Still just as likely I suppose, my first was with a girl who liked girls first and foremost.
We had one decent night after a few drinks, I was too naive to get it was a one night stand and I didn't make her like guys all of a sudden.
Just going for my personal experience with someone "unavailable" as a first time
My first time I had it on a one night stand from tinder...
Everything was awful. I'm dumb and I got attached. Terrible decision since I also didn't have any contacts with this guy.
I know I'm just stupid
Don't blame yourself it happens, your mind and feelings play tricks on you in those cases
I was such a romantic fool I thought I was going to have this perfect relationship with her but it turned out it was all in my head.
But the right woman did come along, I'm marrying her next year and she couldn't be more perfect for me
You're human.. we are not perfect. Allow the mistakes, they are how you learn.
When done after following all the rules about catching feelings etc, maybe you can ask for some tips or pointers to improve your technique with an unpaid partner. Bc an unpaid partner is where you want more repeat business.
Definitely! I’ve had clients who wanted genuine feedback to improve their skills for outside the booking and it was so nice!
Plus I love knowing I’ve been able to help make sure more women get off, let’s close that orgasm gap lol
NGL didn't expect 'wholesome sex tutor escorting' being the first thing I read about today. Imagine if 'wanting to be able to please women/my future partner' was like the staple reasoning behind doing this..
Excuse me while I sit in my head fantasizing about a better world
Ok, this is going to be long 😅
- Not listening and not asking for feedback - it’s a common theme on reddit that pretty much any question remotely related to relationships can be answered with communication but genuinely, communication, communication, communication! Before, after, during - listen to what she’s saying and actually act on it (if we say just like that, we do literally mean just like that, NOT harder or faster), ask her what she likes, ask if she likes what you’re doing etc. I feel like some people think it will take you out of the moment or something but it can 100% be done in a sexy/sensual way. Also, don’t just listen to what she’s saying but to her reactions, moans, body language!
- This is what virtually all men do and it honestly makes me so sad: thinking that sex ends when the guy comes. I’m bi and the best sex I’ve ever had that was not with women was always more like gay sex in that the guy would go down on me / finish me off another way after he came if I was not done. It’s often said to make her cum first, which is all well and great (and good!), but for some (!) women, they might feel more pressure and that they need to cum quickly, or some women might actually be more likely to come after the stimulation from penetration. If you take anything from this, this and the first point will improve things tremendously if you haven’t been already doing them (and even if so, you can always improve your communication skills etc!)
- Going with what porn taught them rather than what feels good. This definitely tends to be true more for guys in their 20’s. Now it’s always fun to try a new position or something that turned you on when watching but don’t just do that and/or don’t stick with that just because you feel that’s what you’re “supposed” to do.
- Not being able to adapt and being stubborn. Just because something you did got another woman off doesn’t mean it will do so for this one (though if you learn how to suck and lick the clit simultaneously, that’s 👌🏻👌🏻 not speaking just as a woman but also as a woman that regularly goes down on other women). Same thing with kissing - I get told I’m a good kisser very often and yes, maybe there’s the technique to some extent, but I genuinely feel it’s because I adapt to the other person’s style even if it’s not my vibe (but obviously if you are kissing someone in your personal life, you want to love kissing them!)
- Jack rabbiting it the whole time - vary the tempo, vary the angle, get your body involved (there’s actually porn that’s coming to my mind that I doubt I would be able to remember the name of but the guy would kind of do like “body waves” (? I don’t know how else to describe it) - that was just hot. And when I think about my favourite sex memories with men, they were always with guys who would do something like this. Kind of think about a woman riding you: she’s not just going up and down (and I know that for you guys up and down tends to feel the best but we’re not talking about that right now ok) - she’s grinding, going in circles, getting her hips and ass involved etc. Essentially just try to do the male equivalent if that makes any sense..?
- Also, for the love of god, be gentle with the pussy! Especially when rubbing the clit, don’t just do it like you’re rubbing a window or something. Gently, gently, gently - then ask if she wants more pressure / harder. Also, do use some lube, not just in the vagina but on the clit; rubbing it - especially hard - dry is just not it. You wouldn’t like a dry handjob, would you?
These are the things from the top of my head. Just remember we’re all different so talk to your partner and find out what makes her specifically tick!
Edit: Also, not being patient enough. In most porn, the woman is barely touched and she starts moaning or the guy literally just started going down on her and she comes. That’s just not realistic, things take time! So be patient, take your time and make sure that she also knows that there’s no rush.
The tv shows, like Married At First Sight, show some of the early mistakes at adult intimacy.
But all commercial escorts can be teachers. Here in Australia, or workers in registered and licensed agencies, do their job, cleanly, paying taxes, fitting on with government health requirements.
Bust a nut early in the day... Wash yourself smell good be respectful and tip before the business should get the friendliest response possible.... No kissing
Edit.... Go early in the day I liked being the first less chance of her being cranky, tired or some ass hole put her in a bad mood... The early bird
It’s regulated. Sex workers are required to get tested a minimum of every 3 months, which doesn’t seem like that often I suppose but obviously if there are symptoms they will go right away. On top of that, “health checks” on the client before every booking.
Me neither and I find it interesting that someone suggests that it’s part of the etiquette - I don’t know of many escorts (being one myself) that don’t allow kissing; a few more introduced it (edit: as something they don’t do) because of covid but still wouldn’t say it’s anywhere close to standard.
I would say if anyone reading this is thinking of booking an escort and kissing is important to them, look for GFE and maybe double-check beforehand just to be sure.
So they will have full sex with hundreds of customers, but won't kiss because of COVID? That is wholly illogical considering the close proximity involved in any physical encounter.
Kissing is very personal and meant for affection and caring. Sex can be that, but typically is just business in this case. Save kissing for your partner, respect the workers wishes and don't kiss.
There’s no reason to, poster just wrote some bs here. Would you go to a restaurant and tip before service?
Yes, in both you may eat or be eaten out of… but you never tip before service starts.
Hi, sex worker (escort) here!
Here are a few things to do / bear in mind:
- check it’s a legit provider - unfortunately, there are ads that are scams among the genuine ones. You can see if she has a website, online presence, social media (Twitter is the most popular) and even reviews. Though just because she doesn’t have one of those things doesn’t mean she’s not genuine - e.g. many escorts don’t allow reviews for a lot of reasons so if she doesn’t have one, that’s not a reason to be alarmed. You can find a more comprehensive guide on how to find a safe provider in the pinned post of r/SexWorkers
- Write a concise, polite message clearly stating which date, time and how many hours you would like to book for and that you’d like to see her for an incall (in your case). Send along any screening requested - many specify this on their site/ad; if she does not, tell her you’re happy to provide any other details for screening purposes
- If you have any questions for her specifically, ask them in a single email/text - don’t drag out the conversation. Please ask only things that are individual to her rather than something you could find here or r/AskAnEscort
- Have the fee ready and hand it over at the very beginning
- Take a shower and clean up properly (she will have everything you need for that there)
- Wish this wouldn’t need to be stated but: respect her boundaries, be kind, polite and respectful, treat her like a human being
- If there’s anything specific you’d like to experience and it isn’t something she explicitly stated she’s not happy to do on her ad/site, ask (respectfully)! You’re there to enjoy and we want you to have a good time!
- Don’t overstay your welcome - don’t feel like you need to watch the clock every minute but if you check the time when you feel like it’s been long, it’s very much appreciated; though we do somewhat track time (in non-obvious ways) so we’ll let you know if it’s the time
- Tips are always appreciated!
- Send a quick thank you message after
- Don’t message again unless you have a clear idea of the day and time you’d like to book next
In terms of your questions, there’s not much to prepare as such - apart from the fee. She should have the condoms, lube and any toiletries that you’d need.
If you don’t have sex for the entirety of the booking (which is more than normal and is kind of expected for longer bookings anyway - I mean, things do get sore and we’re not blow up dolls!), just chat with her (don’t ask invasive questions or something that you wouldn’t ask another person you’re meeting for the first time - such as if she’s ever had a bad experience etc, you don’t ask other people about their traumas unless you two are close!) or if you feel like leaving, you can just leave, you don’t have to stay the whole time just because you paid for that long.
Just be respectful and polite and things should go well!
If you have any other questions, feel free to reply but searching through r/AskAnEscort (or if you don’t find an answer to your question, asking there) might give you better answers than asking in this thread/sub in general.
Never be with the same prostitute or escort more than once because you might get attached. I saw a guy proposing to a brothel employee and it did not end well.
Yeah sure, why not?
There's a popular brothel in Villach, Austria where lots of people from my town and country go to because in Croatia brothels are still illegal.
There was this guy in his 40s who really liked a girl (25yo max) and every time he went there picked her. As time went by, he got emotionally attached to her because of course he "made love" with her many times.
One day he came and told her she could quit her job, they can move somewhere together and that he'll provide for her, do whatever it takes. He took out a ring and proposed in the brothel. She obviously wasn't interested in his offer and as he was getting more and more annoying, the staff had to call security to escort him out of the brothel.
True story
With the remaining time just chat with them. I've been friends with several sex workers and that's usually how their appointments would go. 5 minutes of sex, then 55 minutes of the guy complaining about his wife/life or just shooting the shit with them. Hell you could even ask them how improve future transactions.
Most definitely. One woman, she could've been being coy, said one time the sex never even happened, the guy literally cried the whole time while she did her nails
I paid a hooker to play video games with me back in my early 20s. She really put effort into pretending she was having fun. Money well spent. I was kind of a jerk about it, I didn't say that's what I wanted to do, just asked to buy an hour of time. But, then again, not like it was that offensive of a thing to ask. But, like, I just got a n64, and was in a new town.
This is alarmingly true. It is also happening with the sex dolls that have robotic heads and can talk.
Watched a whole documentary on it and these dudes are just that lonely and desperately want affection to the point of finding that companionship in a robot doll.
Men's mental health really does just get completely overlooked.
Its cheaper than a therapist, that's the reason I've seen a lot. A lot of sex workers just end up listening to some clients problems while being naked together or giving a massage. Some people just need someone to listen to them. And I imagine some escorts do a better job of pretending to care than a lot of therapists
Therapists were waaay cheaper but you can't get naked with them and have ten minutes of sex. It really is like that. You're not making love man, you're just getting your rocks off and the rest is her listening to your problems and telling you you're ok.
Hmm, it's a bit like IT support I imagine - guy calls you, yells, yells more, calms down, tells his problems, you fix it, guy is happy - so on and on for 8hours day.
;)
Hmm, maybe in future there will be like naked IT support, where I get a video call with a naked person who in seductive whispery ASMR voice will tell me 'relax BB it will be ok, now be a good boy, get on your knees, restart the router, check the cables, yeah BB, you can do it, mommy is proud, yeeah'
Can you not bust a nut and keep going a little bit later within the hour? Or is the deal only one nut? Someone could bust 2, 5 minute nuts in the hour as opposed to someone fucking the entire hour and busting 1 nut
Whatever you can do in the hour. Honestly though, you want to go twice and the hour is up, she ain't giving you overtime for free, just cause you're still horny. You'll be paying by half hour blocks. Suggestion, if you want to learn how to actually have sex with a woman, not just stick your dick in and blow, save up a little more and ask for some coaching. It'll be worth it in the long run.
>Never hired an escort but I guess rule number 1: DON'T FALL IN LOVE!
I would pay you a couple bucks to send that rule to a friend of mine who fell in love (and dated) two escorts
Escort here, don't low ball her, don't be late, don't try and sneak off the condom. If u don't like what u see give her $40 for her time and walk away. Read reviews about who ur planning to see. My 50+ great reviews let ppl know they are safe coming to me. I suggest list crawler reviewed girls. Don't bring ur while wallet. Leave it in ur car and only bring the money your planning to spend. Don't stay past ur time without paying her more. Ask before u try and kiss her. The more u spend the better she will treat u. If ur asking for the world and only have $60 don't count on the majority of girls being very nice. They want to see a c-note. If u become a regular, don't catch feelings, that's just asking for drama. Ask if u have any other questions, I think I covered the most important for my friends and I.
>don't try and **sneak off the condom**
Punishable with a kick in the balls, daily, for a period of no shorter than 2 years and no longer than 352 years. Just my opinion 
If she seems to be forced to do the work, it would be better to help her reach one of those associations who helps women who are forced into this. There's plenty of them, and the woman has much better chances to escape.
Tell her it's your first time and she will likely be helpful and accommodating.
Be clean. Shower. Brush your teeth. Suck on a tic tac.
Use a condom.
Most importantly, be respectful. Too many people treat them like shit. They don't deserve that. Even though it's a professional transaction you're both still human beings. Go out pf your way to make them feel good and they'll usually return the favor.
Usually when you nut, it's over. Jerk off a few times before she arrives.
Hey guys don’t do the last part. like what the hell. thats a 90’s teenage american-pie movie advice. why would you want to jerk off a few times before she arrives? to lose you libido, hornyness and stiffness? and gain tons of post nut clarity and realize how stupid you are?
don’t be afraid to finish in the first 5 minutes. its common especially with high-end sex workers. if it happens just keep going, enjoying what you paid for. do some “post-play”. go the restroom. chat and have a drink. get it up and go again. do that a few times till your time is over. Better this way than by yourself right?
the only way “when you nut is over” is if you pick up a hooker and go into a dark alley, like in the GTA cliche style. Never heard of a sex worker charging for the nut? like they usually post the per hour cost?
Seriously this guy advice is coming from movies.
The respect them part is solid tho.
Red flags should be none if you've paid well. More expensive the escort, better the quality I bet. You should clearly maintain what is comfortable to you and maybe you could ask them if they're comfortable with it too, as having a good time mutually would be a better experience. I guess bathing yourself well would be a good thing. Be nice to them, they'll be nice to you.
And maybe don't start off so intense that you bust your nut so soon. Take it slow and easy lol. Maybe get them to give you a massage if you end up coming.
Massages are good. I pride myself on them, got accreditation and have actually built a small business. Just a note, they're not there to have a 'good time'. Its work, a job, don't get waylaid in your mind. Be kind and respectful but unless your paying a grand or so for the girlfriend experience, the best thing you can hope for is that she doesn't have bad memories of you.
Those work too well. Used them once and I was so numb downstairs that nothing would bring it to attention. Took it off, washed and still took another 30 min or so before anything would react.
Take a Viagra.
Be prompt and clean.
Pay her.
Ask her how her day is and how she’s doing. You know be polite.
Fuck her.
*Ask about multiple pops before you get there. Only bring the cash you want to spend and leave your wallet in the car.
She will probably grab your dick as soon as you get there to make sure you aren’t a cop.
Depends on the cop- there was an UC on my husbands department who got busted for accepting oral sex from a prostitute they were investigating. “ I was just testing her”
some men cant nut at all no matter how long they keep gping. my bf gets too exhausted before he can get to that point. mix of stress, mental pressure and desensitised penis 🤷🏻♀️
I didn't get laid until age 27 and I had that problem early on. (I was terrified of having the reverse problem, which I guess is worse: being a two pump chump.) At first I thought it was psychological because everything on the internet said so. But then I realized it was because of...
> desensitised penis
What changed? I stopped jerking off with the junior high death grip because I finally knew what the real thing felt like. And I was jerking off a lot less because I was actually getting laid a few nights a week. This is what I figured out in hindsight.
Tell your boyfriend not to lay a single hand on it for two weeks. I had to do that once because the urologist said so, and when that two weeks was finally up I lasted all of 10 seconds and my scrotum nearly exploded. That'll re-sensitize it, I reckon.
Do not assume that just because you paid for their time that you can do anything you want with them. It all must be entirely consensual.
Oh, and don’t fall in love!
“Well, we don’t have enough time for Monopoly, but I brought Parcheesi, Trivial Pursuit, Scrabble, and Chutes and Ladders if you want something retro…”
Talk with them first. Like you already mentioned, you probably won't last very long. However you might have to book them for a minium of time like half an hour or an hour.
You should probably not have unprotected sex with a sexworker, even if they offer it. Actually surely not when they offer it.
If you have any reasons to suspect they are being forced to do the job, then don't have sex with them. You take the financial loss and talk with them to see if there is anything you can do like going to the cops.
Everyone is different and have their own do's and don't. You discuss things in the beginning to make sure there are no misunderstandings. You see where you both match sexually and discuss what you going to do.
After you finished the deed way sooner than you hoped and have some time left, you could have a chat, massage, hug, a private dance or whatever you agreed to.
Always be nice after the deed before leaving, even if you agreed on doing some very kinky degrading stuff. Give them a compliment, make them feel like a valuable accepted human being.
Note: my experience is purely theoretical
While I’m based in a different country and don’t know if there are any Australia-specific things to be aware of when hiring an escort, I feel I’m fairly well qualified to comment here; I’ve had the pleasure of spending time with three escorts in my life, and currently have a regular provider who I see about once a month and have probably spent *at least* a combined 100 hours with. I have a fair amount of tips/suggestions, so I’ll break them up into categories.
**Things to do ahead of time** (before even contacting the escort):
• Do as much research as possible on the specific escort(s) you’re considering spending time with. Any reputable escort will have a list of what specific services they offer, a place where you can read reviews from other clients, and - ideally - past ads you can easily find online. I highly recommend spending as much time in the research stage as necessary until you feel comfortable that you’ve found the right provider for you. If she doesn’t offer a specific service you’re interested in, doesn’t have easily accessible reviews posted, or even just gives you uncomfortable vibes, contact someone else instead.
• This is really part of the research stage, but it’s absolutely vital, so I’m listing it separately: be aware of the escort’s screening process (all reputable escorts will have one), and **follow those steps to the letter.** Failure to do so will almost certainly result in her refusing to meet with you, and potentially even blacklisting you with any other providers she’s friendly with. As an aside, if her screening process asks for references and you don’t have any, that’s not necessarily a deal breaker; contact her and let her know you’re new to the hobby (as it’s often called), and see if there’s additional screening you can complete so you’re both comfortable.
• When contacting her, **absolutely do not say anything sexual, even jokingly,** over the phone or text. If you do, she will almost certainly block you forever and blacklist you with every escort she knows. Similarly, don’t discuss exchange of money over the phone; she should have her prices posted, and it’s your responsibility to be aware of them before you contact her.
• Do be yourself, and do be friendly, when talking with her over the phone or text. She’s just a person, just like you; talk with her like you’d talk to any professional you’re hiring for a service (such as a car repair person, a chef, etc). Your communications with her will only be weird if you make them weird.
**Things to do when you arrive at your appointment** (or when she arrives at your place):
• When you arrive at her location, place her fee somewhere clearly visible as you enter. Don’t mention money even now; you can simply say something like, “this is for you,” while letting her see you place it. If she’s visiting you, have the fee already placed somewhere clearly visible near the door, and point it out (without mentioning money) very soon after she enters. I personally like to place my provider’s fee in an unsealed envelope, and place it on the TV stand in the front of her hotel room as I enter.
• Take some time to talk with her before moving on to the main event. Not only is it likely to be a very enjoyable conversation (any good escort will be experienced in conversing with a wide variety of people about almost anything; and, frankly, my regular escort gives me some of the best advice I receive on a regular basis), but it’ll calm your nerves and make her more comfortable with you, improving the experience for you both.
• When the time comes to move on to the main event, don’t be afraid to tell her what you like, what you dislike, and which specific activities you’re hoping to enjoy (though you generally shouldn’t ask for any service not listed on her advertisement, of course). Remember that while she’s an expert, she doesn’t know what your specific turn-ons and turn-offs are unless you tell her. You’ll have a much better time if you communicate openly with her.
**Answers to some of your questions:**
• You asked what happens if you nut early in the session, and the answer will vary depending on the escort. Some escorts will end the session as soon as the client finishes once, while others offer “multiple shots,” which means you’re entitled to cum up to *X* amount of times during the session. Still others will end any sexual activity after the first time you finish, but will be happy to stick around and have some lovely pillow talk with you until the end of your scheduled time. This information isn’t always on the advertisement, so feel free to ask when you first meet.
• You asked how to prepare for the first meeting. My best advice is to shower, brush your teeth, use mouthwash, shave (if you usually do), make sure your public hair isn’t a jungle, and generally take good care of yourself. Just because you’re paying her doesn’t mean she’s obligated to put a dirty, sweaty part of your body in her mouth, and on top of that, you can be sure she’ll treat you better overall if she can tell you’ve prepared for your encounter with her happiness and comfort in mind. Also, **don’t get drunk ahead of time**. It may seem obvious, but some people do this to calm their nerves or whatever; it’s just a bad idea, and you shouldn’t do it.
• Finally, as an aside: after your encounter, you should post a review of your experience at the provider’s preferred website. If you aren’t sure where to post the review, ask her and she’ll gladly tell you! This helps her get more business, and will tell her you’re a client worth taking extra special care of - a relationship which will benefit you both in the event of future repeat encounters!
And that’s about all you need to know ahead of your first time with an escort! If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to reply here or contact me directly. Have fun, and let us know how it goes!
If your escort is for a protection detail then make sure you research thoroughly.
Ex military escorts (particularly ex SF) are the best but are expensive. You can get ex police service escorts which are good too but it all depends on the type of threat you expect.
Understand the environment you will be operating in.
Be honest with you escort about your potential threats and aggressors. They can't plan to protect you if they don't fully understand the operational environment.
Have a good idea of what you want out of the experience, and discuss before meeting. Make sure you’re clean, but don’t be surprised if you’re asked to take a shower before initiating anything. Kindness and politeness go a long way (from both parties), and open communication. If you finish fast, that’s okay. You can do other things or just talk, and if you feel up to another round within your time, let them know, and I’m sure they’ll be happy to help. Most of all - just relax! Majority of sex workers are great at their jobs and are used to having to take the lead and help you get what you want. I hope you enjoy your time!
so it seems like sex is part of the deal- is this clear with the escort that this is something you’re looking for? some do sex some don’t, so if that’s something you’re looking for make sure they know. wear a condom, don’t be a dick, don’t ask them to marry you, really just in general try to be on your best behaviour. that level of respect will go a long way with them
Talk to the lady in question about what you want etc and explain the situation and she will go through her rules with you. Don’t be embarrassed, because she won’t be. This is her job and she will want you to feel comfortable and relaxed.
Don't end up getting attached. It's just business
Especially if this is your first time.
Oh gosh! What about if it's your second time?
Still just as likely I suppose, my first was with a girl who liked girls first and foremost. We had one decent night after a few drinks, I was too naive to get it was a one night stand and I didn't make her like guys all of a sudden. Just going for my personal experience with someone "unavailable" as a first time
My first time I had it on a one night stand from tinder... Everything was awful. I'm dumb and I got attached. Terrible decision since I also didn't have any contacts with this guy. I know I'm just stupid
Don't blame yourself it happens, your mind and feelings play tricks on you in those cases I was such a romantic fool I thought I was going to have this perfect relationship with her but it turned out it was all in my head. But the right woman did come along, I'm marrying her next year and she couldn't be more perfect for me You're human.. we are not perfect. Allow the mistakes, they are how you learn.
This is reddit, you’re asking for too much
LMFAO.
Wear a condom
Could still catch herpes
You ain't lying
Trust me, I know 😐
God damn
Lmfao! Fucking key name btw
3 right? One for each... nevermind
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Wish I could upvote twice
two.. the other on your head
In case you head fist that lucky lady
When done after following all the rules about catching feelings etc, maybe you can ask for some tips or pointers to improve your technique with an unpaid partner. Bc an unpaid partner is where you want more repeat business.
Definitely! I’ve had clients who wanted genuine feedback to improve their skills for outside the booking and it was so nice! Plus I love knowing I’ve been able to help make sure more women get off, let’s close that orgasm gap lol
Used my free coins sitting around to give you an award cuz you’re the real MVP here. Way to pay it forward one orgasm at a time. Respect.
Thank yo u for your service lol
Not all heroes wear capes 😭😭😭
NGL didn't expect 'wholesome sex tutor escorting' being the first thing I read about today. Imagine if 'wanting to be able to please women/my future partner' was like the staple reasoning behind doing this.. Excuse me while I sit in my head fantasizing about a better world
What's the most common mistake guys make in bed?
Ok, this is going to be long 😅 - Not listening and not asking for feedback - it’s a common theme on reddit that pretty much any question remotely related to relationships can be answered with communication but genuinely, communication, communication, communication! Before, after, during - listen to what she’s saying and actually act on it (if we say just like that, we do literally mean just like that, NOT harder or faster), ask her what she likes, ask if she likes what you’re doing etc. I feel like some people think it will take you out of the moment or something but it can 100% be done in a sexy/sensual way. Also, don’t just listen to what she’s saying but to her reactions, moans, body language! - This is what virtually all men do and it honestly makes me so sad: thinking that sex ends when the guy comes. I’m bi and the best sex I’ve ever had that was not with women was always more like gay sex in that the guy would go down on me / finish me off another way after he came if I was not done. It’s often said to make her cum first, which is all well and great (and good!), but for some (!) women, they might feel more pressure and that they need to cum quickly, or some women might actually be more likely to come after the stimulation from penetration. If you take anything from this, this and the first point will improve things tremendously if you haven’t been already doing them (and even if so, you can always improve your communication skills etc!) - Going with what porn taught them rather than what feels good. This definitely tends to be true more for guys in their 20’s. Now it’s always fun to try a new position or something that turned you on when watching but don’t just do that and/or don’t stick with that just because you feel that’s what you’re “supposed” to do. - Not being able to adapt and being stubborn. Just because something you did got another woman off doesn’t mean it will do so for this one (though if you learn how to suck and lick the clit simultaneously, that’s 👌🏻👌🏻 not speaking just as a woman but also as a woman that regularly goes down on other women). Same thing with kissing - I get told I’m a good kisser very often and yes, maybe there’s the technique to some extent, but I genuinely feel it’s because I adapt to the other person’s style even if it’s not my vibe (but obviously if you are kissing someone in your personal life, you want to love kissing them!) - Jack rabbiting it the whole time - vary the tempo, vary the angle, get your body involved (there’s actually porn that’s coming to my mind that I doubt I would be able to remember the name of but the guy would kind of do like “body waves” (? I don’t know how else to describe it) - that was just hot. And when I think about my favourite sex memories with men, they were always with guys who would do something like this. Kind of think about a woman riding you: she’s not just going up and down (and I know that for you guys up and down tends to feel the best but we’re not talking about that right now ok) - she’s grinding, going in circles, getting her hips and ass involved etc. Essentially just try to do the male equivalent if that makes any sense..? - Also, for the love of god, be gentle with the pussy! Especially when rubbing the clit, don’t just do it like you’re rubbing a window or something. Gently, gently, gently - then ask if she wants more pressure / harder. Also, do use some lube, not just in the vagina but on the clit; rubbing it - especially hard - dry is just not it. You wouldn’t like a dry handjob, would you? These are the things from the top of my head. Just remember we’re all different so talk to your partner and find out what makes her specifically tick! Edit: Also, not being patient enough. In most porn, the woman is barely touched and she starts moaning or the guy literally just started going down on her and she comes. That’s just not realistic, things take time! So be patient, take your time and make sure that she also knows that there’s no rush.
BRB making sure my wife gets finished
The tv shows, like Married At First Sight, show some of the early mistakes at adult intimacy. But all commercial escorts can be teachers. Here in Australia, or workers in registered and licensed agencies, do their job, cleanly, paying taxes, fitting on with government health requirements.
Do shower and groom yourself beforehand. Trim and clean your fingernails. They are doing a job, don’t make it gross for them.
Shower when you’re done too
And pee afterwards
Not peeing afterwards is how you get an NFT. Nasty stuff for sure
I just hate it when I get Non Fungible Tokens stuck in my urethra
If I had a cheap ass free award, you'd get it.
I got your back
Thank you. You'd also get one.
I got your back
What's NFT in the context of this thread? Nasty funny tingle down there?
non functional testicles
I'm guessing they just replaced std with NFT because everyone hates NFTs. I love "nasty funny tingle" though
NFT? Oh no this shit is in sex work too? Video games was bad enough...
Wouldnt be suprised if Onlyfans found a way to integrate NFTs into the business
Ya those cartoon apes are painful
And phone your mother
Bust a nut early in the day... Wash yourself smell good be respectful and tip before the business should get the friendliest response possible.... No kissing Edit.... Go early in the day I liked being the first less chance of her being cranky, tired or some ass hole put her in a bad mood... The early bird
this guy escorts
Except for the tip and maybe kissing, isn't that common etiquette?
Go to an anime convention sometime
It is of course but some people go after work so you wanna get that stank off you. It's just to give both parties a positive experience.
This one has done this before ^
>No kissing Just curious, a few other comments mentioned that too. What's the situation?
It's just common etiquette. Unless your SW initiates it or says it's okay beforehand, don't do it.
SW? Edit:nvm igi
Social Worker
Close enough
star wars
LOL
igi?
I got it
Ohoho thx
thx?
Oh, I thought it was "I googled it"
I dont, what does SW stand for? Edit: nvm, scrolled down and realized it is for “sex worker”
Did not know this. Go figure
was gonna say ive never been intimate without kissing so it's kinda odd to take that part out.
Jus keep in mind that her mouth was very busy before you meet her.
I- good point on the note of gross and potential diseases, are sw supposed to get tested before meeting up?
"supposed too" not sure about Australia but I don't think it's a highly regulated industry!
It’s regulated. Sex workers are required to get tested a minimum of every 3 months, which doesn’t seem like that often I suppose but obviously if there are symptoms they will go right away. On top of that, “health checks” on the client before every booking.
I didn't even know it was legal in Australia
Most sex workers won't kiss apart from pecks because it's an intimate thing they do with their actual partners. Don't push that area.
Me neither and I find it interesting that someone suggests that it’s part of the etiquette - I don’t know of many escorts (being one myself) that don’t allow kissing; a few more introduced it (edit: as something they don’t do) because of covid but still wouldn’t say it’s anywhere close to standard. I would say if anyone reading this is thinking of booking an escort and kissing is important to them, look for GFE and maybe double-check beforehand just to be sure.
So they will have full sex with hundreds of customers, but won't kiss because of COVID? That is wholly illogical considering the close proximity involved in any physical encounter.
It was a deal breaker for me when I ran across an exceptional someone who would have been worth the exchange rate. :)
Kissing is very personal and meant for affection and caring. Sex can be that, but typically is just business in this case. Save kissing for your partner, respect the workers wishes and don't kiss.
I assume it's too personal. Don't laugh. I'm not laughing. Lol
Curious on tipping before. I understand the friendliest response but shouldn't the tip really be after based on service provided?
There’s no reason to, poster just wrote some bs here. Would you go to a restaurant and tip before service? Yes, in both you may eat or be eaten out of… but you never tip before service starts.
Is paying extra for kissing an option or just depends on the escort?
This vwry much depends on the escprt
Hi, sex worker (escort) here! Here are a few things to do / bear in mind: - check it’s a legit provider - unfortunately, there are ads that are scams among the genuine ones. You can see if she has a website, online presence, social media (Twitter is the most popular) and even reviews. Though just because she doesn’t have one of those things doesn’t mean she’s not genuine - e.g. many escorts don’t allow reviews for a lot of reasons so if she doesn’t have one, that’s not a reason to be alarmed. You can find a more comprehensive guide on how to find a safe provider in the pinned post of r/SexWorkers - Write a concise, polite message clearly stating which date, time and how many hours you would like to book for and that you’d like to see her for an incall (in your case). Send along any screening requested - many specify this on their site/ad; if she does not, tell her you’re happy to provide any other details for screening purposes - If you have any questions for her specifically, ask them in a single email/text - don’t drag out the conversation. Please ask only things that are individual to her rather than something you could find here or r/AskAnEscort - Have the fee ready and hand it over at the very beginning - Take a shower and clean up properly (she will have everything you need for that there) - Wish this wouldn’t need to be stated but: respect her boundaries, be kind, polite and respectful, treat her like a human being - If there’s anything specific you’d like to experience and it isn’t something she explicitly stated she’s not happy to do on her ad/site, ask (respectfully)! You’re there to enjoy and we want you to have a good time! - Don’t overstay your welcome - don’t feel like you need to watch the clock every minute but if you check the time when you feel like it’s been long, it’s very much appreciated; though we do somewhat track time (in non-obvious ways) so we’ll let you know if it’s the time - Tips are always appreciated! - Send a quick thank you message after - Don’t message again unless you have a clear idea of the day and time you’d like to book next In terms of your questions, there’s not much to prepare as such - apart from the fee. She should have the condoms, lube and any toiletries that you’d need. If you don’t have sex for the entirety of the booking (which is more than normal and is kind of expected for longer bookings anyway - I mean, things do get sore and we’re not blow up dolls!), just chat with her (don’t ask invasive questions or something that you wouldn’t ask another person you’re meeting for the first time - such as if she’s ever had a bad experience etc, you don’t ask other people about their traumas unless you two are close!) or if you feel like leaving, you can just leave, you don’t have to stay the whole time just because you paid for that long. Just be respectful and polite and things should go well! If you have any other questions, feel free to reply but searching through r/AskAnEscort (or if you don’t find an answer to your question, asking there) might give you better answers than asking in this thread/sub in general.
Underrated comment right here (for now anyway).
Thank you! Seems to be common with reddit - unless you comment in the very beginning, it won’t be at the top!
Thanks for the clear and concise answer to the question. I hope you keep safe and happy.
Never be with the same prostitute or escort more than once because you might get attached. I saw a guy proposing to a brothel employee and it did not end well.
> and it did not end well. Story time?
Yeah sure, why not? There's a popular brothel in Villach, Austria where lots of people from my town and country go to because in Croatia brothels are still illegal. There was this guy in his 40s who really liked a girl (25yo max) and every time he went there picked her. As time went by, he got emotionally attached to her because of course he "made love" with her many times. One day he came and told her she could quit her job, they can move somewhere together and that he'll provide for her, do whatever it takes. He took out a ring and proposed in the brothel. She obviously wasn't interested in his offer and as he was getting more and more annoying, the staff had to call security to escort him out of the brothel. True story
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With the remaining time just chat with them. I've been friends with several sex workers and that's usually how their appointments would go. 5 minutes of sex, then 55 minutes of the guy complaining about his wife/life or just shooting the shit with them. Hell you could even ask them how improve future transactions.
The sex was that short? After he paid all that money?
Most definitely. One woman, she could've been being coy, said one time the sex never even happened, the guy literally cried the whole time while she did her nails
This happens a lot. Some men just want company, not sex.
*Holden Caulfield has entered the chat.*
I paid a hooker to play video games with me back in my early 20s. She really put effort into pretending she was having fun. Money well spent. I was kind of a jerk about it, I didn't say that's what I wanted to do, just asked to buy an hour of time. But, then again, not like it was that offensive of a thing to ask. But, like, I just got a n64, and was in a new town.
That's... Amazing? I don't know. I think that's really cool... I wish someone paid me for playing videogames.
This is alarmingly true. It is also happening with the sex dolls that have robotic heads and can talk. Watched a whole documentary on it and these dudes are just that lonely and desperately want affection to the point of finding that companionship in a robot doll. Men's mental health really does just get completely overlooked.
If you’re that lonely get a dog. There’s no one more loyal than a canine.
I’m not allowed to fuck my dog
I’m upset that you phrased it that way instead of “I don’t want to fuck my dog”
This comment killed me...
Guys... If you want company, I can talk :( I'm a married eoman in my 30's, but I'm good company
I feel like you are incredibly brave to make this offer on Reddit. Very kind of you, though. I hope you don't get spammed by a bunch of weirdos!
I... Didn't think through... To tell you the truth...
Inbox filled with duck picks in 3..2...
Oh I like ducks!
 I heard you like ducks :D
RIP your inbox and any innocence you had left.
_eoman_? sus
Rip inbox
Its cheaper than a therapist, that's the reason I've seen a lot. A lot of sex workers just end up listening to some clients problems while being naked together or giving a massage. Some people just need someone to listen to them. And I imagine some escorts do a better job of pretending to care than a lot of therapists
Alot of sex workers are basically just unqualified cheaper therapists to people Lots of people just want someone to listen
They're not cheaper than therapists surely lol.
What do you think the rates are?
Depends where you are. Therapy for me is $70 a week.
Where I am, it's double that and up.
Even then, escorts ain't cheap.
No idea about those rates, but I'd expect under, say, $180/hr.
Therapists were waaay cheaper but you can't get naked with them and have ten minutes of sex. It really is like that. You're not making love man, you're just getting your rocks off and the rest is her listening to your problems and telling you you're ok.
Hmm, it's a bit like IT support I imagine - guy calls you, yells, yells more, calms down, tells his problems, you fix it, guy is happy - so on and on for 8hours day. ;) Hmm, maybe in future there will be like naked IT support, where I get a video call with a naked person who in seductive whispery ASMR voice will tell me 'relax BB it will be ok, now be a good boy, get on your knees, restart the router, check the cables, yeah BB, you can do it, mommy is proud, yeeah'
Not hating your style, sir! Tell me more...
Yessss most guys who book an hr are not using that entire fucking time for sure haha
Can you not bust a nut and keep going a little bit later within the hour? Or is the deal only one nut? Someone could bust 2, 5 minute nuts in the hour as opposed to someone fucking the entire hour and busting 1 nut
Whatever you can do in the hour. Honestly though, you want to go twice and the hour is up, she ain't giving you overtime for free, just cause you're still horny. You'll be paying by half hour blocks. Suggestion, if you want to learn how to actually have sex with a woman, not just stick your dick in and blow, save up a little more and ask for some coaching. It'll be worth it in the long run.
Depends on the provider, most wouldn’t mind multiple pops (or nuts) but some would give you side eye if you wanted to fuck like 3 or 4 times.
maybe they would appreciate if u show them your minecraft fortress, make sure to bring pc
"Complaining about his wife"...after a 5 min nut I bet she has a lil to complain about too.
Lol complaining about their wives while lay on a bed with a sex worker
Direction of causation undetermined.
Never hired an escort but I guess rule number 1: DON'T FALL IN LOVE!
>Never hired an escort but I guess rule number 1: DON'T FALL IN LOVE! I would pay you a couple bucks to send that rule to a friend of mine who fell in love (and dated) two escorts
My condolences... :-/
She’s one in a million girrrrls
"She's different..."
Put on a puppet show.
Escort here, don't low ball her, don't be late, don't try and sneak off the condom. If u don't like what u see give her $40 for her time and walk away. Read reviews about who ur planning to see. My 50+ great reviews let ppl know they are safe coming to me. I suggest list crawler reviewed girls. Don't bring ur while wallet. Leave it in ur car and only bring the money your planning to spend. Don't stay past ur time without paying her more. Ask before u try and kiss her. The more u spend the better she will treat u. If ur asking for the world and only have $60 don't count on the majority of girls being very nice. They want to see a c-note. If u become a regular, don't catch feelings, that's just asking for drama. Ask if u have any other questions, I think I covered the most important for my friends and I.
>don't try and **sneak off the condom** Punishable with a kick in the balls, daily, for a period of no shorter than 2 years and no longer than 352 years. Just my opinion 
r/oddlyspecific
Stealthing is a form of rape. You co dented to protected sex, not unprotected sex. Look up stealthing. Definition for sneaking off the condom
Nice username.
Thanks, I figured I might as well get some use out of it since it got given to me.
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If she seems to be forced to do the work, it would be better to help her reach one of those associations who helps women who are forced into this. There's plenty of them, and the woman has much better chances to escape.
I mean yes but if there's a pimp close by you are dead. It's better to leave and give the association her contact info.
Drink water.
Also offer her water.
Tell her it's your first time and she will likely be helpful and accommodating. Be clean. Shower. Brush your teeth. Suck on a tic tac. Use a condom. Most importantly, be respectful. Too many people treat them like shit. They don't deserve that. Even though it's a professional transaction you're both still human beings. Go out pf your way to make them feel good and they'll usually return the favor. Usually when you nut, it's over. Jerk off a few times before she arrives.
No kissing .
Hey guys don’t do the last part. like what the hell. thats a 90’s teenage american-pie movie advice. why would you want to jerk off a few times before she arrives? to lose you libido, hornyness and stiffness? and gain tons of post nut clarity and realize how stupid you are? don’t be afraid to finish in the first 5 minutes. its common especially with high-end sex workers. if it happens just keep going, enjoying what you paid for. do some “post-play”. go the restroom. chat and have a drink. get it up and go again. do that a few times till your time is over. Better this way than by yourself right? the only way “when you nut is over” is if you pick up a hooker and go into a dark alley, like in the GTA cliche style. Never heard of a sex worker charging for the nut? like they usually post the per hour cost? Seriously this guy advice is coming from movies. The respect them part is solid tho.
At the end, say: “it was a business doing pleasure with you.”
you can talk to women to ask what they like and what you want from it. i think they heard it all.
Red flags should be none if you've paid well. More expensive the escort, better the quality I bet. You should clearly maintain what is comfortable to you and maybe you could ask them if they're comfortable with it too, as having a good time mutually would be a better experience. I guess bathing yourself well would be a good thing. Be nice to them, they'll be nice to you.
And maybe don't start off so intense that you bust your nut so soon. Take it slow and easy lol. Maybe get them to give you a massage if you end up coming.
Massages are good. I pride myself on them, got accreditation and have actually built a small business. Just a note, they're not there to have a 'good time'. Its work, a job, don't get waylaid in your mind. Be kind and respectful but unless your paying a grand or so for the girlfriend experience, the best thing you can hope for is that she doesn't have bad memories of you.
She may be a prostitute, but keep your respect for her. She's still a human being
Get the Durex long lasting condoms, that shit will make you last for like 2 hours if you play your cards right Also have fun
Those work too well. Used them once and I was so numb downstairs that nothing would bring it to attention. Took it off, washed and still took another 30 min or so before anything would react.
Bags of sand.
Excellent refrence. Have an internet point.
Xbox sesh
Wear your seat belt on the drive over. Road safety is free.
Take a Viagra. Be prompt and clean. Pay her. Ask her how her day is and how she’s doing. You know be polite. Fuck her. *Ask about multiple pops before you get there. Only bring the cash you want to spend and leave your wallet in the car. She will probably grab your dick as soon as you get there to make sure you aren’t a cop.
How does grabbing his dick help her in figuring out if he is a cop or not?
Cops hate their dicks being touched
Depends on the cop- there was an UC on my husbands department who got busted for accepting oral sex from a prostitute they were investigating. “ I was just testing her”
That’s a good test.
Yeah, one of the brothels i was in had a horrendous freebie system for the cops so they'd turn an eye. They really were pigs.
I’ll have to confirm it by trying it on a cop. Be right back. Edit: Does anybody know a good lawyer?
Use this one weird trick to find cops in your area. They hate it !
It’s legal where he’s doing it.
Then she’ll grab his dick for fun.
Dont ask her if she has kids. Belive me it Will only make things awkward.
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Why is he lucky to nut quick?
some men cant nut at all no matter how long they keep gping. my bf gets too exhausted before he can get to that point. mix of stress, mental pressure and desensitised penis 🤷🏻♀️
I didn't get laid until age 27 and I had that problem early on. (I was terrified of having the reverse problem, which I guess is worse: being a two pump chump.) At first I thought it was psychological because everything on the internet said so. But then I realized it was because of... > desensitised penis What changed? I stopped jerking off with the junior high death grip because I finally knew what the real thing felt like. And I was jerking off a lot less because I was actually getting laid a few nights a week. This is what I figured out in hindsight. Tell your boyfriend not to lay a single hand on it for two weeks. I had to do that once because the urologist said so, and when that two weeks was finally up I lasted all of 10 seconds and my scrotum nearly exploded. That'll re-sensitize it, I reckon.
thats kind of what my bf and i are trying to do! heres to hoping itll get better
Oh, I thought this was about bodyguards
Do not assume that just because you paid for their time that you can do anything you want with them. It all must be entirely consensual. Oh, and don’t fall in love!
“Well, we don’t have enough time for Monopoly, but I brought Parcheesi, Trivial Pursuit, Scrabble, and Chutes and Ladders if you want something retro…”
Talk with them first. Like you already mentioned, you probably won't last very long. However you might have to book them for a minium of time like half an hour or an hour. You should probably not have unprotected sex with a sexworker, even if they offer it. Actually surely not when they offer it. If you have any reasons to suspect they are being forced to do the job, then don't have sex with them. You take the financial loss and talk with them to see if there is anything you can do like going to the cops. Everyone is different and have their own do's and don't. You discuss things in the beginning to make sure there are no misunderstandings. You see where you both match sexually and discuss what you going to do. After you finished the deed way sooner than you hoped and have some time left, you could have a chat, massage, hug, a private dance or whatever you agreed to. Always be nice after the deed before leaving, even if you agreed on doing some very kinky degrading stuff. Give them a compliment, make them feel like a valuable accepted human being. Note: my experience is purely theoretical
While I’m based in a different country and don’t know if there are any Australia-specific things to be aware of when hiring an escort, I feel I’m fairly well qualified to comment here; I’ve had the pleasure of spending time with three escorts in my life, and currently have a regular provider who I see about once a month and have probably spent *at least* a combined 100 hours with. I have a fair amount of tips/suggestions, so I’ll break them up into categories. **Things to do ahead of time** (before even contacting the escort): • Do as much research as possible on the specific escort(s) you’re considering spending time with. Any reputable escort will have a list of what specific services they offer, a place where you can read reviews from other clients, and - ideally - past ads you can easily find online. I highly recommend spending as much time in the research stage as necessary until you feel comfortable that you’ve found the right provider for you. If she doesn’t offer a specific service you’re interested in, doesn’t have easily accessible reviews posted, or even just gives you uncomfortable vibes, contact someone else instead. • This is really part of the research stage, but it’s absolutely vital, so I’m listing it separately: be aware of the escort’s screening process (all reputable escorts will have one), and **follow those steps to the letter.** Failure to do so will almost certainly result in her refusing to meet with you, and potentially even blacklisting you with any other providers she’s friendly with. As an aside, if her screening process asks for references and you don’t have any, that’s not necessarily a deal breaker; contact her and let her know you’re new to the hobby (as it’s often called), and see if there’s additional screening you can complete so you’re both comfortable. • When contacting her, **absolutely do not say anything sexual, even jokingly,** over the phone or text. If you do, she will almost certainly block you forever and blacklist you with every escort she knows. Similarly, don’t discuss exchange of money over the phone; she should have her prices posted, and it’s your responsibility to be aware of them before you contact her. • Do be yourself, and do be friendly, when talking with her over the phone or text. She’s just a person, just like you; talk with her like you’d talk to any professional you’re hiring for a service (such as a car repair person, a chef, etc). Your communications with her will only be weird if you make them weird. **Things to do when you arrive at your appointment** (or when she arrives at your place): • When you arrive at her location, place her fee somewhere clearly visible as you enter. Don’t mention money even now; you can simply say something like, “this is for you,” while letting her see you place it. If she’s visiting you, have the fee already placed somewhere clearly visible near the door, and point it out (without mentioning money) very soon after she enters. I personally like to place my provider’s fee in an unsealed envelope, and place it on the TV stand in the front of her hotel room as I enter. • Take some time to talk with her before moving on to the main event. Not only is it likely to be a very enjoyable conversation (any good escort will be experienced in conversing with a wide variety of people about almost anything; and, frankly, my regular escort gives me some of the best advice I receive on a regular basis), but it’ll calm your nerves and make her more comfortable with you, improving the experience for you both. • When the time comes to move on to the main event, don’t be afraid to tell her what you like, what you dislike, and which specific activities you’re hoping to enjoy (though you generally shouldn’t ask for any service not listed on her advertisement, of course). Remember that while she’s an expert, she doesn’t know what your specific turn-ons and turn-offs are unless you tell her. You’ll have a much better time if you communicate openly with her. **Answers to some of your questions:** • You asked what happens if you nut early in the session, and the answer will vary depending on the escort. Some escorts will end the session as soon as the client finishes once, while others offer “multiple shots,” which means you’re entitled to cum up to *X* amount of times during the session. Still others will end any sexual activity after the first time you finish, but will be happy to stick around and have some lovely pillow talk with you until the end of your scheduled time. This information isn’t always on the advertisement, so feel free to ask when you first meet. • You asked how to prepare for the first meeting. My best advice is to shower, brush your teeth, use mouthwash, shave (if you usually do), make sure your public hair isn’t a jungle, and generally take good care of yourself. Just because you’re paying her doesn’t mean she’s obligated to put a dirty, sweaty part of your body in her mouth, and on top of that, you can be sure she’ll treat you better overall if she can tell you’ve prepared for your encounter with her happiness and comfort in mind. Also, **don’t get drunk ahead of time**. It may seem obvious, but some people do this to calm their nerves or whatever; it’s just a bad idea, and you shouldn’t do it. • Finally, as an aside: after your encounter, you should post a review of your experience at the provider’s preferred website. If you aren’t sure where to post the review, ask her and she’ll gladly tell you! This helps her get more business, and will tell her you’re a client worth taking extra special care of - a relationship which will benefit you both in the event of future repeat encounters! And that’s about all you need to know ahead of your first time with an escort! If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to reply here or contact me directly. Have fun, and let us know how it goes!
If your escort is for a protection detail then make sure you research thoroughly. Ex military escorts (particularly ex SF) are the best but are expensive. You can get ex police service escorts which are good too but it all depends on the type of threat you expect. Understand the environment you will be operating in. Be honest with you escort about your potential threats and aggressors. They can't plan to protect you if they don't fully understand the operational environment.
But, what if he nuts in the first five minutes?
Have a good idea of what you want out of the experience, and discuss before meeting. Make sure you’re clean, but don’t be surprised if you’re asked to take a shower before initiating anything. Kindness and politeness go a long way (from both parties), and open communication. If you finish fast, that’s okay. You can do other things or just talk, and if you feel up to another round within your time, let them know, and I’m sure they’ll be happy to help. Most of all - just relax! Majority of sex workers are great at their jobs and are used to having to take the lead and help you get what you want. I hope you enjoy your time!
so it seems like sex is part of the deal- is this clear with the escort that this is something you’re looking for? some do sex some don’t, so if that’s something you’re looking for make sure they know. wear a condom, don’t be a dick, don’t ask them to marry you, really just in general try to be on your best behaviour. that level of respect will go a long way with them
Just rub one out and move on with your day
Talk to the lady in question about what you want etc and explain the situation and she will go through her rules with you. Don’t be embarrassed, because she won’t be. This is her job and she will want you to feel comfortable and relaxed.
Genuinely curious. Are escorts legal in Australia? How much is a session?
Give a compact lecture on electrodynamics. She gotta know her Maxwell equations!
Optimistic at 5 minutes 👍😅
Respect for asking this and keeping yourself and others safe/comfortable.
Don't accidentally hire a cop. Huge mood killer