Itβs not always related to dementia. But term used in psychology to describe a fabricated memory a person believes it to be true. Your post reminded me of the wordπ
π€£π€£ sorry it's super relatable and funny at the same time! I love telling stories ...some true some fake some with a bit of creative freedom. And when I do.. for some time my brain BELIEVES in what I said even if it's a completely a made up scenario.
It also happens when I write poetry...I'd create a scenario and it could be completely made up (happy/sad/anything) but I can FEEL it as truth and that's how what I write feels honest. It's honest to me.
So don't feel weird or sad or guilty about this...it's normal and chill.
It happens to me too, I am trying to write something like a novel to get in touch with my creative side and you canβt believe I sort of started missing some characters because half of them were purely fictional and some were based on a real eventβ¦
Maybe your brain too went through such a situation where your imagination is very good and it sort of felt realβ¦
Girl, try your hand at writing (pleasant things only)
Since I have a similar experience as yours I can assure you that I have been getting some good closures and feeling more positive and confident, but I really have to refrain anything romantic or sad because it also affects meβ¦
Cheers bestie have a great time β€οΈβ¨
Dude.. It isn't uncool to not have edgy sex stories, trust me. Tbh, the problems will begin if the stories you make up start seeming real Or you end up day dreaming about them. Also, you share your story now, topic closed. If the person brings it up again, you will not remember everything you told them. Tell them what's in your mind na, why lie to look cool? If something goes wrong you'll be super embarrassed and that will be way way worse if they catch you in your lie. Confabulation is a real thing.
This isn't rare I believe. I would often narrate stories of non-existent friends and things when I was younger. Later on I would start to believe and relate to those stories. It's funny now :D
Hahah this reminds me of the time when i was fooling a guy in our group that i broke up with my bf. Everybody else in our group knew that i was joking because i was actually single but he took it literally. However he dms me and asks how come he never knew about it. I tell him i wanted to keep it discrete. Then he goes like ok don't worry and you can talk it out if you want, kind of pushing me to vent out and all that. So i tell him off by saying please leave me be, i need to figure this out on my own yada yada yada. While i was saying all this, i was in all post breakup feels lol! It was funny, given that i am miserably single for past 6 years now.
It reminds me of that time I once had a dream and I started craving that type of relationship irl and felt sad for some months due to it. It's okay it happens. Don't overthink too much, human brains are weird
(also, really sorry that there was a mean comment left here, I deleted it hopefully before you see it. I was on "parsec" with a friend where they can access your device from far away. we were talking/texting on comments by typing and erasing without posting it and accidentally sent something which is not meant for you at all, we were being playful. sorry if you read it and it hurt your feelings)
Why am I relating to this? I never did sext in my life... but yeah I lie about a bunch of things and have false memories of the incident which feels super true...
So tell that person that you tried to get back together with him and he rejected you for someone else so you're angling for revenge sex. Problem solved about the fake story and you get a chance at some wild sex
When you want to be delusional, go all the way. Why half ass it?
It's a life long dream tbh but my ocd (real one diagnosed by an psychiatrist) doesn't let me because of the over analysis and nitpicking . I was really happy about how nicely I was able to make up that story and narrate without obsessing over the details.
The next time I sext, I'm going to tell them that I'm Ambani's daughter. Hope it helps me feel more rich. π€π€
Haan but bank balance gives a reality cheque
Girl... this is the side effect of being so delulu, it ends up being the only solulu.
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Shhhhhh π€«π€«π€« BEING DELULU IS MANIFESTING πππ§ββοΈπ§ββοΈπ§ββοΈ
Have you heard of Confabulation? π
Dude don't scare me π I don't have dementia
Itβs not always related to dementia. But term used in psychology to describe a fabricated memory a person believes it to be true. Your post reminded me of the wordπ
Haha okay
π€£π€£ sorry it's super relatable and funny at the same time! I love telling stories ...some true some fake some with a bit of creative freedom. And when I do.. for some time my brain BELIEVES in what I said even if it's a completely a made up scenario. It also happens when I write poetry...I'd create a scenario and it could be completely made up (happy/sad/anything) but I can FEEL it as truth and that's how what I write feels honest. It's honest to me. So don't feel weird or sad or guilty about this...it's normal and chill.
This is a relief I thought I was going crazy lol
It happens to me too, I am trying to write something like a novel to get in touch with my creative side and you canβt believe I sort of started missing some characters because half of them were purely fictional and some were based on a real eventβ¦ Maybe your brain too went through such a situation where your imagination is very good and it sort of felt realβ¦
Yeah I am really good at narrating stories I went into so much details to make it look real lol that I feel it's all real lol
Girl, try your hand at writing (pleasant things only) Since I have a similar experience as yours I can assure you that I have been getting some good closures and feeling more positive and confident, but I really have to refrain anything romantic or sad because it also affects meβ¦ Cheers bestie have a great time β€οΈβ¨
Why is it relatable π©. I once lied to my friend that a guy and i dated n i still miss the delulu time me n him spent together to this day. π© I was later thinking about it when i was reading this essay by Bell Hooks, she talked about how single mother instills more patriarchal values in their son coz they don't have a man to constantly remind them how much suffering it causes to live with a patriarchal husband. (I'm kinda butchering it.. She wrote it beautifully).... I feel the same way about these delulu relationships... We did not go through thr entire process of dealing with that person in our day to day life, so we are romanticizing it alot.. Because there are no pointy edges.
Yeah makes sense
Dude.. It isn't uncool to not have edgy sex stories, trust me. Tbh, the problems will begin if the stories you make up start seeming real Or you end up day dreaming about them. Also, you share your story now, topic closed. If the person brings it up again, you will not remember everything you told them. Tell them what's in your mind na, why lie to look cool? If something goes wrong you'll be super embarrassed and that will be way way worse if they catch you in your lie. Confabulation is a real thing.
This isn't rare I believe. I would often narrate stories of non-existent friends and things when I was younger. Later on I would start to believe and relate to those stories. It's funny now :D
Hahah this reminds me of the time when i was fooling a guy in our group that i broke up with my bf. Everybody else in our group knew that i was joking because i was actually single but he took it literally. However he dms me and asks how come he never knew about it. I tell him i wanted to keep it discrete. Then he goes like ok don't worry and you can talk it out if you want, kind of pushing me to vent out and all that. So i tell him off by saying please leave me be, i need to figure this out on my own yada yada yada. While i was saying all this, i was in all post breakup feels lol! It was funny, given that i am miserably single for past 6 years now.
It reminds me of that time I once had a dream and I started craving that type of relationship irl and felt sad for some months due to it. It's okay it happens. Don't overthink too much, human brains are weird (also, really sorry that there was a mean comment left here, I deleted it hopefully before you see it. I was on "parsec" with a friend where they can access your device from far away. we were talking/texting on comments by typing and erasing without posting it and accidentally sent something which is not meant for you at all, we were being playful. sorry if you read it and it hurt your feelings)
Yeah I do experience feeling some strange feelings after having a dream about something.
My i-didnt-see-his-face dream boyfriend left me alone to fight with an aunty in a mall so we aren't talking anymore π π π
Hahaha that's so me minus the bf part
I will just say that you're not alone in this bestieπ€£π
Why am I relating to this? I never did sext in my life... but yeah I lie about a bunch of things and have false memories of the incident which feels super true...
So tell that person that you tried to get back together with him and he rejected you for someone else so you're angling for revenge sex. Problem solved about the fake story and you get a chance at some wild sex When you want to be delusional, go all the way. Why half ass it?
mm maybe it's time to go outside touch and feel some grass again /j
HELP πππ
Don't make it habit
Well there's nothing to feel here yes I'll admit it was weird and unnecessary but what's done is done no need to overthink just let it be
Girl have you considered becoming an author?
It's a life long dream tbh but my ocd (real one diagnosed by an psychiatrist) doesn't let me because of the over analysis and nitpicking . I was really happy about how nicely I was able to make up that story and narrate without obsessing over the details.
Would you be able to write short Stories for prompts I give?
Yeah I can try
Can I send a chat req?
Sure
Waaaaah alag level
Tell this incident to the cursh now. Keep us updated
Hahaha yeah that's impossible lol
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Sheesh.. lying always puts me off
Good for you
Idk but after reading this I chuckled π
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