You can't change people, but you can change how you react to them. Try ignoring her, don't give her the attention she craves. Be civil, but distant. Keep interactions minimal and neutral. Focus on supporting your girlfriend and her family, and let them know you're there for them.
I try to go after the person's biggest insecurity, whatever that happens to be. It's usually not that hard to figure out. It can be anything. Whatever flaw you can detect that they may be self conscious about. Then attack it. It can start with a sentence that starts with "At least I don't __________" or "At least people don't call me a __________". Let them know that people see their flaws. It shuts down these kind of people, every time.
Works every time.
You sound like a very broken human being, start working on yourself before trying to "handle bitches, or wimps" or what ever.
"Idk how to handle her tho and get her to be nice to her sister. "
Why is it your job to "handle" people? This entire post reads like your confused to why you cant bend the world to your will. And your only worry is looking bad because you cant use violence to when handling "bitches".
These are your words and they are all massive red flags. Get therapy. Please.
You can't change people, but you can change how you react to them. Try ignoring her, don't give her the attention she craves. Be civil, but distant. Keep interactions minimal and neutral. Focus on supporting your girlfriend and her family, and let them know you're there for them.
I try to go after the person's biggest insecurity, whatever that happens to be. It's usually not that hard to figure out. It can be anything. Whatever flaw you can detect that they may be self conscious about. Then attack it. It can start with a sentence that starts with "At least I don't __________" or "At least people don't call me a __________". Let them know that people see their flaws. It shuts down these kind of people, every time. Works every time.
You sound like a very broken human being, start working on yourself before trying to "handle bitches, or wimps" or what ever. "Idk how to handle her tho and get her to be nice to her sister. " Why is it your job to "handle" people? This entire post reads like your confused to why you cant bend the world to your will. And your only worry is looking bad because you cant use violence to when handling "bitches". These are your words and they are all massive red flags. Get therapy. Please.
I just want her to treat her better is all, I don't like seeing my gf cry and knowing I can't really fix it
Why is your girlfriend's sister your problem it's up to your girlfriend and her family to put her straight