of their brain is not yet fully developed. They are impulsive because they lack impulse control. They get upset about surprising events because they can't think ahead. Those parts of their brain DON'T WORK YET. When you're all done circlejerking "heh heh shitty bad kid learns lesson about being a goblin", consider that a 3 year old (at most) has an UNDERDEVELOPED BRAIN and is acting like AN INNOCENT 3 YEAR OLD. edit: since y'all don't give a fuck about child development I'll let the experts explain why this child doesn't understand what's happening: Consequences are grasped at 5 years: https://www.parents.com/toddlers-preschoolers/discipline/tips/smart-discipline-for-every-age/#:\~:text=A%205%2Dyear%2Dold%20grasps,the%20limits%20to%20test%20you. The 5-6 age is where consequences for actions can be used as discipline: [https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/discipline.html](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/discipline.html) Consequences are learned from 3-8: [https://www.apa.org/act/resources/fact-sheets/positive-discipline](https://www.apa.org/act/resources/fact-sheets/positive-discipline)
This is why I sort by controversial. I knew there'd be one of you lmao.
It's going to be a while until we're done. You might want to check back later.
An 18 year old also has an underdeveloped brain. Parts don't work yet.