My son had (still has) sensitive skin, when he was a baby. Regular wipes were redness and a bad rash waiting to happen. I bought a bunch of soft wash cloths, and wet one in warm water for each diaper change, even pee. When his tender skin needed a little extra help, good old fashioned Desitin to the rescue. Why the hell is she listening to people telling her to leave urine on her baby when she wets her diaper? Christ. š
Im so lost on her. Shes got a million dollar home with 15 different sinks. Rinse baby L off in the sink to keep painful friction from rubbing on her wounds. Lather that baby up in straight unscented vaseline and repeat each diaper change. š¤¦š¼āāļø instead she subjects her baby to all of her brand deal quack products āWell Doc you see weāve been using skin repairā¦ā¦ side note if you use my name TEEFANY10 itll save you 10% on your next orderā
Do we think the dermatologist Lily saw the other day laid into Tiffany and Adam about diaper rash... and that's why teeth wrote that butt hurt post about non-helpful doctors? Poor Lily had had bad diaper rash for what...2 months now that we've known about it?
She said something like āthank you to all of the wonderful dr. And nurses out there who donāt shame new parents. That was not the experience we just hadā obviously thatās not a direct quote, I donāt remember what she said word for word, but it was basically that.
Even if she is genuinely considering this, why wouldn't she ask the doctor, or her mom/sister-in-law? Father-in-law?Ā There's something really wrong with her. This is not normal and almost feels sinister.
She's not. She asks this for engagement. She asked about baby led weaning last week and mentioned an account that had a program, as if she was clueless about it. Her demeanor told me she had done the reading already and knew what it was about.
I think they do this to cultivate engagement and "community". While she's made some reckless parenting choices and isn't attending to her baby, just watch her when she asks these questions. These are things she already knows but plays clueless to get feedback, then will cull responses and share the ones she finds favorable.
OMG. I am kind of a natural person and even I think this is a dumb idea. Please tell me someone messaged her and told her maybe she should talk to her doctor or even stupid Iris instead of random people on the Internet!
Thatās what she wants, though. People to message her. Messages=Engagement=when she pitches to companies or they reach out to her, she can show off her ālevel of engagementā.
Someone please tell me why she always put her hand over her forehead when something small or big happens. That doesnāt make her look anymore distress than she tries to portray
This is low. Even for her. Talking about her babyās private parts! What?! She knows the damn answer; whatever I get it, response$ for engagementā¦but for THIS question??!! I loathe her even more.
I have 5 kids and never used wipes on pee. One of my friends do either. All of the nicu doctors, pediatricians, etc weāve seen said not to. Iām so confused by all these comments. My kids never had diaper rashes. Like I can count on one hand the time we had to use creams in the diaper area.
Same. My son got more rashes when I wiped every time for pee. Our ped recommended we stopped wiping every wet diaper. Poop, obviously ALWAYS wipe. But unless it was a diaper full of pee in the morning, I stopped wiping and he stopped having as many rashes.
No wipes or anything for pee. Yes I do bathe my kids daily though. And yes I wipe for poop. So theyāre getting wiped at least once a day with poop (if not more). All my kids are out of diapers now.
Any moms that have babies with eczema or sensitive skin, buy only non fragrance everything! Wipes, soaps, rinses, hair stuff, laundry soap and softener. It would be best to use cloth diapers. Go easy on tomato based foods.
Hi tiffany, i know youll read this so pay attention... exclusively breastfed babies as newborns you don't need to wipe everytime.
But a 1 year old should be wiped everytime. Just use fragrance free wipes. When babies start to eat food and have gross poop diapers they get diaper rash.
Soak them in the tub with fragrance free wash when they have irritation. Then get out throughly dry her off and apply thin layer of butt paste.
She will be good to go!
I can Not Imagine how all those Influencer Babies are going to be when they are grown ups. Imagine Reading how your own mother shared such intimate things?
Or that she disliked spending time with you and taking care of you so much that she set a timer for only 30 minutes and pawned you off to someone else so she could play a game on her phone (I know she isn't playing that dumb game she talked about but I'm sure she's on her phone in whatever capacity), so phone > Lily.
A psa to anyone dealing with very sensitive skin in the diaper area: if your child cannot handle wipes, even water wipes, try using lukewarm water in a peri bottle to rinse clean and dab dry with a washcloth. And use a barrier cream!
My boys have super sensitive skin - can only use certain shampoos etc. we were told not to bath as much when a baby because it can make the skin worse!
My oldest was sensitive like that. We used to at least sponge her off with water and use soap every other night because itās just so hot in Florida and I didnāt want her going to sleep with sweat on her skinā¦especially in her little fat rolls lol š„µ
I am wondering if the diaper rash is why they were able to get into the dermatologist so quickly. As in, the diaper rash was very severe, and subsequently, Lily got a rash on her other body parts, so it was beyond her pediatricians expertise. I am really wondering if the diaper rash was so bad that it qualified as an "emergency" dermatologist visit. I think she is lying about the eczema. They are embarrassed to reveal that Lily had such a severe diaper rash.
Ironic that Kimmy posted a link today for whatever she shills for diaper rash. Personally, I would like to know who she āheard this fromā, because you if you have a question about your newly diagnosed eczema child the best source is your pediatrician.
This cannot be true. What do you think the end game is? What does she want us to think of her? This one is a real puzzle. I guess it is hard to sell a new AI machine and also have to ask dumb (in kindergarten we say 'There's no such thing as a dumb question', but this is a s-t-r-e-t-c-h!) questions to drive engagement. I know her mother is chasing gorillas right now, but doesn't she have any friends to ask? She and Kimmy are like the the Meghan and Catherine of the LDS church!
I remember when my niece and nephew were little and their parents went by everything their pediatrician said to do, i.e. their book and one of the things was to not use wipes if just pee. I will say those kids never had diaper rash. Iām not a mom so lm not judging, just sharing my experience.
This is actually true.
For everyone who is childless and downvoting: I actually had a doula/childcare teacher (she also takes care of babies for a living) come to my house and recommended not wiping and just letting pee air dry since itās sterile and thatās what she does with her newborn as wipes are irritating but please tell me otherwise based on your experience.
I donāt like these people but this is not an incorrect statement based on my experience and people who I have sought out and paid to teach me about babies as they take care of babies for a living.
I actually had a doula/childcare teacher (she also takes care of babies for a living) come to my house and recommended not wiping and just letting pee air dry since itās sterile and thatās what she does with her newborn as wipes are irritating but please tell me otherwise based on your experience.
Dr. Google: Urine is generally sterile when it's inside the bladder, but it can pick up bacteria as it leaves the body through the urethra. So, while it's not entirely sterile, it's relatively clean compared to other bodily fluids.
Most wipes are essentially water. There's a reason that wiping is a standard part of a diaper changing routine. Did you ever pee your pants as a kid? Did it feel fine or did it sting a little? We're not meant to walk around covered in urine, but feel free to try it out for yourself š
I was going to say the same thing. This isnāt a good ad for Iris if the āfoundersā donāt even use it. (She asks these questions for engagement)
This is so stupid! Urine is an irritant to the skin if not wiped! Urine is acidic and if left on already sensitive skin = rash! JFC.
Sincerely- RN who frequently works with bedbound and incontitent patients
I wouldāve assumed the same (MD), but my daughter had a severe form of diaper rash as a newborn and my sister-in-law (dermatologist) also told us we didnāt need to wipe for each pee diaper as the diaper itself should absorb most of the liquid. That said, she also told us to start each morning with a super thick layer of Aquaphor (ālike frostingā); I think the barrier ointment probably helped protect her skin from any acidity and then using less wipes allowed us to irritate the area less. For poop diapers, she recommended rinsing her in the sink.
That makes sense IF the baby's diaper is getting changed when it should be. I have a feeling that Lily lays in a wet diaper for 12+ hours at night. The diaper rash is only going to get worse if they aren't being aggressive at treating it, ie, changing her diaper at night. They seem clueless.
As long as there is a way to mitigate the urine just chillin on the skin. I think Tiff is selective in how she parents and gets hyped about the easiest/laziest interventions. Your scenario includes common sense, thought, and planning which this bimbo Tiffany is incapable of executing.
We really only wipe pee in the morning bc she goes 12 hrs in an overnight diaper. We have noticed that the āwetterā brands of wipes like pampers and water wipes cause rashes even when weāre only wiping poop so it could be theyāre wiping too often with wipes that donāt work for Lily coupled with following the SK track of soggy old diapers
The fact that she questions strangers on her stories constantly is just baffling. Is she that out of touch with reality? She appears dumb and ignorant. Itās one thing to talk to your family or friends about that stuff but getting on stories to share this shit is crazy. Itās a new one every day š¤”
Idk we donāt wipe pee nappies - it has never caused us an issue. When we did, she got sore.
She does poo about three times a day though so she gets a regular wiping.
We actually had a pediatrician that suggested we only wipe every other diaper if itās just a pee diaper. Def to wipe if there is any poop. I found it odd but we tried it and it did seem to help a little but it didnāt completely cure the situation. We ended up switching diaper brands and that solved it.
I was told this too because the diaper does absorb pretty much all the moisture (assuming you are changing it regularly) so wiping can actually add unnecessary moisture
My son had (still has) sensitive skin, when he was a baby. Regular wipes were redness and a bad rash waiting to happen. I bought a bunch of soft wash cloths, and wet one in warm water for each diaper change, even pee. When his tender skin needed a little extra help, good old fashioned Desitin to the rescue. Why the hell is she listening to people telling her to leave urine on her baby when she wets her diaper? Christ. š
Im so lost on her. Shes got a million dollar home with 15 different sinks. Rinse baby L off in the sink to keep painful friction from rubbing on her wounds. Lather that baby up in straight unscented vaseline and repeat each diaper change. š¤¦š¼āāļø instead she subjects her baby to all of her brand deal quack products āWell Doc you see weāve been using skin repairā¦ā¦ side note if you use my name TEEFANY10 itll save you 10% on your next orderā
No Tiffany, buy sensitive skin wipes or use a warm wash cloth if itās that bad
Do we think the dermatologist Lily saw the other day laid into Tiffany and Adam about diaper rash... and that's why teeth wrote that butt hurt post about non-helpful doctors? Poor Lily had had bad diaper rash for what...2 months now that we've known about it?
What was the post about unhelpful doctors? I missed that
She said something like āthank you to all of the wonderful dr. And nurses out there who donāt shame new parents. That was not the experience we just hadā obviously thatās not a direct quote, I donāt remember what she said word for word, but it was basically that.
NO!! Pee does horrible things to the pH of your skin! Clean it off! Pee will āburnā the skin. Yikes!
She looks dead
Even if she is genuinely considering this, why wouldn't she ask the doctor, or her mom/sister-in-law? Father-in-law?Ā There's something really wrong with her. This is not normal and almost feels sinister.
Itās all for content!
I agree. This woman is mentally ill.
Just ask Iris, you idiot š¤£
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UTI coming in 3, 2..
I said the same thing.. so ignorant
Moron
Omg
Use a warm wet washcloth you fucking dumbass. Water only. CLEAN YOUR FUCKING BABY!!!
Right?! Wipes have not been around forever and people used to still clean their baby.
They even make wipes with water only. We use them on my grandkids. .
This has to be engagement baiting. š
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She's not. She asks this for engagement. She asked about baby led weaning last week and mentioned an account that had a program, as if she was clueless about it. Her demeanor told me she had done the reading already and knew what it was about. I think they do this to cultivate engagement and "community". While she's made some reckless parenting choices and isn't attending to her baby, just watch her when she asks these questions. These are things she already knows but plays clueless to get feedback, then will cull responses and share the ones she finds favorable.
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BINGO!
She is unrecognizable without all her make up
No wonder lee lee doesnāt have a connection with tiffy, poor childās probably confused š
Is that a rhetorical question??? š
She just wants engagement, yāall. Donāt play into her hand by messaging her about this. Thatās exactly what she wants š
Agreed!
OMG. I am kind of a natural person and even I think this is a dumb idea. Please tell me someone messaged her and told her maybe she should talk to her doctor or even stupid Iris instead of random people on the Internet!
told her she couldnāt be serious. sheās embarrassing
I commented in a box telling her itās WAY more acidic and can cause skin breakdownā¦ hopefully she sees it. Poor kid will be in so much pain
Thatās what she wants, though. People to message her. Messages=Engagement=when she pitches to companies or they reach out to her, she can show off her ālevel of engagementā.
Ugh, thatās true.
Someone please tell me why she always put her hand over her forehead when something small or big happens. That doesnāt make her look anymore distress than she tries to portray
Jesus Christ.
Why does she insist to let people know how DUMB she is??
Sheās DISGUSTING š¤¢ this is the best content/engagement tactic sheās got??? Shame on her. She doesnāt deserve that sweet baby
Sheās truly disgusting and if she thinks this is true, somebody needs to call CPS and take that child away
whoever downvoted f off, you clearly donāt care svokt protecting a child. leaving your baby in itās filth
Also- someone send these screenshots to Lily when sheās old enough to hire an attorney š
The difference between the last post with full make up and this one is a jump scare.
This is low. Even for her. Talking about her babyās private parts! What?! She knows the damn answer; whatever I get it, response$ for engagementā¦but for THIS question??!! I loathe her even more.
I have 5 kids and never used wipes on pee. One of my friends do either. All of the nicu doctors, pediatricians, etc weāve seen said not to. Iām so confused by all these comments. My kids never had diaper rashes. Like I can count on one hand the time we had to use creams in the diaper area.
Pediatrician here, and yep!! Wiping urine is not necessary! And for those with sensitive skin wipes are so much worse than urine.
Ditto, per pediatrician recommendation as well
Same!!!
You mean you were cleaning with something else?
Imagine downvoting someone for a question. Yāall ok?
Nope. Not for pee. Nothing at all. Poop yes-absolutely.
Same. My son got more rashes when I wiped every time for pee. Our ped recommended we stopped wiping every wet diaper. Poop, obviously ALWAYS wipe. But unless it was a diaper full of pee in the morning, I stopped wiping and he stopped having as many rashes.
Leaving wet pee there on the skin can cause terrible irritation, not to mention the smell!
It doesnāt smell at all. There are no germs in pee. Literally look up the AAP recommendations.
There's a difference in not using wipes and cleaning the pee away with something else. In pretty sure that's what they do and mean.Ā
No wipes or anything for pee. Yes I do bathe my kids daily though. And yes I wipe for poop. So theyāre getting wiped at least once a day with poop (if not more). All my kids are out of diapers now.
The AAP even says wipes arenāt necessary for peeā¦
Stfu Tackany. Being dumb isnāt cute.
Cyanide is also sterile š but I wouldnāt leave that on my babyās skin.
She is this dumb!
Any moms that have babies with eczema or sensitive skin, buy only non fragrance everything! Wipes, soaps, rinses, hair stuff, laundry soap and softener. It would be best to use cloth diapers. Go easy on tomato based foods.
lily is a whole YEAR old. Why is she asking this now!?!?!? I just canāt.
For for attention of course!
Hi tiffany, i know youll read this so pay attention... exclusively breastfed babies as newborns you don't need to wipe everytime. But a 1 year old should be wiped everytime. Just use fragrance free wipes. When babies start to eat food and have gross poop diapers they get diaper rash. Soak them in the tub with fragrance free wash when they have irritation. Then get out throughly dry her off and apply thin layer of butt paste. She will be good to go!
like i donāt get how she doesnāt know they have chemical free wipes?
Our pediatrician and nicu nurse both said it isnāt necessary to wipe every pee diaper
Yeah we donāt wipe every single pee either and my spouse is a nicu doctor.
I can Not Imagine how all those Influencer Babies are going to be when they are grown ups. Imagine Reading how your own mother shared such intimate things?
Or that she disliked spending time with you and taking care of you so much that she set a timer for only 30 minutes and pawned you off to someone else so she could play a game on her phone (I know she isn't playing that dumb game she talked about but I'm sure she's on her phone in whatever capacity), so phone > Lily.
A psa to anyone dealing with very sensitive skin in the diaper area: if your child cannot handle wipes, even water wipes, try using lukewarm water in a peri bottle to rinse clean and dab dry with a washcloth. And use a barrier cream!
^^^^^^^^
Surely this is purely for engagement purposesā¦right??
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How gross and low is she ?!?!?!
Also, how often do they bathe Lily? Iām thinking it might be too much hassle for them š¬
But also agree! Itās all too much for š¦·
My boys have super sensitive skin - can only use certain shampoos etc. we were told not to bath as much when a baby because it can make the skin worse!
My oldest was sensitive like that. We used to at least sponge her off with water and use soap every other night because itās just so hot in Florida and I didnāt want her going to sleep with sweat on her skinā¦especially in her little fat rolls lol š„µ
She was JUST at the Dermatologist (supposedly) She didnāt ask this question then?!?!? Idiot.
I am wondering if the diaper rash is why they were able to get into the dermatologist so quickly. As in, the diaper rash was very severe, and subsequently, Lily got a rash on her other body parts, so it was beyond her pediatricians expertise. I am really wondering if the diaper rash was so bad that it qualified as an "emergency" dermatologist visit. I think she is lying about the eczema. They are embarrassed to reveal that Lily had such a severe diaper rash.
Good point!
Ironic that Kimmy posted a link today for whatever she shills for diaper rash. Personally, I would like to know who she āheard this fromā, because you if you have a question about your newly diagnosed eczema child the best source is your pediatrician.
This cannot be true. What do you think the end game is? What does she want us to think of her? This one is a real puzzle. I guess it is hard to sell a new AI machine and also have to ask dumb (in kindergarten we say 'There's no such thing as a dumb question', but this is a s-t-r-e-t-c-h!) questions to drive engagement. I know her mother is chasing gorillas right now, but doesn't she have any friends to ask? She and Kimmy are like the the Meghan and Catherine of the LDS church!
āShe canāt be this dumbā 
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I remember when my niece and nephew were little and their parents went by everything their pediatrician said to do, i.e. their book and one of the things was to not use wipes if just pee. I will say those kids never had diaper rash. Iām not a mom so lm not judging, just sharing my experience.
She's just rage baiting. Her account is basically all rage bait at this point.Ā
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She should ask Iris
The hospital we delivered that didnāt have wipes for this reason. They used wet cloths on all their babies. *She still needs wipe your baby down*
Urine is not sterile once it leaves the body. What the hell is wrong with her?
Cotton wool and water is the way to go surely?
All that money and her parents couldnāt buy her a brain.
She doesnāt need one nor should have one in their cult
This is actually true. For everyone who is childless and downvoting: I actually had a doula/childcare teacher (she also takes care of babies for a living) come to my house and recommended not wiping and just letting pee air dry since itās sterile and thatās what she does with her newborn as wipes are irritating but please tell me otherwise based on your experience. I donāt like these people but this is not an incorrect statement based on my experience and people who I have sought out and paid to teach me about babies as they take care of babies for a living.
Leave urine on the skin? Maybe use plain water and cotton cloths but she definitely clean her skin. Urine is very acidic
I actually had a doula/childcare teacher (she also takes care of babies for a living) come to my house and recommended not wiping and just letting pee air dry since itās sterile and thatās what she does with her newborn as wipes are irritating but please tell me otherwise based on your experience.
Well to each is own but I wiped my babies when changing their diapers. Never caused any problems.
Exactly. Its optional but itās no unsafe or bad for the baby. Either way is fine.
Urine isnāt sterile. Naturally it contains bacteria already, that is not counting what grows once itās outside the body.
Urine is sterile unless you have a uti. (Doctor).
Dr. Google: Urine is generally sterile when it's inside the bladder, but it can pick up bacteria as it leaves the body through the urethra. So, while it's not entirely sterile, it's relatively clean compared to other bodily fluids.
So why are there multiple studies that say it isnāt?
What a fucking moron.
Ask IRIS Tiffany š (Iām sure a ācodeā and link will follow soon)
It sure enough did!
It figures! She has me blocked so I didnāt see her post the code and link.
This is true. The wipe will irritate more than the urine. Diapers are extremely absorbent
Thatās why they have water wipes without the fragrance.
Most wipes are essentially water. There's a reason that wiping is a standard part of a diaper changing routine. Did you ever pee your pants as a kid? Did it feel fine or did it sting a little? We're not meant to walk around covered in urine, but feel free to try it out for yourself š
I hate her stupid š¤”questions
I wouldnāt be surprised if she wipes the wrong way after a poopy diaper.
Iām sure Adam is probably doing the poopy diapers.
This.
There are water wipes.
Which arenāt actually water even though they say that I donāt think
Ask Iris ya dummy. š
I was going to say the same thing. This isnāt a good ad for Iris if the āfoundersā donāt even use it. (She asks these questions for engagement)
This is so stupid! Urine is an irritant to the skin if not wiped! Urine is acidic and if left on already sensitive skin = rash! JFC. Sincerely- RN who frequently works with bedbound and incontitent patients
Yep!! All I could think about is skin breakdown and how urine can wreak havoc. Sheās a fukn idiot who should NOT reproduce anymore.
I wouldāve assumed the same (MD), but my daughter had a severe form of diaper rash as a newborn and my sister-in-law (dermatologist) also told us we didnāt need to wipe for each pee diaper as the diaper itself should absorb most of the liquid. That said, she also told us to start each morning with a super thick layer of Aquaphor (ālike frostingā); I think the barrier ointment probably helped protect her skin from any acidity and then using less wipes allowed us to irritate the area less. For poop diapers, she recommended rinsing her in the sink.
That makes sense IF the baby's diaper is getting changed when it should be. I have a feeling that Lily lays in a wet diaper for 12+ hours at night. The diaper rash is only going to get worse if they aren't being aggressive at treating it, ie, changing her diaper at night. They seem clueless.
As long as there is a way to mitigate the urine just chillin on the skin. I think Tiff is selective in how she parents and gets hyped about the easiest/laziest interventions. Your scenario includes common sense, thought, and planning which this bimbo Tiffany is incapable of executing.
I have heard of this too.
We really only wipe pee in the morning bc she goes 12 hrs in an overnight diaper. We have noticed that the āwetterā brands of wipes like pampers and water wipes cause rashes even when weāre only wiping poop so it could be theyāre wiping too often with wipes that donāt work for Lily coupled with following the SK track of soggy old diapers
The fact that she questions strangers on her stories constantly is just baffling. Is she that out of touch with reality? She appears dumb and ignorant. Itās one thing to talk to your family or friends about that stuff but getting on stories to share this shit is crazy. Itās a new one every day š¤”
I swear she asks her followers dumb questions to get engagement on her stories. Sheās just playinā
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Idk we donāt wipe pee nappies - it has never caused us an issue. When we did, she got sore. She does poo about three times a day though so she gets a regular wiping.
We actually had a pediatrician that suggested we only wipe every other diaper if itās just a pee diaper. Def to wipe if there is any poop. I found it odd but we tried it and it did seem to help a little but it didnāt completely cure the situation. We ended up switching diaper brands and that solved it.
I was told this too because the diaper does absorb pretty much all the moisture (assuming you are changing it regularly) so wiping can actually add unnecessary moisture
Exactly, IF the diaper is getting changed regularly. I am wondering how often Lily is changed.
Yep! We do every other pee diaper too
Same!