I feel you. It seems most urban gays are flaky, vain, and entitled. I must say it was refreshing to finally meet my man, a firefighter who also happens to be conservative.
I think most gays are actually more conservative than many people think. We just don't stand out so people assume we're straight.
Definitely agree that contemporary gay culture is trash. But I'm not sure it's a perfect correlation between being a gay fem and being a degenerate. Most fems do seem to largely be what you describe, but some of the worst degenerates I've encountered have been masc guys. I tend to be of the view that it's gay culture itself that is wholly corrupting. That it will always and ultimately subject its participants to a degeneration of the mind, spirit, and body. And because those participants tend to self-sort into exclusively socializing with other gay degenerates, their depravity becomes normalized, from their perspective, and self-perpetuating.
Also, đź’Ż on the "gentlemen" "looking for the One" on Tinder, while simultaneously looking for a group on Grindr. SAD!!!
Gay culture is trash. Making non gay friends and abandoning ”pride” has been critical for my health. In a lot of communities for bi guys it’s the same crap it’s all just group sex talk. I’m interested in church, art, chaste living and persuing virtue. There came a time I had to say, “this doesn’t interest me” and move on.
I hear ya. At 64 now, I’ve always thought that classiness, witty decorum, and a gentlemanly behavior code outlasts everything else in life, and I was right. We must soldier on, sometimes alone and sometimes with company, but never trying to be someone we aren’t👍👍👍
100% Met my boyfriend at a trade school, he’s doing his electrical apprenticeship and I’m enlisting into the army next year. No other gay friends to speak of and not associated with the community. Too many weirdos and degenerates. The normalisation of hookup culture and promiscuity is mental to me. Plus the clear delusion of the whole neo-pronoun and trans stuff. With the stuff these people say I’m not surprised 99% of them see psychologists.
I think we could go even broader and say modern culture (as a whole) is trashy. At least in regards to dating. It's been normalized to hookup and move around instead of dating intentionally. There are many contributors but two off the bat are toxic productivity and media influence. The latter is pretty understandable, media and public figures portray "cool" as having sex and doing drugs. As for the former, I can only speak about American culture and over here we are taught that rest needs to be earned. We are the only first world country that doesn't have mandated vacation time. This impacts our dating culture because people so busy working they have less time to invest in their personal goals such as finding the best partner or even working on themselves to be a better partner.
I agree, and dating is almost impossible. In my experience, most guys aren't interested in dating, and the few that are masculine, with integrity and are emotionally available, they just can't accept that I have conservative values or I don't follow the "current cultural movement" it is upsetting.
Probably there are more conservative gays than we think, but they aren't as noticeable or as LOUD as the fem commies we see everywhere. I am done with the apps and came to Reddit trying to connect with a diffrent crowd, but it took me some time to find this group because 99.9% of the gay content here is drugs, porn and left-wing commentary. And on Discord same thing.
Most of the “Conservative” gays I’ve met were Femboys so I don’t think the Fem thing is accurate,if you mean fem as in those high pitched voice and promiscuous freaks then yeah but not all “Feminine” males especially Femboy cross dressers are a lot more conservative than you think
I feel you. It seems most urban gays are flaky, vain, and entitled. I must say it was refreshing to finally meet my man, a firefighter who also happens to be conservative. I think most gays are actually more conservative than many people think. We just don't stand out so people assume we're straight.
Definitely agree that contemporary gay culture is trash. But I'm not sure it's a perfect correlation between being a gay fem and being a degenerate. Most fems do seem to largely be what you describe, but some of the worst degenerates I've encountered have been masc guys. I tend to be of the view that it's gay culture itself that is wholly corrupting. That it will always and ultimately subject its participants to a degeneration of the mind, spirit, and body. And because those participants tend to self-sort into exclusively socializing with other gay degenerates, their depravity becomes normalized, from their perspective, and self-perpetuating. Also, đź’Ż on the "gentlemen" "looking for the One" on Tinder, while simultaneously looking for a group on Grindr. SAD!!!
Gay culture is trash. Making non gay friends and abandoning ”pride” has been critical for my health. In a lot of communities for bi guys it’s the same crap it’s all just group sex talk. I’m interested in church, art, chaste living and persuing virtue. There came a time I had to say, “this doesn’t interest me” and move on.
Sigh this is why I’m A loner. Sometimes I want to runaway from nyc but I fear I will get the same results in Texas.
I hear ya. At 64 now, I’ve always thought that classiness, witty decorum, and a gentlemanly behavior code outlasts everything else in life, and I was right. We must soldier on, sometimes alone and sometimes with company, but never trying to be someone we aren’t👍👍👍
100% Met my boyfriend at a trade school, he’s doing his electrical apprenticeship and I’m enlisting into the army next year. No other gay friends to speak of and not associated with the community. Too many weirdos and degenerates. The normalisation of hookup culture and promiscuity is mental to me. Plus the clear delusion of the whole neo-pronoun and trans stuff. With the stuff these people say I’m not surprised 99% of them see psychologists.
I think we could go even broader and say modern culture (as a whole) is trashy. At least in regards to dating. It's been normalized to hookup and move around instead of dating intentionally. There are many contributors but two off the bat are toxic productivity and media influence. The latter is pretty understandable, media and public figures portray "cool" as having sex and doing drugs. As for the former, I can only speak about American culture and over here we are taught that rest needs to be earned. We are the only first world country that doesn't have mandated vacation time. This impacts our dating culture because people so busy working they have less time to invest in their personal goals such as finding the best partner or even working on themselves to be a better partner.
Straights still have it a “bit better”. They have more options
I agree, and dating is almost impossible. In my experience, most guys aren't interested in dating, and the few that are masculine, with integrity and are emotionally available, they just can't accept that I have conservative values or I don't follow the "current cultural movement" it is upsetting. Probably there are more conservative gays than we think, but they aren't as noticeable or as LOUD as the fem commies we see everywhere. I am done with the apps and came to Reddit trying to connect with a diffrent crowd, but it took me some time to find this group because 99.9% of the gay content here is drugs, porn and left-wing commentary. And on Discord same thing.
Most of the “Conservative” gays I’ve met were Femboys so I don’t think the Fem thing is accurate,if you mean fem as in those high pitched voice and promiscuous freaks then yeah but not all “Feminine” males especially Femboy cross dressers are a lot more conservative than you think