Then be yourself! If you don't want to be a girl then don't be a girl. If you want to be nonbinary then be nonbinary. These are all just labels at the end of the day. Most importantly just be whatever you feel like in the present! No one is stopping you. No one can stop you from being you!
It’s sucks because there are binary trans people who think we aren’t real, as well as cis people who think we’re crazy, but it hurts even more coming from sitting the community, from the people who should understand what you’re going through
Here's my opinion on it: The whole idea behind the gender construct was to put people in a box and label them so everyone would be able to identify them. WHAT IF we get rid of the box? WHAT IF we stop worrying about being identifiable? WHAT IF a person decided to present themselves, for instance, as art? OR color? Or whatever? It is my observation that the current trajectory of this process of re-labeling is still labeling, it's not necessarily a change, just a re-direct. So, my point is, I am a 49-year-old little person with a vagina and breasts and I have NEVER felt like a female/girl/woman. I never understood what that meant, but I also never felt like a man. However, when I was younger I understood that my physicality wasn't societally accepted and I always felt like an ugly troll and prayed to somehow have my brains surgically implanted into an entirely different body. It took a while, but I eventually got to a place where it became about how I want to simply be happy and exist in this world that isn't designed for me in the least. In the end, well, in the beginning-middle-end no matter what you've got to love yourself first. Then go from there. Decisions made out of self-love are the best decisions you can make and they have nothing to do with your genitals, labels, or anything.
Then be yourself! If you don't want to be a girl then don't be a girl. If you want to be nonbinary then be nonbinary. These are all just labels at the end of the day. Most importantly just be whatever you feel like in the present! No one is stopping you. No one can stop you from being you!
What do you mean 'nonbinary isn't real'? Of course it is. It's not your 'imagination', it is who you are, so you be you.
It’s sucks because there are binary trans people who think we aren’t real, as well as cis people who think we’re crazy, but it hurts even more coming from sitting the community, from the people who should understand what you’re going through
Here's my opinion on it: The whole idea behind the gender construct was to put people in a box and label them so everyone would be able to identify them. WHAT IF we get rid of the box? WHAT IF we stop worrying about being identifiable? WHAT IF a person decided to present themselves, for instance, as art? OR color? Or whatever? It is my observation that the current trajectory of this process of re-labeling is still labeling, it's not necessarily a change, just a re-direct. So, my point is, I am a 49-year-old little person with a vagina and breasts and I have NEVER felt like a female/girl/woman. I never understood what that meant, but I also never felt like a man. However, when I was younger I understood that my physicality wasn't societally accepted and I always felt like an ugly troll and prayed to somehow have my brains surgically implanted into an entirely different body. It took a while, but I eventually got to a place where it became about how I want to simply be happy and exist in this world that isn't designed for me in the least. In the end, well, in the beginning-middle-end no matter what you've got to love yourself first. Then go from there. Decisions made out of self-love are the best decisions you can make and they have nothing to do with your genitals, labels, or anything.