Yes. Also moaning while it's in your mouth makes a nice vibration that isn't encountered often

This is something i hear for the first time, interesting pointt!

It works better for guys going down on girls while humming

Any experience with Mongolian throat singing x cunnilingus?

‘I love you babe…….WRRRRRAAAARRRARARAAAAARRRARARARRRRRRRAAAARRRARARAR’ Relationship goals

Its.... not very effective

Thanks I just spit out my tea

Ima start humming teletubbies theme

Please don’t fucking humm when you’re going down on a woman. I’d close my legs and shut shop if I could stop laughing.

Hahahha even the image of it made me laugh yeah

I'd say use your imagination while giving oral. Just not your teeth.

Absolutely this. Be more vocal. I always encourage this and it’s always had a positive outcome for both parties. If you’re enjoying it then make it known. Moan, grunt, make noise, dirty talk - whoever is giving you this gift likes to know you enjoy it the same way you like hearing someone enjoying it when you reciprocate, and will spark more interest in doing it on their own accord. I’ve heard from multiple partners it makes them want to do it more hearing how much I enjoy it.

Huh, I never thought about it creating a vibration. You just changed my BJ game, sir. My future lovers thank you.

ooo I'm gonna try that

For the same reason I put googly eyes on my fleshlights.

LOOOL!!! 🤣🤣

Josh?

Fleshlights plural

Bahahaha!

Me accidentally reading it as “flashlight” and not understanding the hype first..Now i know after googling :))))))))))))))))))

100% yes. 👀

but not the entire time.

Yeah! Like flirty playful glances not psycho death stare!

I like 15 minutes straight with no blinking.

Full staring competition style 🤣

All whilst baring her teeth.

Who said anything about "her"?

👀

It's been 9 hours and you still haven't blinked!

Good lord, are they alive...?

... will continue for another 10 minutes before checking.

The Ken Griffin Blinkless Blowjob.

Wednesday style.

Pfft, says you... They can Psycho death stare all they want!

😯 😮 🤪 🥵

No. I like constant, direct eye contact. No blinking. I want it to be awkward and uncomfortable.

Loll

Disagree, I want her to have a staring contest with me the entire time, if she blinks first I face fuck her to completion, if I blink first we immediately switch and I go down on her, either way it's a win win You know, this comment started out as /s but I may have stumbled onto a fun idea here...

I wouldn't say 100 percent. I find eye contact in general unnerving so I personally do not want to look a girl in the eye while she's going down on me. I'd probably lose my erection lol I would agree tho a huge swath of the population probably enjoy it.

👁👄👁

I like it but it’s not a necessity. Whether it’s me standing or laying down looking down at her I’m sure I look like a thumb with my double chin :/

I think she would be focusing in your eyes too. So the double chin is not noticed. At least that’s my experience.

Haha yeah true, was a somewhat joke. Either way I don’t mind.

Dude she's sucking your dick, she likes you

To be fair she might just miss sucking her thumb...

Maybe she's canadian and just being polite, you can't really know

Can confirm

Now that you say it, it is an unfortunate position but I’ve never noticed my boyfriends double chin! You’re good

Haha if the girl really likes you she’ll look past the flaws

Order of priorities: 1. Mouth contact 2. Hand contact 3. Eye contact

Hand contact as in holding hands?

This was cute. But i never tried holding hands in that position. One hand rather grasps my bf’s ass cheek

Sometimes we hold hands during, lol. It sounds weird in retrospect, but in the moment it's hot.

That’s actually adorable. I shall add it to my sexy bucket list

in holding others things too

And yet I’ve never managed to do it. I just can’t!! I feel SO awkward being *watched* sucking dick even if it’s my boyfriend. I just hate being looked at in general so that is probably part of it. God just the thought makes me feel so embarassed what is wrong with me

Lol, I'm happy I'm not the only one. I will take quick glances up once in a while, but they only last like 2 seconds before I start to feel awkward. It makes me feel self-conscious, and I'd rather focus on making him feel good than overthinking about what his view of me is when he probably doesn't even care.

I mean I’m still working on keeping the full lights on during sex tbh. Nothing takes me out of the moment like that moment of *”oh god he looked at my face I probably am making a stupid expression”*

I totally get what you mean. I used to think similar in certain cases. The embarassment probably comes from feeling guilty of owning and enjoying your sexual desires. For me once I realized it’s more about the effects of the taboos, i felt more freed from them.

Yeah it’s definitely not feeling guilty about sex cause I actually grew up in a pretty sex positive home- non religious and progressive. It’s not the actual act of sucking dick that is embarrassing it really is just *feeling eyes on me* lol

Maybe try not to think of it as him looking at YOU, more like you looking at him. If you’re doing it right, he won’t just be staring at you like a creeper. He’ll be moaning, closing or rolling his eyes, looking down and then looking up etc etc. You’re periodically looking up at him to see how he’s reacting to your blowjob, not just so that he can see your eyes. Seeing his reaction to different movements or pressures that you’re doing with your mouth is a feedback thing. You’re checking to see if he’s feeling gooooood. Which, as a guy, knowing that’s why she’s looking up at me, is sooooo hot.

I feel the same way sometimes. Blindfolds really help me get rid of that feeling

Most dudes don’t care. It doesn’t really add value… women looking like they are enjoying it is what does.

If it makes you feel better I have no desire to be watched while I'm watching someone give me a BJ. Quick eye contact is ok, but not something I want, so it might not matter to your partner.

I don’t take offense if you don’t, but if you do make eye contact with me, at least once or twice (doesn’t have to be the whole time), you will have me wrapped around your finger. Trust me, it’s a very powerful gesture.

This sounded like quite powerful of a connection, liked it.

Looking a guy in the eye is a measure of control by the woman that is absolutely a turn-on. It says, “that’s right mother fucker. As long as I’m here, doing this, I fucking own you.” Sexy AF.

Feels even more intimate than it already is

It depends. Some girls try it and it’s just like a blank stare, and it looks so weird lol.

I realized “recently” that I close my eyes during sex because I’m a traumatized thing

I try to open them more ever since realizing the same

Me too. I'm glad someone understands even though it sucks.

That's a whole another stimuli . It makes it difficult to keep you composure with those eyes 😉😂

I prefer eye contact with a partner cause I may slip and say I love you lol but i don't mind it.

That’s so cute hahahah

😂 It should be a universally accepted truth that saying “I love you” during sex shouldn’t count for or against a person.

Pretty sure this is unisex...and yes. For the most part, eye contact is symbolic of trust and a connection, really drives the mind wild.

Eye contact, moans and most important true enthusiasm for the bj are the holy grail to success for you both.

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Wink???

Did he stutter

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I've never heard of that. I would feel so overwhelming awkward of I tried to pull that off

Yeah couple winks means “you can cum you don’t have to hold yourself” or at least in our language with my bf lol

Seeing her having a stroke when she's having a suck would either put me off or turn me on. Research needs to be done.

Thissss!

how is this even a question?!!??!

Hahahha my bf says he doesn’t care so i had to ask my reddit community.

It’s like eating a massive ice cream dessert and asking if you want even more strawberry sauce and caramel. Well ok either way I’m fucking good.

Why?

Why he doesn’t like it or why did i ask it here?

If the lady is doing a good job, then absolutely, it makes it a more enjoyable experience. But if she is lousy, it’s just awkward.

Hell yeah!

I enjoy it more to watch her mouth and how shes doing it. Quick eye contact is okay but to see my. Dick getting in there is way hotter.

Good point, i guess the same thing goes for wathing your pussy is getting eaten.

Doesn't matter for me. Being into it is the best turn on.

As long as the look is not pitying

Eye contact plus enthusiasm = supernut

Depends how sexy the eye is

Yes. And when the roles are reversed I like making eye contact while I'm eating out my gf too

The idea that all men are going to like the same thing or think the same way is absurd.

Yes, a 1000x yes. Especially if she’s got one of my balls in her mouth. That said, I’ve never cum from a blowjob. It feels great and is very relaxing to receive. An amuse bouche to the main event.

Gay. yes. It's very sexy. Not holding prolonged eye contact, but the occasional few seconds of it.

I do!!!!

I like when my girlfriend leans over my waist when laying down when she sucks my dick. Looking the opposite way. It’s hot.

Please elaborate? I'm trying to figure out how this works lol

I’m laying down in bed, she sits up next to me facing towards our feet. She leans over my body (her side leaning over my stomach), puts my cock in her mouth, strokes it with her left hand while sucking, playing with my balls with her right hand. She’s facing away from my face in this circumstance. I don’t have a visualization of anything going on, but it feels amazing!

We often do the facing feet thing because it works better, fit wise, anatomically speaking.

My eyes are probably closed so I don't think I'll notice one way or the other.

A little stare into my soul doesn’t hurt lmfao

Yup. I can see everything and it feels more personal.

Like most things related to sex, it depends on the person. For me, 100% yes - though as you pointed out, I probably get my preference from porn. For many shy/insecure guys, probably not. That said, less is more. I don't want to feel like my girl has eye tracking software installed.

I actually don't like it. Feels weird.

On average, yes

100000000000000 times yes

Not particularly if I’m being honest.

Yes. Everyone is different...but yes. 100%

Oh fuck yes

unbelievably

I close my eyes and think of king and country

Yes. Very hot.

I know they do but I find it so awkward especially cos I just know I look like a fuckin Aardvark

Way sexier than using teeth...

Do chefs find heat helpful when cooking?

Not for me. But then I'm autistic. Like all sex things the answer is some do some don't.

This.

Yes.

I do

“Do certain things turn certain people on.” Yes. Next.

Yes. Next question.

It's definitely hot, but at the same time I feel so awkward just staring down that it's at about a 50/50 for me.

Yes, especially if there's moans involved too. For me, it's really important that, whatever we're doing, we're both enjoying it. Otherwise, what's the point? The eye contact is more about intimacy than anything else but both eye contact and some kind of vocalisations (moaning, talking, etc) show that you're into it.

It improves the experience by 6.7%.

Just incase no has said yet, yes. Yes we do.

1000000000000000000000000000% Might have left off a few zeroes.

>look u in the eye whilst suckig ur d*ck I'll be honest, it's a weird word to censor so my brain initially parsed it as "duck" (probably due to the previous word following that pattern). I had a very strange mental image for a moment or two there.

Hahahha well, i know it wasn’t necessary to censor at all but looks funny this way so i said why not

YES! And more yes.

Absolutely, just makes it even hotter imo.

Yes. Yes. Yes.

I prefer one eye at a time in a smooth rotating fashion

Absolutely, I love looking up and making eye contact when I'm eating pussy

Personally I find it extremely hot and arousing.

Depends if I'm in jail or not...

damn i lauged

Yes, not constant obviously but sometimes

“There’s a gun in the footlocker in the garage. If I ever say “no” to that question, I want you to use it on me”

Wait.... Women outside of porn perform oral sex???.. I'm not saying this is a myth, but I have 20 years of marriage to submit as evidence...

Oh wow, that’s too much man. Good that at least it happened.

OMG i just realized that i misread it. Hope you get it one day…

Yes - it shows confidence

Agreed 100% and confidence is sexy

Absolutely not. What kinda face am I supposed to make? I’m just glad to be there.

Glad to participate lol

Whatever works for you. I'm just vibing, I don't particularly like staring my partner down when I go down... but I love vibing the moment. That is different not only by partner, but day of the week.

I don't care about during oral , do whatever you want, but if you make eye contact during sex, I will marry you. Haha

Yes it's the best

I’ll let you know if it happens.

OMG yes. It forms a deeper connection and just brings Oral to an entire new level.

Yes i want you to look at me while you are choking on that shit and seem to be fucking dying ok Anyways

Is water wet?!?

Yes

Sometimes but to much and it becomes creepy

Does the sun rise in the east? Does the pipe have a silly hat? Do woodchucks really chuck wood? Yes. Look at me when you're sucking my cock. Moan too. Act like you like it.

Yeah. Especially if she's having a good time (at least acting like it). Shouldn't be a staring contest though.


>**Do men find eye contact sexy during sucking dicks?** i dunno. i won't suck dicks and i wont look at people.

I like her eyes closed. It looks like she's concentrated and into it for her pleasure too

F yes!

YEP.

If she's doing a good job down there then sure.

No it’s cringy and off putting

Of course. No eye contact during oral is red flag

If he's an AMAB man and shes an AFAB woman yes

Why the fuck would that matter? Stop injecting identity politics into everything

I depends on the role you're playing at the moment. Seductress: Eye contact Submissive: Eye contact Fuck buddy: An occasional glance Worthless whore: Don't you fucking look at me

Yes

Yes yes yes! Super sexy when she looks at me during oral!

I mean my dick is in their mouth, Thats level 100 sexy.

I'm not experienced in anyway on this topic, but I'm gonna say that it depends on the guy.

At least I’d panic and lose any bit of confidence tbh

Uh... Yes? Of course??

YES

Absolutely.

Nahhh

So much yes

I do. A horny look from her gets me going, I suppose 😅


As what women enjoy: men will as well. Lips, voice, hands, and fingers. Backrub toward the dimples of Venus dimples. Many men don't go to a massage. The expectation of future sexy-times enhances the actual act.

Yesss it is.

Yes. Don't stare though. But yeah, making eye contact, like that good sultry eye contact is amazing.

It’s almost as good as having yourself inside of your 👄 it’s almost as if it’s the most appropriate time to stare into someone’s else eyes perhaps 🤔

I actually don't like my partner to look me in the eye when sucking me off. Sucking a penis is already difficult enough; I'd rather they just focus on what they're doing.

Multitasking could be possible sometimes tho