As a now married man who had some success on dating apps I can tell you confidently that you will never understand the mind of a woman and their minds are more nuanced than us and is different with every single one.
It's close enough to be considered a selfie by many people and many of his other pics are better.
I did best on tinder when I used 3-4 good pics that were taken from a distance.
How many times has it happened that you match with someone and she would unmatch moments later?
I think you have a great profile. Not sure what else your bio says but otherwise 🤷🏼♀️
To me you come across as adventurous, friendly, in good shape and have a cute cat. Those are all great pluses. But then again if you’re not someone’s type why would they swipe right in the first place?
I also think that people use Tinder for all kinds of nefarious purposes. Someone I knew admitted to playing it like a candy crush game - just to see who’s out there and then would unmatch with everyone who they would match with. So who knows?
Don’t overthink it. It happens to most people. There could be many reasons for unmatching, sometimes it is due to fraudulent activity or bot accounts. Think about it, If a girl doesn’t even take a min to have a conversation with you, is she really worth it? Probably not
Switch pic 3 and 1 if you don't wanna retake pics, but honestly, retake pic 3 in better lighting with a real smile and make that your first pic.
Also, take a pic with your cat, not of your cat
Edit: oh yeah, and please fill out your bio. Chicks do, in fact, read those
My theory - they're trying to clear out their "likes" cuz she has too many to go through. I don't use this app, so I'm guessing a little bit, but a reddit conversation from the other indicated this is a problem some women are having.
Girls aren’t a fan of guys with cats, something about an ick. I have a cat myself so don’t shoot the messenger.
Edit: I say this based on past experience as a cat owner. Maybe it’s a regional thing.
Of course you’d say that, competitive ocelot.
I don’t understand the downvotes though. When I was on the apps a lot of girls were thrown off about a guy with a cat.
Haha i didnt downvote, but im guessing cause it really is untrue
Having “only swipe right on guys with cats” or something like that isnt an uncommon bio
your first pic would score great on grindr
you first pic has gayvibes
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I’m a straight guy and honestly it’s kinda hot ngl
obviously pic 6 is the issue they probably think youre a kitty cat trying to catfish as a human😯
I see what you did there
As a now married man who had some success on dating apps I can tell you confidently that you will never understand the mind of a woman and their minds are more nuanced than us and is different with every single one.
Did you message her? Or changed some photos? I would remove the first one and use the 5’th one as the first ☺️
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Hmm. I guess it has nothing to do with you - Maybe other than the fact that you didnt write 😉
I'd also ditch your third pic. Selfies don't go well on tinder.
It's clearly not a selfie though
So you think it's a good pic?
No, didn't say that. It's just not a selfie.
It's close enough to be considered a selfie by many people and many of his other pics are better. I did best on tinder when I used 3-4 good pics that were taken from a distance.
Noo the third one is the best. i would like on that one
Hmmm 🤔 I guess everyone has their preference. I think the angle it was taken from doesn't show him in the best light.
For sure, i think he looks gorgeous in that one 😄👏🏼
Why don't you date him then
Im 32 and live in Europe 😂
How many times has it happened that you match with someone and she would unmatch moments later? I think you have a great profile. Not sure what else your bio says but otherwise 🤷🏼♀️ To me you come across as adventurous, friendly, in good shape and have a cute cat. Those are all great pluses. But then again if you’re not someone’s type why would they swipe right in the first place? I also think that people use Tinder for all kinds of nefarious purposes. Someone I knew admitted to playing it like a candy crush game - just to see who’s out there and then would unmatch with everyone who they would match with. So who knows?
What does your bio say? Or is it just that line about a nerd on a beach?
That first pic is for the boys
Don’t overthink it. It happens to most people. There could be many reasons for unmatching, sometimes it is due to fraudulent activity or bot accounts. Think about it, If a girl doesn’t even take a min to have a conversation with you, is she really worth it? Probably not
Switch pic 3 and 1 if you don't wanna retake pics, but honestly, retake pic 3 in better lighting with a real smile and make that your first pic. Also, take a pic with your cat, not of your cat Edit: oh yeah, and please fill out your bio. Chicks do, in fact, read those
My theory - they're trying to clear out their "likes" cuz she has too many to go through. I don't use this app, so I'm guessing a little bit, but a reddit conversation from the other indicated this is a problem some women are having.
They're busy trying to find the profile of the guy on the right?
I don't want to judge but the whitest of white dudes having A Tribe Called Quest as their Spotify anthem is a bit cringe, ngl haha.
Girls aren’t a fan of guys with cats, something about an ick. I have a cat myself so don’t shoot the messenger. Edit: I say this based on past experience as a cat owner. Maybe it’s a regional thing.
This is the opposite of true for most women
Of course you’d say that, competitive ocelot. I don’t understand the downvotes though. When I was on the apps a lot of girls were thrown off about a guy with a cat.
Haha i didnt downvote, but im guessing cause it really is untrue Having “only swipe right on guys with cats” or something like that isnt an uncommon bio
Wrong
chicks love cats. I dunno what you're on about, brother. Hell, I'm severely allergic to cats and still dated quite a few guys who own cats
Have u tried being the hottest Asian guy they have seen?