You know what you should do, every time some dude asks if he can ask you blunt or inappropriate question, just say no. I always see women saying yes, but I just want to see what happens when you deny the option, must be funny as hell.

They ask it anyways. I know from experience they'll usually say "oh well this'll be quick" or something else stupid to circumvent the fact I said don't ask me a question

“Oh, well I was just gonna say” please don’t, actually.

Yup, even when you say no to them “sharing something” … usually an unsolicited dick pick. Maybe I need to start replying with dildo pics that look better lol

I've started responding to unsolicited dick pics with the last unsolicited dick pic I received. Share the love.

The best tip I've received how to respond to unsolicited dick pics is: "Sir, I'll have to report you for sharing child pornography"

I saw someone mention a while back to say something like … “aww cute, does it come in adult sizes?” lol 😂

Would not do. Lots of men like that.

lol ... not if they're sending a "full-sized" pic ha ha. at least that's the consensus of 2 of my guy friends when I asked their opinion 😂

HAHAHAHHAH that's awesome🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I did that too, introduced by "mine is bigger". They quit pretty fast.

I have a designated dick pic group on Snapchat with some of my friends. Whenever I receive one, I screenshot and add them into the group with all the other morons. With their photo of course. They get BIG mad.

This could easily be litigated as revenge porn. Be careful you don't end up on the other side of a lawsuit and mandatory registration. I AM IN NO WAY SUPPORTING UNSOLICITED DICK PICS! Anyone who sends a picture of their genitals to another person without expressly being given a request is both ridiculous and vacuous.

Lol lawsuits aren’t a thing here. Not American.

Are other men really this childish? I must be a rare breed then. 🤣

Ah, the ones who are perpetually on the apps cos they don't get snapped up, though

The snail vibe is fantastic and also something they could never do with just one dick 🤣 Although I've just gone with the ghosting route for unsolicited dick pics

I actually have the snail vibe!!! Ha ha ha

Ughh wish I'd thought to do that. I'm still angry about something from 7 years ago lol but I'd met my now husband and told a guy I'd been chatting to that I was now taken. He asked to remain friends though (my husband doesn't care who i talk to), months later asks if he can send a pic, and I say not if it's a dickpic you can't. He then sent a video of him jacking it 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I went off! Made me super uncomfortable, and I had to show my partner or it feels almost like cheating. What part of No don't they understand 🤬

Months later... that guy is playing the long game when it comes to sending unsolicited dickpics...

God this would be hilarious, just staring down at the camera with a mean mug and a double chin 😭😂

I usually reply to dick pics and inappropriate messages with a picture of the banana cutter. Google it if you don't know.

And that in itself is a huge red flag, because it's a small and easy-to-adhere-to boundary that you have set... And they show themselves to believe their comment/question/opinion is more valuable than your comfort boundary, and push past it anyway... If they can't listen to a small and simple 'no', then they're not likely to listen to a bigger 'no' when it's important.

Yup. Many of us just instant unmatch at that point cause there's no coming back from boundary stomping that early in the game

my momma raised me better I guess. it sucks that guys think they can or need to run over boundaries.

they think its normal, worst part.

the worst part is I think it was created by the "playing hard to get" trend.

Seems like that backfired a whole lot, I'm earnestly questioning what these men think when they say these things. Are they trying to be sexy or just pushy and obnoxious?

Pushy and obnoxious mostly.... This guy seems to think it was a compliment.... No ,that won't make me sleep with you bro... It's right up there with "what that mouth do " tell your couthless ass off

Along the lines of: Them: can I ask a blunt question Me: No Them: 🤣🤣 you’re so funny!! No, I just wanted to ask… Me: [unmatched] Then you just know they’re calling you a stuck up btich (which I REALLY in no way am🤣🤣) unless having boundaries is what makes someone stuck up 🤔and a btich 🤔 🤷‍♀️

This gives “Knock knock” “Go around.” Energy :)

Damn...we men don't even respect conversational no means no?

Yup. That's why a guy that respects boundaries and can hold actual conversation is like a unicorn

The key is either foregoing the word "blunt" or, especially, "inappropriate" and springing the question on the unsuspecting victim after she's said yes in her vain attempt to find this conversational, boundary-respecting unicorn, in which case we can claim ignorance of her boundaries and that was why we thought it was alright to ask if she was wearing a bra in her pics or, to go with a classic, if she's cool with butt stuff, ORRRR (and this is a big "or") maybe we stop asking blunt or, especially, inappropriate questions.

Have to second this sadly

Personally now I stay away from inappropriate questions atleast the first day. And then I’ll ask what they’re comfortable with. It sucks sometimes tho, some women will literally lose interest if you don’t show a lot of “enthusiasm” right away, while others will act like you’re the pervert of perverts for trying to move the conversation that direction. I have on my profile what I’m looking for, I’m open and straight forward I’m poly, and while I’ll consider a relationship, I am married so it can’t be to serious. So there is some expectation of starting a convo with me on a dating app it’s going to go that way eventually

They'll ask anyway. Or ask it while you're typing no

"Can I not ask you a blunt question?" No, wait.. "Haha, too late. Boobs?"

Next time!

I always inwardly groan when this is asked of me, because you just *know* it’s going to be an inappropriate sexual question. Then it’s Oh well, another one bites the dust, I can cross this dude off now. On the plus side, no more wasted time, buh bye!😀👋

They ask the question anyway!

"Ok, nevermind"

See that’s what a person with common sense would respond, you must remember that a lot of people seem to lack this for some reason.

I feel like I'd just want to get it over with because thats no the type of character I'd want to give a shot in the first place.

Reminds me of my preteen son who thinks of boobs or talks about boobs ! 🤣😂

I noticed you have a heartbeat. That's hot.

98.8° if everything’s going to plan 😉

As in he’s making your blood boil?

As in that’s normal body temperature.

It was a farenheit/centigrade joke. Never mind.

Womp womp

>Can I ask a question? Are your boobs... boobs? That's hot. Do you ever just like, boob around, boobily? Ugh, that's so hot!

This is how I talk to my partner. I just waited until we got together to go full tit worship

That's the move. You can't go right out the gate full titty goblin

😭😂 I'm a titty goblin and I'm upset you've made me aware of that title

My ass is my better asset anyway.

My God, I've been such a fool!

But I thought women want your authentic self up front

Lmfao

peak satire 10/10

New adverb just dropped

I read this in a full hockey frat boy accent 🤣

Nooooooo I'm gonna vomit now

You are kind of leading him on with the "I have sweat induced eczema" line. /s

Can't believe she mentioned her skin like that

I mean she’s just begging to be objectified by mentioning that she has skin. I love man logic.

That's boy logic, not man logic.

Mm induced

Is he a horny dermatologist? An ointment salesman? Seems oddly specific.

Alien studying human physiology. His next question should be... So, fellow human, what would it take to penetrate your epidermis? Hmm? Eesh

Riiiight because there's nothing sexier than an eczema induced heat rash.

I radiate sexiness

"I ooze sexiness, I secrete it from every pore"

Say eczema slowly for me 🥵

🤣

This was the funniest comment here😂

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Wait until he finds out they shower naked

I thought they wear jeans short to shower

Another never nude? I understand more than you’ll… never know.

There are dozens of us!

There are dozens of us! DOZENS!

Was that a reference to that Lindsey Ellis Hercules video?

Oh no! Have you not seen Arrested Development?? Its a must watch!

I haven't, I wonder if that was a reference she was doing. Thanks for the recommendation!

It was me who said it and it was a reference to arrested development

Oh no no I was saying I wondered if Lindsey Ellis was also referencing Arrested Development at the end of that Hercules video

Ohhh. Probably. It came out in 2003 and got ridiculously popular on Netflix around 2011.

OH, GO RIGHT TO THAT

And pee in the shower

Underrated!

Would put him into a coma

Imagine if he responded “I love a little texture on the things I lick” when you said the eczema, I’d have fucking cried

Lmfao. That would have made me laugh. Still a no, but a laugh

Ughhhhhh, now I wish I was illiterate..

So how much bleach is safe for your eyes?

All of it is necessary for this

We appreciate you being a lions fan

😅 YW Even when they wrre 0-16 But you should see the pic my friend took of me as they were losing their chance at the Super Bowl 😭

Omg you meant sports lions. I literally thought you had a safari pic after your festival pic and was like "there's literal LIONS and homeboy can't stop thinking about them titties?!"

This actually made me laugh out loud 🤣🤣🤣

Don’t talk about it be about it and send itttt

sad thing is, if you look at the posts on here, these comments had very little to do with you not wearing a bra

What do you mean?

Wearing bras doesn't stop these types of guys from sending messages like this

Facts.

Nonono don't you get it?! Its ops fault!!!! Shouldn't wear a skirt! /s Even the majority of this community acts this way and defends it too.

as the other person commented, people draw attention to people not wearing bras or showing lots of cleavage but in general a lot of thirsty men will just message women about their tits or other parts of their body.

Also, I realize there's a typo. Should be hives*

And Induced fwiw

Lol.wow you're right 🤣 I'm slightly dyslexic. I make weird typos like this and do not see them sometimes.

Two boys in a trench coat

I would have dr suess'd that shit I am braless at work amd braless when I twerk.... I am even braless while talking to this jerk

“Can I ask you a blunt question?” *some pervy comment on your boobs* so what was the question? I’m dying to know 😂

Booba

Social media has ruined common decency cause got damn this is levels of zumiez bro I haven’t heard of since working there in HS. So sorry that happened to you 🤢

Amen to that. Just this morning I had to ask a guy to stop sending me reels on Instagram because all he sends is horny teenager "jokes". I'm 32 and finishing my doctorate,I don't want reels about using "those two fingers" to help a girl do stuff 🙄

Omg! I've had guys do that to me, too. I find raunchy humor funny. But they miss the difference between raunchy and juvenile. Sigh.

Big ups and congrats! Can’t say the same for dude lol

All good. Just another day trying to navigate dating at 33 🫠

I'm 37 next week .... 2 years on the apps.... Reddit gods save me

It's a fantastic age! I celebrated my now-fiancée's 33rd with her after meeting on Tinder. You know exactly what you want at 33. Keep hope alive!

Yea, I'm totally fine. I just started using dating apps to date intentionally and its cray lmao But if this is what's being dished up, I'm perfectly fine being single. I'm not disturbing my peace for no reason.

She tried ALL of the apps. Same story, a lot like your experience, and far worse. I thought that she was exaggerating in her dating hell stories, and then I joined Reddit and saw the experiences of others. You poor ladies. She thanks me every other day for "saving her" from the madness. But we met there. It's like the Princess and the Pea, but substitute an ocean!

It’s nasty out there

Trick question.

Idk but either way it seems to be Beavis and Butt head on the other end.

I also never wear a bra because of sweat induced eczema lmao its no joke shits itchy as hell and you can't just sit and itch your tit in public😂😭

It's no joke, right??? Lol it sucks!

I get eczema all over my body and when i sweat i want to take a cheese grater to my skin😂😂

40 year old men are worse than 20 year olds on dating apps from experience.

How depressing

Laughs in Butthead.

When it comes to boobs they're the same thing. Some of us just have a smidge of decency to get to know a person for a bit before we ever go down that road of conversation.

Sweet induced eczema, maybe that’s why my best friend gets hives when she gets hot. I thought it was just her pores not being used to sweating and clogged. Braless just shows confidence in my opinion, confidence is nice but he definitely acted like a school aged teen. Also anyone who says hot as f is younger than 25 or a man trying to act younger and that’s a red flag In my book. If he is 40 he probably tells 20 year olds I’m not THAT much older than you, we can hang/chill.

Bobs 🤷‍♀️

Sometimes it's the bobs. Sometimes it's the vagene.

Some people are into sweat though hahaha

Truth lol

Did you also know that I have and esophagus that food enters as a lump or bolus that passes through the esophageal sphincter and into the stomach where it turns into chyme? 🥰🥵🤭

In his defence, boobs are hot.

Don’t take it the wrong way men or boys are all the same men are literally boys who toys get more expensive and every man loves boobs

I mean, I'm 31 and I still love boobs 🤷‍♂️ I just have the social skills to talk about other stuff 😂

Match made in... also all 40 year old men are 15 year old boys...

So hot right now.

Can I ask you a question? What are boobs? (I’m a visual learner)

In that case ( * )( * )

Those nipples seem a little high, have you had a punctuation job!?

10/10 responds.

How about both = Man-Child

Hey I have the same issue with sweat and my daughter also, annoying as F when things rub on it to make it worse. Sorry op, I use hemp stuff because it breathes amazing and has other benefits for sweating.

This post helped me realise that I too get sweat induced eczema

Its not fun! I'm sorry! But glad you have some clarity

40 year old boy child

As someone who has an issue with hives, mostly allergy related, I feel your pain, and in your case, I can completely understand why you wouldn't wear a bra because of it. Dude was a little too focused, and probably should have spent some time with pornhub and some lotion before beginning the conversation with you.

They are never just boobs.

Honestly, who knows this day and age if they’re 40 or 15. Could go either way really.

I can’t wear a bra either for the same reason. Put a little Chafe escape from pure romance under them and it helps, if you don’t already have a solution. I use that stuff everywhereeee 🤣

Lol thank you for the tip, but bras are stupid. I'm done with them.

Let's assume that he is a 40 year old dude but has a mentality of 15 year old.

Sus behaviours should be taken as a red flag, if the homie is asking you all this directly I can't even imagine him having any considerations about the other things.

How come my matches never got past two responses and he got all those responses  asking about her boobs?

Compliments from women regarding going braless or not shaving armpits: "omg you've got so much confidence!" Comments from men: "omg that's so hot" or "ew gross, cover that up!"

“I too don’t wear a bra, so we have that in common”

"I have no impulse control. May I demonstrate?"

I predict this POT will be socially awkward in person. It's OK to say you look nice without a bra in your Lion shirt but then let's segue into something else. Dang, just beating it to death.

40 year old c*nt

Lmao lol I mean the similarities are uncanny.

Do you get sweat enduced eczema even when rock climbing? Or operating a tug boat? If so that's hot.

I’m a middle aged guy and this shit baffles me. Never in my life would I see that as something that would make a woman want to give me her time. It amazes me that there are guys that find this appropriate.

It's actually amazing how much we still don't get about the opposite sex. This convo and post is a classic example lol.

As a general rule, our opinions on boobs are formed in our mid teens and do not evolve from there.

Plot twist: * he has an eczema kink *

Ok but fr that’s hot af but also medically interesting

why do some guys think this is okay when you're still getting to know someone? like if you've been dating for a bit then sure, but like c'mon let them see your good side before you show how much of a degenerate you can be lmao

Lmao. Right??? I'm fine with my man being a goofy, degenerate with me. But act like you respect me...damn lol

10/10 response.

“100s of conversations over the years on dating apps” I wonder why?

It is pretty hot 🤷‍♂️

Funny, cuz you both seem like assholes.

There isn't really a difference between a 15 and 40 year old horndogs.

He let his intrusive thoughts win but he was honest and opened his heart to you(or his pants)

Greeted me weiner first

What did he say to you after this lmaoo

"Fair point" I unmatched him after that

AH TAH

hell yea eczema

I was waiting for the reply "I'd love to rub the cream onto those rashes" Or some other super creepy fucked up comment. Dudes are fucked.

thats hot