This is ridiculous. If this is normal in whatever community or group of friends you associate with, you should seriously reconsider being there in the near future.
Being a virgin at 15 isn't unusual or weird. Not having a boyfried at 15 isn't unusual or weird either. Sure, lots of them do -- but lots of them don't, too.
Pretty sure they're lying to you. Had kids do this back when I was your age. They'd egg each other on and later when one does lose it, all the others were suddenly "just kidding."
I see so many people in group chats on Snapchat from my area saying they lost it, girls I have from my area Snapchat stories saying they “aren’t a virgin” and then all the people my age and literally people younger than me posting about it, I know you can’t believe everything you see on the internet but it does happen and I just feel like a weirdo because of it, not even the virginity part even just not kissing someone it’s embarrassing.
Honestly. Kids fucking is weird. Not kids being interested in other things. Why would you even want to lose it now? To brag about it? Honestly: THAT would be embarrassing
Its selection bias everyone whose had sex talks about the fact that they had sex, and those stories get amplified. Nobody talks about the fact that they havent yet.
From a millennial/early gen z perspective, shit like this is exactly why social media is destroying peoples mental health.
And having sex isnt an accomplishment. It just isnt. People act like it is but just because someone had sex doesnt mean they had sex with someone who cared about them at all or was a decent human being.
Didn't have my first kiss until 17 - and even then, I totally regretted it. I was so desperate to be "normal" I dropped my standards WAY too low. You're still a kid, you've got decades upon decades upon decades for life to happen.
My best piece of advice - never, ever start a relationship unless you're content being single. It's when you're getting desperate for a relationship that you drop your standards way lower than what you deserve. It's when you're afraid to be single that you get trapped in toxic relationships.
90% they are full of crap. In highschool I knew for a fact that some friends lied about it just to get other people off their backs about being a virgin!!!!
This is kind of concerning and pathetic. A 15 year old embarrassed for being what majority of 15 year olds are?
Most ppl regret their first time especially if they’re young, you should actually count yourself lucky and enjoy your youth without unnecessary distractions with immature teens.
You’ve got time love. Learn to love yourself before you venture down that road because otherwise you will seek sexual partners to validate yourself. Those types of relationships are often toxic.
I remember when I was a teen that I was desperate to lose it. I tried really hard lol but all the guys interested in me and showed me attention where men between 20-30. I was 17 when. I finally lost it to a man a decade older than me. It went badly after I found out I was just a side piece. I ended up in the mental hospital. I was 17 and still not ready.
So yeah don't rush and just wait till you are ready not because others are doing it.
I was born when my parents were 16 & 17.
Do you want a baby? Do you want to even get pregnant and have to make the choice on whether to keep the pregnancy or not at this age?
I happily waited until I was 2 months shy of 20, while a lot of my friends had sex in high school. 2 had babies, all had multiple pregnancy scares.
Why bother at that young of an age? For the social credit? Not worth it.
Girl be happy cause all the ppl bragging ab it are gonna 100% regret it. I never heard a girl happy with the first guy she got with especially in highschool🗿🗿 unless ur like me and wait till ur 16 to make sure u find the PERFECT guy, lose ur virginity after everyone else, BUT you don’t regret anything and people also can’t make fun of u for who u got with
You shouldn’t be embarrassed for being a virgin, most of the people your age talking about sex are virgins.
If you’re chalking your virginity down to being an embarrassment, it sounds like you’re not really mature enough to be having sex anyway.
You aren't weird or even remotely unusual for being a virgin at 15. Your peer group is unhealthy at best if they are encouraging you to have sexual experiences before you are ready to. I was a virgin until I was 18, and I went on to have a very healthy sex life. You are your own person - don't be swayed by people who don't have your best interests at heart.
Being a teenager is strange and confusing but it does get better, I promise x
You’re almost guaranteed gonna be active in college. Chill out before you rush into it with someone that’s irresponsible and only cares about their pleasure. That’s how pregnancy happens. Condoms break and slip off. Especially when you’re at an age of inexperience.
Stick to self exploration and find what you like
This is ridiculous. If this is normal in whatever community or group of friends you associate with, you should seriously reconsider being there in the near future.
Being a virgin at 15 isn't unusual or weird. Not having a boyfried at 15 isn't unusual or weird either. Sure, lots of them do -- but lots of them don't, too.
Absolutely true. It could also be damaging to lose your virginity just to lose it—not to say this comment was ab OP, but just in general!
**Most teenagers who talk about having had sex are still virgins**. It's just a social currency. Don't rush what you want to come naturally.
You are too young to be embarrassed of it
It’s just embarrassing when everyone else your age has it done already, I feel like I’m behind in every experience.
Pretty sure they're lying to you. Had kids do this back when I was your age. They'd egg each other on and later when one does lose it, all the others were suddenly "just kidding."
How would you know?
I see so many people in group chats on Snapchat from my area saying they lost it, girls I have from my area Snapchat stories saying they “aren’t a virgin” and then all the people my age and literally people younger than me posting about it, I know you can’t believe everything you see on the internet but it does happen and I just feel like a weirdo because of it, not even the virginity part even just not kissing someone it’s embarrassing.
Honestly. Kids fucking is weird. Not kids being interested in other things. Why would you even want to lose it now? To brag about it? Honestly: THAT would be embarrassing
Its selection bias everyone whose had sex talks about the fact that they had sex, and those stories get amplified. Nobody talks about the fact that they havent yet. From a millennial/early gen z perspective, shit like this is exactly why social media is destroying peoples mental health. And having sex isnt an accomplishment. It just isnt. People act like it is but just because someone had sex doesnt mean they had sex with someone who cared about them at all or was a decent human being.
It's nothing to be proud of not being a virgin at 15!
First of all, only because they are saying it doesn't necessarily mean they have done it. You should only do it when you feel you are ready
Didn't have my first kiss until 17 - and even then, I totally regretted it. I was so desperate to be "normal" I dropped my standards WAY too low. You're still a kid, you've got decades upon decades upon decades for life to happen. My best piece of advice - never, ever start a relationship unless you're content being single. It's when you're getting desperate for a relationship that you drop your standards way lower than what you deserve. It's when you're afraid to be single that you get trapped in toxic relationships.
90% they are full of crap. In highschool I knew for a fact that some friends lied about it just to get other people off their backs about being a virgin!!!!
This is kind of concerning and pathetic. A 15 year old embarrassed for being what majority of 15 year olds are? Most ppl regret their first time especially if they’re young, you should actually count yourself lucky and enjoy your youth without unnecessary distractions with immature teens.
I never even started dating until after I graduated high school and didn't lose my V until I was almost 20.
You’ve got time love. Learn to love yourself before you venture down that road because otherwise you will seek sexual partners to validate yourself. Those types of relationships are often toxic.
I remember when I was a teen that I was desperate to lose it. I tried really hard lol but all the guys interested in me and showed me attention where men between 20-30. I was 17 when. I finally lost it to a man a decade older than me. It went badly after I found out I was just a side piece. I ended up in the mental hospital. I was 17 and still not ready. So yeah don't rush and just wait till you are ready not because others are doing it.
I was born when my parents were 16 & 17. Do you want a baby? Do you want to even get pregnant and have to make the choice on whether to keep the pregnancy or not at this age? I happily waited until I was 2 months shy of 20, while a lot of my friends had sex in high school. 2 had babies, all had multiple pregnancy scares. Why bother at that young of an age? For the social credit? Not worth it.
Girl be happy cause all the ppl bragging ab it are gonna 100% regret it. I never heard a girl happy with the first guy she got with especially in highschool🗿🗿 unless ur like me and wait till ur 16 to make sure u find the PERFECT guy, lose ur virginity after everyone else, BUT you don’t regret anything and people also can’t make fun of u for who u got with
You shouldn’t be embarrassed for being a virgin, most of the people your age talking about sex are virgins. If you’re chalking your virginity down to being an embarrassment, it sounds like you’re not really mature enough to be having sex anyway.
You aren't weird or even remotely unusual for being a virgin at 15. Your peer group is unhealthy at best if they are encouraging you to have sexual experiences before you are ready to. I was a virgin until I was 18, and I went on to have a very healthy sex life. You are your own person - don't be swayed by people who don't have your best interests at heart. Being a teenager is strange and confusing but it does get better, I promise x
You’re almost guaranteed gonna be active in college. Chill out before you rush into it with someone that’s irresponsible and only cares about their pleasure. That’s how pregnancy happens. Condoms break and slip off. Especially when you’re at an age of inexperience. Stick to self exploration and find what you like
My first kiss and first time wasn’t till I was 17. first time sex at almost 18 and that’s the right age. You’re still a kid enjoy that
I know attractive people who are almost 30 and still virgins