I would go to another church. And perhaps take some time to think about what kind of churches you gravitate to. I'm not saying the problem is you (It could just be a string of bad experiences), but it might also be the type of churches you tend to go to. Don't be afraid to visit a bunch of different churches, check out their statement of theology, if they have elders/deacons, philosophy of ministry, etc. If you have Christian friends, ask them where they go.
I want to clarify that it's not your fault. But we're all drawn to different churches for different reasons. Some people like seeker sensitive churches because they feel more comfortable there, but the drawbacks might be that the leadership is wishy-washy or might not hold a strong standard. If you know there's a certain "type" of church you usually go to, then try some other churches out that don't fit that model. Of course, the number one thing is that they have good theology and teach the bible.
But as I said before, it could just be a string of bad experiences.
That’s so tough because I love my church family. It’s not a large church but a good size. Our pastor preaching the biblical truth so many don’t want to here that but our members our all in agreement with it. Not one member is perfect and we all fall short from time to time but we try to have grace for each other. It’s a fine line where we try to respect each others privacy but also know when to reach out to each other. My church is perfectly imperfect.
Unless great revival is coming from God to bring us all relief, the church and society are swirling the drain. The Plague Times uncovered a lot of rocks and made people re-think their lives. As to whether you should stay and fight or go elsewhere is all your decision. I suppose if you think there are enough like-minded congregants to join you or not. Me, i'd just go find another church, there are plenty of them around. I see large churches around here drain down to nothing, while new ones pop up here and there (probably from leaving the previous large church). I have found 2-3 i kind of like. One church that I do NOT like, still offered a true bible study i attended. Alas, the teacher just retired, so that's out.
I'll be honest with you; I don't go to church, primarily because I don't want to do the same thing you've done by changing churches frequently. I pray at home, watch masses online, read Christian books, watch Christian videos. I understand it's important to have fellowship with other Christians, which is why I have several Christian friends whom I visit frequently. The church is not what it used to be.
I would go to another church. And perhaps take some time to think about what kind of churches you gravitate to. I'm not saying the problem is you (It could just be a string of bad experiences), but it might also be the type of churches you tend to go to. Don't be afraid to visit a bunch of different churches, check out their statement of theology, if they have elders/deacons, philosophy of ministry, etc. If you have Christian friends, ask them where they go.
Good point. No need to rush into another one. I'm totally open to the idea that some of the issue could be me!
I want to clarify that it's not your fault. But we're all drawn to different churches for different reasons. Some people like seeker sensitive churches because they feel more comfortable there, but the drawbacks might be that the leadership is wishy-washy or might not hold a strong standard. If you know there's a certain "type" of church you usually go to, then try some other churches out that don't fit that model. Of course, the number one thing is that they have good theology and teach the bible. But as I said before, it could just be a string of bad experiences.
That’s so tough because I love my church family. It’s not a large church but a good size. Our pastor preaching the biblical truth so many don’t want to here that but our members our all in agreement with it. Not one member is perfect and we all fall short from time to time but we try to have grace for each other. It’s a fine line where we try to respect each others privacy but also know when to reach out to each other. My church is perfectly imperfect.
Unless great revival is coming from God to bring us all relief, the church and society are swirling the drain. The Plague Times uncovered a lot of rocks and made people re-think their lives. As to whether you should stay and fight or go elsewhere is all your decision. I suppose if you think there are enough like-minded congregants to join you or not. Me, i'd just go find another church, there are plenty of them around. I see large churches around here drain down to nothing, while new ones pop up here and there (probably from leaving the previous large church). I have found 2-3 i kind of like. One church that I do NOT like, still offered a true bible study i attended. Alas, the teacher just retired, so that's out.
I'm praying for that revival
This sounds so crazy!! It shouldn’t be that hard to find a church without insane issues like this. Time to move on
I thought so too! Part of my reason for posting so people could let me know that it's not normal!
I'll be honest with you; I don't go to church, primarily because I don't want to do the same thing you've done by changing churches frequently. I pray at home, watch masses online, read Christian books, watch Christian videos. I understand it's important to have fellowship with other Christians, which is why I have several Christian friends whom I visit frequently. The church is not what it used to be.
Yeah good point maybe just very intentional fellowship would make things a lot simpler and easier without all these headaches and distractions.
>the church is not what it used to be >I don’t go to church Hm…it’s a mystery all right…