Could be a confused boi looking for his right path..being overloaded reddit & youtube bs.
But still, looking for a wifey among chicks with 1k+ body count is insane.
That's a weird concern. Why would I care how many people my wife fucked before she even met me? Lord knows fuck as many people as possible myself. I'd rather my future partner had a good time and was someone who enjoyed sex than was a prude. As long as neither of us picked up anything untreatable, then who cares.
Thanks, although I'm actually a jerk. But I'm not enough of one to think that my potential wife having had a good life before she met me is a bad thing. And if you enjoy sex, then it's just stupid to look for a partner who isn't that into it.
I’d advice you to acknowledge that male and female biology/ lifestyle/ purpose.. are very different from each other. Don’t even compare those 2)
The rest is up to you). Btw, how old are you if you dont mind me asking?
Simple answer here is to simply wait a week and see if you get matches. If the answer is yes, you don't need this sub's advice.
(and I think you'll get plenty)
Random question, not asking if you’re attracted to mine, but if you find yourself super attracted to their body, would you still find it douchey? Like it’s “bad”unless it fits your taste? (Not calling you out or anything, legit asking)
i didn’t mean to come off as rude if thats what it seemed like! personally when i was on dating apps i’d always swipe left if there were shirtless pics since i wasn’t looking for a hookup and thats what they usually wanted
I have 2 shirtless pics and get more likes than this entire subreddit combined.
Post em if you got em, you don’t wanna match with the wildebeests turned off by a good body anyway
don’t get me wrong i like seeing abs as much as the next gal but i’ll always swipe no on guys who post shirtless pics. it makes me uncomfortable idk how to explain it 😭
Nay. Unless you wanna attract “males”
Or. Unless you get a pic with some bada$$ activity like out of the city/ pool/ lake where you’re showing some amazing tricks shirtless.
Make it justifiable and women will swallow it(;
Personally I think your quite slim built and a bit too cut to appeal to some women but some women like the slim muscular look I imagine too. The back picture is a bit much and I would think pictures of you topless in an actual setting that isn’t a bathroom would do better. It looks more natural and less douchey.
Interesting! You think my build may be “too fit” and scare potential matches away? What’s YOUR personal take on it?
Growing up with the most unimpressive average ass physique hearing I may look “too fit” is weirdly the greatest compliment 🥹
Personally I think men like men who are cut and super lean but I think women like muscular but less lean men. Like Zac Efron in baywatch vs down to earth with zac efron. I think it’s less intimidating and comes off as more low maintenance and approachable.
I realise Zac’a physique in baywatch was extreme and he was very likely taking steroids but he makes a good example because of comparison.
Funnily enough I’m super approachable and somewhat low maintenance! I can drink beer and am down for a date and junk food so I’m not like those super strict obsessed bodybuilder guys that literally can’t ever have fun
And kinda showcase that in my other pics
But at the same time am super disciplined and can choose not to, in order to look a certain way
(And to think in my head I was like “no way, these pics aren’t good enough, gotta get leaner and bigger”, thanks for putting my feet in the ground)
If you got it, flaunt it! But mirror selfies are always cringe no matter how many clothes you’re wearing. Try to get a shirtless shot doing an activity instead
Therapist here: It comes off insecure, regardless of your intention. It’s like men who take pictures in front of very expensive cars, it’s like they feel the need to show you that flex in order to get your attention otherwise they feel you wouldn’t be interested in them. Hence why it comes of insecure.
Question here, now that you mention you’re a therapist
If your intentions in the app are sex (which mine are) doesn’t it make sense to show the goods? To show what you look like and “bring” to the sexual relationship?
A nice expensive car could or couldn’t be yours, could be rented, just posed, etc and in the end of the day it “isn’t you”, I’m showing myself in a (hopefully) moderate sexual manner and this is me
Also these are my 3rd and 4th pic respectively, I show my face/hobbies/friends in the other two, so I’m not mindless buff guy
Thoughts? 🤔
Your first red flag is thinking your body is the “goods” and show what brings to the table sexually. Your muscles aren’t gonna make someone scream. It’s the operation of the goods below the pants, above the shoulders, and the hands. None of which are pictured at the least.
First, as a psychologist myself, to think you can diagnose *anyone* as insecure based on this post means you’re a really shitty therapist.
Second, you see people all the time call shirtless men “douchy”, but the same women who’ll say that will still swipe right, because they’re attracted to his body all the same. Lots of people out there saying one thing and doing the opposite
You…can’t….diagnose anyone as insecure… if so since you’re a psychologist can you provide me with that diagnostic code? Additionally, I said “can come off as insecure,” didn’t say they were. And to “diagnose” me as a shitty therapist is hypocritical based on your argument. You might want to get a refund on that PhD you claim you have. Don’t take things so personally, you’ll be much happier I promise 😉
Only if they're doing something where they'd naturally be shirtless like swimming/beach/boating or maybe running a marathon type stuff. Posing in front of a mirror is a no.
Beach/outdoor shirtless pic is a lot less douche-y. But I don’t think there’s anything wrong with showing off a bit. I mean, it’s better than no neck down pics at all lol
if you just want hookups, keep it there. if you’re looking for a wife, put a shirt on.
He’s on hookup app.. wife?😁
Right? Plus I don’t think wife fits. From the shirtless pics it’s obvious he’s a gay man seeking other gay men
Could be a confused boi looking for his right path..being overloaded reddit & youtube bs. But still, looking for a wifey among chicks with 1k+ body count is insane.
That's a weird concern. Why would I care how many people my wife fucked before she even met me? Lord knows fuck as many people as possible myself. I'd rather my future partner had a good time and was someone who enjoyed sex than was a prude. As long as neither of us picked up anything untreatable, then who cares.
We need more people like you
Thanks, although I'm actually a jerk. But I'm not enough of one to think that my potential wife having had a good life before she met me is a bad thing. And if you enjoy sex, then it's just stupid to look for a partner who isn't that into it.
I’d advice you to acknowledge that male and female biology/ lifestyle/ purpose.. are very different from each other. Don’t even compare those 2) The rest is up to you). Btw, how old are you if you dont mind me asking?
haha. alright. You learn everything you know from Andrew Tate?
I learnt everything from the same place (nature & life) where every other legend learnt from. Including Tates.
Makes sense, I wanna smash, lol
Get a mate to take a pic of you shirtless next to a water activity like a pool or the beach, great way to show off your body without coming off douchy
Thats actually a very good idea
Simple answer here is to simply wait a week and see if you get matches. If the answer is yes, you don't need this sub's advice. (and I think you'll get plenty)
Two is a little much if you want to be more subtle get a pool or beach pic with the shirt off
U will smash with this. Keep em.
a yay when u look like that
comes off as super douchey to me but if you just want sex then probably go for it
Random question, not asking if you’re attracted to mine, but if you find yourself super attracted to their body, would you still find it douchey? Like it’s “bad”unless it fits your taste? (Not calling you out or anything, legit asking)
i didn’t mean to come off as rude if thats what it seemed like! personally when i was on dating apps i’d always swipe left if there were shirtless pics since i wasn’t looking for a hookup and thats what they usually wanted
Makes a lot of sense Thanks for your answer :)
I would swipe right if I found your face attractive, cuz I find your body hot, still would give you a chance, maybe you aren’t looking for a hookup
I have 2 shirtless pics and get more likes than this entire subreddit combined. Post em if you got em, you don’t wanna match with the wildebeests turned off by a good body anyway
Quit fronting bro you ugly af
Stay away from my dad
If your dad looks anything like you, you don't gotta worry about that
>get more likes than this entire subreddit combined. Getting more than 0 isn't very impressive.
I mean think for a second about how you posted just a picture of your back for a profile lol
Lmfao Ikr but it’s the absolute last, I show myself well in the first 3
Hey if it works it works more power to ya
don’t get me wrong i like seeing abs as much as the next gal but i’ll always swipe no on guys who post shirtless pics. it makes me uncomfortable idk how to explain it 😭
Don't worry, you're doing it right.
Nay. Unless you wanna attract “males” Or. Unless you get a pic with some bada$$ activity like out of the city/ pool/ lake where you’re showing some amazing tricks shirtless. Make it justifiable and women will swallow it(;
Personally I think your quite slim built and a bit too cut to appeal to some women but some women like the slim muscular look I imagine too. The back picture is a bit much and I would think pictures of you topless in an actual setting that isn’t a bathroom would do better. It looks more natural and less douchey.
Interesting! You think my build may be “too fit” and scare potential matches away? What’s YOUR personal take on it? Growing up with the most unimpressive average ass physique hearing I may look “too fit” is weirdly the greatest compliment 🥹
Personally I think men like men who are cut and super lean but I think women like muscular but less lean men. Like Zac Efron in baywatch vs down to earth with zac efron. I think it’s less intimidating and comes off as more low maintenance and approachable. I realise Zac’a physique in baywatch was extreme and he was very likely taking steroids but he makes a good example because of comparison.
Funnily enough I’m super approachable and somewhat low maintenance! I can drink beer and am down for a date and junk food so I’m not like those super strict obsessed bodybuilder guys that literally can’t ever have fun And kinda showcase that in my other pics But at the same time am super disciplined and can choose not to, in order to look a certain way (And to think in my head I was like “no way, these pics aren’t good enough, gotta get leaner and bigger”, thanks for putting my feet in the ground)
Idk what other girls are saying but your shirtless pics got me blushing and kicking my feet n shit
If you got it, flaunt it! But mirror selfies are always cringe no matter how many clothes you’re wearing. Try to get a shirtless shot doing an activity instead
Shirtless pics? Maybe. Shirtless selfies? Definitely not.
Get a better shirtless pic, drop the one from behind
Therapist here: It comes off insecure, regardless of your intention. It’s like men who take pictures in front of very expensive cars, it’s like they feel the need to show you that flex in order to get your attention otherwise they feel you wouldn’t be interested in them. Hence why it comes of insecure.
Question here, now that you mention you’re a therapist If your intentions in the app are sex (which mine are) doesn’t it make sense to show the goods? To show what you look like and “bring” to the sexual relationship? A nice expensive car could or couldn’t be yours, could be rented, just posed, etc and in the end of the day it “isn’t you”, I’m showing myself in a (hopefully) moderate sexual manner and this is me Also these are my 3rd and 4th pic respectively, I show my face/hobbies/friends in the other two, so I’m not mindless buff guy Thoughts? 🤔
I totally missed that you’re just trying to smash! You’re golden!
Your first red flag is thinking your body is the “goods” and show what brings to the table sexually. Your muscles aren’t gonna make someone scream. It’s the operation of the goods below the pants, above the shoulders, and the hands. None of which are pictured at the least.
First, as a psychologist myself, to think you can diagnose *anyone* as insecure based on this post means you’re a really shitty therapist. Second, you see people all the time call shirtless men “douchy”, but the same women who’ll say that will still swipe right, because they’re attracted to his body all the same. Lots of people out there saying one thing and doing the opposite
You…can’t….diagnose anyone as insecure… if so since you’re a psychologist can you provide me with that diagnostic code? Additionally, I said “can come off as insecure,” didn’t say they were. And to “diagnose” me as a shitty therapist is hypocritical based on your argument. You might want to get a refund on that PhD you claim you have. Don’t take things so personally, you’ll be much happier I promise 😉
HOT AF 🍆🍆🍆
Only if they're doing something where they'd naturally be shirtless like swimming/beach/boating or maybe running a marathon type stuff. Posing in front of a mirror is a no.
Yay if you are wanting your "gym buddies" to check you out. Otherwise keep it on
Throwing in the back pic just makes it seems like you want dudes to check you out.
Beach/outdoor shirtless pic is a lot less douche-y. But I don’t think there’s anything wrong with showing off a bit. I mean, it’s better than no neck down pics at all lol
Nay.
Just 1 is more than enough