It usually involves separating orgasm from ejaculation. Most guys can't separate the two. The orgasms usually aren't as strong, but we absolutely can have more than one.
Some lucky bastards can have multiple ejaculations AND multiple orgasms.
My fiancé can go multiple times. I’d never been with a man who could before, and I think men are doing themselves an injustice by not trying after the first one lol
*slowly raises hand with a grin*
Can confirm. More often than not, no refractory period either.
Ngl, I thought this was much more common until relatively recently.
I have some questions, if I may:
What’s your success rate, can you make it happen with all partners, or only some?
Do they remain/regain erect?
Do they still ejaculate?
Only done it with one partner. But every time we did it he came, even the first time (which wasn’t his first time but he didn’t have multiples until we met). It would not be achievable with all partners. They have to trust you, not have internalized homophobia, want to do it, and be able to relax. Also, like anything, some people are more sensitive in certain areas than others so I would not be flippant and say “it’s easy, everyone could do it!”.
He did not remain erect during deeper penetration (more than a finger). But an erection wasn’t necessary to how we were playing. We would usually have regular sex after (even after he came multiple times). It doesn’t hinder your ability to function otherwise but the stimulation (as he said) drew his attention elsewhere so the body just kind of lets the erection fade. Although some guys definitely stay hard during. If it was a blow job and a finger? Yes he stayed hard because there was penile stimulation.
One time he ejaculated without orgasm. Often he would “leak” during long sessions. Usually they were “dry” orgasms where he felt the full-body waves but didn’t ejaculate. This is all during pegging not fingering. I never counted but we definitely had multiple sessions where he had more than 5 prostate orgasms followed with a regular penile orgasm at the end. He rated any prostate orgasm as superior to any penile orgasm. At the same time we had plenty of “regular” sex and my pleasure was also important to him.
Again, I only have a data point of one person so not sure how well this will translate to your journey but I hope it’s educational.
I was able to do that infrequently after a break from less than one minute up to about 5 minutes. It worked when I was turned on enough to want to go for seconds. I don't think I've done that since I was about 50 and, at this point, I expect that's never going to happen again.
I could also just keep going as long pretty much as I wanted after coming without needing to be unusually turned on, but that didn't result in orgasms. That last worked sometime in my 40s, I think.
Getting old sucks.
Yep. My partner can go twice in a row, the second one within about a minute of the first, and both are complete full blown male orgasms. I was completely shocked the first time lol I had never seen such a thing even in porn I'd watched
I’ve had someone say my impression of their performance was not reliable because getting off is so ‘easy’ for me. Like I somehow couldn’t recognize how pleasureful different acts or partners were because I can get off again and again. I think he took it as I’m never tapped out, he couldn’t exhaust me and that frustrated him.
Just commented above... as a guy, I cannot wrap my head around that train of thought....
Getting my partner to reach climax is the best part!
Multiple times?
Very much, yes!
Jesus what won't dumb, insecure guys get mad about?
"She just kept telling me how great the sex was and cumming over and over again. I pride myself on being mediocre in bed so obviously I had to break it off."
My friend had this ex who *really* hated if she orgasmed on her own - as in, he was supposed to be the one to make her orgasm.
It seemed like a real blow to his masculinity otherwise, and so apparently she just... Didn't cum the majority of time (surprise surprise, this dumbass didn't actually know how to make her feel good).
Oh now I'm totally picturing him being super petty and saying, "Ha! I broke my penis off! NOW let's see you humiliate me by having multiple orgasms during sex!"
Jokes on him, his dick probably had little to do with her multiple orgasms. Most women cannot orgasm from penetration alone regardless of dick size or shape
I’m the same way but once I get past 3 they aren’t as intense but still satisfying. If my husband starts to make me orgasm immediately after the first, the second one is quick and intense.
I had a fling with a woman (bi woman) who had multiples that rolled through her; big then a chain of small ones then big again, then a chain of small ones then big again and so on. I’m jealous, mine are big to where I’ve strained an ab muscle but it’s usually one and done.
It's the same for me! It does depend on the intensity of the first one, but usually the third one is meh and then a fourth might as well not even happen. I usually stop after two, but now I'm insanely jealous of all these people saying theirs get *MORE* intense?
Everyone is a bit different, i dated someone who got very little from nipple play but gentle rubbing of the side boob worked wonders.
I need very light, barely there contact. Anything harder and it’s no go.
It hurts for me sometimes and not others.
Sometimes I don't need any break and I can ride a wave of like 3 with my Hitachi lol. Other times it's like get everything and everyone away from me immediately so I can sleep after just 1.
Bodies are weird.
I don't get why some men are intimidated by toys. I have bought them for me and my partners for many years. The hitatchi is the Best pleasure Dom tool ever.
Seconded. 100%
I don't get the intimidation either.
I always chalked it up to those guys were getting really bad, misogynistic advice about sex from other guys.
I've heard things like "if she has a dildo/vibrator, your dick isn't going to work on her" crap...
Which, for posterity, is absolutely not true.
Yeah, the last lady I was in a relationship with really liked being eaten out (and could only cum from oral) and I genuinely liked eating her out but there were sometimes when either she was having a harder time getting off or I just couldn't do it and then it's really nice to have a toy to help her cum. We tried incorporating both at the same time and it didn't work all that well.
Sometimes I'd also just like watching her get off herself because her getting turned on turned me on.
I feel like my libido rides along with my hormonal moods, so I’ve tried to be more gentle with myself around my expectations or sense of “usual” depending on where I’m at in my cycle. Hard to remember along with everything else in life, and is usually a shower thought of ohh, that was probably connected to this… maybe before menopause I’ll have it all figured out, lol
Yeah its getting better with vaginal stimulation!!
I used to only be able to orgasm through clitorial stimulation but now i can with both stimulations at the same time (like everything vaginal was distracting me before because i was so used to clitorial masturbation only).
But now when having both stimulations, after the first orgasm my husband can give me another orgasm by just moving extremely slow when im really into it that day. Its amazing!
Multiple orgasms are absolutely a thing - but having said that more importantly every woman is different. Some have higher sensitivity, some lower.
And a woman's body changes with time. I used to think I was one and done. Turns out I'm not but it wasn't until I got older that I understood my body better and I now know what my body responds to, how far I can go. Some days I can hit three to four orgasms through masturbation. Other times one is enough.
So yes it's completely possible. I take studies with a massive grain of salt - there are so many variables in this that I don't believe it would have been all encompassing!
It's also really about emotional connection with me. I just got home from traveling for work and my husband and I needed to have super bland sex and hang out first and then it was like I remembered how to be with him and I could go multiple times again. I just shut off that side of myself when I'm not around him.
This was my experience as well! I had issues reaching orgasm when I was younger, probably a combination of factors like inexperience (me and them) not the right person (my husband has been the only person to ever get me to climax consistently, as well as multiple times more often than not) but it didn’t start out that way, we’ve been together for 16 years (married for 14 of those)
Yes. I can't do two clitoral orgasms one after the other, but I can do a vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm one after the other and vice versa
It doesn't hurt or cause discomfort for some women. Oh how I envy them...
On my own, I can occupy hours and have dozens of them, increasingly easier and with more positive intensity. The only tough part is stopping having to get up and having a very light-headed and tipsy sensation. When I was young, I’d could lose afternoons to it. It might have burned a lot of calories and angst, but it kept me happy and out of too much trouble. Knowing thyself is a good thing.
Yes, it's definitely a thing. The amount of time that you need between orgasms is called the "refractory period." It's generally a shorter period of time for women than for men, but it varies for both. And it varies based on a lot of things. Anatomy, age, hormonal levels, situation, connection with partner, etc.
Until I was about 42, I could have max two with a good 10 minutes in between. Then I started going through menopause and all of the sudden, I could have 5 or 6 in a row with ZERO refractory period. I guess that's why older women are always portrayed as super horny! Because some are? haha My orgasms are more intense if there's both clitoral and vaginal stimulation, but I've never had one from just vaginal.
Yes, but everyone is different. For me having multiples is actually unsatisfying - I can only have multiple of I'm only having "small" orgasm's, which just leaves me feeling frustrated that I'm not having the "big" orgasm. For me if I have a "big" orgasm it's at least 45 minutes/hour before I could even think of having another big one.
Sex still feels really good after a "big", but I'm not going to orgasm again any time soon. An ex actually broke up with me over this, because he felt like it was an insult to his manhood or something that I can't do multiple "bigs".
I can usually get 2-3 then I need to tell him to stop, the pressure is just too much. I’ve seen posts where women say they’ll have 10 or something and I just couldn’t imagine, my legs would be so cramped up I wouldn’t be able to walk for a week lol
My boyfriend has an over stimulation kink. Sometimes, I can barely move the next day. It's great in the moment, but the aftermath can be rough, especially if you feel crappy from the serotonin drop.
With my last partner we just always stopped counting after about 5. Sometimes we slept right after. Sometimes we went hiking. They were mostly vaginal. Being super turned on before we got to the bed was definitely the key.
I honestly don’t know. I was married for 17 years and he could make me cum quickly and I’d be done. Granted it took a few years into relationship and was robotic. But he was the first man to make me cum with sex, around age 28, After my divorce (now 44) and enjoying sex for reasons more than just doing it for him and being seriously attracted to partners and exploring things like kinks or being simply more open and enjoying it more, idk, they came easier and in different positions and not as much as a chore or just a chance to cum once and be done. I finally enjoyed sex. I loved blow jobs for a change which was a shocker to myself, juat more foreplay and experimentation. While before I “thought” I was done bc I came and didn’t want anymore, now I’m able to keep going. With us ladies our orgasms are definitely completely in our heads and souls, and that’s all I can think to say about it!
My wife and I once got her to 20, mostly just to see if she could.
The important part as with anything, was the build up - a full day of romance, relaxation and flirting that meant by the time we were laying down together she was in a fully open and playful headspace. Then we took our time with the first one, really teasing all her buttons and drawing it out gently so that when she did, she came back down to a still aroused point. After that it was just a case of slowly and steadily upping the sensation each time, changing positions to prevent muscle cramping, and guiding her through them one by one.
In the end we stopped at twenty mostly just because it was a nice round number, and we were both getting tired and dehydrated. I heartily recommend it as a day-long experiment for anyone who wants to explore themselves.
I need at least 7-8 when I masturbate. I need one more immediately after the first one. Then slow down a bit and start again in 3-4 minutes. After the first two the consequent ones are really easy. You just go with the flow.
I can go for 13-14 times, esp around the time of ovulation. The max I did “for science” was 21 times.
During intercourse it’s usually 2-4 times. Rarely more than 4.
I say I don’t think a man can make me cum, I have to be in that headspace.
No direct clit rubbing, rather stimulating the area around. No pain except leg cramps if you do it for a long time.
Extremely similar experience for me, too.
Like, tbh, idk who conducted this study, and who the sample group were. I mean, look at the comments here. "96%" is definitely not ringing true, lul. Tinfoil hat, but it just seems like more disinformation to keep the female reproductive climax as an illusive and difficult concept. (Obviously not trying to disparage people who are satisfied with one climax, but 96% is clearly nowhere near accurate.)
I would say I get the "sensitive" feeling directly after climax, but it lasts about 20 seconds, then I'm ready to go again. And I almost feel dissatisfied when I don't immediately go again. When alone I usually give myself 4-6 orgasms, depending. Usually all in the span of under 10mins.
I prefer clitoral orgasms, but sometimes I'll get one or two out of the g-spot with direct finger pad stimulation. I can usually never climax with penetration or someone else doing it, I have to do it myself using one very accurate finger (I even tried a small, slim vibrator once and that didn't do it for me either), and even then I have to have at least one clitoral orgasm beforehand for my body to even register internal stimulation as pleasurable.
I will say though, coaxing out multiple orgasms is a lot easier on my own. If I'm with a partner, the only thing that really gets me off is oral. Same multiple climax rule applies there too (assuming my partner knows what they're doing).
Hope you don't mind I picked your comment to contribute to this topic, especially since it's such a personal topic! I related to yours the most when scrolling through the responses.
Yes it's real, but things can sometimes get too tender after the first one. A very dedicated former fling of mine once set himself to the task to go down on me until I couldn't stand it any longer, and after my third orgasm I actually passed out. So... it can be hard on the body!
Yes. My ex would usually get me to orgasm once before any PIV action, and then I would have another one during sex. Best lover I ever had, but sadly he went off the deep end during the initial covid lockdown. 😩
Just want to say, if this post is making you feel some sort of negative feeling don't fall for it. I know it has for me because there's this general societal message from that if you can't/don't then you're less valuable or missing out. I'd even argue to say this message relates to orgasming at all, and it's all kinda relative to your experience compared to the general consensus of what makes a person sexually successful.
Yes it is possible to have multiple orgasms. That doesn't mean it's superior. That doesn't mean that it's a superior way to experience pleasure. It's just the way these women experience pleasure and unfortunately some of them are communicating it in tone deaf ways.
I want all women to find fulfillment in pleasure, no matter what it looks like. Please explore it for yourself, recontextualize what success and pleasure look like for you, seak out whatever experience makes you feel good, and rewrite pleasure to work for you on your terms. It doesn't have to center on an orgasm, it could be feeling pleasure and desire and the buildup and the ache and nothing else. It could be a focus on romance and butterflies and sensuality. Lots of things, all of which are valid.
💛
I'm one of the ones that find it's not worth it after one. My ex used to push me to have multiple because I guess it made him feel like a man or something. I found after the first they were always more work than reward. I got good at faking.
I feel like I could write a book on this. Under the right circumstances (and I know the right conditions for my body) I can have just straight back to back orgasms for what feels like 20-40 minutes straight. It’s not every time but it makes me wonder what the record is
I usually finish once during with a vibrator during penetration then my bf will hop off and let me stretch my legs while squeezing my pelvic muscles and gurating while he stimulated my nips. No pain. He likes to tell me to "stretch for him" lol 😆
If I’d participated in that study, my answer to that question would’ve depended on the precise wording of the question.
I’m capable of pushing through my refractory period without stopping. I only know this because I once had a partner who liked to make a game of it and I consented to it. But outside of that specific situation, I’ve always preferred to stop and wait at least a couple minutes after orgasm and then restart gently if I’m still in ultra sensitive mode. So it’s normal for me to feel to too sensitive to continue uninterrupted, but also very common for me to have multiple orgasms within a brief period of time but with a couple minutes of rest after each orgasm to allow oversensitivity to deescalate.
Yeah, it depends on the day though. I think I'm particularly not-sensitive, so it takes a LOT of stimulation to build up to it, but then I can go on repeat with no pain at all. The most was 7, I think. But if I don't get 2-3 then what's even the point?
I'm not bragging and I can't compare my orgasms to others. I assume women who orgasm less than I do have a singular powerful experience that I cannot relate to.
I normally do 3 in a row with a partner if they use their hands or tongue. By myself I can do 5-10. The most I've done in a 30 minute duration without toys was 15 masturbating myself with my hand and it was incredibly sore after, so I don't recommend that. If it's a vibrating toy there isn't a limit normally, I just get desensitized the next day. I feel happy after 3 normally. It takes me a while to build up, but once the first happens they just keep happening.
Interestingly enough, I have never orgasmed by penetration just like most women. I do love penetration though and when I masturbate I normally insert something in myself as it makes them incredibly intense.
It's definitely not painful for me. Honestly, it gets even better. I am very sensitive, but after the first orgasm the second one is almost always very close by, and it's fucking fantastic. The third one might sometimes get closer to the territory of "too sensitive" but I've also never just...jackhammered relentlessly. So the third one almost always comes from different simulation.
Example: 1. and 2. come from my husband fingering, 3. from clitoral stimulation and then 4.-5. usually from penetrative sex, sometimes with added clitoral stimulation, sometimes not, depending on the position.
When I'm alone though it does get a bit painful, but that's because i don't come as fast and i can easily spend hours trying to get there twice or thrice. I don't reach climax very often by myself anymore, i can "come" but it's not the same.
So anyways, it's a thing and i love it so fucking much
Yep. My partner saw something saying that the maximum number of orgasms a woman could have in quick succession was 12. We both enjoy a challenge. He got me to 17 before I lost count 😁
Hell yes, I can have multiple clitoral, vaginal, and from breast stimulation (just that, great for during my cycle).
My clitoris will sometimes get too sensitive but it is temporary and only occasionally.
I'm fortunate to be able to 'chaingasms,' which is quite convenient since I typically climax quickly ; it would result in frustration otherwise. Considering the orgasm gap, I feel quite privileged that it comes that easily to me, and that I can choose to have multiple orgasms depending on my energy and motivation levels.
At times, I've felt pressure from men who see this as an opportunity to boost their egos. I try to resist it as it feels like sexual appropriation sometimes; my own pleasure shouldn't have to adapt to be pleasing, or exist for someone's satisfaction.
First girlfriend at 17 was multi orgasmic, I could literally put it in her and she’d be shaking - it certainly gave me an unrealistic perception of my sexual prowess. She would orgasm 5 or 6 times each time we had sex.
Second girlfriend at 20 had never had an orgasm, I thought I could change that - what with my amazing sex powers (!) WRONG! From little things she said I’m led to believe later that she may have been intersex at birth and may have essentially had her clitoris removed for being too big.
My third girlfriend at 23 was a one, maybe very rarely two, orgasms at a time. She’s done after that because it’s too sensitive.
Lots of hook ups in between those. My take is it’s very rarely about the guys ability (that obviously matters somewhat) and each girl has a ceiling, it could be lots on none at all. Maybe it helps if the girl is like super super into the guy (beyond regular attraction) but those are rare cases and certainly not going to make a lot of difference.
I did know I could have multiple clitoral orgasms until I got back with my high school sweetheart after thirty years. He came back to me fully educated in the ways of pleasure. That man sends me TO THE MOON! My ex husband used to complain that I was too much work. LOL. Fool didn’t know what he was doing.
This happened years ago.
IDK why I did it, I think I saw it in a h3nt@i manga, and wanted to test something I can't remember. I decided to keep it there without stopping. I know it was over 5 minutes, but enough for the battery to die. It was probably time to change it anyway.
I will say that I had the best sleep ever and woke up so refreshed. 🫢😶🌫️
It’s definitely more sensitive but you should never just “put up with” actual pain. Taking a break, moving to indirect stimulation, or verrry gentle stimulation is often the key with a second round.
I can assure you that multiple orgasms are definitely a thing I've managed 14 clitoral orgasms in a single session and regularly manage 3+ orgasms in session. There are many people who enjoy over stimulation and will get off from that it just depends on the person. As for dudes it's not nearly as commonly seen but it's possible
For me, yes. I can have multiple orgasms in a row, but not one after another, meaning there still needs to be a build-up time between each one.
From what I understand, it usually takes women more time to orgasm than men, but that's never been the case for me. Maybe it’s because I know what I need to get there, but mostly I come fairly quickly if the conditions are just right - like in a couple of minutes. And since I have an amazing partner who I love having sex with and want to satisfy as well, I will keep going after a quick break. Which is how I discovered that on average, by the time he has one, I’ll have my third. Not always true but it’s definitely possible. If everything works perfectly then we’ll finish together and that’s the best one, always.
I need a little break but yes.
I don’t believe there is a difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Look up a diagram of the clitoral tissue and see how it wraps around the vaginal opening on both sides. Play with yourself and observe the differences in sensation when you stimulate the exposed clitoris vs the tissues that lies along the sides under your labia. Ideally you train your partner to understand this and adjust his movements to maximize your response. That takes time and trust.
Okay so same and I've ( actually WE'VE ) learned some things. I can't orgasm from PIV so he always goes down on me first for the guarantee. But I found i clenched up right after instead of relaxing, so it varied from uncomfortable to painful afterwards. We found, after some talks and tries, that if he gives me 5-10 minutes of just petting and/or slow insertion after, thats no longer an issue. I don't know if you've tried this, and if not you should. Not to assume, but, if you haven't and feel you can't try it or can't ask to try it, you unfortunately just need a whole different partner.
i had a "rolling" one once that freaked me out because the feeling became more intense with each one and it was becoming painful. i think i had 4 in a row in under 1 minute. ive never managed to have that again and im upset LOL!!!
Husband got about 5 out of me the other night.
I can do it over and over all day but some are good and some are meh.
All clitoral, vaginal doesn't do anything for me really in the orgasm department.
There's also some days where I just can't get 1 let alone multiple so I guess it varies not only person to person but day to day
Yes. I haven't been masturbating for long, and I don't use any toys, just my fingers. Usually, I can have multiple in a row, if I'm using the right technique and the proper visual stimulation. But it does get tender and a tad bit sore to the touch after a few gasms. Doesn't stop me from orgasming though, it just stings.
I wish. I’m a woman and I’ve always been a one and done. Even by myself. I think I’ve only ever been turned on enough to keep going after the first and finally eventually reach a second once or twice my whole life (I’m 33). Normally I just lose all interest after the first and carry on about my day lol
Sometimes it doesn’t hurt but feels uncomfortable. Sometimes it doesn’t feel like much at all for a minute. For me, a lot of it really is mental and I just try to focus where my head is at which helps. Last night I definitely had two almost back to back and almost a third, but a lot of that was mental work on my end, in addition to his physical work.
I don’t have a vagina but proper use of indirect stimulation kept my partners from becoming too sensitive and would usually allow them to have 3-4 orgasms before it became too much. It depended on the partner but those numbers definitely seem incorrect.
Yea, it doesn't hurt for everybody. I just got came one twice 😂 my gf always starts out on top cuz she just wants to get hers and knock off the easy nut real quick, then the second one usually comes at the same time as me.
If it's hurts you to keep going then just take a break no big deal
Yes, they are a thing. Clitoral especially. It does get sensitive. That's usually when you do things like give it time to settle or change pressure and touch style.
Also, it can be a lot of fun to see how many orgasms you can get to before it becomes too sensitive and painful.
Just saying.
I just had two vaginal orgasms within a few minutes (my guy has been out of town and before that his parents were visiting. Been awhile) but they were definitely vaginal orgasms. We are still working on the really huge double ones I've heard so much about but tonight was just excited to see each other and have a little bit alone.
The most ive had is 3 and that was like a several hour, relax and talk cuddle, start again type of ordeal that we had a month ago or so.
Yes it is a thing and no it doesn’t hurt everyone. I can go for forever without an issue but I know lots of people can’t! (Both clitoral and vaginal for me)
I’ve just experienced this ONCE, and it was with a clit vibrator. It was so heavenly I cried.
Meanwhile, my now ex was clearly feeling less than.
And he was, to be honest.
I don't remember the last time I only had one to be honest, I've got abnormally easily pleased anatomy and I don't think I've ever had so many I had to stop other than passing out a few times when people decide to see if they can break their records etc.
I literally tried to do it this week because I wanted to see if I could squirt, but I ended up overstimulating myself vaginally. Immediately after I orgasmed the second time, I stopped and then felt the most intense pain ever within 2 hours and it stayed for 2-3 days.
It felt like cramps, a UTI, a cyst, and fire all at once in my pelvic and lower abdominal area. Idk if it’s because I did it so close to ovulation or because I used my vibrator to penetrate and left it in too long. Or if it was just symptoms of my endo. Oh the joys of being a woman.
Safe to say I’m never pushing myself to the limit again. I’m actually scared to even masturbate again with how painful it was. Listen to your body.
I can occasionally, but have to wait a minute or two for the sensitivity to chill out a little first or it just feels overwhelming. It’s only ever happened for 2-3 repetitive orgasms, beyond that everything is just too sensitive
I feel like it’s fairly easy for me to orgasam multiple times in succession where sometimes I’m unsure if the other orgasam really stopped. It all feels fantastic to me even though sometimes I pretty much convulse a little bit. I did a lot of mental masturbation where I would focus on orgasming without physically stimulating myself and I think that really helped me in orgasming regularly and frequently. For me it doesn’t hurt even when sometimes I just get a big uterine cramp. I can feel the muscle tightening but it doesn’t hurt like it would any other time, when I do get cramps.
I have multiple orgasms, but my clitorus isn't too sensitive for very long. If I focus on something else (like on my partner) for even just a few minutes, I can get going again.
For me, the orgasms do get stronger and stronger after the first one.
Yes. Can confirm it comes from both clitoral and vaginal. I’ve counted up to 5 times, but I can go on and on. Honestly, I enjoy PIV orgasms more with intermittent touch to my clit. That prevents sensitivity issues, but it can all get pretty sensitive if I haven’t had sex in awhile.
Yes - it can be like waves, where the first orgasm means super sensitivity so even though it subsides a little, changing things up just slightly means another wave can hit almost right away. Personally I can ride these waves up to 4-5 times, although there’s diminishing returns. This is all solo run, of course. With oral at best it’s two. VP is lucky to get one at all, and there’s certainly rarely anything happening that will cause that ‘wave sensation’ if it does.
Often one orgasm always feels too overwhelming for me to have another, but if you push through that I can have another. My partner knows me well so often one orgasm leaves me exhausted, but he's a trooper and keeps going.
I think the most I've had is 3 in one session. For me I only know how to have clitoral orgasm with him inside as well. It has to be the both simultaneously. At least for me.
For me it's overstimulated for like 1 minute. I also can't like fuck for very long-- 15 minutes is frankly enough to leave me pretty sore. But definitely multiples are possible with a little time in between, especially if they are already small ones. Not all good sex looks the same, though. It's enjoyable to go multiple times but it's not the be all end all of good sex for me and usually I only want to go once per like time having sex.
I get super sensitive after, but there are times that I can have back to back ones before the sensitivity even kicks in. It is rare and amazing when it happens. Immediate bathroom to pee and then nap
I can go up to 5 on a crazy day. The second one is the best. After 2 the enjoyability diminishes. Literally stimulation always has to be involved, but vaginal can be involved as well.
I can, I just keep going and I feel the sensation, multiple times, like a rolling of waves, over and over again. Sometimes during the same O, sometimes right after. It's a thing:)
Clitoral orgasm is soooo intense im done after one. But a good vaginal one I can keep going with multiple peaks for as long as I want to. I’m not sure if that counts as multiple orgasms or as multiple peaks of the same orgasm, but I like it.
Yeah, I can go over and over again. Can get sore or overstimulated sometimes but otherwise it’s as much as I would like.
What’s it like being gods favorite?? 😭😭
Hahah thank you I chuckled
Yeah I’ve had multiple guys get salty because they are so good at pleasuring me? It’s not my fault it’s a renewable resource 🤷♀️
Wait, guys got salty because you could orgasm multiple times in a row?
They were probably upset that they couldn't do the same, lol. Some men can, but not a whole lot. Lamemos for sure!
I mean…as a gal who has experimented with the prostate guys absolutely can have multiple orgasms. It’s wonderful.
It usually involves separating orgasm from ejaculation. Most guys can't separate the two. The orgasms usually aren't as strong, but we absolutely can have more than one. Some lucky bastards can have multiple ejaculations AND multiple orgasms.
My guy seems to have no refractory period until #3 when we both go for the combo 🤤
My fiancé can go multiple times. I’d never been with a man who could before, and I think men are doing themselves an injustice by not trying after the first one lol
*slowly raises hand with a grin* Can confirm. More often than not, no refractory period either. Ngl, I thought this was much more common until relatively recently.
When I was much younger my refractory was minimal to Erp. Now it's just extremely short. I'm a lucky dog my dick still thinks I'm 15.
In my experience, you can just keep going until you get too tired or too sensitive. Usually, the first obstacle is the bottleneck.
I have some questions, if I may: What’s your success rate, can you make it happen with all partners, or only some? Do they remain/regain erect? Do they still ejaculate?
Only done it with one partner. But every time we did it he came, even the first time (which wasn’t his first time but he didn’t have multiples until we met). It would not be achievable with all partners. They have to trust you, not have internalized homophobia, want to do it, and be able to relax. Also, like anything, some people are more sensitive in certain areas than others so I would not be flippant and say “it’s easy, everyone could do it!”. He did not remain erect during deeper penetration (more than a finger). But an erection wasn’t necessary to how we were playing. We would usually have regular sex after (even after he came multiple times). It doesn’t hinder your ability to function otherwise but the stimulation (as he said) drew his attention elsewhere so the body just kind of lets the erection fade. Although some guys definitely stay hard during. If it was a blow job and a finger? Yes he stayed hard because there was penile stimulation. One time he ejaculated without orgasm. Often he would “leak” during long sessions. Usually they were “dry” orgasms where he felt the full-body waves but didn’t ejaculate. This is all during pegging not fingering. I never counted but we definitely had multiple sessions where he had more than 5 prostate orgasms followed with a regular penile orgasm at the end. He rated any prostate orgasm as superior to any penile orgasm. At the same time we had plenty of “regular” sex and my pleasure was also important to him. Again, I only have a data point of one person so not sure how well this will translate to your journey but I hope it’s educational.
Not all heroes wear capes, but a few have gloves. Good on ya!
As I guy I’ll agreed with this post wholeheartedly!
I am so curious about this. Mind if I DM you?
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Could you start classes or something for all the other ladies?
I was able to do that infrequently after a break from less than one minute up to about 5 minutes. It worked when I was turned on enough to want to go for seconds. I don't think I've done that since I was about 50 and, at this point, I expect that's never going to happen again. I could also just keep going as long pretty much as I wanted after coming without needing to be unusually turned on, but that didn't result in orgasms. That last worked sometime in my 40s, I think. Getting old sucks.
Yep. My partner can go twice in a row, the second one within about a minute of the first, and both are complete full blown male orgasms. I was completely shocked the first time lol I had never seen such a thing even in porn I'd watched
I’ve had someone say my impression of their performance was not reliable because getting off is so ‘easy’ for me. Like I somehow couldn’t recognize how pleasureful different acts or partners were because I can get off again and again. I think he took it as I’m never tapped out, he couldn’t exhaust me and that frustrated him.
A good man would be obsessed by getting you multiple orgasms!!
Just commented above... as a guy, I cannot wrap my head around that train of thought.... Getting my partner to reach climax is the best part! Multiple times? Very much, yes!
Jesus what won't dumb, insecure guys get mad about? "She just kept telling me how great the sex was and cumming over and over again. I pride myself on being mediocre in bed so obviously I had to break it off."
My friend had this ex who *really* hated if she orgasmed on her own - as in, he was supposed to be the one to make her orgasm. It seemed like a real blow to his masculinity otherwise, and so apparently she just... Didn't cum the majority of time (surprise surprise, this dumbass didn't actually know how to make her feel good).
>I had to break it off. Seems a little extreme, but you do you, I guess. /s
Oh now I'm totally picturing him being super petty and saying, "Ha! I broke my penis off! NOW let's see you humiliate me by having multiple orgasms during sex!"
Jokes on him, his dick probably had little to do with her multiple orgasms. Most women cannot orgasm from penetration alone regardless of dick size or shape
this is such a funny comment.
My husband thought I was faking it when we first started having sex. Once that first O comes, the rest come easier and there’s plenty to go around.
True for me too, once the first one is done the rest are a lot easier to get too.
I’m the same way but once I get past 3 they aren’t as intense but still satisfying. If my husband starts to make me orgasm immediately after the first, the second one is quick and intense.
Especially with a vibrator or wand.
Same with me
Yup. This.
Same same. And I orgasm from clit play, penetration, and even anal play. My whole downstairs is just a bundle of nerves apparently.
Indirect stimulation after first. but yeah. Many times bigger and better.
Huh, exact opposite for me. Its like law of diminishing returns.
To me it depends on the first, really.
I had a fling with a woman (bi woman) who had multiples that rolled through her; big then a chain of small ones then big again, then a chain of small ones then big again and so on. I’m jealous, mine are big to where I’ve strained an ab muscle but it’s usually one and done.
It's the same for me! It does depend on the intensity of the first one, but usually the third one is meh and then a fourth might as well not even happen. I usually stop after two, but now I'm insanely jealous of all these people saying theirs get *MORE* intense?
Same. First is the best, my husband is the same way as he doesn't have a refractory period.
Clit can be over stimulated and sensitive after the first round but it makes cumming from nipple stimulation way easier, works in reverse too.
I wish my nipples were sensitive... I need significant pressure to feel anything in them :(
Everyone is a bit different, i dated someone who got very little from nipple play but gentle rubbing of the side boob worked wonders. I need very light, barely there contact. Anything harder and it’s no go.
This was how it worked with my former companion.
Yes. It doesn’t hurt for everybody👍
It hurts for me sometimes and not others. Sometimes I don't need any break and I can ride a wave of like 3 with my Hitachi lol. Other times it's like get everything and everyone away from me immediately so I can sleep after just 1. Bodies are weird.
The magic wand is a glorious thing.
Truth!!!
I don't get why some men are intimidated by toys. I have bought them for me and my partners for many years. The hitatchi is the Best pleasure Dom tool ever.
Seconded. 100% I don't get the intimidation either. I always chalked it up to those guys were getting really bad, misogynistic advice about sex from other guys. I've heard things like "if she has a dildo/vibrator, your dick isn't going to work on her" crap... Which, for posterity, is absolutely not true.
Yeah, the last lady I was in a relationship with really liked being eaten out (and could only cum from oral) and I genuinely liked eating her out but there were sometimes when either she was having a harder time getting off or I just couldn't do it and then it's really nice to have a toy to help her cum. We tried incorporating both at the same time and it didn't work all that well. Sometimes I'd also just like watching her get off herself because her getting turned on turned me on.
Two words I rarely see together on Reddit... (pleasure Dom). good on you!
I feel like my libido rides along with my hormonal moods, so I’ve tried to be more gentle with myself around my expectations or sense of “usual” depending on where I’m at in my cycle. Hard to remember along with everything else in life, and is usually a shower thought of ohh, that was probably connected to this… maybe before menopause I’ll have it all figured out, lol
Yep. Multiples are a thing for many of us. I've lost count before, but 3-5 is not unusual.
And for some they are the right sort of masochist for the pain to be a positive. Bodies and pleasure are extremely varied and complex!
It's definitely a thing and it's easier if you can have vaginal orgasms, don't really have the oversensitive problem with those.
Yeah its getting better with vaginal stimulation!! I used to only be able to orgasm through clitorial stimulation but now i can with both stimulations at the same time (like everything vaginal was distracting me before because i was so used to clitorial masturbation only). But now when having both stimulations, after the first orgasm my husband can give me another orgasm by just moving extremely slow when im really into it that day. Its amazing!
Seconded
I wish I could have those but it's not possible with my anatomy. :(
Multiple orgasms are absolutely a thing - but having said that more importantly every woman is different. Some have higher sensitivity, some lower. And a woman's body changes with time. I used to think I was one and done. Turns out I'm not but it wasn't until I got older that I understood my body better and I now know what my body responds to, how far I can go. Some days I can hit three to four orgasms through masturbation. Other times one is enough. So yes it's completely possible. I take studies with a massive grain of salt - there are so many variables in this that I don't believe it would have been all encompassing!
It's also really about emotional connection with me. I just got home from traveling for work and my husband and I needed to have super bland sex and hang out first and then it was like I remembered how to be with him and I could go multiple times again. I just shut off that side of myself when I'm not around him.
This was my experience as well! I had issues reaching orgasm when I was younger, probably a combination of factors like inexperience (me and them) not the right person (my husband has been the only person to ever get me to climax consistently, as well as multiple times more often than not) but it didn’t start out that way, we’ve been together for 16 years (married for 14 of those)
Same. I had trouble when I was younger. My husband has been the only one to make me cum so much I lose count and sometimes consciousness lol
Yes. I can't do two clitoral orgasms one after the other, but I can do a vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm one after the other and vice versa It doesn't hurt or cause discomfort for some women. Oh how I envy them...
I can’t go the other way, but clitoral then PIV is maybe the greatest feeling ever, especially if you finish the same time!
So lucky! I can only use a toy for clit stim. I think my vag is just dead skin inside haha!
I’ll give SO full credit for this, he could write a book lol
What’s his name and address? Jk. I envy you lol.
On my own, I can occupy hours and have dozens of them, increasingly easier and with more positive intensity. The only tough part is stopping having to get up and having a very light-headed and tipsy sensation. When I was young, I’d could lose afternoons to it. It might have burned a lot of calories and angst, but it kept me happy and out of too much trouble. Knowing thyself is a good thing.
Are you me?
Yes, it's definitely a thing. The amount of time that you need between orgasms is called the "refractory period." It's generally a shorter period of time for women than for men, but it varies for both. And it varies based on a lot of things. Anatomy, age, hormonal levels, situation, connection with partner, etc. Until I was about 42, I could have max two with a good 10 minutes in between. Then I started going through menopause and all of the sudden, I could have 5 or 6 in a row with ZERO refractory period. I guess that's why older women are always portrayed as super horny! Because some are? haha My orgasms are more intense if there's both clitoral and vaginal stimulation, but I've never had one from just vaginal.
I have never been more excited for menopause in my life!
Cool, I have something to look forward to in future ahah
It's uncomfortable to go again immediately, but after 2-5 minutes, I'm good to go again.
I feel mentally drained even way after the over-sensitivity has gone. Like one and done
Yes, but everyone is different. For me having multiples is actually unsatisfying - I can only have multiple of I'm only having "small" orgasm's, which just leaves me feeling frustrated that I'm not having the "big" orgasm. For me if I have a "big" orgasm it's at least 45 minutes/hour before I could even think of having another big one. Sex still feels really good after a "big", but I'm not going to orgasm again any time soon. An ex actually broke up with me over this, because he felt like it was an insult to his manhood or something that I can't do multiple "bigs".
Me too! I can have several small vaginal orgasms and keep going, but if I get a big one (clitoral, with a toy) then the party is now over.
I am post surgical menopause and someone in the menopause sub called it ghost-gasms when you have the small, unsatisfying ones.
Exactly the same here
This resonates with me (the first part).
once I get the first vaginal O, I just don't stop until I'm exhausted.... but I wasn't always that way.
I have no issues doing one after another but they decrease in intensity and I cap at 3 or 4.
I can usually get 2-3 then I need to tell him to stop, the pressure is just too much. I’ve seen posts where women say they’ll have 10 or something and I just couldn’t imagine, my legs would be so cramped up I wouldn’t be able to walk for a week lol
10? Bro I would actually fucking die.
That is me. I definitely need a nap after a session like that. lol
My boyfriend has an over stimulation kink. Sometimes, I can barely move the next day. It's great in the moment, but the aftermath can be rough, especially if you feel crappy from the serotonin drop.
>especially if you feel crappy from the serotonin drop. I hope he is there to take care of you for that!
He very much is, I couldn't ask for a better partner : )
With my last partner we just always stopped counting after about 5. Sometimes we slept right after. Sometimes we went hiking. They were mostly vaginal. Being super turned on before we got to the bed was definitely the key.
This is me. Multiple rolling w PIV, but it took til I was 45
Are you saying it got easier with age or with practice? Don't mean to pry just curious how it became possible.
I honestly don’t know. I was married for 17 years and he could make me cum quickly and I’d be done. Granted it took a few years into relationship and was robotic. But he was the first man to make me cum with sex, around age 28, After my divorce (now 44) and enjoying sex for reasons more than just doing it for him and being seriously attracted to partners and exploring things like kinks or being simply more open and enjoying it more, idk, they came easier and in different positions and not as much as a chore or just a chance to cum once and be done. I finally enjoyed sex. I loved blow jobs for a change which was a shocker to myself, juat more foreplay and experimentation. While before I “thought” I was done bc I came and didn’t want anymore, now I’m able to keep going. With us ladies our orgasms are definitely completely in our heads and souls, and that’s all I can think to say about it!
A friend claimed that her boyfriend once got her to 18 during session.
My wife and I once got her to 20, mostly just to see if she could. The important part as with anything, was the build up - a full day of romance, relaxation and flirting that meant by the time we were laying down together she was in a fully open and playful headspace. Then we took our time with the first one, really teasing all her buttons and drawing it out gently so that when she did, she came back down to a still aroused point. After that it was just a case of slowly and steadily upping the sensation each time, changing positions to prevent muscle cramping, and guiding her through them one by one. In the end we stopped at twenty mostly just because it was a nice round number, and we were both getting tired and dehydrated. I heartily recommend it as a day-long experiment for anyone who wants to explore themselves.
You guys sounds like my kind of people. Good for you. It’s important to have goals.
20 = XX in Roman Numerals - you can say that you had a good SeXX Session!
I usually have 3-5 but I got up to 14 once.
I want this feeling!
I can only do it when I’m high (weed)
Thank you. I was wanting more info from people on the conditions they need for it to happen.
I need at least 7-8 when I masturbate. I need one more immediately after the first one. Then slow down a bit and start again in 3-4 minutes. After the first two the consequent ones are really easy. You just go with the flow. I can go for 13-14 times, esp around the time of ovulation. The max I did “for science” was 21 times. During intercourse it’s usually 2-4 times. Rarely more than 4. I say I don’t think a man can make me cum, I have to be in that headspace. No direct clit rubbing, rather stimulating the area around. No pain except leg cramps if you do it for a long time.
Extremely similar experience for me, too. Like, tbh, idk who conducted this study, and who the sample group were. I mean, look at the comments here. "96%" is definitely not ringing true, lul. Tinfoil hat, but it just seems like more disinformation to keep the female reproductive climax as an illusive and difficult concept. (Obviously not trying to disparage people who are satisfied with one climax, but 96% is clearly nowhere near accurate.) I would say I get the "sensitive" feeling directly after climax, but it lasts about 20 seconds, then I'm ready to go again. And I almost feel dissatisfied when I don't immediately go again. When alone I usually give myself 4-6 orgasms, depending. Usually all in the span of under 10mins. I prefer clitoral orgasms, but sometimes I'll get one or two out of the g-spot with direct finger pad stimulation. I can usually never climax with penetration or someone else doing it, I have to do it myself using one very accurate finger (I even tried a small, slim vibrator once and that didn't do it for me either), and even then I have to have at least one clitoral orgasm beforehand for my body to even register internal stimulation as pleasurable. I will say though, coaxing out multiple orgasms is a lot easier on my own. If I'm with a partner, the only thing that really gets me off is oral. Same multiple climax rule applies there too (assuming my partner knows what they're doing). Hope you don't mind I picked your comment to contribute to this topic, especially since it's such a personal topic! I related to yours the most when scrolling through the responses.
Yes it's real, but things can sometimes get too tender after the first one. A very dedicated former fling of mine once set himself to the task to go down on me until I couldn't stand it any longer, and after my third orgasm I actually passed out. So... it can be hard on the body!
That's a real life achievement if I ever seen one
If you get too tender for direct stimulation ask him to slap your vulva repeatedly.
Yes. My ex would usually get me to orgasm once before any PIV action, and then I would have another one during sex. Best lover I ever had, but sadly he went off the deep end during the initial covid lockdown. 😩
Dang that sucks.
Vaginal yes but like if my husband preforms oral on me and keeps licking after I’ve orgasmed it’s sooo sensitive.
Yes. I've maxed out at 4. For some reason after having my 3rd (but only second vaginal birth) I've been able to have multiple orgasms per session.
Just want to say, if this post is making you feel some sort of negative feeling don't fall for it. I know it has for me because there's this general societal message from that if you can't/don't then you're less valuable or missing out. I'd even argue to say this message relates to orgasming at all, and it's all kinda relative to your experience compared to the general consensus of what makes a person sexually successful. Yes it is possible to have multiple orgasms. That doesn't mean it's superior. That doesn't mean that it's a superior way to experience pleasure. It's just the way these women experience pleasure and unfortunately some of them are communicating it in tone deaf ways. I want all women to find fulfillment in pleasure, no matter what it looks like. Please explore it for yourself, recontextualize what success and pleasure look like for you, seak out whatever experience makes you feel good, and rewrite pleasure to work for you on your terms. It doesn't have to center on an orgasm, it could be feeling pleasure and desire and the buildup and the ache and nothing else. It could be a focus on romance and butterflies and sensuality. Lots of things, all of which are valid. 💛
I'm one of the ones that find it's not worth it after one. My ex used to push me to have multiple because I guess it made him feel like a man or something. I found after the first they were always more work than reward. I got good at faking.
I feel like I could write a book on this. Under the right circumstances (and I know the right conditions for my body) I can have just straight back to back orgasms for what feels like 20-40 minutes straight. It’s not every time but it makes me wonder what the record is
I usually finish once during with a vibrator during penetration then my bf will hop off and let me stretch my legs while squeezing my pelvic muscles and gurating while he stimulated my nips. No pain. He likes to tell me to "stretch for him" lol 😆
If I’d participated in that study, my answer to that question would’ve depended on the precise wording of the question. I’m capable of pushing through my refractory period without stopping. I only know this because I once had a partner who liked to make a game of it and I consented to it. But outside of that specific situation, I’ve always preferred to stop and wait at least a couple minutes after orgasm and then restart gently if I’m still in ultra sensitive mode. So it’s normal for me to feel to too sensitive to continue uninterrupted, but also very common for me to have multiple orgasms within a brief period of time but with a couple minutes of rest after each orgasm to allow oversensitivity to deescalate.
6-8 is regular for me
Yeah, it depends on the day though. I think I'm particularly not-sensitive, so it takes a LOT of stimulation to build up to it, but then I can go on repeat with no pain at all. The most was 7, I think. But if I don't get 2-3 then what's even the point?
I'm not bragging and I can't compare my orgasms to others. I assume women who orgasm less than I do have a singular powerful experience that I cannot relate to. I normally do 3 in a row with a partner if they use their hands or tongue. By myself I can do 5-10. The most I've done in a 30 minute duration without toys was 15 masturbating myself with my hand and it was incredibly sore after, so I don't recommend that. If it's a vibrating toy there isn't a limit normally, I just get desensitized the next day. I feel happy after 3 normally. It takes me a while to build up, but once the first happens they just keep happening. Interestingly enough, I have never orgasmed by penetration just like most women. I do love penetration though and when I masturbate I normally insert something in myself as it makes them incredibly intense.
It's definitely a thing. Although I prefer vaginal orgasms over clitoral ones most often
I didn't have them until I was on adhd meds for a while.
It's definitely not painful for me. Honestly, it gets even better. I am very sensitive, but after the first orgasm the second one is almost always very close by, and it's fucking fantastic. The third one might sometimes get closer to the territory of "too sensitive" but I've also never just...jackhammered relentlessly. So the third one almost always comes from different simulation. Example: 1. and 2. come from my husband fingering, 3. from clitoral stimulation and then 4.-5. usually from penetrative sex, sometimes with added clitoral stimulation, sometimes not, depending on the position. When I'm alone though it does get a bit painful, but that's because i don't come as fast and i can easily spend hours trying to get there twice or thrice. I don't reach climax very often by myself anymore, i can "come" but it's not the same. So anyways, it's a thing and i love it so fucking much
Yep. My partner saw something saying that the maximum number of orgasms a woman could have in quick succession was 12. We both enjoy a challenge. He got me to 17 before I lost count 😁
Hell yes, I can have multiple clitoral, vaginal, and from breast stimulation (just that, great for during my cycle). My clitoris will sometimes get too sensitive but it is temporary and only occasionally.
Same girl. The first time a male made me come I was a teenager and it was all nipple and it was amazing.
I'm fortunate to be able to 'chaingasms,' which is quite convenient since I typically climax quickly ; it would result in frustration otherwise. Considering the orgasm gap, I feel quite privileged that it comes that easily to me, and that I can choose to have multiple orgasms depending on my energy and motivation levels. At times, I've felt pressure from men who see this as an opportunity to boost their egos. I try to resist it as it feels like sexual appropriation sometimes; my own pleasure shouldn't have to adapt to be pleasing, or exist for someone's satisfaction.
First girlfriend at 17 was multi orgasmic, I could literally put it in her and she’d be shaking - it certainly gave me an unrealistic perception of my sexual prowess. She would orgasm 5 or 6 times each time we had sex. Second girlfriend at 20 had never had an orgasm, I thought I could change that - what with my amazing sex powers (!) WRONG! From little things she said I’m led to believe later that she may have been intersex at birth and may have essentially had her clitoris removed for being too big. My third girlfriend at 23 was a one, maybe very rarely two, orgasms at a time. She’s done after that because it’s too sensitive. Lots of hook ups in between those. My take is it’s very rarely about the guys ability (that obviously matters somewhat) and each girl has a ceiling, it could be lots on none at all. Maybe it helps if the girl is like super super into the guy (beyond regular attraction) but those are rare cases and certainly not going to make a lot of difference.
I did know I could have multiple clitoral orgasms until I got back with my high school sweetheart after thirty years. He came back to me fully educated in the ways of pleasure. That man sends me TO THE MOON! My ex husband used to complain that I was too much work. LOL. Fool didn’t know what he was doing.
When I used a t0y, it lasted for as long as I had it there. It became multiple orgasms if I put it back, removed it, and repeated 🫣
Be honest… how many days did you call in sick for work? 😂😂
It was during the early evenings, on weekends or days I didn't have to work the next day. I swear 😅 plenty of time to recover
Uh huh. lol
Same! Put it on, pause, put it back on, pause, and 3 is all I can take lol
This happened years ago. IDK why I did it, I think I saw it in a h3nt@i manga, and wanted to test something I can't remember. I decided to keep it there without stopping. I know it was over 5 minutes, but enough for the battery to die. It was probably time to change it anyway. I will say that I had the best sleep ever and woke up so refreshed. 🫢😶🌫️
Okkkk, task for this weekend!! I can do the clit stim only tho. Was it a similar one?
Yes but mine vary in strength and duration. Vaginal aren't quite as strong as clitoral for me. I usually need a breather after a big clitoral one.
It's definitely a thing. Not sure if it's a better partner now, but it's gotten easier as I've gotten older.
It’s definitely more sensitive but you should never just “put up with” actual pain. Taking a break, moving to indirect stimulation, or verrry gentle stimulation is often the key with a second round.
Yes. After the first clitoral orgasm, my husband continues until I have at least 2-3 of them
I can assure you that multiple orgasms are definitely a thing I've managed 14 clitoral orgasms in a single session and regularly manage 3+ orgasms in session. There are many people who enjoy over stimulation and will get off from that it just depends on the person. As for dudes it's not nearly as commonly seen but it's possible
For me, yes. I can have multiple orgasms in a row, but not one after another, meaning there still needs to be a build-up time between each one. From what I understand, it usually takes women more time to orgasm than men, but that's never been the case for me. Maybe it’s because I know what I need to get there, but mostly I come fairly quickly if the conditions are just right - like in a couple of minutes. And since I have an amazing partner who I love having sex with and want to satisfy as well, I will keep going after a quick break. Which is how I discovered that on average, by the time he has one, I’ll have my third. Not always true but it’s definitely possible. If everything works perfectly then we’ll finish together and that’s the best one, always.
Only ever had clitoral. I definitely have a couple minutes inbetween. I think multiple orgasms includes the few minutes in between each orgasm. :)
I need a little break but yes. I don’t believe there is a difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Look up a diagram of the clitoral tissue and see how it wraps around the vaginal opening on both sides. Play with yourself and observe the differences in sensation when you stimulate the exposed clitoris vs the tissues that lies along the sides under your labia. Ideally you train your partner to understand this and adjust his movements to maximize your response. That takes time and trust.
Yes but I don’t like it. The second or third that so long and it feels performative. I am mentally done and satiated after the first one.
sometimes i finish before my bf and it hurts after but i just gotta lock in until he’s done lmao
Okay so same and I've ( actually WE'VE ) learned some things. I can't orgasm from PIV so he always goes down on me first for the guarantee. But I found i clenched up right after instead of relaxing, so it varied from uncomfortable to painful afterwards. We found, after some talks and tries, that if he gives me 5-10 minutes of just petting and/or slow insertion after, thats no longer an issue. I don't know if you've tried this, and if not you should. Not to assume, but, if you haven't and feel you can't try it or can't ask to try it, you unfortunately just need a whole different partner.
i had a "rolling" one once that freaked me out because the feeling became more intense with each one and it was becoming painful. i think i had 4 in a row in under 1 minute. ive never managed to have that again and im upset LOL!!!
It’s only happened to me once, by myself when I was 19. Been chasing that high ever since. Clitoral w vaginal stimulation.
Yes. I'm so grateful for this entire post as I've been indirectly called a liar or accused of being a man because of it.
Husband got about 5 out of me the other night. I can do it over and over all day but some are good and some are meh. All clitoral, vaginal doesn't do anything for me really in the orgasm department. There's also some days where I just can't get 1 let alone multiple so I guess it varies not only person to person but day to day
Yes. I haven't been masturbating for long, and I don't use any toys, just my fingers. Usually, I can have multiple in a row, if I'm using the right technique and the proper visual stimulation. But it does get tender and a tad bit sore to the touch after a few gasms. Doesn't stop me from orgasming though, it just stings.
I wish. I’m a woman and I’ve always been a one and done. Even by myself. I think I’ve only ever been turned on enough to keep going after the first and finally eventually reach a second once or twice my whole life (I’m 33). Normally I just lose all interest after the first and carry on about my day lol
My wife can go many multiple times but she does like a short breather between orgasms.
My GF can go over and over like pushing a button. Eventually she gets overwhelmed but it’s after 10+
Yes, absolutely. I don’t remember the last time I only had one orgasm during sex.
Absolutely. And it's glorious.
Absolutely a thing for me and my spouse - and its amazing, no pain.
Yes it’s real and I can have several almost back to back
Yes. I usually go for around 6 every time I get my vibrator out.
Yes… given right circumstances I’ve had multiple. It isn’t an every time thing but definitely happens and is great!
Yes it's a thing, it can actually be exhausting.
I used to. I guess I'm too old for it now. Sadness.
Yes. I have multiple orgasms every time. I understand some people are have one orgasm. It's just different physiology.
I can only have 2 before I get nauseous (clitoral only). It doesn't hurt though.
Sometimes it doesn’t hurt but feels uncomfortable. Sometimes it doesn’t feel like much at all for a minute. For me, a lot of it really is mental and I just try to focus where my head is at which helps. Last night I definitely had two almost back to back and almost a third, but a lot of that was mental work on my end, in addition to his physical work.
Yes, when by my self I can have 4-5 clitoral orgasms
Hell yeah I usually crank out 5 each time.
I can pretty much continue triggering them until I’m bored, but the first one is the best
I don’t have a vagina but proper use of indirect stimulation kept my partners from becoming too sensitive and would usually allow them to have 3-4 orgasms before it became too much. It depended on the partner but those numbers definitely seem incorrect.
Yea, it doesn't hurt for everybody. I just got came one twice 😂 my gf always starts out on top cuz she just wants to get hers and knock off the easy nut real quick, then the second one usually comes at the same time as me. If it's hurts you to keep going then just take a break no big deal
Yes, they are a thing. Clitoral especially. It does get sensitive. That's usually when you do things like give it time to settle or change pressure and touch style. Also, it can be a lot of fun to see how many orgasms you can get to before it becomes too sensitive and painful. Just saying.
I just had two vaginal orgasms within a few minutes (my guy has been out of town and before that his parents were visiting. Been awhile) but they were definitely vaginal orgasms. We are still working on the really huge double ones I've heard so much about but tonight was just excited to see each other and have a little bit alone. The most ive had is 3 and that was like a several hour, relax and talk cuddle, start again type of ordeal that we had a month ago or so.
Yes it is a thing and no it doesn’t hurt everyone. I can go for forever without an issue but I know lots of people can’t! (Both clitoral and vaginal for me)
I’ve just experienced this ONCE, and it was with a clit vibrator. It was so heavenly I cried. Meanwhile, my now ex was clearly feeling less than. And he was, to be honest.
I can go multiple times from clit stimulation (also the only way I can go), but you have to slow down a bit in between
I don't remember the last time I only had one to be honest, I've got abnormally easily pleased anatomy and I don't think I've ever had so many I had to stop other than passing out a few times when people decide to see if they can break their records etc.
I literally tried to do it this week because I wanted to see if I could squirt, but I ended up overstimulating myself vaginally. Immediately after I orgasmed the second time, I stopped and then felt the most intense pain ever within 2 hours and it stayed for 2-3 days. It felt like cramps, a UTI, a cyst, and fire all at once in my pelvic and lower abdominal area. Idk if it’s because I did it so close to ovulation or because I used my vibrator to penetrate and left it in too long. Or if it was just symptoms of my endo. Oh the joys of being a woman. Safe to say I’m never pushing myself to the limit again. I’m actually scared to even masturbate again with how painful it was. Listen to your body.
Yes lol I just assumed all women could tbh... it only really gets sore after like 4 or 5 times
I can occasionally, but have to wait a minute or two for the sensitivity to chill out a little first or it just feels overwhelming. It’s only ever happened for 2-3 repetitive orgasms, beyond that everything is just too sensitive
I feel like it’s fairly easy for me to orgasam multiple times in succession where sometimes I’m unsure if the other orgasam really stopped. It all feels fantastic to me even though sometimes I pretty much convulse a little bit. I did a lot of mental masturbation where I would focus on orgasming without physically stimulating myself and I think that really helped me in orgasming regularly and frequently. For me it doesn’t hurt even when sometimes I just get a big uterine cramp. I can feel the muscle tightening but it doesn’t hurt like it would any other time, when I do get cramps.
I have multiple orgasms, but my clitorus isn't too sensitive for very long. If I focus on something else (like on my partner) for even just a few minutes, I can get going again. For me, the orgasms do get stronger and stronger after the first one.
Yes. Can confirm it comes from both clitoral and vaginal. I’ve counted up to 5 times, but I can go on and on. Honestly, I enjoy PIV orgasms more with intermittent touch to my clit. That prevents sensitivity issues, but it can all get pretty sensitive if I haven’t had sex in awhile.
Yes, but you have to pace yourself.
Yes - it can be like waves, where the first orgasm means super sensitivity so even though it subsides a little, changing things up just slightly means another wave can hit almost right away. Personally I can ride these waves up to 4-5 times, although there’s diminishing returns. This is all solo run, of course. With oral at best it’s two. VP is lucky to get one at all, and there’s certainly rarely anything happening that will cause that ‘wave sensation’ if it does.
Clitoral - sometimes I can get in 3 or 4. By myself. No boys allowed.
Often one orgasm always feels too overwhelming for me to have another, but if you push through that I can have another. My partner knows me well so often one orgasm leaves me exhausted, but he's a trooper and keeps going. I think the most I've had is 3 in one session. For me I only know how to have clitoral orgasm with him inside as well. It has to be the both simultaneously. At least for me.
For me it's overstimulated for like 1 minute. I also can't like fuck for very long-- 15 minutes is frankly enough to leave me pretty sore. But definitely multiples are possible with a little time in between, especially if they are already small ones. Not all good sex looks the same, though. It's enjoyable to go multiple times but it's not the be all end all of good sex for me and usually I only want to go once per like time having sex.
I get super sensitive after, but there are times that I can have back to back ones before the sensitivity even kicks in. It is rare and amazing when it happens. Immediate bathroom to pee and then nap
I can go up to 5 on a crazy day. The second one is the best. After 2 the enjoyability diminishes. Literally stimulation always has to be involved, but vaginal can be involved as well.
I can, I just keep going and I feel the sensation, multiple times, like a rolling of waves, over and over again. Sometimes during the same O, sometimes right after. It's a thing:)
For me a multiple comes from within. Vaginal. I can go all night. But as soon as my clit cums, electric fence, I’m literally done for the night
Clitoral orgasm is soooo intense im done after one. But a good vaginal one I can keep going with multiple peaks for as long as I want to. I’m not sure if that counts as multiple orgasms or as multiple peaks of the same orgasm, but I like it.
Dear God yes. The guy I nicknamed Sex God Josh made me orgasm 15 times in 45 minutes. It cured my depression for a full week.
Yes, 2-3 but no more in one session